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Question Posted Tuesday August 3 2004, 12:46 pm

ok..my boyfriend moved to new jersey yesterday..but the day before he was on the computer and on his away message it said i luv jackie sfm...but thats not my name!! my names nicole..what does this mean!? is he cheating on me or like alot of people are telling me is it just an insider? i dont know what to do i really like him!!!! pleasee pleaseee help me!!!i really dont know what to do i like him sooo much! help!!!

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needtobe answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 5:22 pm:
maybe its his mom or maybe hes hinting he wants to break up with u or maybe its some "hot" celebrity
hope this helps,
chynna

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HollyAnn2282 answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 2:54 pm:
You need to ask him who jackie is. It might just be a friend of his that hes going to miss a lot! Just talk to him see what he says! GOOD LUCK... -holly-....Hope I helped

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curiousgeorge997 answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 1:59 pm:
yeah i aggree with almost everyone else, just call him up and talk to him directly and mabye say something like "i'm a little confused, is it a joke or is something going on or yea" and see what his response is. please rate me and i hope things work out between you guys-
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OnErOxYcHiCkEz answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 1:15 pm:
You need to ask your boyfriend who Jackie is, and see what's going on, and if he's cheating on you, beat his ass girl! lol, I'm sorry! :-(

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Short_N_Punky answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 1:15 pm:
Ask him about when he gets back online dont jump to conclusions it might be an ex. and he hasnt changed it just yet. If he likes you as much as you like him he isnt cheating and its just an accident. Just calm down and dont jump to conclusions ask him about it once he gets online and if he is then just simply tell him that either its you or him i cant play this 2 way thing. Well good luck and i hope iv helped a little. Dont be afraid to write back thanx!
Signed
Short N Punky

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iTaLiaN_DiaMonD answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 1:14 pm:
Call him or talk to him in any way you can get in contact w/ him. Find out his story. Find out who this Jackie girl is. (my names Jackie but its not me! lol) so yea, dont just jump right into the subject about his away message, gradually get into it. tell him that you really need to talk to him. Ask all his friends whats up with this Jackie bitch.

**Hope i helped out! Good luck hun!**

--rate me--

<3 Jackie

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o023babygurl230o answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 1:11 pm:
ok..calm down...maybe Jackie is his new friend and shes been really nice since hes moved there so he was just messing around and put thats as a away message. If you feel that bad about it just ask him...say suttin like ohh i saw ur away message and i was just wondering about it. Im sure its just a new friend and i joke. If you talk to him about it maybe he'll think twice about what he puts cuz he'll now know that it kinda hurt you. I hope I helped and if you could please rate meh id be very greatful...o023babygurl230o

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josiemarie answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 1:10 pm:
well i have had the same thing happen to me.. ok this could very well be an insider. or maybe this girl is a good friend of his..u should ask him about her but dont be to harsh about it cuz it could just be a misunderstanding. but i that hes really cheating on u unless he has a reputation for cheating on girls because once a cheater always a cheater and so i would be a lil bit more serious when talkin to him if he has a reputation like that. anyways i hopr my advice helps and im really sorry if it doesnt work out. l8er

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queenbianca2004 answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 1:04 pm:
Confront him and now. Although long distant relationship dont work. But if you want it too you can!
rate me

Bianca

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pnutgurl03 answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 1:02 pm:
ok i have had this happen to me but here it is. ok i understand that u r kinda anxious to kno what happend to i luv jackie sfm thing well all u should do iss call him and ask him and if he says something like it was a insider then just say r u sure and then if he relli says the truth (which u will kno) then drop it but if he is lieng (maybe)then find out who this jackie is and talk to her and if he wont talk to u IM him a nd yell at him lol! hope i helped!
god bless
~mary~

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ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 12:56 pm:
Well,you'll never know unless you ask him about it.It could quite possibly be another girl,if he's moved(or was moving at the time) he may have a girl he is talking to.Did you guys agree to stay together and try to make a long-distance relationship work,or did you agree to see other people? It could also be totally innocent,could be just a joke,or an insider as you say.You need to talk to him about this and find out what's goin on!!!

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PryNcEzzLiSSa answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 12:51 pm:
where do u live?...i mean..if its alotta miles awae frum him...then of course hes gonna find sumbodee else!!...did u guys agree that u will still b 2gether after he moves?!...well u shood ignore him...just wait until he calls u..nd then tell his ass off!!...i bet he thinks he can get u anytime he feels like gettin u!..just get over him..and hope u feel better..u can IM me sumtime if u need help!

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Jane answered Tuesday August 3 2004, 12:50 pm:
*Nothing's gonna matter anyway... he moved, he's gone, that's it. Find a new guy in your hometown now*

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