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Fingering
Does any one else find fingering someone/ getting fingered totally repulsive??
I dont see the pleasure in having someone's finger shoved up your vagina.
I dont know if that is odd, like if getting fingered is like sex...everyone just likes it.
Thanks in advanced!
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It just doesn't seem normal, at first i was like
"You're not putting your figners anywhere,thank you."
But I was convinced and when he did it was actualy really quite enjoyable. It's like sex,without getting sperm anywhere near you (a plus if you're conscious about pregnancy.)
I'm not saying go rush out and get fingered, but I'm telling you to be open. (and not everyoen will like it,so if you do get fingered and the whole thing is ho-hum, either the guy doesn't know what he's doing or you just don't get off that way. Don't wory about it.)
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I would also have to agree with the second person that answered this, because when I was younger I thought it was nasty and gross because I had a boy friend that didnt exactly do it right. Then as I got older I had one that did it well and it made it much more plesurable. SO again then it goes back to if it is being done right. But I know some people who think it is totally gross, and also does not respect your self. So it is just a matter of opinions! Hope that helped!
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I agree with the second person who answered this. Don't think it's odd. Because I, too, happen to think that is bit repulsive :D
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It's not odd at all. Some people are comfortable with fingering and others are not. If it's something you aren't interested in or feel repulsed by that's okay. Fingering just isn't for you then. It's normal to like it or not want to do it etc. Your feelings towards it are perfectly fine and normal.
Also if a guy is shoving his finger up someone's vagina it's no wonder they would hate fingering. The guy is clearly doing it wrong in that case. Most people focus on clitoral stimulation as pleasure is taken from that. The key is communicating with whomever is doing this to you exactly what you want and get pleasure from.
All fingering really amounts to is masturbation being done on a female by a male partner. Some people do have vaginal pentetration when being fingered but that's not what happens in most cases. Those who do that must make sure the girl's vaginal area is lubricated as it will indeed hurt.
So, to reiterate your opinion of fingering is valid and not odd as there are a lot of females who feel the same way as you do. It's all about what you feel comfortable doing or having done to your body by someone else.
Perhaps, the information I just gave you might make you think differently or help you see your reaction is quite typical among girls your age. Not everyone is doing it, and not everyone likes the idea of it. Both are normal.
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well, people like it because it feels good.
maybe if you tried it, you wouldn`t find it so disgusting.
but i doubt you`re gonna do that. haha.
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