Q: My sister always likes going swimming with me and my dad. I find it fun too! But the thing is she's been planning it since last Sunday for her me and my dad to go Swimming today. But when I went to the bathroom this morning, I found out that I have my period. So I told my mom that I couldn't go swimming. But then when we were driving home from Church today, my sister brought up the subject, and my mom said that I couldn't go. She kept on asking and asking why I couldn't go and we told her because I can't. So now she's really mad at me. She's only 9 and doesn't know about periods and stuff so she's really mad at me. I feel really bad. I wish she was a little older so that she could know. So now I feel really guilty. What should I do?

Q: Ok, i really ReAlLy like this boy named Naz. This whole year, i worked hard at getting to know him, and it finally worked! So now i'm really really good friends wit him, and i tell him everything, like he tells me. My parents dont really care about me liking him, as long as i dont do anything. But then one night wen i wuz talkin to Naz, he found out that i was a virgen still, and he said, "i guess whoever u give it up to, u really luv them." Then he asked me if i wud sleep wit him. I sed i dont know. (And i know he's not usin me becuz for one thing, i'm really close wit him, and also becuz he knows i liked him this WhOlE year, so if he wanted to use me, he cud've tried to a long time ago. And i DiD kiss him before.) So anyway, i really want to, becuz i luv him. And i KnOw this is luv becuz....well i jus know. Everyone who's been in luv knows. So i want to sleep wit him, but then my brotha Miguelle cums into the picture. He says if i do that, i'm a slut and a hoe and that i shud be ashammed of myself. He made me feel really bad. But it's My lIFe, isnt it? I wanna listen to him cuz he's my brotha, but he jus has no idea how much i luv this dude. He doesnt understand, cuz he's neva been in luv before. But wat shud i do? (sorry its so long! I ReAllY need help on this, pleaz dont delete it! Thanx!)

Q: Does neone know where to get some surveys on the internet? and dont give me quizilla.com cuz i dont really like that website.. soo if neone could give me sum ill rate you a 5 for answering! thanks!

Q: i want to loose weight i know i need to and i want a boyfriend and ive never had one!!! ive tryed to do stuff to loose weight and ill be going strong and then ill like lash out and go food crazy!! but i weigh 235 and im only 16 and im 5'6 & 1/4 please help me i want a boyfriend soo bad i have lots of guyfriends but never a boyfriend!

Q: When I get my period, the first 3 days are very heavy. I wear pads on those days and then tampons the rest. I'm going down the shore on the days when it's heavy and I'm not sure what to do. I'm going to be swimming and everything, but do you think a 'super' tampon would be good enough? It's really heavy and I'm scared even the super tampons won't be enough. What should I do?

Q: I've had a friend for 6 years now, and we've met these two other girls. She's been REALLY mean to me because she's less popular than me and wants them to hate me or something. I know if I talk to her she'll pretend she doesn't know what I'm talking about. And to top it all off, our moms are best friends!
-Friend or Foe?

Q: ok i wrote this like b4 but i was wondering..

see i have a bf namd chris.. who i love with everything i can love someone with.. ive been with him for 9 months (i knew him for 3 years prior to that) and im still CRAZY about him. I want to be with him forever. I love him so much. and im 15. i would die for him and theres like 3 other ppl i can say that about. i lost my virginity to him bc i wanted to always remember him no matter where in life we went. i think about marring him and having his kids. (not now of course!) and like when i think of him ever moving away i cry! like it upsets me that much! or like if something bad would ever happen to him like say he dies.. i cry! i mean i hear ppl on here talk about love.. but i kno im in love. and with the things with my mom and how she doesnt want me to be with him cause he is black (im white) well it just makes me want to stay with him more and it makes me fall more in love with him! its like i dont care what ANYONE has to say about me and him.. i love him and i cant help it. i would do anything for him! and for me to be 15 and think like this.. well when i told my cousin about it she thought i was dumb and that i shouldnt be tied down like that. but i tried to tell her i dont want to be with no one else besides him! i want to be with him forever. and dont think im some 15 yr old girl thats talkin outta her a$$ here.. i never said this about no one and probally wont for a long long loooooong time. but im dead serious. is it ok for me to feel this way? i just want ur opinions. its not like gonna change the way i feel for him if u guys say no its not normal. but i just want to hear from you all.

thanks a bunch
Manda

Q: There is a girl at school who I like its just that I think she has headlice and I want to hang out with her but I dont want headlice. Shes funny and kool I talk to her on the internet all the time its just that I dont want to get headlice. A little help here!

Q: what are some signes that you are stalking people??? seriously i need to know..

Q: Hi. Please answer. Right now my mom is going through divorce with my father. They were married 18 years and he can't find a job. My mom is paying him 1300 a month becuase he can't get a job. 'temporary living confindments' (she kept the house) is what its caused. This is making us have money problems. She travels for her job as well and I'm entering Highschool(Shes stressed) One day I was going to put something in my mom's glove compartement and I found a box of cigarettes. My grandparents were visiting and I told my grandma and so I confronted my mom. She promised not to smoke again. I took her cigarettes (we were together) and threw them out. Today I found a box of cigarettes in her glove compartement again. What should I DO?

Q: Alright, I just went to a friend's b-day party and there was ONE guy there.. To me, he's soo hott, and one of the girls there dated him.. And she agrees with me.. But, he says he's gay.. I don't want to believe it, cuz I really think I'm starting to like him.. Wat should I do? He knows I like him, but I can't stop him from being gay, atleast, I don't think so... If u have any advice, I'd appreciate it :-)

Q: to start off with, i'm sorry this is so long

Alright, i fell in love with this guy who it would never work out with (like really really never work out no matter how hard we tried if we wanted to). He never said he loved me or anything, and he never came onto me, and i'm not angry about it or anything like that. i miss him infact. I told my few very trusted friends about my feelings (they got kinda creeped out) and my mom said i would just move on and i'd feel this way about some one else some day (but i know i won't). I don't want to move on. How do i tell my friends and family that? I understand that they're just worried about me and stuff like that. i know that they just want me to feel better again, but i know that with out him in my life, i'm never going to feel like this again. i don't want to get over him. he makes me so happy even when i'm not near him. i love him too much, but i'm afraid of what my friends and family would say to that. i need mental help, but advice would by nice too.

Q: OK theres this girl i really like. We used to go to elemetry school together but for high school we went to different schools. I just saw her again at the fair, but i didnt get to talk to her. How do i find a way to talk to her, and when i do how do i approach her so its not to look like i'm a stalker?

Q: Alright. I just moved to Tucson from New York. Well, I got a really scary call from one of my friends in New York today. These really ghetto gangster chicks that we used to hang out with have turned against us and they know I'm coming back this winter and they're planning on beating the fuck out of all of us. They always show up at Ericas and Brittanys houses and threaten them and shit and tell them they can't wait until I can back so they can see all of us dead. I'm really scared because I know what they can do.

Q: yesterday i told *him* i liked him. after i was finished talking, *he* said "cool." then nothing happened, and i had to go to the bus. ok, yeah, so my question to you is...how, on monday, can i bring this up again with him without sounding awkward/pathetic/desperate. he's my friend, i have lunch with him, and he rides my bus, if that helps.

Q: im a 14 year old girl and my good friend hates my boy friend but i really like him and im afraid to tell her we are going out because then she might not talk to me anymore. what should i do?

Q: okay I started to like this guy at the end of the school year. I call him occasionally. I found out from a friend that he likes me too. He totally bugs me though when he says he call me back and never does , so I end up calling him and he says sorry because he realizes this and I just tell him that its nothing becausei do like him so much and whenever I don't talk to him I go crazy. I did find out that he was a christian later on and he knows that I'm a christian, but he doesn't go to church much and my friend is encourging me to go out with him, but I don't know if I really want to because I don't think that he a strong enough christian. I guess he could start going but I'd want him to go for the right reason and not just for me wanting him to go

Q: well im going into 7th grade its time for junior high...im having trouble with my love life...i kno im a little young for love but its really hard for me to find the "right" one...and every guy i go out with...everyone always talks about me? what should i do?

Q: is wearin a thong slutty? like the purpose is so you dont have pantylines but sumtimes liek if usmones thong shows people think she's a slut. i was just wondering what evryone else htought

Q: Hi..Im a 7th grader..and I realli like this guy named justin but the ? is duz he like me?? My other friend chris..I want help from but ppl tell me he likes me too.. both of the guy's are 8th graders but i realli like justin..I heard justin said i was cute but iono. Was it a lie..and wat im scaerd about is that chris wont talk to him for me so Justin and I can't talk cuz he will get mad that i like justin. I really want chris to talk to him but im scared chris wont b my friend noe more or wont be happy for me i like chris alot as a friend. But not a click..I LOVE JUSTIN..!!! Please help me!

*Kristi*

bio

Info