alicia i dont know if ull respond to this cause its really personal but i have been with my boyfriend for quite a while and hes moving in a couple months so we decided to have sex, i took the day after pill but i left the little container in my purse. my mom went looking for gum and came acrossed it... now she doesn;t trust me cause shes all religious and stuff... what should i do? are you a virgin, or have u had to face ur guardian about sex issues?
HEY ITS NOT ALICIA DONT LISTEN TO THAT POSER!
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well i posted a message stating my problem with these three guys. well i talk to one of them and told them that it wasnt going to work that was this boy named bryan. Now i am faced with the big decision of picking Joseph or Donald but i dont know wich one. See i have known Donald a lot oonger than Joseph but we have all ways been friends but we never had those conversations dealing with getting to know each other like fave color and food things like that. Well he has a friend named Joseph and i like joseph and donald keeps telling me the Joseph really wants to get with me. Me and Joseph have talked a feew kissed a few. But see i really like joseph i like a lot of things about him. But see he is a big flirt and so am i so evan though one of us would be in a relationsship we would still end up fliorting with some one els. But im not really worried about that i want to know how can i pick between them which one to choose and if i should tell the one that i didnt pick that i go with his friend pleaz help signed~ worried to pick
Well what I think is you like Joseph alot..And you actually talk to him and you kissed him and stuff...so do what your mind is telln you and acoid listenin to your heart because your mind listens to your mistakes and your heart usually gets broken..
-Stephanie
*Best Of Luck Gurli!!
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Okay my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months now. One of his really good friends is a girl and she and I don't get along. I dislike her because she has talked trash about him behind his back early on in our relationship telling me that I shouldn't like him, that he's a horrible person and he's a bad kisser and all this mean stuff. She used the fact that she dated hima s an excuse as well. She and I never were really good friends but she and he always have be like good friends. I now realize how hard it is for him. Because we dont like each other. He's told me how she'd make a comment when he would say he was with me or something about me and sometimes I'll admit I would roll my eyes and maybe make a comment when he talked about her. I've realized this is hard for him. I'm not sure if I want to be her friend but I do want to make things easier for him and easier for our relationship because at one point this situationw as a big factor and reason for our fights. And after our last big fight it came up again after it wasnt for like 2 months. I don't know if I should set aside my differences with her or if I should just ignore it? help please!
Same thing happened to me. And actually it was before me and my Baybi James went out. See me And Josh this other boy went out and James always flirted with me and I did back..And Josh told my parents James talked about me and stuff because he didnt like James likin me..And ever since then..Me n Josh worked it out and decided to be friends..So you should tell him str8 up that she was talkin trash..And stuff...
-Stephanie
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Ok well my parents divorced when I was only 2 years old. I don't see my real dad a lot. Maybe once a year at the most. My mom remarried and has been with this guy (my new step-dad) for about 12 years. He is never nice to me and I don't know how to act around him. At points he is very nice and I can get along with him really well. Other times I think about running away and just never coming back to him. I don't know what I should do to tell him that I need him to be nicer to me and to stop favoring my two little brothers who are his and my mom's children. HELP ME!!
You shouldnt run away because thats leaves you all alone and Guys and people these days dont think about there actions they just do what they do. So running away isnt a good idea. You should like Effy said talk to your mom and tell her how you feel!
-Stephanie
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hey anyone kno how i can post being a columnist with the whole rating thing and everything about myself..i have a column but idk how to post it etc. thanks
Well then if you have an advice column and want to change stuff on it..then..Go to Edit Settings and it should work and to post things you ask a question just like you did here and then to see it and all the Questions you answered then go to..your advice column..Hope I Helped!
-Stephanie
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hey, how many questions do u need to answer to be a level 2 moderater. and level 3?
I think its 100 gurli!
-Stephanie
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There is this boy named Joseph he his really cute and really sweet and im really into him and he is into me to. But see he is friends with one of my friends his name is Donald. And Donald has a little brother named Bryan. Ok see my problem is all three of them like me and want to go out with me. But see i didnt know Donald and Bryan like me till recently. I asked y didnt they say any thing and response was cause joseph wanted to go with you but see i dont know if i want to go with joseph. I think i might want to go out with donald but i cant do that with out one of them finding out and turning into a big mess but i think i really do want to go with joseph what should i do sign~Triple Trouble
I would go out with Joseph because obivously the other 2 didnt know or whatever..And Joseph seams like he knows you more? Then they probably do!?
-Stephanie
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Hey. Does anyone know how to get music and a background from a site onto my advice column?
I always wanted to do that too..but I dont think you can?! if you find out how holla at me!
-Stephanie
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hi im 13.f.md... i dont know what is going on with me when i go to pee i have cum in my panties ... and im a virgin and i dont know whats going on whats wrong with me and is it normal? write back asap
thx shania
Ok Shania isnt here but she is on Aol..Her name is Bl0ndestBrunetty..But this is her lil sis. But yeah I would think if you have Cum..then its just ur bodys wastes..if its white then its definetly wastest..its not bad its like cleanin your system out. My friend says it happened to her and best bet is just to like..If its bad then wear a pad..or tampon..
-Stephanie
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hey!..im 16 female..i got a note that i wrote to my ex bf and i dont know if i should send it or not...it also feels like im stalkin him..if im wonder what hes doing or something..is that stalkin him or what?
ur not a stalker...lol...And its not stalking to me its just Love..lol..But no ur not ur just curious on how he is doing with life..and stuff and makin sure he is ok!
-Stephanie
Aim Screenname= Stteepphhaanniie
If you want to talk!!!!
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me and my bf were talking last night and he kept saying i hate my brother i wish aron was my bro (thats his cousin) and he kept saying it and saying it and like i hate him i wish he wasnt my brother and i said im glad your bro is your bro and he said why do you always stick up for him? and i said cuz.. i have my reasons and he said he hated his bro more and more and kept going on and on i got really mad b-cuz i love my brother and my brother is dead so out of that i said at least your bro didnt fricken die... was saying that totally wrong? i mean he kept going on and on and i wanted my point across and i've never told him it b4 but now he knows
No ur werent out of line..u were tryin to make a point and u definetly did because mayb he should understand that your brother is like your soul mate and you cant just put them down because one day you will regret it!
-Stephanie
Aim Screenname= Stteepphhaanniie
If you want to talk!!!!
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im trying to have a new look for 8 grade. I need tips on what kind of hair is in? A purm or what?
What cloths or shops are in? HELP!!!!!!!!
I wouldnt say go with what everyone else wears and stuff but thats me. I think being different is way better. I mean its just cooler and makes u come off as a cool person. But my favorite stores are...American Eagle,Rave,Pac Sun,Outer Limitz,Foot Locker,Body Shop..All the shops that are like kool. But dont label your image like preppy type sk8r type just have ur own unique style!!
-Stephanie
Aim Screenname= Stteepphhaanniie
If you want to talk!!!!
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Alright, as extremely cliche as this sounds, I have fallen for my best guy friend. We both have seperate boy and girlfriends, and both have expressed the desire to break up with them. (Because we can tell each other everything.) Well, almost everything. Some how over the last year I have fallen for him, hard! He's really understanding but I don't want to ruin our friendship if he doesn't like me that way. I have turned down a lot of guy friends and I know how awkward it feels to be around them. But it would feel so goood to get it off my chest.
Any advice? If I should tell him.. how?
Oh my goodness lol..same thing happened to me too..but we kinda decided to stay friends because it would b awful to loose a friend over a relationship!
-Stephanie
Aim Screenname= Stteepphhaanniie
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Is it possible for my husbands ex wife and a man to go into an attorneys office and pretend to be myself and my husband in order to make up a will leaving everything to his three children while leaving out my own? I had heard that my husbands former wife and her male friend had my social security number and pertinent info which could be used for such a thing. I heard also that they might attempt to make out a will taking all of the property and giving it to her children (who are also my husbands) . I don't know if it would be that difficult seeing as an attroney would not know my husband nor myself and these two could possibly pull this off. I am paranoid
I dont think it is possible for someone to not even be the childrens mother. If it were me I would like take it to the "five Oh" (police) lol..naw but like a lawyer or something! Id b paranoid to..lol..Best of Luck!
-Stephanie
Aim Screenname= Stteepphhaanniie
If you want to talk!!!!
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Ok me and my ex boyfriend were going out for 4 months and we broke up and went back out the next month.. and he has changed alot.. in a good way and a bad way.. because he used to talk about other girls and everything with me but now he acts like he doesnt have time for me and he is always yelling at me .. but i really love him and i dont want to break up with him but i know i should because he treats me like crap.. i dont kno what to do.
Yeah u deserve wwaaayyy better you sound to sweet to let ome boy run your feelings and life and emotions towards people. I guess that shows you how much of an ass people can be after you go wit them. You can do wayy better hun!
-Stephanie
Aim Screenname= Stteepphhaanniie
If you want to talk!!!!
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Now I have this friend (boy) who i tend to like a lot! and sometimes it's weird we see each other a lot but in not the right places and we barely really know each other...but we do...i know this is kinda confusing..lol..but anyways, he asked my friends if i like him and they asked me...i mean i would say yes but the only thing is i dont really "trust" these friends...because they could come out and tell EVERYBODY! and i dont want that..you know..i think he figured out that i like him...i dont constantly stare...he does sometimes...does that mean he likes me? is it wrong for me to like him when i barely know him? should i ask my friend to ask him out for me? HELP!
Signed,
Confused Cupcake (lol)
Umm, He could probably stare cuz he knows you like him. But then again he might like you. But dont get your friends to ask him out for you just be confident in yourself and go ahead and ask him if he wants to hang out one day to get to know you or something. And take it step by step dont just jump into thingz!
-Stephanie
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ok well i know that i should just leave him alone but let me tell u the story first..well me and this guy named Jared dated and he told me he loved me but we broke up because there was a misunderstanding and now he had been with this girl for three months and i now see that i am in love with him and he wants me to stay out of there relationship!!!What do i do?!?!?!?
Yeah dont think he doesnt want u cuz he might end up really liken u give it som time to ask!
-Stephie
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does anyone know how to make the salsa dip not as spicy cause we bought extra spicy on accident and its wayy to hott!! do you think its ok to put sugar in it? ok well i hope someone knows how cause my mouth is on fire!!!!!
Eat Bread after and drink milk...
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well out of all my friends i am the only virgin. they all tell me I should lose but I am not confortible with my body and hate people seeing it i mean I am skinny but its like skin and bones. and I don't know if I am ready. I am only 15 I want to find the right guy firts but I do want to lose it everyone talks about it and i have nothing to talk about I get teased and all the stuff should i lose it and get it over with or wait tell I find Mr right please help
Signed,
VIrgin GIrl
I have the same exact problem I mean everyon is soo into doing it..And im like the sweet inncocent one..lol..and actually I have thought about it its like I want to but then again I mean I dont want any of the consequences because my friend actually her and her boyfriend decided to and the condom broke..and she ended up pregnent and he neva told her! But just stay virgin best bet until u know u know fo sho thats the one because ur only a virgin once there is no going back! specially not wit mistakes because mistales are very easy to do!
-Stephanie
x0x Hun!
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where is a good place to publish ur poertry?
I actually write poetry and posted mine on Poetry.com they are the best all you have to do is sign up!
Best Wishes
-STePHaNIe
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