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Q: when i tt my boyfriend my stomack flips like when your going down a rollarcoaster it feels really weird is it love?
sweetie that might mean your in love. or just sick... i am joking! Your in love with your boyfriend and love is a good thing just watch out because sometime love might cause you pain. be careful.

Q: is it possable to get pregnant before you get your first period?
no because getting your period is the only way your body gets ready to have a baby in your sack. it is not ready to have a baby in there before you start your period. so the answer is no. i hope i helped. if you need anything else just write me a letter and put it in my mail box.

Q: ok consider this situation

your rubbing your b/fs "thing" (not in the pants) and you knew he was wet and you really didnt feel it that much and you masterbated in front of him to turn him on am i being stupid or can i get pregnaunt and even if i did have his stuff on my fingers it wouldnt even be hardly any i duno and i also have a problem where im always parinoid........? can some one help me with my parinoid prob and dont say "see a doctor" because i cant im only 15 and i dont want to tell my parents....help?
i don't know but i don't think so the only way you can get pregnate is if his penis is in your vagina or maybe you can if you have his stuff on your finger and you finger yourself with it on your finger. but i don't think you can get pregnate from that ^ well if you need extra help on this just me and you talking about this you can drop a letter in my mail box. i hope i helped you.

Q: okay so i knoe how to kisss but ive never realy made out with a guy... so idk wut to do when i make out? where do i put like my hands? and how do i bring up the subject that i wanna make out with a guy?
put your hand, one on his neck in the back and this drives my boyfriend crazy play with his hair or put your fingers through his hair. i hope i helped!

Q: ok what if you were doing the dishes and you put your hands under the water after and then dried them off then you fingered yourself are you gonna get a disease?
i don't think you would get a disease but hey i am not really positive about that. wash your hands really good after the dishes. but you won't get a disease. i hope i helped you.

Q: i am 14 years old and i am pregnate. my mom wants me to give the baby up for adoption but the father of my baby doesn't want me to give it up. i am 7 months pregnate and i don't know what to do. it is a girl and i am afriad that if something goes wrong and i can't have children again and i give this one up i am never going to have a baby again. what should i do?
maybe you should just not worry about what your going to do right now worry about it then and just talk to your mom.

Q: I went out with this guy. I knew he was a player and stuff. and a lot of grls liked him. But he liked me and asked me out. So about the first 3 days we were together he kissed another grl. but when i told him i didnt no if i want 2 b with him he threatened to kill himself. so i stayed with him.. later i found out that he fingered a grl and made out with her. but i still liked him a lot. Was i wrong for staying with him after the first tyme? am i worng for being his friend?
you can be his friend it isn't wrong but i always say once your boyfriend cheats on you then he is going to do it again. it is in him. if your still with him maybe you should dump him but do what you think is best for the both of you.

Q: what does s.o.s mean cuz people go i love s.o.s
Some One Special it is just a code for that!

Q: y do they call red wings"red wings"?
The reason is because when a girl is on her period and she has sex it is called red wings.

Q: is it wrong that im attracted to my cousins cousin?
No but your not related to your cousin's cousin anyway and it isn't wrong.

Q: how old should you have sex if your 13 is it wrong to have sex my best friend lost her virginity at 12 is she a slut?
I am 15 and i never had sex YET! and i probably won't til i find the right person, i have a boyfriend but i just don't think i am ready right now to have sex. your friend is not a slut she just had sex when she was 12 that is all. i have a friend that is 13 and had sex she is not considered a slut. But when your ready you will know.

Q: y do u act so meen 2 a gurl wen u lyk ha?
That i found out you guys do alot to us girls! I really don't know but my boyfriend tells me that he is mean to me because he loves me so much he likes my reaction to his mean comments. It is what you guys do best sometimes just tell her that you like her and how you actually feel about her.

Q: Okay, so there's this really cute guy that I really like. Yesterday, I found out that he likes me. Naturally, I'm stunned. He starts holding my hand, and rubbing my shoulders, and nibbling my ear, but something inside me told him to stop. Now he doesn't like me anymore, because I told him to stop. I don't get it. That's what I dreamed of. That's what I had wanted, and I told him to stop! Geez, I'm all confused. Was it wrong? Is it all for the best? Am I right? Am I crazy?
Okay it wasn't wrong, it was for the best and your right! It is okay to be confused sweetie. Maybe the reason you told him to stop is because you didn't feel right or your not ready but you might of dreamnt of being with him for so long that when it actually happened you thought it was to good to be true so you wanted it to stop before you got hurt. I don't know if i made sense but i hope so. like i said maybe you weren't ready for that right now.

Q: i have my couzin i jus went to her house.....n she jus started going out with thiz kid she thynkz iz cute but i thynk hez playen her bcuz..........wen he came frum doin hiz community servicem thingy.........she went to see him and he had stuff writtin in hiz hand......he said or swore it waz hiz couzin...n it waz a gurlz name 2........and then later he went 2 the ymca..........n my couzin waz lookin 4 him n she seen him outside ............ he left wer he waz supposedly supposed to b and he waz with sum gurlz.........i no my cuz seen it but.....i dun no wat 2 tell ha.......heres the problem she doesnt wanna break up with him man....what do i do.........personally i wanna go up 2 him n punch him in da face......help!!!!
It sounds like this guy is cheating on your cousin. but all i can tell you (you might not want to hear this) but let your cousin deal with it on her own. when you step in is when it all comes out that he is cheating on her or he dumps her then you go and give him a piece of your mind! but don't do anything when they are going out because if you hit him and he breaks up with your cousin because you hit him then your cousin will be mad at you and you don't want that hun. So keep your thoughts to your self until the time is right!

Q: im not sure what to do i dumped my boyfriend for some1 who liked me alot and asked me out so im going out with the person i dumped my ex for and now im starting to like my ex boyfriend more then my boyfriend now im so confused idk what to do i dont want to dump my boyfriend for my exboyfriend that i dumped i'de feel wicket bad for my boyfriend now IDK what to do please help me!

signed...confused
Well all i know to tell you is to do what you think is right! who do you like more? your ex or you current boyfriend? it is okay to be confused and not knowing what to do because most of us sometime in our teen years feel the same way! So do what you think is right darling and never be afraid to ask yourself "what should i do know?"

Q: what is an emo?
emo is short for EMOtional that is a person that takes things seriously like me! LOL so sweetie an emo is a person that is emotional.

Q: eee... so tell me how weird i am if I am horny ALL the time. morning noon and night and i'm not doing anything to be so? Ok so i'm not always horny but like 75% of the damn i am. I'm a fucking girl... i shouldn't be this horny all the time, should I? god, anything gets to me. Guitars, voices, songs. I'm weird. sometimes even the though of guys in panties hahahahahahahahaha

I dunno, i'm just crazy.... ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
thanks...
Okay this isn't a problem you just want to have sex or something more exciting in your life then you have right now. Just don't do anything rational that you will regret later to feel your horny needs. Sweetie it will probably pass or if not talk to a friend or you can talk to me.

Q: Hey im becky...im 14. ive got a major problem
i went out with this kid for 8 mons and we shared everything together, i mean the relationship was perfect. He was always there for me and he didnt care what other people thought. i loved that about him. But when his crazy mother put an end to our relationship he didnt even wana try to make it work. Now hes in Florida playing basketball and i did a no no with his brother. But i regret it because the only reason i did it was because he reminded me so much of my boyfriend. I cant get over my boyfriend and i think hes well over me but its only been maybe a week... Help!!!!

thanksss..
Sweetie ask your ex boyfriend to be completly honest with you and ask him how he really feels and talk things out. And if he doesn't want to listen to you then he isn't worth your time you can find someone better that will listen to your every word. if your need anything else in that department drop a letter in my mail box.

Q: I just started chours this year in school. My friends have told me that my music teacher will make you sing in front of the WHOLE class to see if you can be a soloist. I like to sing but I don't know if I have a good voice! I don't want to be humiliated in front of everyone! What should I do?
Hun just go for it. I was in the same thing you are in last year. I didn't want anyone judging me because i was afraid to sing in front of my chours class because i didn't think my voice was PREFECT! well i just went for it and i made 1st soloist. Either way if you win or lose you have conquered your fear of stage fright. Good luck sweetie!

Q: Okay well I really need some help. I have been cutting for about a year and the cuts are getting really deep. They have riped my vein and I'm afraid i mite go to far next time. I've been tryihng so hard not to cut but i get these really baddddd urges to do it..is there any help for me out there?
There is ALWAYS help for everyone out here and that includes you sweetie. Just try and take your cutting and replace it with something else like screaming or something. But if that doesn't work then maybe you should go to someone and tell them like a parent or a pro. at helping kids with this kinda thing.

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I am here to help teens like myself deal with pressure of relationships and parents and sex! Things i go through as a teenager are normal but i can't talk to my parents about them like sex with my boyfriend if i think it is right and if i am ready for it right now. That is why i am here because i know there are other girls and boys out there that have the same problem and i can help.





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