ok my mom died last year and now my dad has become overly close with me and hes always sitting too close to me and im an only child and i dont want to break his heart by telling him he scares me but every now and then i see him watching me sleep and its really starting to freak me out plez help me
scared 13yr old male
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? kevin1986 answered Wednesday December 7 2005, 2:22 pm: Ok I just answered a question in similiar fashion to yours. However, your situation, I think is different. You're an only child and your father really has nobody else. He feels even more emotionally attached to you than ever. You're his son, so the bond is already strong. He feels like b/c your mom isn't there, he's got to give you even more emotional support(sitting close, hugging you, shit like that). I don't think your dad has any sexual lust for his own son. Tell your dad that it makes you a little uncomfortable when he does that, but don't call him names or accuse him of anything. If your dad hasn't dated since your mom died, maybe he's still getting over it. Talk to him. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
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