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im Kristin. 20 years old. Criminal justice major/psychology minor at Georgia Southern University - let the good times roll =]. i'm really laid back, love talking to people, and having a good time. i get on here when i'm bored so if you have a question, inbox me!

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I've had my cat for 10 years and I love him, but he suddenly started growing this tumor. And the poor thing probably won't live more than a few weeks but we don't want him to be in pain so we're putting him to sleep when he starts showing pain. I don't know if I want to be there when he is. My mom said I could go, but I don't know if I would want to see him then, but I don't know if I'll regret not going? Help?

i was in the same situation with my dog a couple years ago. she got sick really quick but it was almost if it happened over night, so they told us we had to put her down or she'd need a blood transfusion for any hope to live over night, and that was the day we brought her in, so we put her to sleep. it was soo hard but i know that i would have very much regretted not being there with her. its a nice comfort to them to be around their families, and ironically it does sort of ease you too because you get a kind of "closure" i guess. so if i were you id go, so you could get in those last few minutes with him. yeah its very hard and i started bawling the moment they took her back, but its better to be with them than at home. good luck and best wishes

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What are those shoes that are a brown suede fabric that are squared in the front and have stitching on the front?

i think you mean sperrys?

http://www.macnaughtongroup.com/footwear_for_women.htm

http://ec1.images-amazon.com/images/P/B000EP73AQ.01._SCMZZZZZZZ_V55036398_.jpg

yeah a lotta preps wear them if those are the ones youre talking about.

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Ok I am 17 and I am a really hardworker in school and usually at whatever I do, I try to do my best and work hard. Well I guess since the summer I have put in 15 applications to different places and I gotten like 2 interviews and nothing else after that. I need help. How can I make the managers want to hire me and how can I show them that even though I do not have any work experience that I can still do a really good job?

one thing is, when you go to turn in the application, dont just give it to some random worker, but ask to personally give it to the manager. if the managers not in, ask when they'll be back so you can either come back or call them. talk with the manager a bit about the job, and bring up some things about why you want it and stuff. this shows that youre likely to be more dedicated and interested in the job than someone else who just turns the application in to someone else. hope that made sense, good luck!

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Okay, before my boyfriend left back for base [he's a marine], he gave me his cell phone. Mine's a piece of shit, and we're both on cingular, so I just put my SIM chip into his old phone.

Now, like an idiot he lost the charger for it. It's a Motorola RAZR. I'm not sure what the little numbers are because like I said, he just handed me the phone. [He upgraded & got a new one, that's why he gave me his old one.] Now, since he lost the charger, I have to buy a new one. Does anyone know how much it'll cost? My mom said if it's super expensive, I can't have it. So then I'll be pissed because the phone will be a total waste. Thanks.

♥T!NA

normally they're only around $20.

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What are your opinions on Gauchos (the pants) ?

honestly i think theyre quite ugly. id never wear them.

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13/F

I was thinking of downloading Limewire (just to get songs unavailable on iTunes), and I have a couple questions about it:

-How easy is it to get a virus from it?
-How easy is it to get in legal trouble for using it?
-Does it slow down your computer?

Thanks in advance :)

- ive heard its very easy to get a virus from it, but ive never gotten one. if you have virus checking systems on your computer, they'll catch pretty much all of them. also, always be sure to disconnect limewire when youre not using it. even if you still have it open to listen to music or something, disconnect. that way, no one can get into your files.

- of course downloading is illegal, but ive never heard of anyone gettin in trouble from limewire.

- it can slow down your computer a bit. but if you have a newer computer, you wont notice that much. if your computer is older, its best not to run any other program while limewire is open so itll run faster.

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How do you properly remove ingrown toenails?

dont try to remove it yourself.. your best bet is to go to a foot doctor and have them remove it.

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when my old boyfriend used to finger me (we were both virgins) sometimes he would remove his hand and his fingers would be covered in really dark brown red, it almost looked like blood from my period, but it would be nowhere near the start or finish of my period. Do you know what caused this? Should i be worried?

thank you

since you were a virgin, it was most likely because he either broke your hymen or it was just from him stretching you out.

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My boyfriend and I had sex without a condom...I am not on birth control, but he pulled out long before he cam. Is there any chance I could be pregnant?

yes. yes. yes.
pre-cum can get you pregnant just as easy, and they cant control that. they dont even notice it half the time. always use a condom unless you're ready for a screaming child in your life. hate to break it to you, but its the truth.

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MY MOM. grr. she tells me I can switch schools, & then makes these excuses like.. "Well.. lets think about it.. isn't there someone else you can hang out with" & im like omgg. grr. ITS SO ANNOYING. Like, I hang out with the meanest girls in school, the plastics, whatever you want to call them. AND I CAN'T STAND THEM. I want out, like..I just don't want to hang out with anyone else. There either sluts, fake, annoying. & I know nobodys perfect, but see.. its just, I don't know. Its not that these people don't like me & stuff, its just..i'm sick of them all. I've been in school with them for 9 years [private school]

How can I convince my mom to let me out? She keeps telling me how.. 'she hung out with the mean girls & she dealt with it, & it wasnt that bad' but my mom was one of them. & that just isn't mean. I'm not some little stuck up.

AHH just help!

i had the exact same problem. pretty much all you can do is beg and plead with her. if nothing changes, you can try saying that being around these people who are fake and annoying is starting to stress you out because you cant handle it anymore, and the stress may cause your grades to go downhill because youre in such a tense environment and you cant focus. thats what i did and it worked pretty well. good luck!

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Hey everyone!!! Well, I am redecorading my room and I am going to do a tropical theme. I already have a tropical bedspread, some pillows, a calander, and 2 pictures of palm trees. Where else can I get some cute, and not to expensive, tropical stuff. Thanks everyone!!!!

one of those neon lights in the shape of a palm tree or like a margarita would be really cute!!

if you dont mind ordering, this has a ton of stuff:
http://www.offthedeepend.com/c-77-lamps-and-lighting.aspx

these are pretty pricey though, but im sure you can find them in stores as well for MUCH cheaper, i just cant think of a specific store::
http://www.neon-signage.com/neon_gifts.htm

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I got the top of my ear pierced a week ago and it had quit hurting, but tonight it started hurting and it's swollen where the back of the earring is. Is it swollen because it could be infected or because of the earring irritating it? What should I do if it's like this I cleaned it with peroxide.

have you been cleaning well at least twice everyday? if not, you really should. youre bodys not used to the earring so it could easily get infected if you dont. if you have, maybe youre allergic to the metal? i have both of mine pierced, and theyve never been swollen or anything, but i have noticed little bumps around the hole on the back of both ears on several occasions. they always went away after awhile though. clean it really well maybe like 3 times a day for a few days, and if nothing improves, take it out and either call or go see your piercer.

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okay so im blonde. and people sometimes serouisly think that im dumb - just because im blonde. and it kinda pisses me off at times cuz they treat me like im just stupid. and im not. i get A's and B's on like everything and get pretty upset if i get like a ac or lower. and still even if i tell people that im smart, they just think im stupid. what should i do?

wow i swear it seems as if i wrote that myself, haha. theres nothing you can do. its a stupid stereotype that people are going to throw at you forever. trust me i know how frusterating and annoying it gets. all you can do is prove them wrong =]. thats what i do and alot of people that say that to me, im actually smarter than, so yeah. just ignore it. no one likes those girls who try to act all dumb and ditzy like alot of girls try to do these days, so be glad youre not one of them! =]

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they come in like almost every color and they're really comfortable and they have holes in the top of them. does anyone know what they're called and where you can get them? pictures would be nice too :]

Walmart definitely has them in like almost every color.

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does anybody know where to get these adidas?
http://www.shopadidas.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2007343&shopGroup=R&cp&page=3&keywords=adidas+slides&searchId=19366290761&doVSearch=no&doVSearch=no&pageBucket=0&parentPage=search&colorId=

besides ordering it online. :]

thankss!

im almost sure ive seen them at Kohls. any sporting goods store.. Hibbets, Dicks, etc, would surely have them.

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can you get an STD from giving a bj if the person youre giving it to is not sexually active?!?
thankss

Yes, there is always a chance. STDS are not just transmitted sexually, you can also be born with them ya know.

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i'm a 14 year old girl. in october, i went out with this boy for 2 weeks & then he broke up with me. we didn't talk for a while, but then we became sort of friends again. well; lately he has been calling me & we've been talking A LOT.

he keeps asking me if i'll have sex with him (not right now, but in the future), i just keep telling me "maybe". well now it seems that all he wants to talk about is sexual things. like, eating me out or me giving him a blow job.

i don't know what to do! i haven't really done anything with him..just made out & he's felt me up. that's all!

p.s. he's always telling me that he loves me, and that i'm beautiful. sometimes, he's so sincere & sweet, but sometimes i think he's bullshitting me.

help!

okkk chances are, he doesnt "love" you. he is just using you. hes askin you if you'd have sex with him ok, and he may be referrin to the future, but think about it.. if you give in and say yeah id like to or whatever he's gonna think sweet! and push you and push you until you give in and do it when HE wants to. all the sexual talk is probably trying to get you thinkin about it so you'll do it. i know alot of guys are horndogs but i mean they can still manage to talk about other things sometimes. guys can seem pretty sincere at times but lets face they know how to be good players when they want to be. i highly suggest you dont give in for anything.

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How well does Proactive Solution work?

i know several people who have used it and loved it and it made their skin flawless. sadly it didnt do squat for me. it made my skin a little smoother but never helped too much with bumps or redness.. then after a while, after all the lack of help [it did help a teeny bit], my skin kinda got used to it, and i used it for about a year. by the way, i heard if you use it and then quit, it'll make your skin worse.

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where are the best places to play soccer when you're age 13? I'm in new jersey... to be more specific, in hillsborough, which is like 45 minutes away from princton university. thankyou!! I've only played 3 seasons, and i love the sport and wanna do more. also, what are ways to convince my parents to let me play in travel soccer? is it true that its better than rec? because it seems more fun to be in travel since you get to go to more places and.. it just sounds better, lol. or is travel really expensive or something? thanks for helping!!

sincerely,
a soccer loverr

travel soccer isnt necessarily more "fun" than rec. i guess some could consider it to be, but its often alot more competitive than rec soccer. they usually have more practices and im pretty sure you have to try out for travel teams [[at least around here you do]]. yeah its fun to travel but thats a big responsibility too because usually it requires you to be gone for a whole weekend so you gotta be ready to keep up in school. and with travel soccer comes more tournaments.

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some guys in class today were saying like you want dom or something? i'm pretty sure it was something sexually because they started talking about it after a guy said hand job.

but i have no clue what dom or domb? is if i'm spelling it correctly or not either.

dome. basically, giving head. i dont kno why its that, but yeah. haha.

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