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Q: I really like this guy but i think he might only be looking for a hookup..(because he likes someone else too and whenever their around he hangs out with them) im for sure he really does like me so how can i show him that im serious about this and i dont just want to mess around??
Also my friend has band practice with him and she was going to be like "yea she decided that if your not gonna ask her out soon shes just gonna not bother messing around with you anymore" im not sure if this is such a great idea what do u guys think??
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i think you should talk to him about it. when you two are alone, ask him if he`s in it for something serious. tell him that if he isn`t, you ARE looking for something serious and you don`t want to waste your time messing around with someone that you aren`t gonna get anywhere with.
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Q: Please help I get terrible cramps and I hate taking pills so what do I do?????
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well, for cramps, i`ve found that banana`s help. you can try hot water mixed with brown sugar as well. it doesn`t work very well for me, but others have said it works well. other than that, i don`t think anything else helps with cramps, you might just have to take pills.
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Q: Hello, I'm a guy, nearly 17 and my hair is past my chin :)
The problem is it takes hours to dry! I'm told it is thick hair, and fairly straight, slightly wavy.
I would like to wash my hair every morning before going college but it's impossible..
My method of washing/drying is:
Shampoo -wash in
Condition - ends only
After shower:
Twist hair to get most of the water out, go mad with the towel, comb it through and get a true parting. I then put it in a pony tail and let it dry that way..
Whilst on the subject, I also lose alot of my hair from combing and washing in the shower, which annoys my parents :P
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don`t put it in a pony tail, it dries muchhh slower that way. either leave it down&let it air dry, or blow dry it.
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Q: How long after you eat can you excercise? And how long do you wait after you finished eating to excerxise? Because I eat after I excercise and my stomache hurts. And I excercise 30mins after I eat and get a stomache ache
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well, you really should wait two hours for the food to digest, but that all depends on how much you eat and how fast you digest. usually, after a normal meal, you should wait two hours though.
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Q: so im 16/f 5'7 and about 120 lbs give or take. i realize im thin but my legs especially my thighs and my butt are soo flabby and jiggly and i hate it. i dont want to do cardio bc 1- im lazy haha and 2- i dont want to lose a lot of weight, soo i was just planning on doing lunges and leg lifts and stuff along with crunches and what not. but i heard you cant lose weight without doing cardio so what do i do? i only wanna lose maybe 3-5 pounds.. oh and theres basically no muscle in my legs or butt so yeah.
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if you`re up to it, try running. running helps a lot. also, i`ve heard that horse back riding really tones the thighs, so if that`s an option for you, try that.
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Q: so im pretty fair skinned i guess and im blonde with blue eyes.. i love the smokey eye look but whenever i try to do it i always end up looking really scary.. but i see alot of fair skinned blonde people [especially preppier people] that wear very dark eye make up and it looks amazing. how can i achieve this?
ex:: kinda like hers:: http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=27198263&albumID=0&imageID=8452886
thankz
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just put mascara and eyeliner. don`t put the eyeliner on too thick, or you WILL look scary. on the bottom, i find it easier to use pencil, but on the top, it`s probably easier to use liquid eyeliner because it comes out thinner. keep practicing if you mess up at first. if you just can`t get the look you want, it might not be for you, or maybe you just think it looks scary because you`re not used to it. ask a friends opinion.
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Q: so basically this is wut happened gonna be breif.I had to be freinds with some girl because people felt bad for her and made me. Then she starts to lie and act weird and basically cause alot of problems in my relationship with a girl that i love, so i stop talking to her. After that she started spreading some lies about how we talked forever and did stuff, honestly i wuz never realy freinds with her but she liked me and all and i guess shes crazy. lastly after everything cleared itself up shes still going back at it and spreading lies...honestly i dunno what to do because i no the girl i love is losing trust in me and its just really annoying to be accused for somehting and especially by someone u love for something u never did...please i need advice on this problem
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you need to confront her. to her face. tell her to stop. explain to the girl that you love that you love her too much to ever even think about trying to hurt her. if it`s meant to be, she`ll trust you and everything will be okay.
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Q: 14/f
mmk, so i switched schools, and theres this one kid, that i was like the best of friends with for like 3 years. & i'm a girl & hes a boy, & to me thats kinda a long time to keep a friendship with a guy. so anyways, i dated him like in the beginning when i was friends with him. & then he broke up with me, which i was so heart broken. but then like he ended up coming running back to mee. so obviously, i started talking to him again, & it was super. & like it was kinda obvious we liked eachother & stuff... but i didnt want a boyfriend at the time, because the previous boyfriend i had, before him, cheated on me. so anyways, it was all just great, intill he told me he really really liked me. i didnt know what to say. i kinda thought he was kidding, & thats what my idiot friend said to that he was just joking. so i was like ohh yeah i like you too. & i like put a little winkie smiley. & then so he ended up thinking we were going out. & then one of my backstabber friends, said i didnt lke him like that. so he just blocked me? & stopped talking to him. so i sent him like a milllionn apology IMs. on my other screename.
so, now, im at his school, hes in my lunch period, i pass him in the hallways, like the whole day, & hes even in one of my classes. he hasn't talked to me yet. & i miss him alottt.
but, i dont even know what id say to him? if i talked to him first. but i dont think i want to talk to him first. i mean he always will like look at me. like sneak looks. like illl seem him looking at me & he'll look down. but then this one time, our eyes met, & like.. we looked at eachother for like idno. one of those long stares, yano what i mean.. anyways..
what should i do?
think he'll come around?
should i talk to him?
or no?
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i think you should talk to him. just be like. heyy.. we haven`t talked in a while, and i think it`s due to miscommunication.. my friend lied to you, and i really do like you, and i`m sorry if you were hurt, but i never meant for you to be hurt. you know, somthing like that.
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Q: i went out with this guy and 1st i liked him then i didnt and it kept going on and off and then i broke up with him. so heres my problem i still feel like i kinda like him like when he signs on aim i jut want to talk to him!! and he still likes me so if i tell him i like him hell ask me out....but when i think about going out with him i feel like i dont like him anymore! but when were not going out i do!!! im really confused!
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well, i think you just like the idea of him. you probably just like the idea of having him as a boyfriend. if you don`t like him once you get with him, then you probably don`t really like him. if i were you, i would just be friends with him, to save him from the suffering of getting together, breaking up, and doing that over and over again, because if you keep getting back with him, that`s what`s gonna happen.
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Q: i remember seeing this movie, but i dont remember what it is. i remember a part when theres a girl sitting in a car and she puts a gun in her mouth and shoots herself and theres all blood and smokes comin' out of her mouth. ya it was gross lolol, but what movie was it i cant rememberr
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i`m pretty sure you`re talking about the Texas Chainsaw Massacre,
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Q: okay well my science teacher absolutely hates me and i have no idea why. she picks on me in front of my whole class and is always like well unless you get a's in my class you shouldn't be talking. she gives me 0's on homework just cause i missed half of a question. whenever she says shit to me i usually take my phone out and text my mom. but she only picks on me. i work my ass off in that class. like no joke. i answer all the questions and i pay attention. she e-mails my mom and says i don't do anything and i talk all class. im so sick of it i swear. i went to the counselor with my friend and he said to talk to her. well we didnt want to because shes a bitch. sorry but she is. my mom called he conselor and she said he was going to talk to her but i think shell b even more of a bitch. she always yells at me and everything. i got my grade of 27 points but she doesnt think i try. well whatever what should i do
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talk to your counselor about switching out of that class. ask for a different teacher. if your mom tells the counselor that she wants you to switch out, then they HAVE to switch you out.
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Q: Does any one else find fingering someone/ getting fingered totally repulsive??
I dont see the pleasure in having someone's finger shoved up your vagina.
I dont know if that is odd, like if getting fingered is like sex...everyone just likes it.
Thanks in advanced!
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well, people like it because it feels good.
maybe if you tried it, you wouldn`t find it so disgusting.
but i doubt you`re gonna do that. haha.
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Q: ok well this guy i used to go out with broke up with me a long time ago. well a few nights ago i told him i still liked him and he said he still likes me too. well on his buddy info he says that he is scared to ask me out and i am scared to ask him out. we have been talkin ever since we both found out we liked each other and we have a great time talkin to each other. we both really like each other but i am scared to ask him out. what should i do
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just ask him out ! life is all about taking chances.
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Q: i want to learn how to skateboard but i dont no how to get started im 15 and a female
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well, you can start by getting a skateboard. i know that you probably don`t want to spend a lot of money on a good skateboard, but if you buy a cheap one, you`re not gonna get anywhere, so don`t be a afraid to spend a little money. once you have it, ride it around, get your balance down, &get comfortable with it. then try to ollie. [search how-to websites to see how] and after you`ve gotten that down, you`ll probably figure it out from there.
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Q: for the past like 3 months or so the week after i get off my period i get sick.. it sucks majorly, so i was wondering does it lower your immune system or is it just a bunch of coincidences, and if it does, will birth control help it? because usually i only get sick once or twice a year and this sucks...
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having your period does lower your immune system. i don`t know if birth control helps, but it might, i suggest you ask your gynecologist.
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Q: 14/f. im a freshmen and there is a junior asking me to prom. his friend texted me saying that he was. he texted me and said "scott wants to ask you to prom." what should i say back? i want to go with him but i dont know what to say. im bad with words i guess. thanx!
ariella
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tell his friend "tell scott to ask me&i`ll give him an answer. (:" or something like that.
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Q: I don't understand why girls don't like the "sweet" or "nice" guys anymore..All my friends that are girls, like the "Bad boys" or the "Jocks". I like one of my friends, but she likes one of the "bad boy" guys...How can I get her to realize that I could probably be a better boyfriend than him...(14/M)
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well, girls tend to like "bad boys" because they are, i guess you could say, mysterious, rugged, hot, haha. you know. i tend to fall for those kinds of boys too. the thing is, though, those boys tend to break girls hearts. if they get together, help her with her boy problems throughout their relationship. if they don`t, he will probably break her heart, so just be there for her, make her feel better. she`ll probably end up liking you when she sees that you are a nice guy and realizes that nice guys are better.
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Q: okay so me and my boyfriend are playing these little games and we cant think of what to do when one of us wins. (truthfully, i think im gonna win) i dont want anything like he buys me something. i cant think of anything and he cant either. what are some ideas?
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well, you could do things for one another. such as when you go to the movies, if you win, you get to pick the movie. or you do each others chores. or, you could do some other things.. if you know what i`m talking about. ;)
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Q: Today i found out that my b/f was talking about me in english. My friend told me that her b/f(who is mi b/f's best friend), told her and to even ask one of my BEST FRIENDs about it, so i did. She aggreed with it. She said he really only talks about me when we are in a fight, but theyre mightve been some other times too. She sed she mightve over heard him telling his friend that I'm a bitch but shes not 100% sure.
He usually isnt the type to lie about something like that, but idk. Like recently other guys have been hitting on me nd he just laughs. And i noticed that he ALWAYS interrupts me when im talking to him. He doesnt pay as much attention as he used to do cuz he cant remember half the things i tell him...
he also sed tht one day the girl who told me bout his talkin called me a bitch (as a joke tho) and he laughed. I do believe that the girl would say that, but not seriously.
Should i just let it go this time?
Please help
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if i were you, i wouldn`t put up with it. ask him if he has been talking trash. ask him if he feels the same, and why he has been acting so different and not paying much attention to you. tell him that if he doesn`t feel the same, then you guys should take a break and see what happens, because it`s not fair to either of you to be in a relationship if one of you doens`t have feelings for the other.
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Q: my family puts so much pressure on me to do "good". straight a's in school, scholarships for college, healthy friendships. my parents pretty much contol my life.
but the thing that bothers me most is that they treat me and my brother so different. im 16 and hes 18. i know that there is an age difference. but when he ran away at christmas and didnt come back for a week, they now treat him like "the perfect child" if you will. they dont yell at him about his shitty grades. they dont yell at him for skipping work and going to his girlfriends house while her parents are away.
but when i run away in a store, they ground me for a month. wtf is up with that? they threaten all the time to forcefully make me quit the tennis team and make me pay them the 200 dollars back (which i dont have).
everything has been going wrong and i cant stand it. its not just family. its friends, boyfriend, school, tennis. its everything. and i cant stand it. my dads a pastor and a cop. and i just want to give up and end everything. i used to cut. i dont anymore. made my best friend a promise that i wouldnt. and i intend to keep that promise. i have noone to turn to except for a 22 year old who ive grown up with and my parents dont trust. they wont let me talk to him cause they think im having sex with him. hes married and has a kid. im ready to give up. ready to end everything. its hard to hold on when i have nothing to hold on for.
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i know how you feel. i feel the same way sometimes, but my parents aren`t THAT bad. they`re probably doing this because now that yout brother fucked up, they want atleast one perfect child so that they can feel like they did something right, that they raised atleast one child well. anyways. you should talk to them. tell them how you feel. explain to them that if they don`t give you a little freedom now, you`re going to go crazy once you leave and get complete freedom. either that, or get a job, save up, and move out the day you turn 18. once you`re 18, your parents can`t tell you shit. other than that, i don`t know what to tell you. just don`t give up. never give up. don`t give in to your parents either, that`s what they want.
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Gender: Female Member Since: January 23, 2007 Answers: 334 Last Update: December 23, 2010 Visitors: 16125
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