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revenge


Question Posted Thursday January 18 2007, 3:57 pm

okay this girl is talking about me behind my back and steeling my friends and all of that crap.
i need some good ideas for revenge. like stuff thats not obviouse that i did it. im already going to get a bunch of my friends from another school to send some hatemail over myspace and im thinking about creamcheese deoderant stuff.
any more ideas?
kaythanks <3


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CaptainMegii answered Thursday January 18 2007, 8:50 pm:
First of all, you're the biggest HYPOCRITE EVER. You're getting all pissy because this girl is messing with you, yet you want to plot to do it yourself? How mature. If she is "steeling" [stealing, smartie] your friends, then they weren't really your friends after all, were they? This is so dumb. I can't believe I'm actually answering this.
You need to check yourself, hun. Is this girl worth your time? If she's spreading rumors, then NO. If you know they're not true, why do you care? Your friends weren't really your true friends if they run away scared because of some things a lying bitch said. Who the hell CARES what she says? Plotting revenge and doing something dumb is just going to make people think you're an asshole.

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NyadesRoadGhost answered Thursday January 18 2007, 8:08 pm:
"Let the one who seeks revenge remember to dig two graves"

Honestly, in my opinion, getting revenge on someone you hate is really just giving them too much of yourself. They don't even deserve your attention, and by spending your time thinking up ways to hurt them just shows them that you're really bothered. The best way to "get back" would be to refuse to give them any thought at all. Your time could be much better spent on yourself rather than on these jerks. Why pay them back with your precious attention?

Just posing a theory. Hope it all works out =]

-K

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Imperialistic answered Thursday January 18 2007, 7:07 pm:
Oh no, honey. Revenge is not a good idea at all. If anything, it'll bite you in the ass when she figures out what you've done, and trust me, she will.
A better idea is to confront her and bitch her out for it. It's a proven technique. If someone ever says anything bad behind my back, I go up to them in front of a few people and chew them out. After that, they're too scared to do anything else and avoid contact with me.
I've only had one girl who continued to talk behind me and that's when I really went crazy on her and started yelling at her in the middle of a party with my friends present.
It's a lot of drama, but it's direct.
Even if you take revenge, she'll still talk behind your back and steal your friends.
Just go bitch at her, seriously.

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advice_expert101 answered Thursday January 18 2007, 5:20 pm:
haha sweet revenge. kay well im not ussaully one to give advice for like "getting back" or w.e. but since you already know what you want to do, i'll give you some ideas.
you could:
1. put flyers up around the school with her pic on it say lost dog, call.... (or something like that)
2. stuff her locker with like tampons or something so that is over flows and pours out when she opens it.
3. if she has boobs, then start a rumor somehow saying she stuffs. and then fill her locker with tissues.
4. put some of her stuff in the toliets
5. leave love letters in her locker from like a "popular" or "hot" guy && in the letter say like sit next to me at lunch or something like that. and then if she does she'll be completely embarrassed when she sits next or tries to talk to him when hes like ummmm...

i know those weren't really the best but w.e. and im not usually "mean" like that.
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hope i helped =]

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KisaKiss19 answered Thursday January 18 2007, 5:08 pm:
wow,revenge isnt exatly the answer,because it'll all just come back to you in the end. DONT let her take your friends away. saying that shes steeling your friends just means your letting her. if they were your real friends, they would stick up for you. talk to them about it, and revenge is simple. its takeing back what is yours. create more memories with the friends she's "steeling" then she'll get intimidated and jealous. if she talks about you she was already jealous in the first place. let her KNOW she is weak and she cant get to you,cause you are better than that. but dont tell her shes weak, she'll feel weak when she doesnt succeed in bringing you down,she wont succeed at makeing you feel jealous. talk to your friends and be like "i know shes talking about me,but whats she saying?" and just stick with them. its not worth makeing a big scene,yah know? and dont send hate mail,because then she'll show people and everyone will think your mean and a bitch..and side with her (which is what she wants). kay? so just take back whats yours,because she doesnt diserve anything,and its all comeing back to her. (hah i believe in karma,i think you know that by now. but really,it will trust me,it always does :] ) good luck and hopefully your the better person :] hope i helped!
xkisakissx

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