Hey everybody, the name is....none of your business, but I can advise well enough..or so I'm told. I've been around the block a few times and then some, so ask away and I'll do my best to answer. The word in the picture above is "Veritas" which is latin for truth, and I'm her to give it, so get at me. It never hurts to help.
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Age: 17
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Member Since: January 22, 2007
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What is the difference between Democratic and Republican? Also what is the difference between Liberal and whatever else? Thank you. (link)
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Democrats usually tend to be more liberal in that they support things like abortion (killing unborn babies), gay marriage, giving stupid whores (especially minorites) who screw around and have a thousand kids free money as if they deserve it (welfare), higher interest rates, higher takes; they are against war and they support all kinds of public works (social services and what not)
Republicans tend to be more conservative in that they are against all the above and believe that people deserve what they earn, therefore they support lower taxes. They are for a weaker central government and privatization of social security. They are for defensive spending. Republicans tend to be more traditional and dare I say, more morally and ethically stable?
Of course my answer reflects bias, but when it comes down to it, I pretty much hit the nail on the head. Agree or disagree, think for yourself. Don't be an idiot conformist who believes everything you hear, research things for yourself (not by watching CNN-the Communist News Network, or BBC-the Bullshit Broadcasting Center) actually research for yourself, you might be surprised to find that 99% of the population, Democrat or Republican are WRONG.
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All right, my friend and her boyfriend (they're both 16) have been going out for about 8 months now, and neither I nor my friends have seen much of her at all. Honestly, we get to talk to her for more than 5 minutes about once every couple weeks, and it's really getting us all down. We've tried talking to her, but it's practically impossible because she gets defensive and then drags us into an argument, instead of talking and understanding. I understand that now she's got a boyfriend who she cares about we're not going to see as much of her, but it's been taken to an extreme.
I just really don't know what to do about it. I'm really close to her, and it's getting me and my friends down. We don't want to lose her, but it's frustrating that she's dropped us for a boy. (link)
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This is a pretty common occurence. When teens first start dating, they border on obsession. If it's been 8 whole months it will most likely wear down sometime soon and she will start spending more time with friends and what not. You can also start inviting her AND her boyfriend to go do different things like go to amusement parks and movies and what not. Good luck
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Are brown eyes even pretty anymore?
It just seems like all these beautiful people have blue or green eyes.
And all the people with light colored eyes are noticed more.
My eyes are very dark brown.
I want to make them look pretty.. :\ (link)
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I have very dark brown eyes too :) someone once told me they were so dark they looked back and she never stopped staring at me. People notice brighter eyes because that's what they are...bright. In my opinion, bright eyes are pretty, but dark eyes are gorgeous, as I'm sure yours are.
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you know how sometimes people look better on some days than others?
Why is that?
Like ill have a day where I look prettier than another day
and i used to think it was the clothes but then i would wear the clothes again
and it wouldnt look the same.
Same goes for guys,
why is this? (link)
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I know exactly what you're talking about and I believe that there are a number of different factors that affect your looks on any given day. However, if I had to designate one single thing, I would definitely have to say it's the hair. The way your hair happens to be on any given day, almost changes the shape of your face because of the way it falls. Try looking in the mirror and arranging your hair in different way and see what happens
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I lost my virginity to one of my guy friends on jan.7th. We were fine and talked a couple times a week up till yesterday. He sent me a text message yesterday and was telling me how he liked one of our friends and wanted my input on what he should do. I obviously told him that i wouldnt tell him what i thought because i care alot about him and dont want to see them together.
He told me that i knew that i was just a one time thing and i need to get over it. i got really upset and started flipping out on him. He said i was just a booty call and i should of kept my legs closed and quit throwing myself on him.
(he is the one that Asked me out that night, hes the one that wanted to have sex with me)
Im really upset and i cant handle this anymore. Its the second time in three months that he has used me.
Im begging you guys to help me out here.
18/f (link)
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Honestly, you should NOT be friends with someone like that. It's very sad that you lost your virginity to a womanizing manwhore, but hopefully you learned your lesson. Sex is the most intimate thing you can do with someone else, so I highly recommend that you have an intimate relationship with whoever you choose to do it with, namely someone you are in love with. Every girl deserves to be treated like a princess by her man, not like a piece of trash. Basically that guy's an asshole and doesn't deserve your attention so don't give it to him. And honestly 90 percent of guys out there are assholes, so be careful about who you get close to. Hope this helps. Good luck!
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17/M and wandering "What is the average length of the penis?" I've read many different things on the internet but I'm still not sure. So if I could get a few opinions then that would be awesome. Thank you very much for your time. (link)
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Haha the girl that answered before me said 5-7...that's two whole inches and a huge range as far as penis size goes and therefore cannot be an average by any stretch of the imagination. The truth is putting an average size on something like that is a little hard (no pun intended). But as far as things go it's probably safe to say 5.5 to 6.5 inches is average, but if you're under this it's not a huge deal. I mean sure there are little girls who don't know what they're talking about that say size is everything, but older more experienced women I've talked to claim "It's not the meat, it's the motion."
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ok so people are alyways talking about first base second base third base and home i know what home is but what are the other three? (link)
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Well different people say different things but first base is generally making out. Second is fingering her / beating him. Third is blowing him / eating her. And I'm not sure if you know what all the terminology i used means, but if you don't you're not old enough to hit any base, so don't worry about it :)
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a lot of people here talk about phone sex/ telling a guy sexual stuff on the phone/ telling him you are masturbating or we to get him turned on. is that slutty? what if you really like him but have only known him for a little while? and do you think guys tell each other about stuff like that? or what if he stopped liking the girl..would he tell people she did it (link)
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Well first of all if you haven't known him for that long and you start doing stuff like that, yes most people would call that slutty. If he's your boyfriend that's a different story. As far as him telling other people, that might even happen whether he stops liking you or not because most guys like to brag about their sexual experiences...even though phone sex isn't much to brag about, you never know.
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me and my gf had sex were both under age the condom fell of so i stopped i didnt ejagulate its three days after and she's complaining of severe stomach pains could she be pregnant?? (link)
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Well technically it is possible that she is due to pre-ejaculation, however it's highly unlikely...now you said the condom fell off...does that mean inside her and if so did you get it out....i feel kind of stupid asking that and i hope you did...if you have been sexually active with other girls carelessly then you could have contracted an STD and passed it on to your girlfriend. If the stomach pains continue have her tell her parents to take her to the doctor (she can just tell them she has bad stomach aches) honestly though you don't feel the effects of pregnancy three days in, so she probably has food poisoning or something. I wouldn't worry too much, but be smarter next time.
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is it normal for your stomache to still be hurting the day after you drank alcohol? (link)
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Yes that is normal. It all depends on how much alcohol you drank, how big you are, and how much food you eat (food absorbs it but doesn't rid you of it). Alcohol by nature irritates your stomach, so aches and even vomitting are normal. The only way to get over it is to give it time. I actually know someone who threw up three days after drinking on New Years. Anyway as long as you're not vomitting excessively, have trouble breathing, or irregularities in your heart beat, you should be fine. Drink lots of water to make sure you're hydrated. If you do experience anything i mentioned above, you probably have alcohol poisoning and should see a doctor.
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if a girl and a boy both wear a condom, doesnt that make it way likely yuo cant get pregnant? or can you not wear both (link)
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First of all, the other guy who answered the question doesn't know what he's talking about. Secondly girls don't wear condoms, the insert diaphragms, and yes using both is even more safe. If you use a diaphragm though, it is important to use spermicide which is effecive for about two hours, therefore the diaphragm should be inserted about two hours before you plan to have sex...God technicalities..i know...
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Im 15. in 9th grade. like ALLL of my friends have had sex.. its so weird im like the only one who hasnt. Im perfectly fine with it, im waiting for a serious long relationship where im in love to do it.. but all my friends keep getting hurt, been very close to gettin pregnant. Guys around here treat girls like shit.. there's sooo lil guys that wont use a girl... but anyways, all my best friends who are jus tlike me like wanted to wait a long time to have sex, are having sex in like one month with there sweet talkin boyfriend, there boyfriends are just sayin thing sthey wanna hear to make them think they're in love. I know its not my business, but i loveee my friends to death, and i look out for them. cause im older than all of them.. what can i do, they're too young and ruining their morals over these fake playin guyss.... (link)
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Well it's nice to see that there's one smart freshman still alive...I know exactly what you're talking about. The idiot freshmen coming in think they're the shit because upperclassmen hit on them...this is why there's a herpes epidemic going around the freshmen class at my school...but i digress. There's not a whole lot that you can do being that you're buddies are all grown up and "know everything" but you can talk to them and make them realize you care and tell them of how they could be easily ruining their lives. And furthermore, they don't get hit on because they're anything special, it happens because to older guys, new freshmen girls = easy ass
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My best guy friend who hangs out with me everyday has been blowing me off this past week. Usually he calls everynight and we hang out everyday. Now he's blowing me off. I duno what I did, nothing actually, he's just not talking to me or anything.
I don't know what to do he's the only one I can talk to that cares and I already talked to him about why he's blowing me off. He said he thought I was busy hanging with other ppl. Yeah, wtf, I've been hanging out with him everyday the past month, was I busy any of those times? Nope.
I just feel hurt & really confused. Should I do the same thing to him and just start ignoring him and losing contact and such? Or should I act like everything's okay? it's honestly killing me, I feel like I have no one to talk to and no one cares. Please, please help me. (link)
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Well, as most "best guy/girl friend" situations go, usually one, if not both people start having additional feelings. You have to take into account that it is possible that he has other feelings for you, and upon realizing that you don't share those feelings, he might decide that it's necessary to avoid you.
Another possibility is that you might not be in good standing with his other friends and they may be pressuring him to stop talking to you.
In either case, you should sit down and talk to him, ask him exactly what the problem is and go from there. Good Luck.
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