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HEY! Its fun to give advice to people!! I just get on advicenators when i am bored, and look at questions of people. I try to give good advice, so i hope you like it!!
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14 will be 15 in 6 days/f
ok so my best friend(who is 15) for 8 years was dating this guy named Fred(not his real name,just turned 18) and they dated for about 3 months when he cheated on her and she dumped him but me and fred kept talking on the phone (since i live 3 hours away from my bestfriend and fred) and fred was about to move a lot closer to me. So we started talking about hooking up (since we both have problems with cheating)and trying to have an open relationship. Which sounds bad but i am the type of girl that doesn't ever get jelous and understands that everyone messes up. You can call me a whore if you want. we have a lot in common and we seem perfect for each other. but resently i found out that my best friend still likes him so i backed off and let her have him until he moved. and then he finally told me that he didn't like her anymore and asked me not to tell her that so i didn't until it kinda slipped out. and he wasn't mad at me cause he was moving the next day. and so everybody was ok but my bestfriend who is now claiming that he is her first true love but my bestfriend has a clinging problem with guys and this is like the fiftyth guy she has said is her first true love plus since i told her he didn't really like her she has started "talking" to this guy chris which was something fred doesn't know. Now this is where the real problem comes in. so me and fred decided to keep our plans and try dating. So he said he was going to come all the way to where i live and stay the weekend at a cabin his family owns and asked me to come hang out with him during the days. I said yes and then called my bestfriend to tell her about out plans. i said hi and instead of saying hi back she said your not f***ing going and i'm gonna kick your ass if you do because i still love him which pissed me off because i know she doesn't and i know she is and has been "talking" to chris. So now we are not talking. I want to make up with her but i really want to be with fred not only because we have the same views on almost everything but because he makes me happy and i've been really depressed lately. And my best friend always does this. If she even thinks that me and one of her ex's are going to start dating she starts telling me if i date them then our friendship is over. So i have always gave into her and told the guy no but i getting tired of it and like i said i really want to be with him. So my question is should i date him and lose her or should i give into her again and leave him alone. And there is no inbetween with her.
signed
i really don't know what to do
If she is your friend, she would want what would make you happiest. I would do what your instinct tells you to. Talk to her about it and explain to her that she is not being fair, and that you wouldn't treat her like that. She will eventually get over it, so wait a few days so you both have time to cool off then talk about it calmly. If she starts to yell, just say i called you to talk to you nicely, i want to be your friend but i don't deserve to be yelled at. If she continues to be mad, just say i am sorry i will have to call back later. If she hangs up don't call back, just let it go and maybe try later if you want to. If you really want to go out with "fred" then i think you should go with it... hope this helps!!
pinkers
I think that i have really good style, but a lot of people think that it is "different" i wear like hollister stuff and stuff like that, but i turn them into "me." I really need some help to decided if i should dress like everyone eles or if i should be myself???
Fashion Fool or Fashion Cool
If you like your style now, i wouldn't change it a bit. You don't have to wear what everyone else is wearing to be "cool". People should get to know the actual YOU, and not judge you by your clothes. You should be yourself and if you like your style, then there is no reason to change it.
What makeup usually covers the red bumps? I know it's acne. But it's just RED, no i don't pick or pop at them. I use moisturizer and wait a few minutes because if i do it 10-15 mins later, my makeup cracks. like my face is dry or i used too much makeup o.o My skin is combination though. I dont know what to do use. I tried using concealer, foundation, powder but the red just shows right through and i look weird with lots of makeup on. I see other girls that cover them up nicely. I don't know how to do it.
I have always been told that teens should not use a moisturizer, and if they do only where it is neccessary. Using moisturizer makes your face more oily. I would only use moisturizer where you have very dry skin. This will help keep the zits and pimples down so you won't have to cover them up!
At school today, we were discussing the French Revolution in History class. The teacher was talking about how back then 97 % of French people were Catholic and they stuck firmly to tradition. We then started contrasting that to these times.
Then out of the blue he asked how many people believed in a Christian God. Not one person put their hand up. I didn't at first because I was embarassed, but then I did. I was the only one.
Later I was thinking.. I'm not sure it was right for my teacher to ask this. Is there any sets of rules on this type of thing? Like are teachers not meant to discuss issues like religion, politics, etc? I'm usually pretty closed-up about this kind of thing.
It really bothers me when I think about it, because I don't see why it was necessary. I graduate high school in a few months and was thinking of saying something to him at the end of the year. So, can someone let me know their opinion on this? Was it wrong for him to ask this?
Thanks.
Our Geography/history teacher told us that they are aloud to use questions about god, the bible and things like that..but only if it is to go along with a lesson, help students comprehend, that sort of thing.
What are some good songs that kind of describe 8th grade graduation? Recent if possible, like the last 10 years or sooner. NOT GRADUATION BY VITAMIN C - too common. Any thing that would have to do with it. Like, describing change, moving on, friends forever, graduation, "i will remmeber you", good times, etc.
Easy Five if you give me good ones.
ok my school played the song "i hope you had the time of your life" by green day
Okay. Im 13/f looking for some good excercise tips for over the summer. I need to tone the area around my stomach and my thighs. Any advice anyone? I will rate! Thanks =]
if you have no fat on your belly then i would do crunches to get your stomach in shape. If you have any fat on your belly, doing cardio burns fat quickly (like swimming, running, arobics, biking etc). Crunches will build muscle but don't do much for the fat on top of it. Also, eating vegetables and fruits help.
Ok, so I have too many hobbies that take up too much time and my mom said that I need to think about next year and what I want to do and what I have time for. My two main concerns are I won't have time for my horses and my grades will slip. I'll list the activities (not including hanging with friends, homework and, oh yeah, sleep!) and time they take...
Riding: I try to make it out 4 or 5 times a week when I have my pony. Shows are all day either Saturday or Sunday.
Cross Country & Track: Every day for a few hours a day. Some meets during the week but others are all day Saturday or Sunday (already see a problem?)
Marching Band: Monday and Friday nights.
Girl Scouts: Every other Friday
Band and Chorus: In school except for a couple mandatory rehearsals right after school.
Private drum set lessons: Every Thursday night.
Spanish Club: One day after school each week for an hour.
Sorry that was so long but I guess my questions are how much can I do and how do I decide what to do? (I know only I can make the final decision but strategies would be helpful)
i would do as much as you can and that is it. If you feel overloaded, don't be afraid to drop somethings to help yourself feel less stressed. this was really quick but i hope that it helped!
I was wondering if there was a way to find out what has been printed on your computer. LIke in the past?
i think it depends on the printer and computer, but while you are printing something in the lower right hand corner by the clock, it has a little picture of a printer (only when printing something) right click on that and see if your computer has history or previous prints or something.
i want to try out for cheerleeding next year. i have never really done any cheers or twirls or jumps or whatever. but i really want to make it next since all my friends are. does anyone know if there is like dvds books anything that can teach me anything at all. what are the warm-ups you do? do you have to run (i don't think so but maybe). what gear do i have to buy? like any info you can give me i will rate...
and if theres someway i can learn a cheer that would be awesome thanxx alot
i would see if you can get into any cheerleading camps or something to help you learn cheers.
How do you get the redness & the swelling of a zit to go down? I'd be very gratefull for just one of the two answers but two would be GREAT!
See, I am gonna see the guy I like tomorrow around 7, & my face is clear besides this red zit right in the middle of my forehead. I know that make up will make it look better but its just so red!!
So I just want some tricks to 1. make the redness go away, & 2. make the swelling go down.
I'll rate 5s for well thought out answers.
I don't want answers like "wash your face", cuz I do that day & night.
Thanks in advance.
When ihave this problem i learned if you get a washcloth and put as hot as you can take it water on it, then hold it on your face where the zit is, it helps reduce swelling and is very easily popped (barely touch it and it pops and is gone the next day) hope this helps!
im 14 and i wear a some makeup. just like a thin line of black eyeliner, soft eyeshadow colors, and black mascara. yeah, nothing out-of-this-world. anyway, i was wondering what you guys think is a good eyeshadow to match light blue eyes and light brown/long hair. oh yeah and a lot of freckles on the cheeks.
i usually do like a light brown or a light gray and i really like those. still, i wanted to try something new but i didnt want it to be like 'whoa, too much'
pink usually doesnt work for me. idk it just doesnt work with likee, the texture of my eyes.
ok thanks.
one of my friends has light brown hair and blue eyes and she looks awesome in any shade of blue eyeshadow. Hope this helped!
Hi. I have a kitten (named Shadow) who's 2 months old. She used to be very fluffy, but as of late she's been losing fur. We know it's not shedding for several reasons (we don't see fur all over the place, or have it on us after holding her, etc.) We thought it might have been soap from giving her a flea bath, or maybe something else that got on her. We have five other cats, one of them as young as she, and they're all fine. They eat the same food, drink the same water, and since Shadow is still pretty young, she doesn't go anywhere out of our yard when outside. Does anyone know anything that might be causing her fur to thin, but not spread to the other cats?
what i would do is either go to a vet and see what the kitten has and if there is anyway to stop the fur loss. If you can't go to the vet for some reason, i would do some research on the internet, like go to google and type in "fur loss of kitten" or something. I did a search this morning to find things to put in my dog's food to keep him from shedding and there were listed many diseases that cats and dogs get, where it also discribes the symptoms of the disease. Sorry if this wasn't much help..i hope it was!!
Our Spanish Club is holding a bake sale and car wash together. I am organizing the bake sale and have to contact other club members and get each of them to provide a dish to help out with the sale. I need some ideas of what types of desserts I can ask different members to make. I want to keep it fairly simple -- cakes, cookies, pies, etc. I just need to compile a list of desserts. Any ideas are appreciated!
Thanks
i would ask them on the phone what they are willing to make. Have a sheet and make sure no dessert is going to be made too many times.
see i have a big problem im good at talking to people about there problems and they like talking to me but im not really good at talking about my feelings when they get really badn i mean talking baout boys is ok and things like that. but i found out recently my friend has cancer and isnt going to be alive much longer this persons haveing a really hard time and it jurts me so much i think about this person everynight and i cry to myself at night the person kinda had a heart attack the other day adn i feel that its a warning that this person wont be with me much longer they thought about ending there life and there was nothing i could do i was up all night in tears afraid that when i woke up they wouldnt be there anymore and this person means so much to me and sure its hard to deal with loosing the person but i guess i just need to have faith but its tearing me up inside i hide it from everyone. i know its not good to keep this all inside becasue its takeing me over but its so hard to talk about ive only told one person about the least bit that the person only had cancer and i stopeed at that maybe im just afraid to open up and face that im going to be in a great deal of pain soon. i just need help to open up and to stop keeping it all inside i so much think of calling my friend and telling her everything but i stop and just think i need to open up im hurting so much inside becasue im holding this all in and i guess i dont want the person to see that becasue it will put them in so much more pain but plezz help me if u can i ll rate 5'd if good advice thanxs so much
and srry for the wrong periods and stuff but im typeing fast and trying to get this done without backing out thanxs so much in advance
This must be very hard to deal with and you feel as if you will always be sad. But think about the person with cancer. He/She wouldn't want to see you sad while they are alive, they would want to make what time they have on earth good. Also, you will have an easier time if you are happy while the person is still alive. It makes it easier for both of you.
Alright well since last week i've been kinda "out of it" bacuse my cousin killed himslef on June 3rd and I just feel like "out of it". Like I feel like i ahve so much goin on inside my head and i cant concentrate well.... and of course now its finals and regents time in my school! I feel tired all teh time too, but thats becasue i havent gotten much sleep since then.....
i dont know if its beacuse of what happend to my cousin but its so weird, ive never been like this before....
If i was in your situation i would find someone i really trusted and talk to them about it. you will feel much better because it's not all cooped up inside of you anymore.
my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my sister and my 4 year old niece and 2 year old nephew moved in becouse they got kicked out becouse they couldn't pay the rent in their apartment and now I have to share a room with 3 people 4 people counting me I ended up sleeping on the couch and they got my room which I don't think is fair at all and we only have 1 bathroom so I have no privacy and I think at 17 I need all the privacy that I can get what should I do?
I would explain to them that you are glad to share your room but this is your house too and you need to be where you are comfortable and that you are not meaning to offend them in anyway.
I've realised I have depression and I desperatley need to talk to someone.
I know who i can trust (its a teacher) and I'm so scared because Im not an open person, I cant talk about my feelings easily.
I've tried to go to the counsellor at college but I cant walk into the room.
Anyway, how can i talk to the teacher?
What do i say to begin the conversation?
If you trust this person you shouldn't be afraid, because they are probably a nice and understanding person. Just find this person at a private time and ask them if you can talk privately.
Okay, I know you get a lot of questions about 14 year-olds and jobs. But, I need to know some places you can work at 14. You have to know FOR SURE. Because some said McDonalds when that is 16, and others too.
Like I'll try baby-sitting, like I have babysat before, but I don't think that people will leave there kids with a complete stranger and such. Especially since I don't know CPR ect.
I want to get a decent salary and no volunteer work. But, please list jobs that you know FOR SURE.
Sorry, if I come off as rude.
I'll rate 5's no matter what.
well i would check and see if any friends or family's jobs have anything you can do there. See where some of your friends are working and if they enjoy working there. it would be more fun to work with your friends anyway!
I'm going to be a camp counselor this summer, and at the camp I go to, each cabin can invite a counselor to come to their cabin right before bed and tell a story or sing a song or read poetry, anything that will get them to go to sleep. Well, I'm a good singer, I'm in the 2 advanced choirs at my school, but I don't know what kinds of songs I should sing to them. The problem is that the age range is from 9-18, so I have a difficult audience. I'd like to tell stories as well, but I don't have any very interesting stories that I can think of and I've tried searching on google, but it's really hard to choose the right story. So, if you were at camp, what kind of story would you like to hear? A funny one, a personal story, a traditional story (like a Native American folk tale or an African one..)? If you know any good places to find stories, that would help too!
when i was at a summer camp a counselor read some chicken soup for the soul stories and we all enjoyed them.
well me and my friend where arguing which name is hotter, better (don't ask me why)
so i want you guyzz opinon so we can finally settle this whole thing. which name is hotter amy or pam..why? thanxx a bunch will rate high
i like amy but both names are nice.