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Hey babez I am Julia!
NickNames:Jdawg,JDubb,J,Juls,Julz
Loc-:I'm all over the place baby.. haha AZ ;)
Gender: Gracing the world as a female!
*Taken by Kole for ever and ever*

advice

OMG TODAY I CAUGHT A LIZARD, IT IS SOOO ADORABLE, EVEN THOUGH THEY ALL LOOK ALIKE I THINK IT IS JUST SOO CUTE!!! DOES ANYONE KNOW ANY NAMES FUR 1??

heres some i thought of! hehe


*Nemo

*Lizzy( how original huh)

*Baby

*Bluey

*Pinky

*Ace

*Star

* Snake


hope u liked them rate me plz!

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Okay, so I've been questioning my boyfriend and I's relationship because lately we have been fighting and argueing a whole bunch. Well, last night we got in a small fight and he told me I was a horrible girlfriend. I wasnt sure if I should break up with him because our 8 month anniversary is THIS Saturday :-/ I'm kinda depressed about it.. and I dont know if I have the guts to call it off. Any ideas on what to say to that jerk and how to feel bettter?

Well, it's your call if you want to call it off, I think he just said it because he was mad and people ALWAYS say things they don't mean when they are mad. Let hhim beg to come back to you now! rate me plz!

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Hey, ive been told im "hott"or"sexy" and i just dont feel that way. . .i mean other paeople may think so but im 14 and i have long blonde hair, dark green eyes i fill a large B cup have okay hips and my butt is a lil big. . .i personally think im too skinny im about 5' 6" and i only weigh 115 lbs. i dont kno if thats a bad thing. . .but i was wondering if i could have some advice about how i could make myself look better make-up, or maybe even gain weight? i dun know but if you wanna, can you halp me plz. . . .?
-Candi

For your make up, get a good blush that mactehs your skin tone( ask a professional)and put your eyeliner on from the ousdie corner and about half wauy in it opesn up your eyes. Don't GAIN weight try to gain muscle by running and doing wall sits! Hope I helped! rate me plz!

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I always wanna hang out with people. But when we come over to my house I dont know what to do. Do you have any suggestions for ideas of stuff to do. We always end up really bored!! I have cable but thats not a very fun thing to do when you have ppl over. any ideas would help!!! thnx

You can walk somewhere near your house! That's what I always do with my friends! Go swimming if it isn't to cold!

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well i use to have really bad self esteem and it was hard for me to be out going or nething cuz im not the prettiest person in the world but nor am i the ugliest.. its just i have all these gorgeous friends and then theres me and i juz dont think im pretty.. ive gotten a lot more self esteem and am confident enuf now where i dont mind being loud and outgoing around ppl idk and i dont care wut they think.. but then there are times when ppl say mean things bout me and idk it still juz hurts :-/ how do i get more confidence and just not care wut others think?

Everyone feels that way when someone puts them down. Just remember: **whoever says something mean means they have LOW SELF ESTEEM ISSUES so they put down other people to make themselves feel better than others**. Don't worry about what others say because in 5-10 years, who is "popular" or who is a "goth" it isn't gonna matter because we are all people and no one is better than others. Hope I helped keep your head high hun! rate me plz!

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I am 13 and female and my boyfriend is 15. His friends think he is really dumb for going out with me and i think he might start thinking the same way. What should I do? Keeping in mind that he is also my neighbor.

If he starts to think that that's his problem. He should like you for you and that age gap isn't huge. Just look at everyones parents they are like 4 years apart sometimes and more! Don't worry about it but if it bugs you alot talk to him and tell him how you aren't concerned with the age gap and he shouldn't be either. rate me plz :)

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I have a neighbor and he likes me he says and i really like him and i have liked him for a really long time and i have noticed lately that he has been avoiding me and it is really bugging me. i invited him to go to our school's fest thing and he said that he would call me back and he never did and i think he hasnt talked to me since then. its making me really sad cuz i wanna go out with him really bad! tell me what to do!

Talk to him! Invite him over and if he says no pick another date to chill on! If you don't hang out with him he might move on! I doubt you did something wrong so just ask to hang out with him. Good luck and rate me plz!

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Me n my b/f talk a lot! But lately i dont wanna call him and i just dont really want to talk to him...i mean yeah i really love him and i want to see him ALL the time and talk to him in person, but i just dont want to talk to him on the phone a lot anymore.

Maybe you are just getting tired of talking to him on the phone, that's normal you are probably just sick of it! Don't worry if you give it a lil break in a few days I am sure you will be fine talking to him on the phone again! Rate me plz!

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I really really wanna be an actress, and i wanted to know how do i get started
i've wanted to be an actress for the past 2yrs
i've dun drama class and now that im a freshman in high skool, i'm taking theatre, but how do i find stuff to act in, where do i find out about what new movies need people to act in them
im 14/f/nc if that makes a difference
thx a bunch
i do rate ppl

You can start by looking in the paper for any auditions in your area. Or you can look online. Mostly I would say look in the paper because auditions are usually in there! rate me plz and good luck!

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okay, this might seem really nasty, but i don't know how to have sex. i just don't. and i need someone to tell me... soon.
what are some things we should do?? i'm sooo clueless... i don't know what to do!!

www.sexinfo101.com :D

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i need advice on the best way to break up with my bf. because i am afraid i will break his heart!its be-cuz he bearly calls me, he is going to a bigger school where there would be more schools,and we bearly have things in common.also..i think i am falling in love with another guy. thanx for listening....urs truly,
davinesgrlfan

Well, you sound like you don't wanna hurt him and thats good! If you are to afraid to break up with him in person, call him over the phone and just say that things ahve changed and you two aren't seeing eye to eye and you would feel better if you guys were friends. You can also through something in like "friendships last longer than relationships do" :) good luck and rate me plz!

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i wanted to start an advice web site of my own. how do i get started?

Okie dokie you go to *home* and then scroll down to where to topic says for you to get your own advice column and follow the easy steps! good luck with yours and plz be sure to rate me!

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I feel really alone and wish i could find Mr Right,my mom says if i have one good boyfriend then Im good, But how will I know where Mr Right is
(Im 15/Female)
PLz If u know whats best answer this Question
Jenipher HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Everyone's "Mr. Right" is out there.. he probably just hasn't came for you yet. Don't give up and get frustrated, just keep hanging with your friends and you'll keep busy and befoe you know it, he'll be here! So enjoy life now!
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Are tampons supposed to hurt? because i hate wearing pads, but tampons hurt sooo bad that i cant even walk some of the time and im a very heavy bleeder so i can wear the small tampons. also does your eating habits have to do with how heavy you bleed? like if i eat healthy food and fruit and stuff will it make me bleed lighter?

Tampons don;t hurt unless it's not in right! Make sure it's in right! Blah pads suck don't wear them! I am not sure about eating food to make it lighter, but I know excersise and moving around is the best thing to do when you have your period!
good luck and rate me plz hun!

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i have a feeling my boyfriend is cheating on me, everytime i call some girl will answer and she says hes not there and just hangs up the phone without me even getting to say ok or bye, i know its not his mom cuz i know her voice and he doesnt have any sisters, and i know that no family is visiting. what should i tell him??

You should talk to him one on one and tell him that it upset's you whena girl answers the phone and hangs up quickly. Ask him if anything is going on between him and another girl. Maybe you two aren't seeing eye to eye. But talk to him.. that solves everything! If it helps, go to his house too!!
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I HAVE A REALLY BAD HABIT ;; I SUCK MY THUMB I HAVE ALL MY LIFE AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO TO HELP ME STOP IVE TRIED EVERYTHING NUTHYN SEEMS TO WORK ;; MUCH LOVE KATIE

You can put this nail polish on it called "BITE IT".. it supposed to work!
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I love to dance..a lot..i do ballet ..pointe shoe...and i do tap, but i have another passion..i love to act and do commercials. when i was younger i audtionend for an agent and got one, i then was on sesame street..for a couple of years and i did comercials. but when i was 6 or 7... i had to quit. now tht i am at a higher age i want to enroll in that type thing...but i do to much dancing, and my mom is making me choose ..what do i do?
please answer to my inbox!

Well, no one knows how much you love dancing. So your going to have to choose, quit doing something you love, or start something you may really enjoy. It's always good to try new thhings tho! Good luck! Not that many people get the chance to be in commercials!
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hey my name is katie (( female )) and i have a boyfriend we've only been dating for a month tomorrow ;; we've went out before but i really love him and im only 14 but i mean i never felt this way for a boy before but i think hes ignoring me because some bad stuff kinda happened well imma tell you [[ short versen ]] -- well i was talkin to this boy that likes meh wait no loves me and he kept telling meh and like 20 mins before we were going to my boyfriends house he was all huggin on meh and holding my hand then when we got to my boyfriends house he pulled this headache crap cause i wouldnt talk to him but i mean i dont like this boy _at all_ and i told him then my boyfriend found out but i mean i didnt tell him so i found out a bunch of my friends told him but im not sure but i called him the nixt day and i told him i didnt like the other boy and he didnt believe meh but its been like 4 days later and my boyfriend still isnt talking to meh i mean if i call him hes either bout to leave or not there or about to do sumpthyn i mean is he igoring meh? i mean i've cried my self to sleep like almost everynight this past week and i dont know what to do -- will you please help meh -- (( i hope i made this understandable lol )) thanks [[ much love ]] Katie Sumner

It sounds like he is ignoring you, but you have to be the one to step up and say"Look I wanna be with you, we gotta talk" if you guys just talk about what happened I think everything will work out! Try not do it over the phone tho!
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OK theres a cute girl from work, we started outflirting till i knew she had a bf. We still flirted and started hanging out more than she was with her bf. i found out he's a complete dick to her and shes tried breaking up with him 5 times but he's manipulative. In the duration of our friendship she fooled me into thinking she broke up with him when they were really just breaks. One night after work we just hang out at a park talkign, she kisses me, and i hesitate so she thinks i didnt want to. Next morning i take her home and she apologizes later that day, when i really wanted the kiss. Month or two later i take her home late and tired and we talk, wrestle a little bit, the before i know it i initiate a make out session. She stops a couple times to say you do realize this is cheating right KNowing her bf i didnt care so we continued. next morning she says its a mistake and soon she claims she loves her bf. Anyway i tell like 2 people at work i trusted and word got round to her so she doesnt really talkto me anymore. OH yeah two days later she broke up with her bf for real. I truly like her i think what do i do?

I would talk to her, sit her down where no one can hear and appologozie for telling others what happened, and just tell ehr how you feel and how you've wanted to be with her for a while. Then see what she thinks.
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My X and I broke up again for the 2nd time and probably for the final time. But i still really like him but we didnt talk for a while there then he started calling me all the time but he woudl lie to me about where he would b and what gurls he was with to try to make me jealous. And it did at 1st until i got tired of it. I still really like him a lot and i wanna be friends with him but its sooo hard b/c i have such strong feelings for him what should I do? SHould i tell him how i feel?

I agree with what baby said, if someone is gonna do that to that's not right and you know you deserve better. You just aren't over him fully and in about a week if the feelings are still the same talk to him about it because if he trying to make you jealous I think he may still have feelings for ya. So give it time and then talk to him!
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