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No one cares.
My best guy friend who hangs out with me everyday has been blowing me off this past week. Usually he calls everynight and we hang out everyday. Now he's blowing me off. I duno what I did, nothing actually, he's just not talking to me or anything.
I don't know what to do he's the only one I can talk to that cares and I already talked to him about why he's blowing me off. He said he thought I was busy hanging with other ppl. Yeah, wtf, I've been hanging out with him everyday the past month, was I busy any of those times? Nope.
I just feel hurt & really confused. Should I do the same thing to him and just start ignoring him and losing contact and such? Or should I act like everything's okay? it's honestly killing me, I feel like I have no one to talk to and no one cares. Please, please help me.
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He probably just wants to hang out with other people. Nothing personal.
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Well, as most "best guy/girl friend" situations go, usually one, if not both people start having additional feelings. You have to take into account that it is possible that he has other feelings for you, and upon realizing that you don't share those feelings, he might decide that it's necessary to avoid you.
Another possibility is that you might not be in good standing with his other friends and they may be pressuring him to stop talking to you.
In either case, you should sit down and talk to him, ask him exactly what the problem is and go from there. Good Luck.
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If you aske him about it and he says it is nothing then accept that you have no other choice at least until he does something to really let you know that he is pissed off. Try to be the same person you were and not act out because of the situation it could be that he felt neglected if he said you were busy hanging out with other people. I f you know that is not the case than maybe he is just a spellish. I had a guy friend in high school i loved him to death but every now and then he would not be talkitive for about a week and he took theses phases almost every two months like he had pms or something but i just had to understand that that was his way and i accepted and respected that and each and every time his phases ended everything was as good as new. So basically just feel your friend out and try to give him some understanding and at least a little room to breathe. If you are a true friend to him everything should work out if not he was just one of those fake friends to begin with and you are better off without those.
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