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big fight-lost my bff-bc we loved eachother


Question Posted Monday November 26 2007, 10:45 pm

my best friend say cara and i got ina fight with my other best friend say jos-mainly me and him tho-weve been off an on best friends only bc we loved eachother and it kept gettin screwed up for many different reasons-now we hate eachother-the thing is the fight was over aim-cara likes jos also and i finally got her to tell him ina chatroom with me her and him-he entered and never said a word and after about 10 we got fed up and she said how shes liked him since shes known him-he didnt say a word-the kind of moment you have to say atleast something-so after her meltdown in the chat i started cursing him out and all-then i called him because he wouldnt anwser-he was at his friends house on aim so i said once he gets home to call back-never did by the next day so i called again and he said he wasnt there..wow what a friend-the next day after ive called him 4 times-he walks by us in church smiling so big i almost flipped him off-he talked to her 3 days after and me about 16 days after only because i hang out with alot of guys and he was in the group with me-everytime i say something about it he leaves or has a excuse hes such a jerk to me and he knows ever since the last few times-then he acts like he loves me-we can never even go anywhere like we used to anymore for the past 3 years because were to close at times-ina way i still love him in the back of my heart-imtotally different without him my depression is gettin so much worse-this is drivin me insane does anyone know what i can do?! ill try and add more if ya need it. were all 13 never had bf or gf sad i no. pweese help

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DearAbby92 answered Tuesday November 27 2007, 11:34 pm:
Im almost 15, and I've never had a boyfriend. Not a big deal. Most relationships with 13 year olds aren't real, are just kids wanting to try something. It's drama and this guy doesnt sound mature enough to have a girlfriend, or interested in your friend. Let it die down and don't push it-stay out of drama. It's easier.

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holahayley56 answered Tuesday November 27 2007, 7:09 pm:
You're only 13, most kids don't. Some get boyfriends and stuff really early. Like my first 'boyfriend' was when I was 10. Anyways, you need to leave him alone and give him some space, you're bothering him. He probably just needs time to think. You're only 13, you've got plenty of time for boys. I've had like million boyfriends. And all they cause is trouble. I think you should just leave him alone, and let him come to you.

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