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well i use to have really bad self esteem and it was hard for me to be out going or nething cuz im not the prettiest person in the world but nor am i the ugliest.. its just i have all these gorgeous friends and then theres me and i juz dont think im pretty.. ive gotten a lot more self esteem and am confident enuf now where i dont mind being loud and outgoing around ppl idk and i dont care wut they think.. but then there are times when ppl say mean things bout me and idk it still juz hurts :-/ how do i get more confidence and just not care wut others think?
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thynk of it lyk thys.. if theyre takyn their presious tyme to say sumthin bout you to make you feel bad.. then 1. they have nuthyn better to do.. 2. they prolly have low self esteem themselves.. and 3. Ur BeTtEr tHaN tHeM!
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The trick is never comparing yourself to anyone else. They aren't you and you aren't them. The only person you should ever compare yourself to is you, comparing yourself from now to where you were a couple of years ago. The other thing is remember that the only reason people say mean things is that they're the ones who have low self-esteem and confidence. Keep in mind that people like that feel the need to put others down so that they feel better about themselves. So in essence, you're better than them. Remember that and be secure with who you are.
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Everyone feels that way when someone puts them down. Just remember: **whoever says something mean means they have LOW SELF ESTEEM ISSUES so they put down other people to make themselves feel better than others**. Don't worry about what others say because in 5-10 years, who is "popular" or who is a "goth" it isn't gonna matter because we are all people and no one is better than others. Hope I helped keep your head high hun! rate me plz!
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