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"We make war so that we may live in peace." -aristotle"If you judge someone right away, you will not be able to learn to love them."
I'm Hayley, I'll try to help you as best I can. I'm 18, and a senior in high school. I like art, music, and clothing. I'm a vegetarian abd have been consistent with it for four years. I have two dogs a westie named misty and a Maltese/poodle mix named mally. I know a lot about dogs because any time
my dogs get a scratch, I research and call the vet haha.
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Hey guys, Do any of you own thrillville?!?! I need help NOW! Can u build a rollercoaster and make it crash so u go flying with your parachute?
HOW HOW HOW?!?!?!?!
oh my god. my brother got that game for christmas, and i'm like addicted.
..
anyways, yes. you can, all you do, is when you dont want to build your roller coaster anymore, you hit b, & it will say stop building, hit stop building, and thats where it will end. and they'll crash and go flying down in a parachute. :]
if you have anymore questions, just ask me, me & my brother keep finding out new things everyday!!
okay, i'm not sure what's wrong with my skin.. because it's itchy, and it starts out as looking like goose bumps. and starts itching.. then gets worse.. now i have something that looks like a scab that itches.. but it's not really a scab.. i showed it to my mom, and she was basically scrapping it with her finger, and says that it has water in it.. and that it had "bubbles" and water was coming out.. and she told me not to use soap because it'll make it itch more. it's starting to spread.. and i don't know what is it. my family has a dry skin problem.. and i just don't know.. help? what is it? what's wrong? and how can i cure it?
no, it's not scabbies, posion ivy or psirosis.. because if i did, i would've gave it to one of my family members, my boyfriend, and my friends.. but i'm with them all the time, and they don't have it. so it's not contagious..
Go to the doctor. No one else will most likely know what it is on here.
why the HELL did the condom come off when my boyfriend and i were last having sex?! this has never happened to either of us before...has this happened to anybody else before? and why?
thanks?
He didn't put it on right.
i know my boyfriend masturbates to beautiful girls on the internet, hes even told me. im just crying right now because i looked at the insanely pretty girls he has as his favorites and who he probably masurbates to. im not pretty like them and i never will be, and it just really hurts because i feel like he isnt happy with me and would go with a beautiful girl if he could. we have been together for almost two years, and we have had our issues, but i just feel really low right now. is this normal? do i have anything to worry about? any input or experience like mine is appreciated, especially from a guys point of view!
I don't know. Put yourself in his shoes, if you saw a really hot guy, and they asked you out, would you ditch your boyfriend? Honestly. I mean, I think I would. But, the chances of that happening to him, are pretty slim. And if he does ever leave you for some girl, who you think is prettier, then it just wasn't meant to be. Try talking to him. Just ask him like, what he likes about you, and that sorta thing.
hey well i think that would help soooo much thank you so much i hope this works!!!!!! OYU ROCK!!!!!!! i wrote all the stuuf u said donw but my mom dont fix breakfast so instead of eggs and stuff would a toster tootle work?? if it dont work it is eaither between cerial,nothing,or like juice or something 2 drink, would that be okay!!!!!!!
itd probably be best if you just eat grapefruit, but you really really need the bacon. maybe just when you eat your salad, make some bacon in the microwave, and crumble it up?
u told me i can send u stuff well so how can i loose 10 punds in 12 days that would work so good but i dont want to be a vergintarian and i dont want my parnets to know that much
Oh, no, i was saying if your a vegetarian, then you won't be able to do this diet. because you have to eat meat. (: your paretns probably won't know, because your just eating healthy stuff. they may wanna know what you want grapefruit juice, but just say you like the taste or something, when you had it at school or someones house.
This is what you do..
Breakfast: 1/2 grapefruit or juice (unsweetened)
2 eggs any style
2 slices of bacon
Lunch: 1/2 grapefruit or juice
salad, any dressing
meat- any style or amount
Dinner: 1/2 grapefruit or juice
meat, any style or amount
(fish may be substututed)
vegetable, any green or red (cooked in butter or seasoning is fine)
or salad as above
coffee or tea 1 cup. (optional)
snack: glass of tomato juice or skim milk
Instructions:
1. At any meal you may eat until you are full and cannot eat anymore (tip from me, dont do that, you wont lose any weight. eat a normal amount)
2. don't eliminate anything from the diet, espically don't skip the bacon at breakfast or omit salads. This combination of food burns fat. (another tip from me* seriously, don't skip meals, even if you dont feel hungry, ive done that, and i dont lose anything.)
3.the grapefruit is important because it acts as a catalyst that starts the burning process.
4. if you drink coffee,cut down. it affect the insulin balance that hinders the burning process. try to limit 1 cup at mealtime
5. don't eat between meals. it you eat the combination of suggested foods, you will not be hungry.
6. the diet completely elimintates sugars and starches which add lips and forms fat. fat does not form fat. it helps burn it so you can fry foods in butter and use butter generously on vegetables.
7. don't eat desserts, breats, white potatos, or sweet potatoes. you may double or triple helpings of meat, salad or vegetable ( i personally don't suggest doing that.)
8. you can losee 10 pounds in 10 days. there will be no lost the first four days, but you will lose 5 pounds on the 5th day. therefore you will lose 1 1/2 pounds every two days until you are where you want to be.
All soft drinks need to be diet and caffeine free.
you may not have celery, potatoes, or white onions.
you may have: bell peppers, radishes, cucumbers, red onions, green onions, spinach, broccoli, carrots, tomatoes, cabbage and lettuce.
****IMPORTANT******
stay on the diet for *12* days stop for *2* days. start again for 12 days - if you wnat, you dont have to start again.
it works really well, its healthy, and it actually doesn't make me eat between meals, and makes me less hungry.
i read one of your answers to someone and you said you could lose 10 pounds in 12 days, would you mind telling me about it?
Yup.
This is what you do..
Breakfast: 1/2 grapefruit or juice (unsweetened)
2 eggs any style
2 slices of bacon
Lunch: 1/2 grapefruit or juice
salad, any dressing
meat- any style or amount
Dinner: 1/2 grapefruit or juice
meat, any style or amount
(fish may be substututed)
vegetable, any green or red (cooked in butter or seasoning is fine)
or salad as above
coffee or tea 1 cup. (optional)
snack: glass of tomato juice or skim milk
Instructions:
1. At any meal you may eat until you are full and cannot eat anymore (tip from me, dont do that, you wont lose any weight. eat a normal amount)
2. don't eliminate anything from the diet, espically don't skip the bacon at breakfast or omit salads. This combination of food burns fat. (another tip from me* seriously, don't skip meals, even if you dont feel hungry, ive done that, and i dont lose anything.)
3.the grapefruit is important because it acts as a catalyst that starts the burning process.
4. if you drink coffee,cut down. it affect the insulin balance that hinders the burning process. try to limit 1 cup at mealtime
5. don't eat between meals. it you eat the combination of suggested foods, you will not be hungry.
6. the diet completely elimintates sugars and starches which add lips and forms fat. fat does not form fat. it helps burn it so you can fry foods in butter and use butter generously on vegetables.
7. don't eat desserts, breats, white potatos, or sweet potatoes. you may double or triple helpings of meat, salad or vegetable ( i personally don't suggest doing that.)
8. you can losee 10 pounds in 10 days. there will be no lost the first four days, but you will lose 5 pounds on the 5th day. therefore you will lose 1 1/2 pounds every two days until you are where you want to be.
All soft drinks need to be diet and caffeine free.
you may not have celery, potatoes, or white onions.
you may have: bell peppers, radishes, cucumbers, red onions, green onions, spinach, broccoli, carrots, tomatoes, cabbage and lettuce.
****IMPORTANT******
stay on the diet for *12* days stop for *2* days. start again for 12 days - if you wnat, you dont have to start again.
it works really well, its healthy, and it actually doesn't make me eat between meals, and makes me less hungry.
hey well i am not that fat but i waigh 135 lbs but i look like i way 90 or something around there and well i need help i am trying ot drink lots of water to loose weight but yeah and i dont want my parents to know yet and when i got to school all my friends and everything r skinny and i feel bad cuz soemthime they talk abotu weight and stuff so i just act like i dont hear them and they ask me how much i weigh and i say i dont know so plzzzzzzzzz help me!!!!!!
i know a diet that you can lose like 10 pounds in 12 days. its really healthy, and actually works. if you want it, write me back to my inbox. [its alot of stuff i have to tell you, & i dont wanna write it all down, if you dont want to do it] you cant be a vegetarian though.
Okay, so I've been single for well, a long time and the only two boyfriends I had, well, it wasn't much different from just being friends with them. Which means:
1. I haven't had my first kiss.
2. I get nervous and shy when it comes to that kind of stuff.
About a week ago I started going out with my current boyfriend. And he actually wants to do stuff with me, like, he invites me to his house and puts his arm around me and stuff.
He had another girlfriend that he went out with for a long time, so I'm sure he knows how to be a good boyfriend.
The thing is, I'm not really sure about how to react to that stuff. Like, I want to be a good girlfriend, but I don't know how. Like, I think he wants to kiss me, but when I think about it, I don't know how to go about doing it.
I never really was nervous about kissing anyone. It just never striked me as a big deal. I basically just go with the flow with everything. If hes gonna kiss you, hes gonna kiss you, and it just kind happens, and you'll be like, oh that wasn't a big deal. Just put your arms around him, or your hand on his face or something. First kisses are always kinda weird. (:
my best friend say cara and i got ina fight with my other best friend say jos-mainly me and him tho-weve been off an on best friends only bc we loved eachother and it kept gettin screwed up for many different reasons-now we hate eachother-the thing is the fight was over aim-cara likes jos also and i finally got her to tell him ina chatroom with me her and him-he entered and never said a word and after about 10 we got fed up and she said how shes liked him since shes known him-he didnt say a word-the kind of moment you have to say atleast something-so after her meltdown in the chat i started cursing him out and all-then i called him because he wouldnt anwser-he was at his friends house on aim so i said once he gets home to call back-never did by the next day so i called again and he said he wasnt there..wow what a friend-the next day after ive called him 4 times-he walks by us in church smiling so big i almost flipped him off-he talked to her 3 days after and me about 16 days after only because i hang out with alot of guys and he was in the group with me-everytime i say something about it he leaves or has a excuse hes such a jerk to me and he knows ever since the last few times-then he acts like he loves me-we can never even go anywhere like we used to anymore for the past 3 years because were to close at times-ina way i still love him in the back of my heart-imtotally different without him my depression is gettin so much worse-this is drivin me insane does anyone know what i can do?! ill try and add more if ya need it. were all 13 never had bf or gf sad i no. pweese help
You're only 13, most kids don't. Some get boyfriends and stuff really early. Like my first 'boyfriend' was when I was 10. Anyways, you need to leave him alone and give him some space, you're bothering him. He probably just needs time to think. You're only 13, you've got plenty of time for boys. I've had like million boyfriends. And all they cause is trouble. I think you should just leave him alone, and let him come to you.
Attractive or not??????? answer?
http://img229.imageshack.us/my.php?image=170416hv0.jpg
shes my friend's friend do you think shes pretty?
No.
why is it important?
ok so im 13...im 115 lbs. and 5'1 .... is that a normal weight for someone like me???? and if not can you please tell me some exercises i can do???
thanx :)
your fine. your average for your age.
Okay i really like this guy, but i think hes emo. He talks to me and crap, but i cant imagine him dating ANYONE. I need help as to like get through that barrior. You know? Ive gotten to know him and hes really funny, people judge him, and hes misunderstood. But i cant help feel that he likes the attention of being "emo". Which he denies that he is, people just assume. So, i need help talking to him!
ha. don't accuse him of that stuff. guys like that, get all worked up about it. and personally, i think they do it on purpose to get attention too. but whatever. just talk to him about regular stuff. like whatever you have in common, like tv shows, music. yanoo?
mmk i don't care if people say it's out of style i like them.
anyway what kinds of shoes whould look good with them? would flats? and i have this jean skirt wit a little puffy ruffle at the bottom would that look ok with leg warmers?
and thanks!!
its acutally pretty in style right now. that jean skirt, won't work. just wear a more plain skirt. i wear my leg warmers with sandals..like i get them kinda big, [don't get them small, it looks weird] like, so they kinda go under my heel? if that makes sense.
I'm really troubled here. My best friend, (let say she is) Sara, is dating this guy (lets say he is Mike) that had just recently moved into my neighbor, like he lives two houses down so I usually see him in the morning, going to school. She told me that they were dating because they met through a friend or something but anyways, since we head for the bus in the same direction, we often see each other and usually we have conversations and we go to school together. But now, one of my other friends told me that Sara is mad at me because she saw me and Mike together laughing and walking home. I guess she thinks that I am trying to steal him away but I am not. He just happens to be a really funny person and he makes me laugh most of the time.
One time I was heading home and Mike and Sara came out of the building. Mike called out to me and I turned to look, and Sara kind of turned really angry and hostile. I knew it was awkward so I tried to end the conversation but it didn't really work. And then Sara was acting really possesive as if I was going to steal him away like that. And another time, when we were in this party with a whole big group, she kind of made out with him in front of me I guess to show that she was the actual girlfriend. I just find that really stupid because I am not even trying to steal him away in the first place, why does she have to act like that? I tried to talk to her but she act like she didn't care and she didn't believe me, I told her how ridiculous this was and she shouldn't be mad because nothing is going on between me and Mike.
But things got really bad recently, some stupid person made some rumors that Mike liked me, and it got Sara even more fired up, she came up to me and was calling me names and everything and was saying how I was flirting with Mike and how I was such a slu*, I got really mad and I slapped her, then we had this big fight where we got suspended.
So I'm stuck at home, grounded because of this but I really want to know a solution, I just don't want Sara to hate my anymore, I mean we've been friends for three years, I don't want to lose everything to a guy. But I know Sara, she can be a person who gets jealous really easy and she holds a long grudge. So I'm afraid that things will get even more messy and out of hand, like some big commotion might start at school, can anyone give me any suggestions? I tried to talk to her before, she just wouldn't listen. Can anyone help?
Why don't you IM her boyfriend or something. Maybe make him set the records straight. What I would do, if I was in this situation. I'd meet sara and mike somewhere. and i'd just be like, sara, i'm really sorry if you think i'm flirting with mike. i promise i'm not, or atleast i'm not trying to. i really value our friendship. and i don't want a guy to become between us. you need to trust me. and mike. Mike, can you please tell sara that you like her and not me, and that there is nothing between us, we just live near eachother, and walk to the bus. Sara, its not a big deal, but if you have a problem with us walking down there, then we won't, your my friend, and i really don't want to lose you as a friend. so can we please just move on from this?
thats what i would say.
hope it works out.
try to be really calm, and everything, when talking. don't get any fights. just be very nice about it.
My bff and i have always been close, and we still are, were freshmen in High school, and both go to two different skools. We call each other everyday, and c eachother whenever we can! But i can't help think that she likes her new friends better than me. I mean, i made new friends too, theyre real cool and all, but you need your bff, you kno? Someone that youve known forever, and well......she has friends that have more in common with her than with me and i guess im....jelous.
I really need some answers
Ha. I kinda feel the same way you do. I have no idea what to say to my best friend. Shes hanging out with other people, and not including me. which isn't cool. i think, what you should do, is try getting your friends, you, your best friend, and her friends all together. and all go to the mall or some place where you like to hang out. so then she can get to know your friends, and you get to know her friends.
i with someone and me him were messin around and im wondering if u can get pregnet if he masterbates and then if he shook it off his hands then fingers u im talking about his cum!
the girl below me is wrong. you can only get pregnant if he goes directly inside of you. if his penis goes into your vagina then yes you can get pregnant. thats the only way.
Hi does anyone have any good ideas for a teenaged Halloween part for ages 15-19? Im having a huge Halloween party and I have a small house, living room, dining room kitchen with my parents room on second floor and my room off of the living room and a halls to another room and the bathroom. But my backyard is huge and able to have about a hundred people outside. Im gonna have a bonfire and lots of food and music and crazy lights. Im also trying bobing for apples and another crazy game but its not enough to keep them entertaiuned from 730 to 1200 is it? Can anybody give me some cool ideas for games, entertainment, and stuff like that please? Thanx:)
well that sounds fun. ive had like a ton of halloween parties, with a million kids there, from like every age imaginable. and what we did, is we have woods next to like our house, and we made haunted woods. if you have like any cousins or someone who would wanna like help make a haunted house or something, you could maybe do it in your basement too.. and have them like scare people. & in my basement, we have a ping pong table, fooseball, pool table, and junk like that and people were down there too.
Okay well there are these two boys , mike & kev !well i like them both and they like me back to. me and mike have been "talking" and he has told two of his friends that his was going to ask me out then he goes off and tells this one girl that he ALSO likes and says yeah im not going to ask her out. and at the football game tonight he told this girl , Leah that he liked me but he didnt want to date me. and me and kev are cool im pretty sure he likes me and i like him so ill see how we do. but it is just mike that i need help with and his phone just recently broke so i cant text or call . so please help me. WHAT SHOULD I DO !!!??
I don't he may. The only way to really know is to ask himself. These people could be like hearing things wrong, or twisting the story, so to speak. So, just ask him. The worst he can say is he doesn't like you or whatever.
i have light/fair skin, and i really want to get tan. itx october so i cant really tan anymore, and I was wondering if anyone knew any good like lotion tanners or sprays that I could buy that wouldent leave me lookong orange! help!
jergens works extremely well. my friend used this in the winter, and i remember i'd always think how is she so tan still from the summer. and then i asked one day, if she ever useds like tanning lotions, and shes like i used jergens in the winter all the time. and she never looked streaky or orange or anything!
+ sephora, i've never used it. but its been well recommended. plus, if you don't like it, they have a remover. (: