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Q: My sweet 16 (which also happens 2 b my Golden birthday) is coming up soon! I really wanna have an awesome party this year 4 my bday, except I don't exactly have a cool house 2 party at. Could any1 give me any ideas that I could (hopefully) do @ home? (I'm also willing 2 take ideas that wouldn't b @ my house.)

Thx!
Invite your friends to go out to eat, have a limo pick you up at your house and go to a nice reastraunt and yea..then you guys could go back to your house for cake presents and hanging out

Q: hey! well me and my friend are wondering if collared shirts are in style. Alot of our friends dress a little less conservative then we do, and they think that collared shirts are preppy. Even if u unbutton them and wear them with cute low rise jeans, is that still too preppy? or should we try a differnt outfit?. thanx
it doesnt matter whats in-style or if its a preppy thing..if u guys like it, wear it!

Q: my best friend always talks to my mom on the comp it drives me so insane! bcuz i dont want my mom knoing about EVERY single fricken thing thats going on in my life i tryed telling her to stop but it doesnt work and i told my mom 2 stop and she wont wut the hell should i do? im miserable Answer ASAP
talk to your friend, maybe she can still talk to your mom but just tell your friend not to say anything about some stuff..

Q: I keep my computer on pretty much 24 hours a day. It doesn't really seem to be a problem. But earlier today I went to check my computer and it had a blue tint over everything. It has done this before, but last time I just refreshed the desktop, and it went back to normal. This time, I've tried refreshing it and restarting it and it doesn't seem to want to go back to normal. I don't know what I did to make it go blue, and it's a very pretty blue, but I would like to have my normal screen back.

Does anyone have any idea what could be going on?
it just changed the color of your desktop, so just change it back to what u want..and also u should try and turn it off and leave it off for a few days..give it time to rest lol

Q: ok. I'm 16 and on winter break I met this guy who seemed pretty nice and everything and were both christians. The only thing is that He's 4 years older than I am. My parents were pretty skeptical the first time we went out. My mom made my brother go with us and the guy didn't seem to care that much. I call him occasionally and he keeps wanting to go out, but I dunno how to deal with this because I like him as a friend and he's made it pretty clear that he likes me more than that and he thinks that I'm just scared of rushing into something that I might regret later on, which I am. Please help.
Hey well go u on being a christian haha anyway, if you dont really like him more than a friend just tell him to wait until you start liking him more..And hes a 20 year old christian? why would a 20 yr old christian wanna date a 16 year old? who knows! just be friends for now and when ur ready to take the relationship to the next level, tell him..i hope i helped! and pray about it!

Q: hey im 13 and all of my friends either hate me or lie to me or sumthin i have a million guy friends but all my friends that are gurls are mean whats wrong with me? and my friends?
Nothings wrong with you. Its your friends who have problems. Ther not really your friends if they hate you or lie to you. Just find new gurlfriends :-D

Q: my bestfriends mom is kinda phyco and when i went to my friends house her mom lik yelled at me and i told ma parents and now i cant go to her house n e more....what do i do????
Hang out with your friend somewhere else. Your friend can hang out at your house...theres nothing much you can do except hang out with her other places..

Q: Hey guys =) I was just wondering if any of you know any sites I can put pictures on, that's free.. anything besides, picturetrail and photobucket. Thanks so much!
www.freewebs.com its a free site, and a free photo album and u can just upload images

Q: iv been rated like 46 times and it only says 37 and yesterday it said 38 whats up with that?
Hmm mines like that too ive been rated more than 5 times. But maybe you should wait a few days and see if it changes..

Q: how do you put up a picture in your profile cuz all my pics are to big:(
Find a picture that isint too big. And if you can try to get the image alone on a site and just copy the url and go to profile settings and paste it to "url picture of u"

Q: ok im 13 and i havnt gotten my period yet... lately i have been really emotional like the other day i was at my friends and i called my mom to see when she was gonna pick me up and i just like broke down crying... and like my friend said how i curse alot and like idk why but i felt like i was gonna cry... is this a sign that im going ot get my period? and what are some other signs that im goin to get my period soon... thanx alot... i will rate!

Hey we are all amotinal thats just how girls are and no thats not a sign of getting ur period. if ur boobs start hurting or u have cramps those r signs..

Q: i was wondering if anyone knows if u can have multiple songs for an xanga site like more then one song please help thanks and if u can please tell me how
Nope you can only have one which really sucks..sorry!

Q: whats a really good way of telling when your going to get your period
you have cramps, or you can just feel something and u have to check just incase..ur boobs hurt too

Q: if you make-out with someone you like, but you arent dating them, does that make you a slut??
I dont think it does, a slut to me is if u sleep around with every guy u see...

Q: Hey, you wrote to me about eating all meat to lose 10 pounds in a week. Can you please explain it more to me? I'm veryyy interested, so could you explain lyk, wut meats to eat and all that? Thanks soo much!

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Sure! I forgot to add drink water only(crystal light is good too)! ok well for my breakfest id eat like eggs...and for lunch id eat 2 burgers with lettuce rapped around it instead of bread. For dinner maybe some turkey or ham slices.. if you look at the nutritional facts meat has a lot of protien and not a lot of carbs. Watch out for carbs, they are your enemys on this diet! Also if your bored with the same meals everyday try a salad with chicken. And, if your ever eating out at a fast food place ask for a protien burger. Its just the burger without the bread. You can eat all kinds of meat. Dont eat after 6:00 pm and if your hungry and you already ate your 3 meals just drink water or crystal light. i hope I helped. Any more questions? Ask!

Q: I was thinking about doing something involving computers in my life. Does anybody know any good online websites I can go to to read about this or any websites that offer online computer classes?
I dont but try a google search, under uh "Computer Careers" I guess haha hope i helped a lil !

Q: Does anyone have any ideas on how i can lose 10 pounds? I don't have a gym membership, so I'll need ways to exercise at home and lose the weight. Thanks!!
I lost 10 lbs by doing this. Its a high-protien diet. No pasta, bread, potatoes, or rice. No chips, soda (or pop), junk food...all u eat is meat and eat lots of it. and dont eat after 6 pm...do this for about a week and you'll lose up to 10 lbs! :-D

Q: i fucked my babysitter and got her pregnant. She's claiming it mine, but im not really sure. What do you think i should do. Im 13 and shes 17, so what should i do?
Well ask if she has been with anyone else. And if she has I guess u guys can take a dna test to see whos the father. I guess u can do those tests at the doctors or something. or u can go to the show muary when the topic is "i know u my baby daddy" cuz i love watchin those shows! haha

Q: OK i met this boi n the problem is hes 19 n im 14 n we really really like each other but we have a problem its my parents n he goes well babe listen i no your parents dont like the fact that where talkin but we really like each other will u date me n i said i dunno..should i cause u n ohe might be the right 1
Sorry to break it to you but ask yourself. What does a 19 year old want with a 14 year old? Maybe summm lovin if u know what i mean. i dont think u should do it cuz u'll get hurt!

Q: hey, I just lost my virginity like, 12 hours ago, and I was wondering if it was normal to be swollen down there Because i was really sore so i stuck one of my fingers in there and it was really swollen. Is that normal?
Ummm I havent had sex so i wouldent know. Since it was your first time i guess its normal. If the swelling doesnt go down in a week or 2 i guess u should see a doctor.

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