The name is Kayla.
I'm totally cool with giving anyone advice. It's what I love to do. So ask away.
Hm. I'm 16. Brownish - red hair .. green/blue eyes .. 5 ft.
I love life. I've experienced many things in it.
Live it to the fullest, but never regret .. you can never take back anything you've done.
E-mail: KaylaH1303@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Georgia
Occupation: School
Age: 16
Member Since: October 5, 2004
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Last Update: May 23, 2006
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me and my bf have this problem see he has watched porn on tv when he knows i dont like him doing that and it hurt me because it feels like im not good enough for him and a long time ago i gave an old bf a hand job i didnt want to but he kinda made he i didnt do it but for like a min at the most and when me and my bf now fool around he told me he cant help but think of what i did with my old bf i told him to forget about it just like how i forgot about what he watched he said he cant then asked me to help him to forget it what should i tell him to do to forget it. i keep telling him to just think that it never happened but im not sure if its working what else can i say to help him forget it ever happened. (link)
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just tell him instead of telling him to forget it that maybe it could happen in the future but what happened in the past happened in the past and you really didnt want to do it anyways and you want to forget it about it and tell him you like him a lot and you dont want it to ruin anything but you just dont want to. i hope i helped! -kayla
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i think my bf is always trying to make me jealous like he is always telling me about oh this girl at my work tried to give me her # and like last night we were talking about what we want to get pierced and all of a sudden he tells me this story about before we met this one girl got he belly botton pierced because she though he might like it and how she would tell him he would look really hot if he got stuff periced should i just make up something like he might be doing to get him jealous too or just leave it alone and make him see that it doesnt get to me maybe he will stop. (link)
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well dont make up anything that could get him annoyed like hes doing to you just act like it doesnt bother you adn if doesnt get the picture then next time he talks about another girl just be str8 up .. are you trying to make me jealous or something bc you talk about other girls constantly? then see what he says. hope i helped! -kayla
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Well, there's this guy I really like. His name is Brent I don't care if you all know. Lol. He's really fun to be around and sooo sweet! I love talkin to him or just being with him. He likes me too. I know this for a fact cause him and all of his friends tell me and he flirts like crazy. Well, he wants to see me some more then he's gonna ask me out according to his best friend. See, I really wanna go out with him but I'm afraid if I do I might not be everything he looks for in a girlfriend and it won't work out and we'll end up hating each other and I couldn't live with that cause I like him as a best friend as well as something more. I know I should just go for it and see what happens and that's probably what I'll do I just need to know, if we do start dating and end up breaking up....how can we keep our friendship the way it has always been? (link)
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well thats awesome that yall both like eachother. and sweetie if you didnt want to date you or didnt think you were everything he wanted in a gf then he wouldnt want to ask you out .. i mean girls think of those things too like if hes going to be a good bf and stuff like that and make sure before he asks you out or when he does that you want to make sure yall stay best friends and nothing will change and make him promise that to you so even if yall do break up in the future and yall are heart broken yall can still go to eachother and everything. i hope i helped! -kayla
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ok... i met this guy [we'll call him john] about a month ago, give or take. well we kissed and everything and he liked me and i liked him. but his ex came into the picture and hedecided tobe with her. he was mean to me becuz if he showed how he really felt, it would make him more confused. long story short, they broke up and me n him ended up together and thats how i found out y hewas so mean bc he todl me. ok well we broke up bc she came into the picture again. and now hes bein mean again. idk if he still lvoes me or not. and i dont kno if i should just give up n move on or stay around. ive tried gettin ova him but i see him in school everyday and its hard [him n his gf dont see eachother in school bc they live in different STATES] HELP PLEASE !!!!!
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holy crap why is he choosing a long distance relationship over something as close as you? well have you ever talked to him about his ex like asked him how long they dated and how much he liked her and stuff bc just maybe he still liked her when he liked you adn then when he found out she liked him too he just went crazy and picked her over you. but if you keep hanging in there and become on of his good friends and try not to get in fights then it will get better and eventually im sure hell like you over her. but for now he probably is just confused about who to pick and since he knows you live here then he probably thinks your here to stay and she isnt so he wants the other girl now and theres most likely things he likes in the both of yall. but like i said stick in there and see what happens from there. hope i helped! -kayla
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i started my period in 4th grade (in 8th now) and its still irregular and this last 2months its worse like it wont come for 2 - 3 months then when it does it only goes for 2 days...whats wrong with me its been more then 2yr's?!?! (link)
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whats been more than 2 yrs? well anyways some ppl have that problem and you need to be put on a birth control pill prescribed by your doctor unless they tell you something else. write me back and tell me whats been more than 2 yrs. hope i helped! -kayla
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my plant, gromie, just winked at me. it kidna scares me. i am really upset with his behaviors! what should i say to my naughty naughty venus fly trap? should i tell him to be a good boy, or just ignore the cute little guy? (link)
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i hope your joking bc no offense but plants dont wink they are just plants they cant do anything humans can do and they especially cant talk to you. how are they good anyways? they live their life the only way they know how and they dont do anything else. anyways thats kinda strange .. just leave it alone. -kayla
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(m/14)Ok, I'm going out with this girl, we've been going out for a little over a month now.. shes awesome, I like her a lot.. but unfortunately my parents don't. They really don't want me to have a girlfriend at all, especailly one like her they say. I mean she is a little wild sometimes, but I like that about her, but my parents don't. They want me to break up with her soon, and they're pressuring me to do it everyday. I want more of a long relationship with the girl.. but I don't want love. In my opinion, nothing good can come from love at this time in life. So do I stand up to my parents and tell them I won't break up with her?.. or take their advice and break up with her before this relationship turns into love? thanks (link)
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well i think you should stand up to them and tell them how you feel and that you dont want to break up with her and its not their decision. also with your whole love theory i dont think thats necissarily true i mean theres different kinds of love theres love of friends true love that youll love them for ever and just love you think you have for someone ... but when you do love someone .. a person you like .. it builds you up for greater challenges in life and helps you with them. i hope you change your mind about the whole love theory and good luck with your parents. i think if you really like her then date her its you dating her not them. hope i helped! -kayla
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Hi Im a 14 year old girl and the guy i like is in my cross country team and I just started it, and when we got to the end of practice we started doing some really hard sprinting drills, (i hadnt had anything to eat that day and it was right after school and i brought no water) and i was always at the end if everybody. and i was soooooo embarassed. and im wondering.... do you think he thinks of me like a girly girl or something? ive never felt so stupid.... (link)
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no im sure he doesnt just make sure that you eat next time yall have practice and bring a water bottle. that way you wont be behind everyone and just show him you are good. but obviously you arent bad if your on the team and your not a girlie girl if your last bc you chose to be on that team and its something you like to do and your good at. maybe you should talk to him sometime and when he forgets water one day then give him some of yours. : ) good luck! hope i helped! -kayla
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k i told one of my friends i liked this guy..lets call him Nate. Nate n i were friends but i wanted it more and we werent like best pals and like every day hed give me a hug and stuff so today the girl i told lets call her Taylor goes up to him and hugs him, she goes "u wanna go out" n gives me this awful look then later i find out theyre goin out but he doesnt like her he just said yes cuz shes easy so should i be mad at her, or what or what do i do to not feel so crummy and get the guy i like to b mine?
I RATE!! (link)
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oh my gosh yeah you should be mad! that sucks majorly! well i think you should walk over and give him a hug and ask him if yall can talk and tell him you do like him and you want to date him but hes dating that girl now and make it sound like hes missing out bc hes dating the girl that messed it all up for you. dont yell at her just act like it doesnt bother you and that will make her mad ... trust me! good luck with that! i hope i helped! -kayla
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My boyfriend is very experienced sexually. He's 16 and I'm 15. We've been going out for a while now but have broken up a couple times before. The most important thing is though, is that we love eachother to death. He wants to go farther than what I'm comfortable with right now. I've always been a good girl and haven't done anything really 'sexual' with a guy. He wants to finger me, which I know deep down I am not ready for. How do I tell him this without sounding like a scared little girl or sounding dumb? All my friends have done these things with guys, but I do not want to give into pressure like that. (link)
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well just tell him you arent ready for anything .. but ill tell you honestly ive done more with guys just bc i wanted to not bc of peer pressure and im still a good girl .. ppl still think of me as that bc its not like i go do that with every guy i want to do that with but you will eventually want to or want to just try it out and it will be ok until then just tell him you arent ready to do anything more yet and ask him for a little bit of time. but dont make him wait too long he might get annoyed. hope i helped! -kayla
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well i like this guy (lets say hes name is steven) well steven is in one of my classes. and we sit across the room from each other, like everyh time he looks over at me i look back and stevens friend told me that i need to go ask him out. but at my school all the guys are like lying all the time even to thier gf's but steven is really sweet.also my friend told me that she ask steven and he said that he likes me.and i was really glad.so my ? in what should i do should i go up to him and say like hi and get into a conversatrion with him or should i leave him alone and wiat till he asks me out.
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well it would be a lot easier for him to ask you out if he feels really confortable talking to you so whenever you have spare time in class then walk over to his desk and talk to him and maybe pass him a few notes. i think hell get the hint. i hope i helped! -kayla
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I've been suffering from clinical depression for a few years, and recently started having panic attacks and mild hallucinations. The hallucinations are morbid (pools of blood, reaching hands, ect.) but clearly recognizable as they're so out of place. I don't want to see a psychologist or take medication. Is there a way to make your mind stay away from depressing thoughts or just clear it if things start getting hazy/weird? (link)
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well to be honest if you were diagnosed with it then it means you will be suffering from it for the rest of your life. so my advice would be to get medication even though you dont want to .. but it will help get rid of all of that and thats really what you want out of this right? hope i helped! -kayla
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ok.. my parents are getting divorced and i'm moving into a house in town. i've lived in the house i'm in for 10 years... is it normal for me to be feeling like this isn't real?? i feel like it's just a bad dream.. even though i know it's gonna happen
how can i tell my friends what's happening??
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yeah it is normal bc what happening is reality and you dont want it to be ... you want everything to be the way it was before but it wont ever be like that again. divorce sucks adn it sucks that they are doing that to you but youll just have to deal ... my parents are divorced .. theyve been divorced since i was 3 so i really dont know anything else and im sure its really hard on you and it will suck but it will be ok in the end. i hope i helped! -kayla
ps. just ask your friends for support while this is going on and tell them how you feel about it .. i promise they will be there for you all the way and whenever you need it ... after all thats what friends are for right?
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this guy i (used to) like, he was always passing me notes saying he likes me and flirting with me and stuff, and the other day my friend called him and she asked if he likes me and he said no. im sooo mad at him!!!!!!! i need to get payback, and i need to do something about it, but what should i do????????? (link)
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write him some secret love notes adn put it in his books in his locker in his book bag .. anywhere that hell see and and put your secret admirer and do it for a few weeks it would be the funniest thing ever! have fun with that and i hope i helped! -kayla
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what do u look for in a girl like, what type of girl do guys think of as girl friend material? (link)
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well haha i just asked a guy this earlier so ill tell you what he said... he said that for all guys its different ... it could be how pretty they are, how easy they are, their personality, it could be love at first site lol but all guys think differently. i hope i helped! and dont change yourself for a guy always be who you are not what someone else wants bc someone else might just be right around the corner looking for the exact qualities you have. hope i helped! -kayla
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Hey everybody! My best friend Brooke's mom died last year of ALL (actute lymphoblastic lukemia) she died on October 17th which would be this Saturday. On is the year anniversary of her mom's death and i wanted to do something special for Brooke to show her i care... any suggestions on something i could get her or ne thing i could say? i would really appreciate it!! and i rate every1! (link)
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maybe you could get her flowers or something and be there for her to give her a really big hug and make a card and make sure it says ... "she will be loved" she will most likely really appreciate it .. i know a guy and his dad died 2 yrs ago of cancer and its still really hard for him to deal with it .. every time he thinks about it he breaks down and cries so just make sure your there for her. hope everything goes well and i hope i helped! -kayla
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there this boy in my school who i have the biggest crush. Sometimes i think he likes me too but i can never truly tell. I want to ask him out but i am sooo scared of being rejected! but i mean i will never know unless i ask...right!! give me advice!! please help! (link)
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just go ahead and ask him bc like you said "youll never know unles you ask" so even if he does reject you at least you know what his answer is and you wont have to worry about it anymore but hopefully he likes you back! GOOD LUCK! hope i helped! -kayla
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There is this boy at my school that i really like and he kinda shows that he may like me back but thats not all the time...and my friends also think that he is not very attractive and they continuously say that i have horriable taste...1 of my friends thatg say this boyfriend has a really big nose and is not all that fine himself...but i want tol ask him dol he like me but if he says no then ill look dumb...but what if he says yes...please help me...what shouold i do (link)
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well if your scared to ask him str8 up if he likes you or not then ask him if he likes anyone and if he says no one be like you dont like anyone in this class as more than a friend? and see what he says. and by the way dont date for looks personality is what really counts! hope i helped! -kayla
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okay, i have this guy best friend..weve been best friends for like 6 months now..he just gotta gf like 4 months ago,and be4 that he usta REALLY REALLY REALLY Like me more than friends..but then he stopped...recently it REALLY seems like he likes me again, even with his gf, its kinda freakin me out alil..like i really think that he thinks that i like him too..all tha poems i write and put in my aim profile about love i think he thinks is about him..all tha songs i put for my voicemail, i think he thinks are about him...and he has a GF. AND i dont even likke him at ALL like that hes like my brother!!! i have talked to him bout it like 2 months ago, and he REALLY hinted it but didnt admit anything..in a cd he made me there was a song that went like this, "i wish we were more than just friends.."blahblah..its kinda freaking me out...whut do i do :-/ i cant really talk about it with him nemore, i mean i make it realy obvious that i dont want to be more than friends not only cause he has a gf but because i dont like him that way!! help please (link)
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just keep being yourself around him adn look for a guy to date then date him adn im pretty sure hell get the picture ... hope i helped! -kayla
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Well this is a record 2 problems from me in one night...
My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 11 months. I'm 16, he's 18. We are having sex. Mom knows, but hates the fact and thinks he wouldn't stay with me if I told him I didn't want to have sex anymore, and I'm DYING to prove her wrong.
But the thing is, I don't really want to stop the sex because quite honestly, I like it. lol. Obviously he does, too, but I know he'd stay with me even if I did say I wanted to stop. Our relationship is based on pure love, not lust. (not to mention the fact that we're engaged. Mom doesn't know that, though. She won't know for about 3 or 4 years.) Mom doesn't believe he'd stay with me. I'm dying to prove her wrong, but that involves sacrifice on my part.
If I actually wanted to test him, I'd have to lie to him, and I don't want to lie to him...
What should I do? Should I test him and prove mom wrong, or just leave it alone? (link)
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i think when he wants to the next time just tell him you dont feel like it and see what he says .. if he gets mad then shes right if he doesnt then you just proved her wrong BUT you might be sacrificing one night but you can always make up for it in the future ... good luck with that! hope i helped! -kayla
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