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wen dragged in with all the lies wut do u do?
so basically this is wut happened gonna be breif.I had to be freinds with some girl because people felt bad for her and made me. Then she starts to lie and act weird and basically cause alot of problems in my relationship with a girl that i love, so i stop talking to her. After that she started spreading some lies about how we talked forever and did stuff, honestly i wuz never realy freinds with her but she liked me and all and i guess shes crazy. lastly after everything cleared itself up shes still going back at it and spreading lies...honestly i dunno what to do because i no the girl i love is losing trust in me and its just really annoying to be accused for somehting and especially by someone u love for something u never did...please i need advice on this problem
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Hey,
What yourtrustyhelpline said was good, but tyou also need to talk to your girlfriend. Tell her that this is driving you insane and that you are trying to fix it, and that you love her, and you dont want to lose her. You need to make sure shes filled in on whatys going on. Then talk to the gilr, like mentioned, and tell her that this is not funny, so she shouldnt be laughing. It's not a very nice thing for her to do, and you dont understand why she cnat be mature and let you live you life. Tell her that you deserve to not be included in this, and you dont know why shes doing it, but you want her to stop. Tell her that you work hard to keep up your relationship with your girlfriend, and what is she going to get out of the two of you breaking up because of it? Tell her she'll just feel guilty and that you wouldnt date her because she ruined your relationship, but if shes willing to stop, you'd be willing to still be her friend, but thats all you'll ever be, and theres no point in trying to ruin that. Tell her you dont think highly of liars and that no one does. IF she wants to change her ways you're there.
That should help, let me know if it doesnt, I've had to deal with this before.
Good luck, you'll need it, love ya,
Angie91
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you need to confront her. to her face. tell her to stop. explain to the girl that you love that you love her too much to ever even think about trying to hurt her. if it`s meant to be, she`ll trust you and everything will be okay.
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