I smile,laugh,love,and live in the moment. I don't think lifes worth wasteing on a boring day. I am happy and with who I am. lifes about friends who hold on to you,the people who you love and return it. I don't believe in changing for anyone, i can say that everything happens for a reason and if its not a good ending,then its not over. I Love music, and interested in anything to do with style,makeup,and fashion. I also love heroes, south park, and family guy :]. I'm done with the fake people,i've basically dropped all who never cared. and i'm actually happy,i feel so much better ! I've been through it,the friends,family,and the whole finding yourself. And i think Marylous Coffee is bomb.I have the most amazing friends; and i'm so lucky to have those crazy bitches >:}.I'm obbsessed with Harry Potter
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I know this is the WORST way to remove blackheads, but I was squeezing my skin with toilet paper on my index fingers.
Since I've done that, I've rubbed some skin off. Whenever I do this, I usually get a pretty nasty scab.
Any way to make it less noticeable besides piling makeup on the scab? It makes it more obvious. (link)
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moisturizer and vitamin E oinmtment. and instead of squeezing heres something i've tryed and it works good for me. Buy a mask that is supposed to harden (i use noxema,its white and i would advise getting it-i dont think its too much money) and put that on. Wait till it hardens. when its all hard turn on the warm water. get a bristel toothbrush thats soft and isnt mechanical (these are cheap also) Then run the tooth brush under hot water,and Gently rub off the mask. make sure you get around the nose. its worked for me every time :]. good luck!
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is there any natural way to make your boobs grow? (link)
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haha boy do i wish there was! You could eat,and then build some muscel (sp?) around there,and it'll lift them up. but other than that,you could massage them,i highly doubt that'll do a thing,but its worth a try. (maybe it'll get the blood flowing or something =p) you just have to wait it out. good luck :]
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I'm in 7th grade & I'm taking Algebra1. Do you think this is advanced? (link)
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yes it is, you usually take it in 8th and maybe even 9th grade (at least for my school) wow,7th grade? they deffinatly changed it so your learning things earlier. thats good :]. yes i do think its advanced
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okay i need help
im 16/f
well lets get this started my mum died and well when we were in thehospital when she died my dad said it was all my fault and i will nevr for give you. my brother felix has been crying ever since that and i havent cried since
at school im the biggest popularest bitch ever everyone is afraid of me.
im having sex with a 21 year old who thinks im 18. he figured out im 16 by one of my back stabbing friends. my friends thought he was a total jerk but i loved him
when i told him i loved him he thought i was nuts.
then i went off at him saying i was just this hook up for him to have sex with an stuff. and then he told me he was in love with his room mate molly who doesnt like him in that way.
i got in a car accident with my back stabbing friends
the guys driving the car ran off afraid of cops (car ended up being stolen)
an i have a broken arm which looks like a alien coming out of my skin and my face has a million scratches.
my dad is mad because he figured out i was in the stolen car. he puts me on complete lock down an is thinking about sending me to boarding school. i saw print outs of different schools. smith(21 year old guy im hooked up with) came an took me to hospital since i couldnt tell dad. but i had to go back home smith was still mad that i lied to him about my age. my dad is sorta mad now but is now im off complete lock down. an me and smith well i dunno
this is what is going on in my life. crazy yes i know. (link)
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Im so sorry, its hard to deal with stuff when it happens all at once.
For Your Mom- Its not your fault. You didnt do a thing. You (assumeing) loved her and she knows you didnt do anything wrong,chances are when she was your age she had fights to,and she knows how you feel. and its hard to go on with out a mom. Your dad needs an excuse,he wants to blame himself-or anyone else. he figures if he puts the blaime on you it can make him feel more at ease. its not. sometimes people dont cry cause they're so shocked and thats just how they take things. its not like your numb. As for school. you see yourself as everyone is afraid of you- but why? If you think your a bitch,then change. Complement people,smile at them.What makes you a bitch? ask yourself,and change it.just be friendly. Truthfully,you cant trust anyone,unless you really believe they could keep a secret. i guess you learned that the hard way unfortunatly. trust no one. I'd say get into a smaller group of friends,not too small but keep a main circle. Seriously,i wish i could get away from this place im in right now. And boarding school,if you must go,think of it as a good thing. A new reputation,another chance. im not saying its the greatest,but you'll be away from the drama.Maybe you should recover and stay from for a day or two. your dad cares about you,but i truthfully its been buried and hes become more careless. Maybe he thinks theres no hope for you. Prove him wrong. At least once,every two days have normal,small talk. If he says anything cold or mean during it,just pause,and say something like "im sorry you think that way" or whatever the situation is,and hover for a bit,then walk away calmly. It'll make him feel horrible he did that. This whole time he thought you did something,but this'll make him realize that its not your fault. As for your boyfriend,you cant really do anything. Just stay clean for a while. im sorry if i didnt helped,but i hope i did at least a little. good luck!
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Normally I hate questions like these, but its driving me crazy. I see a lot of people with "Nmw" in their AIM profile. Ex: "bfflnmw" I know the "bffl" means "best friend for life" but whats the nmw? Ha. (link)
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Best Friend For Life No Matter What :] hah
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okay this girl is talking about me behind my back and steeling my friends and all of that crap.
i need some good ideas for revenge. like stuff thats not obviouse that i did it. im already going to get a bunch of my friends from another school to send some hatemail over myspace and im thinking about creamcheese deoderant stuff.
any more ideas?
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wow,revenge isnt exatly the answer,because it'll all just come back to you in the end. DONT let her take your friends away. saying that shes steeling your friends just means your letting her. if they were your real friends, they would stick up for you. talk to them about it, and revenge is simple. its takeing back what is yours. create more memories with the friends she's "steeling" then she'll get intimidated and jealous. if she talks about you she was already jealous in the first place. let her KNOW she is weak and she cant get to you,cause you are better than that. but dont tell her shes weak, she'll feel weak when she doesnt succeed in bringing you down,she wont succeed at makeing you feel jealous. talk to your friends and be like "i know shes talking about me,but whats she saying?" and just stick with them. its not worth makeing a big scene,yah know? and dont send hate mail,because then she'll show people and everyone will think your mean and a bitch..and side with her (which is what she wants). kay? so just take back whats yours,because she doesnt diserve anything,and its all comeing back to her. (hah i believe in karma,i think you know that by now. but really,it will trust me,it always does :] ) good luck and hopefully your the better person :] hope i helped!
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when i wake up in the morning i sometimes cough up blood i smoke ciggys and weed but i doubt that would make me do that just in the mornings wouldnt i be like bleeding the whole time i smoke if it was from that am i going to die (link)
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coughing up blood is sometimes a small side affect to very bad deseases. you know, weed isnt the cleanest thing in the world,and it could be a rare but possible case that you got something from what you've smoked. but if its only in the mornings, then that i cant give you an answer for. i know this is a bad example,but you know that movie mulan rouge? well she started coughing up blood,and it didnt turn out too good. coughing up blood is really bad,espacially if you've ever been sick with it. or if you've had a cough. this happend to my sister,and she went to the doctors. she was fine after words. so basically i didnt answer is clearly. sorry for that :[. anyways good luck,and dont worry too much. i hope i helped
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ive been wearing a ton of mascara lately. i dont feel pretty without it. but now ive noticed my eyelashes are thinner and WAY shorter. no matter how much mascara I wear it seems like they just fell out.
is this possible? how do I get my long pretty eyelashes back?! (link)
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it could be that wearing that much mascara has made your lashes fragile,causeing them to weakin,thin and fall off. i would get a REALLY good brand or mascara,i dont use mascara but my mom does, and i know a really good brand it clinique. deffinatly decrease how much mascara you use,its not to good to but 3 coats of mascara on everyday if its a cheaper brand. i'd say two coats is finne. the more mascara=the more damage. it'll grow back. and an alternative to useing mascara is fake eyelashes (which are awesome,celebraties use them if this makes a difference) and to lesson the amount of mascara you need also put eyeliner on the top lid. :] use a eye make up remover thats gental. the thinness could also be you're so used to looking at yourself with mascara,you're just starting to realize what you look like with out it. NEVER sleep with mascara on. i hope i helped!
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i'll be brief. dont worry! (;
i need some cute everyday hairstyles.
every day i either wear my hair straight
or in a messy bun or ponytail and it's
getting boring!! (curling takes too long)
what are some cute hair styles besides
the ones i mentioned??? oh yess and
pictures make me happy (: (link)
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these are all the things i've done
Scrunch whole head (+ bangs)
Scrunch all hair and no bangs,then a head band
Straighten hair, head band with a cute pattern
Pull frount hair down the middle and pin it back,then curl your hair (yes,it takes a while but its cute!)
do the same thing but leave it straight.
Im assuming you have side bangs but if you dont this advice should still work.
Oh i also pair a messy bun with a cute headband..i like headbands..lol.
Or instead of a head band,they have these thin scarf head bands that you tie in the back,there adorible.
Pigtail braids (i did this about 3 days ago)
(^ sleep with it and when you wake up the next morning take the braids out,vualah,curls :])
Half-up (you'll need to use clips/bobby pins) with scrunched hair
i hope i helped,im sure i might edit this if i think of anymore
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ok. I need like 101 good conversation starters for teens!! (link)
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first, get to be his friend. llike if your friends are friends with him,hang out with them and get to know him. then when you've talked a lot in the group,and you feel like he's your friend, just talk about random stuff going on. nothing too deep though. its always good to be around with him with other people first,because he'll feel comfortable. you cant just start a convo if you dont even know him first. you need to talk,and find out more info on him. say if he plays sports [umm..you should know what sports he plays first] ask him "how was the game?" and soemthing like "are you doing good this season?" then he'll respond, maybe you could say "i suck at playing that! how long have you been playing?" one thing leads to another. you cant expect him to be your boyfriend if he wasnt you friend first. it wouldnt be bad to tell a close friend about him too (a trustworthy one),so she could help you out.
so the steps
1.friends of friends
2. hang out with you, him and at least one more person
3.the the info on him
4.small talk
5.flirt,get more interested.
and the rest is up to you. conversation started is all about peoples interests and hobbies,or if you state something compleatly random,or if something happens. so its hard. i really hope i helped and if i didnt im sorry! please rate and good luck :]!
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can pitbulls kill u? (link)
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pitbulls are strong,and it depends on how feirce they are. also your age. they could brutally hurt you,but lots of big dogs can. most arent that aggresive though. my friend has a pitbull and there extreamly energetic. they could deffinatly rip your face off if they wanted too. but i doubt it i hope i helped! :]
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I want to do some changes on my myspace. What are some good pictures, poses, angles, or w/e tu use/do? Any advice is good advice, thanks. (link)
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theres so many,but go on photobucket.com and type in like "cute icoms" "random icons" or be more specific like "kids holding hands" on the search bar. there is a lot of results and there really good! for the quetos,google aim quotes and it shoukd help. take some lyrics from song. i hope i helped!
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EDITTT - oh i miss read this,sorry! ok, if you get paintshop there are TONNSS of awesome things you could do,you can edit you pictures to make the awesomee! well what i do is since i have side bangs i angel the camera above my head,on the side bang side (sorry if this is confusing) then i look at the camera and smile but i dont show my teeth. you could bite your lip,put on crazy makeup,and stick your tounge out. go crosseyed also. if some one is takeing your pic you could pose like a movie star. blow kisses,those are cute :]. but what i also do is make sure my camera is above my head,no matter what. i hope i helped you this time :]
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14/f
I go to boarding school. At school, I'm known as the quiet girl that nobody talks to. I have friends, but not as many as I've had in the past. I really don't like this school, and don't plan on coming back next year. Since I only have a few months left, I wanted to change my reputation and "go out with a bang". What are some ways to do that, and how can I change my rep in a short amount of time so I can enjoy my last months here as much as I can? Thanks in advance. (link)
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i dont know how many times i've asked this question,but after awhile i finally got the answer. (i just realized.)
When i was quiet,i kept EVERYTHING to myself.i would think of something to say but not say it. i found people saying the same exact thing i did,and other laughing. then i thought,"i should have said it"
The first thing i kinda did was change my attitude to "i can do anything i want" yes,its ok to want. its ok to say it out loud too. I got a camera,and its a good wayto meet new people in your class. i was always semi-friends with people. but when i have my camera it just adds to the fun,you get more attension,and also if you want a picture of a semi-friend,bring them in it. but really,there is no short change. i've learned this. and im still changeing i think. anyways, Next i got a haircut and wore what i WANTED to wear. i thought "oh,only preps can wear hollister,only skaters can shop at pacsun" what the heck was i thinking? Wear anything you'd like. Add your uniqueness. And more people will complement you if you feel good in what you wear. Its hardest to change your Personality. At first, jump into conversations,its as simple as just laughing at what people say,your instanlty in it. Ask questions about the topic. One thing leads to another,and more questions. Dont sound to demanding though=p. One time,i poked my friend and then we had a pokeing fight,then it just stuck. simple things lead to more complex. Do something you would NEVER do. State your opinion. Try something new. People enjoy smiles. If you think of something random and your around your friends,just say it. :]. its going to take a long time. im still changeing i think,and im still not that outgoing,but i've made an improvment. its taken me 5 months. and now that i think or it,i ask,where did it all go? and then i remember my old self. your a new person now,say no to some things if you want. list things you like. get into interesting and different things.
i hope i helped!
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Alright so lately, I guess you could say that things have been a little chaotic. My sister recently got in trouble for a for a minor crime, plus she's going to college soon. My mom is flipping out and I know she has a reason to because my sister isn't the best student and she did get in trouble with the law. But I think that my mom is blowing it way out of preportion. Everytime she sees my sister, she starts yelling at her and freaking out, and not only is my sister affected by it, I am too. I'm not the one who's in trouble but I feel like I am because of all the yelling. But you have to know that my mom seems to always overanalyze things; for example I tried out for a solo in dance and didn't get it, so I was like okay whatever it's alright but when I told my mom, she's all like "Don't complain about geez it's alright" and she seemed like she was mad at me, but the thing is, I wasn't whining about it at ALL and everytime I see her she brings it up. It was me who didn't make the dance solo, not her, and it's like she can't let go of anything, and everytime I do say "Okay mom, please stop tyalking about it, it's over" she doesn't listen because she's so stubborn and keeps going on and on about how it's okay that I didn't make it and she starts complaing to me about my sister and starts, like, trashing my dad... so I finally lose my temper and yell at her to stop... and then she just stops talking and says "I always lsiten to your problems, and it's mean that I can't talk to you, sometimes I want someone to talk to, too." SO then I start feeling horrible that I'm not letting my mom vent to me when she's done so much for me and has helped me and ahhh idk I have mixed feeling about this. My question is, how can I calmly and rationally tell my mom that I'm not my sister and I didn't get in trouble so she can stop talking about it to me and stop talking about my dad? I mean I don't mind talking to her but sometimes she just doesn't STOP and I have to do my homework and stuff but she's still talking... ahhh please help. :( I'd really appreciate it. And sorry this is really, really long. (link)
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ahhh,right when i read this about the mom and complaining thing,i know EXACTLY how you feel!well at least the part with the complaining. the difference is its my brother,and my moms boyfriend. i used to yell at her about it too. I really think your mom wants you to have a better future than hers,and your sisters. she's in a way being over protective. saying "dont complain its alright" -- that just really seems like shes talking to herself more than shes talking to you. the more you yell,the more she gets angry and complains even MORE. its really annoying,but you just gotta talk to her for a bit then change the subject. if she says "dont go and change the subject" or anything negative,just say you want to talk abut positive things for once. and every so often you should do things for her,she'd really appreciate it-- even though it might not look it. just flat out tell her, mom im not my sister,i know right and wrong, and i know where im going in life. well,im glad i got the chance to answer this! i hope i helped!
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This is adressed to girls...
What do you think us guys mean when we say things like "I just want to be friends". I'm asking because my best-friend, a girl, told me she loved me, but I don't lover her, i like her as mayeb more than a friend, but i don't totally love her. Back to the point, I'm as king because that's what I told her and she seems to not want to be my friend at all anymore. Do you girls see that comment as a "leave me alone for a while" comment? Anyways, a little help plz. (link)
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no,i see it as you dont want to have a relationship like that. but its weird...cause i would feel like i had built up all that courage just to tell you and then just fell. and then the akwardness starts. because now she thinks she cant tell you anything,thinking you might reject something again. i dont know ,its really weird. i dont see it as a leave me alone comment. she might though.
good luck just tell her you can still tell her anything and things might change.
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Okay, so I'm a cheerleader. For practice one day, I let one of my friends whos in a grade lower than me, borrow one of my shirts. My favorite american eagle shirt. She wore it to cheerleading, then brought it home to wash it. She didn't bring it in until like a week later and she put it in her locker. Something spilled in her locker and got all over my shirt. So she had to bring it home and wash it again. Then today, she wore it to school! I was so mad. I've mentioned to her a few times that I'd like the shirt back, but I haven't gotten it.
Should I be mad at her? How else can I hint to her that I want it back?
Thanks!!! (link)
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go to her house, a day shes not wearing it and ask for it back. Have a convo. w/ her mom (if your friends in the shower or something) and bring it up,then she'll probably give it to you,thats if worst comes to worst.tell her its your favorite shirt and you dont want her wearing it anymore. also if she goes over your house when your not wearing the shirt (if you get it back) hide it! tell her whe nyou grow out of it she can have it (if shes smaller than you ) good luck!
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I've always been kind of a drifter. I had 2 groups of friends "the immature" and "the popular". I've tryed to decide who I wanted to be friends with. I decided the popular group because they like the things I like and are more matture. But my old friends don't want to let me go. They keep inviting me over but I say I cant because im already going to my other friends houses. And at school im taking to my friends and they all run up to me and are like "Hey whats up!?! Why dont you talk to us." So me and my friends just walk away. I don't feel guilty. HOW DO I DROP THEM? Because they're trying to stick to me like glue. I seriosly just dont want to talk to them. because if I say "Hey." when im walking they try to link arms and tell me about their life. (link)
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its always good to have a side group,incase you get into a fight with the other ones. anyways, just do what you do,drift away,start hanging out with the other people more and when the "immature" group starts talking to you just answer quickly and short so theres no more conversation.just act uninteresting around them,and they'll forget about you. its always good to fuse both of your groups together so everyones friends. if your willing to give up that group that easily,you probably werent close with them to begin with.just keep doing what your doing,if they get mad at you act like it doesnt even matter,compleatly ignore them but in a nice way,incase you ever want to be there friends again. act like the people in the popular group have got you. like for instence, "hey jen (pretend your jen) wanna hang out this weekend?" "I would but jill and cassie already invited me somewhere im sorry!" like that. you know, dont make it seem like you are blowing them off,make it seem like your haveing more fun with the populars and are pulled in by them popular group. hmmm....even though if i were you i'd stick to both but have my new friends be the main group and old the side. you know though,your not going to be as close with the popular group yet,it'll take a while.you might feel left out,anyways good luck !!
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Okay so latley i have been having a lot of truble falling asleep, and i thought that i would give listening to music a try, because i dont want to use sleeping pills or anything like that.
So what would be some god R&B, Alternative,Pop or any other more current music to fall asleep to. If you could please give the artist and title that would be great thanks. (link)
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well,you could get one of those things that plays sounds of wind and rain,and the forest-i love those. i dont really know any songs you could fall asleep to ..maybe
Kingdom Hearts 2 Sanctuary (Opening English)(by Utada Hikaru)
All the small things - Smash mouth
The Adventure - Angels and Airwaves.
good luck!
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soo, i'm 15 F, and I just had a crazy night. I've had a crush on my english teacher for a while. he's 42 but is extremely hot and sweet. I thought he never noticed me, but it turns out he did. Yesterday afternoon, i went to his office for extra help and one thing led to the next. I ended up performing oral sex on him(with a condom), we made out for a while, and he fingered me and gave me oral sex. I like him so much, how can I continue the relationship without getting him or me in trouble and without people finding out? (link)
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OMG please dont continue!you could DIE from something like thus.i know,because its happend to this girl my friend knows. you think he really likes you, but hes really all planning this. if he really cared about you he would be mature and know the age and it could never happen. hes hurting you,and this will not be a good outcome. age DOES make a difference. 27 years age difference is to much. he should know,you should know that it cant work out. theres been so many articles on this, and its really foolish. i might sound horrible and mean but this has happend to someone i know. i really want to do everything to stop things from happening.
if you wont listen to me right now, i have to tell you this. if he EVER asks you to go to his house/go out on a date alone- say NO. its too risky.this has happends to many times. i dont want to see it again.people wont find out unless you tell them.just please for your safety dont go further. you might think "oh,but hes so nice and gentle" NO, he wants you to think that,if he realyl wanted a girl he would've looked for one his age. Instead find someone your age and you'll probably have more fun with them. This relationship is illeagle.
im sorry im being mean..but understand what im comeing from- i dont want to see you in the newpaper one day saying you were raped. im sorry..good luck and make the right desitions.be clever and smart and try to follow his every move. try to be one step ahead. ask him quick questions and random ones,it'll be easier to see him lieing.
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i have the jergens face tanner stuff and i use it on my face every day. then i went to the website and read this:
How to apply Jergens® natural glow Daily Moisturizer – for your face
Apply to freshly cleansed face.
Smooth on evenly, blending into jawline and hairline, and avoiding eyebrows.
Rinse excess residue from palms, fingertips and around nails.
Allow several minutes for the product to dry and begin working before applying other facial products.
Jergens® natural glow FACE Daily Moisturizer is non-comedogenic, and is specifically designed for use on your face.
For best results, do not exfoliate face more than once a week.
the last sentence i don't understand. what does it mean? and can this product give me zits? thanks for answeringg. (link)
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i have this- it doesnt give you zits. it moisterizes your skin-which is good since its becoming dryer (winter time). it doesnt exfoliate,it would have said it on the bottle. and exfoliater is something you use once or twice a week to get the dead skin cells off of your skin.you should use jergins every day if you want to get tanner. hope i helped!
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