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Hey everyone. My name is Bianca and I am here to actually help you. I've delt with alot of stuff with school friends family and relationships and so much more. And so I think I can really help people. I guess you can all me The Dr. corny I know but hey its true.



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E-mail: queenbianca2004@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Florida
Occupation: Student
Age: 16
AIM: queenbiaanca2004
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Member Since: June 9, 2004
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Last Update: August 11, 2008
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what does it mean to pop your cherry? i have heard it tons of times but i never really understood what it meant x3

Well the first thing you should know its a sexual term. A cherry is a thing in your pussy. And when you are being fingered or your doing it it will pop. YOU probaly wont know it unless it bleeds. YES IT CAN BLEED BUT NOT ALWAYS. So thats what it means. Hope I helped

QUEENBIANCA2004

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I lost my virginity in Feb after my 15 birthday. Since then my boyfriend and I have had sex atleast twice a week. He pulls out so we have never completely finished, and we have never had a pregnancy scare. Recently our sex has felt diffrent though. Like it has lost the unique, wild touch it once had. Could I be bored with sex? I get the same pleasure, but instead of feeling fulfilled afterwards I just feel-there. Can someone explain this to me? I'm so confused...

Well you horny person!!! lmao...........
just try new stuff...
get a book on it

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okay well i shave down there and it grows back really fast. like in a week! is that normal or what? is there anything i can do to prevent it? and i also get those little red bumps and sometimes the hair is not always completley gone! any tips please? thank you.

Ok ummm well its senative thats why you get the bumps . And the more you shave it the faster and more it grows. So let it grow out. Is anyone seeing it???? Or when you wear a bathingsuit.... mow that lawn!!!!!!!

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gah just got my period and im supposed to be seeing my guy this weekend what can i do to make it go away faster?

Well I dont have my period but i DONT THINK YOU can GET RID OF IT.....

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Ok, I LOVE my family to death. My mom's best friend is like family to us, and she has a son and daughter. Her son is a month younger than my little sister (my sis and I r 4 years apart) and her daughter is a little younger. We're always together and I get so bored because I have nobody my age. please help me!

Well I know how you feel.... But all I can say is you gotta find a new friend. look around. Or you can stick w/ the little kids and be there roll model... teachthem right from wrong. They will totally look u too you!!! and the parents will think greatc of you too.....

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I think my best friend might be in an abusive relationship. Sorry if this is long, but I really need some advice... Its really important

Last year around this time, my friend met a guy. She had been in other realtionshops before, but this one was "different". She actually told me she loved him, and she lost her virginity to him also. They spent absolutley every minute together, and he would go with us everywhere...even when the girls went out for my birthday...he HAD to come. He showed up, on my birthday, at my house, with a rose. I thought you know, how nice of him...to bring me a rose in my birthday. But he gave me a dirty look, and told me "no, its for meg". He's not really social, and honestly, doesn't have any friends. All winter was like this. total obsession, sickening. So around the beginning of june, me and the girls took her out...and we got a little drunk. She kissed a guy, but only a peck. She felt guilty and immedatley told "him", who in return, flipped out completley. Dispite my harsh feelings for this guy, me and my friend would talk to him online and treat him as if he were our friends, even if it meant telling him how meg was decieving him...because, after all, she was cheating on him. So during the summer, she had a party. They had broken up for the summer, of course another meg thing to do, break it off so she could do whatever she wanted all summer. This night, though, was different. She was still telling him she loved him, and that they would get togheter, and the night before, they went to a concert togheter and he claimed it was the greatest day they had shared. Meg threw a party at her house, and her old boyfriend showed up. Jon found out and walked 2 miles to her house, knocked on her door and he answered. He flipped out, and punched him. He also punched a wall and shattered his knuckle. The first person he called was me, because i,at this time, did feel bad. He came in my house, around 1am...and i bandaged up his hand, which was completley out of line. I didn't want to attend this party because I didnt want to be involved with the concequences, but actually i was at the bitter end. Meg got drunk and had sex with her ex. Me and my friend dana didn't know what to do, at this time we were both good friends with jon, and we hated to see him hurt. So, we told him, adh he swore to secrecy he wouldnt tell. And he didn't, he lied that he found out another way. But they got back togheter, after all this, i can't even explain. Now that school started again, he doenst even talk to me, he igonres me and my friend totaly. He leaves her 10 messages on her voicemail a day. They are always together...still...despite all this. He throws chairs and gets mad and yells at her and they are still together. At first we thought it was cute, now its just turned in to this obsession. I dont even think he cares about her ..he just needs to feel secure. So this is where we stand. Our health class teacher told us these are all signs of an abusive relationship...but she won't listen. I need to do something...but what? Ive tried everything...please help me and thank you SO MUCH for reading this.


Well first dont jump to conclusions...
But your right he does seem a little obsessive....
secoundd look at your friens body see if you notice any scars and if you see alot question her aabout them... If she denies them and you know shes lieing you need to tell her rents.. now I know youll feel really bad on telling but you have to remember you could be saving her life...

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My cousin is expecting a little girl in March and she's decided to name the baby either Cecilia or Cecilie. (Pronounced Siseelia or Sisilee). She has asked me to search for middle names that will flow easy with her first name and last name. The last name is Walsh if that helps any. I hope you can help! Thanks in advance.

Welll there are lots of great name here is my list......
1. Cecilia Marie Walsh
2. Cecilia Lanae Walsh
3. Cecilia Lee Walsh
4. Cecilia Mary Walsh
5. Cecilia Kathy Walsh


Personally #5 is my fav but thats just my choices Hope I helped And tell them I said congrats on the baby....


love always,
Bianca

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Does anyone know any good websites where you can pretend to be someone and interact with people or just talk to people like avatar high? if you fo please answer back.

WELL theres two I know... cokemusic.com and faketown.com. But dpont pu your real age gve them like the year, 1986 cause you have to be like 18 but every-1 lies on those websites so youll fit in with a lot of people

love always,
Bianca

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ok heres the situation: I have a major crush on this guy n i told my friend bout it and now it seems like she likes him 2 she flirts w. him non stop n when i talk 2 her she denies doin ne of the things and idk wut 2 do because i really like this kid n she likes 2 put me down in front of him and i just dont know wut 2 do..ne ideas i NEED UR GUYZ HELP!

Ok you are totally playin battle of the chicks. You need to show her you are better than her. Talk to him tell him you like him....
But if he says no hes not for you anyways! And dont tell your friend (if her says no) hes not your type and she can have him bc that totally makes you seem shallow! After your turn... Try and see if he wants to go with her. I no it might hurt but it might help you get over him better. Well good luck to you and I hope I really helped!!!!!!
And if you need any more help just e-mail me at purple_flurple101@yahooo.com say its a question you need help w/

love always,
Bianca

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My ex boyfriend whom I haven't talked to in a month just called me the other day. We went out for 6 months and he is 19 and im 17. Then for the last 3 or 4 months we talked like a couple times a month until last month when we didnt talk at all and during those 3 months i would always cry because i missed him so much and couldnt talk to him or anything. Then he called me a couple days ago and apologized for everything, told me he loved me and missed me and how much of a jerk he was and asked if i would give him anotehr chance. i really want him back but I dont know what to do i love him so much but I dont want to get hurt again but he is like the only person who truly makes me happy and makes me smile...I need advice quick! :(

Well lust is a thing that will come and go but love is an emotion that depends on your life and will be with you forever ask your self r u in love with him or in lust with him?????....................


Well I hope I helped!!!!


Bianca

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Hello, i am an 18 yr old grl dating a 28 yr old guy. See i have this thing with me not going to have sex till marriage which is not a bad thing... right? well my b/f knows this and knows my limits.. but see everytime we get alone and stuff he always tries to stick his dick in me. He almost did about hmmmm should i say 5 TIMES!!!!!!
Its not easy to remain abstinent but i tell you what its not FUN EITHER!! Its like your head is telling you go for it and grab the fuckin condoms but yet your heart is like wait a fuckin min. do you really know this guy or is he just using you for sex?? see the 17th is our 5th month anniversay
but yet i knew him for a few months before we started dating. so my question is to you all is what am i supposed to do. He promised me he would never do it again but yet he said that last time. I told him hes lucky b/c usually its like a baseball game 3 strikes your out!! but yet i've given him 5 chances so far and this is the last chance. So what should i do?? let him try and screw me or what?? See I love him to death but as you can tell i am not ready yet! I need help and need it bad! Plz someone help me.. i really need it!!

Dont let him pressurrue you into anything!!!! It is so so so so so so wrong!!!!!!! Tell him if he cant wait hes not woth it!!

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what should you do when you are feeling pressured into sex when your not readi?

When he takes his pants down kick those bals off and tell him to go to hell mother fucker!!!!!!!!

You shouldnt be pressured to do ne thing!! espically somethin you dont want to do!!!


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my mom's boyfriend slept over the other night and one morning i woke up early to my mom closing my door and then a few minutes later i heard her moaning continuesly. it was so nasty and i knew i couldnt move or else she would know that i heard everything, so i had to sit there and listen. it's so disgusting but i dont know if i should tell her what i heard or just keep it a secret? i have no idea what would be best and what would make me feel better. what should i do?

Well its natruall. And by the way you are acting you must be young. Its hard to understand. But keep it a secreate. One day your kid will be in the same position probably........


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Me and My guy friend make out alot and its getting boring..Is there anything we can do to spice it up..Can you give details on how to do things too! I rate good!

Well I take it your older than Im hopinng. So its Called sexual intercoarse. Its not sex. Give him head or stoke it for him. Tell him to finger you and tell him to eat you. Thats somethin


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Hey..I wanna call my ex bf and ask him to hang out..like go to a movie or something. Hes a nice guy and hes single..he flirted with me last year..when i call him what should i say? im pretty sure he wont turn me down..so im confident..just start me off? lol thanks

Well Me and my bf broke up too but I still call him. He and I still talk to eachoter. I just say hey wanna hang out? I mean he dont come over ne more bc I never call. But say I know me and u are just friends....
well just call as friends. rate me


Bianca

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soemone asked me to make a salute for them, how do i do that? what the heck is it?

sorry no clue!!

Bianca

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ok..my boyfriend moved to new jersey yesterday..but the day before he was on the computer and on his away message it said i luv jackie sfm...but thats not my name!! my names nicole..what does this mean!? is he cheating on me or like alot of people are telling me is it just an insider? i dont know what to do i really like him!!!! pleasee pleaseee help me!!!i really dont know what to do i like him sooo much! help!!!

Confront him and now. Although long distant relationship dont work. But if you want it too you can!
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ive been using antibiotics for acne and it only helps moderately. has anybody used anything like accutane or differin, and if so, did it completely clear things up?

Well hey I have acne too but I have a specially prescribed medicine and it works in like a week but keep using. Ill give you the name so u can ask your dermitoligst. But its 40$ w/ insurance. It works great though!!! The name is.....
Clindamycin phosphate topical solution, usp

Kepp that name in mind. Its Pads 60 of them! Well best of luck!!!
Plz rate me and this was a good question!

~Bianca~

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hey.. i just need some advice on sex.. me and my boyfriend have been going out for awhile now but im not sure when we'll be ready to u know.. do it.. can u please help and just tell me when u think the right time would be? by the way, your VERY pretty i love you smile.. im sure you get that a lot hahaha.. yeah well i'll let you go plz respond!!

xoxo-
shelly

alls I can say is youll know.

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If you wear a condom during sex does that mean you most likely won't get pregnant or do you have to take birth control pills too..?

Well even w/ a condom its still a chance of getting pregnet.
Thats why you should wait until yuor married!!!
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