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Its my birthday in a week (yes happy birthday to me!) and my uncle always sends me a gift card. This year, he sent me 50 dollars to old navy. Great right? No! I hate old navy. So, I would like some help picking out some cute things! I shop at places like macys, hollister, ae, a&f, aero, and places like that. So thanks so much! (link)
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either find someone who loves old navy that could buy the giftcard from you or trade something, or just use it to buy christmas gifts for everyone! that way you can spend your own money on stuff you really want.
and yeah you can fit into womens stuff
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but will it still be tight like a virgins although i was six will is still be tight like i was a virgins will the guy still think i was a virgin thanx for your advice (link)
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ofcourse, you developed a lot during puberty and the little boys penis was probably tiny! so whoever you sleep with will not be able to tell at all
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i like coloring my hair but i cant permanetly dye my hair because my mom said i cant but i want to REALLY BAD!! so i was thinking she would probaly let me dye it if it came out. like after a certain amount of time or washes. i think they have stuff like that but i dont know where i would get them, would they be at someplace like walmart? ive colored my hair but with things that come out after one wash. i want something that will last a little bit longer but not really long. but ive never seen anything that will wash out unless its like after the 1st time you wash it. where could i get hair dye like what i want? (link)
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what you're looking for is semi-permanent. usually it comes out in a bout 3 weeks i guess, but every bottle will tell you exactly how much. I did that once, but be careful not to make the same mistake i did. I'm blonde and i died it red because i thought it would come out in about 2 weeks like the bottle said. unfortunately that meant if you already have that color hair and are just covering grays! so i had redish hair for 6 months which totally sucks, so just be careful and read the back thoroughly. You can get hair dye at walmart and any drugstore like walgreens....any where. if there is a sally's beauty supply store near you that might be safer because it is meant for hairdressers and stuff. Also if you want to be really careful, get it done at a salon and make sure you tell them that you only want semi-permanent
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ok im almost 18 and when i was younger i experminted i was like 6or7 at the time it was like 10 or more years ago and the kid i experimented with was like 8or9 only like 2 years older than i am and i havent done anything since than nothings been in there fingers or nothing and i want to know can i still consider myself a virgin it happened so long ago and do you think that ill be tight still i dont even remeber if it fully went in or not i mean he was only like 9 how big can it be so will i still be tight like a virgin please help
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ok, calm down, you are definitely still a virgin. at six or seven you were not mentally and physically capable of having sex, so even though he stuck his tiny little weiner up there doesn't mean you even had sex. Your cherry probably didn't even pop, and if it did, who cares that can happen by doing anything-riding a bike, horseback riding.
You are still a virgin and childhood experimenting is unrelated to your current adult sex life.
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I've always wanted to be a girl and hopefully I can be someday, but for right now I want to go to our high school's January dance dressed as a girl. I'm in 10th grade and 16 yo. Can anybody tell me what I should get for clothes and shoes and stuff? The dance is casual. Like what I'm looking for the most is what stores to go to and then what to get. Thanks.
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I think that is great that you're doing this and good luck in the future. Observe the girls in your class for a while and see what they wear. You can get clothes anywhere, walmart, target, aeropostale, american eagle, it really doesn't matter. probably just flare jeans and see what girls in your school wear for shoes. You have to be careful not to get clothes that are too fancy for the occasion or too flashy. That's embarrasing for any girl. Good luck and have lots of fun at the dance!
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Ok so last year i loved this guy and i say love because he is everything to me. Well after i told him i liked him he sent me a letter( because he goes to college across the country) and it didn't say he liked me and it didn't say that he hated me so idk. And now he's home for break and it seems like he's ok w/ everything cause we can talk and i've even caught him looking at me in THAT way am i halucinating again? or does he maybe have something towards me? what should i do? (link)
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it's hard to say whether he likes you since i don't know either of you, if he had really liked you back then he would have said so in the letter, so I'm guessing that when he recieved the letter he hadn't really thought of you that way, but didn't dislike you.
now, if you think he's looking at you diferently, then you should trust your intuition, he probably is. Since he couldn't see you when he got the letter before, it was hard for him to form any feelings, now that he sees you it is very likely that he is beginning to like you, so i suggest hanging out and talking to him alot, flirt a little but don't be too forward or tell him your feelings YET. give him time, if he begins to have feelings for you then he will probably act on them since he knows you like him. so just be casual, and if it's meant to be, something will happen.
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ok well im a f/14
yes im 5'1 an way 120
i don't look fat well i have some meat but im not like a sumo restler
but when i turn 16 i'm going to star modeling because that is my dream ya know . anyway i want to get skinnier
does anyone have any tips
i tried starving myself for a week and when i felt i was going to faint i ate a cheese cube (yes i know crazy but im desperate) any help?? (link)
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DON:T STOP EATING
that's crazy, when you stop eating enough your body goes into starvation mode and doesn't burn calories, therefore you are torturing yourself and also not losing weight.
If you want to lose weight, go by these rules and you definitely will:
1. no junkfood and soda (if you are a chocolate lover like me, have 1 tiny square a day so you don't go crazy with cravings)
2. stay away from fried food- no fried chicken, french fries, fish and chips
3. when you are choosing what meat to eat, go with lean white meat chicken and turkey, fish, or pork, and stay away from beef and steak
4. eat atleast 2 servings of fruits and vegetables a day
5. DON"T overeat- do everything in moderation
6. stop when you're full
7. always eat breakfast-even if you're not hungry, it's your metabolism going therefore making you burn lots more calories throughout the day
8. get enough sleep-8 hours
9. EXERCISE! a lot
good luck
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well what if you and your boyfriend want to have sex but you are both still virgins and you dont want anyone one to know if you lose your viginity (link)
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you talk about it lots to make sure you're ready, get condoms and possibly go on birth control and make sure that it's equally important to both of you and be sure he is as happy to keep it confidential as you
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how do i get my make up to look like hers?
http://imagecache2.allposters.com/images/pic/MMPH-AI/IMG_0106~Carrie-Underwood-Posters.jpg (link)
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hire a makeup artist. seriously
she's a celebrity, she has to look good, but if you really wanna look just like that, it seems like she has a charcoaly/smudged black eyeliner on the bottom, liquid black eyeliner and mascara on her top lashes and a very pale pink eye shadow
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whats a fast & easy way to lose weight in your upper legs? thanks! =) (link)
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you can't lose weight in a specific area, but you can tone it so i suggest eating healthier to get leaner and also do exercises to strengthen quads and hamstrings
for quads: stand about a foot a way from the wall with your back to it and bend down so your back is pressed against the wall but your knees are bent and form a right angle, so your calfs and thighs are perpendicular to each other. try to stay in this position for a minute, do that every day and slowly add another minute...i did that for a while and can now stay in that position for 18 minutes! so it really does work
for quads, biking also REALLY strengthens them, same with squats and lunges
for hamstrings (back of your thigh) the best things to do for them is skipping and jumping while you run, jumprope, and lots of running up and down stairs. it's harder to tone back of your legs so just stay active
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hi i was just wondering if there were any household products that could highlight my hair. I have brown hair and anything that wouldn;t damage my hair, but could make it like lighter or blonde wold be good.
(no hair highlighting kits please) (link)
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i know this isn't what ur looking for, but why don't you want to use real hair dye? it's safer and less fool proof. you can use peroxide, but that will make your hair very platinum blonde. i personally suggest a highlighting kit, if you think it's too expensive, it's a lot more worth it to spend a couple extra dollars on real dye than to try doing it yourself and mess up! it could end up looking terrible and then you'd have to pay to get it back to it's normal shade anyways. sorry i can't help you more, just be careful because you don't wanna regret it later
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Im 13 5 4 140 lb. i am not that fat. when i look in the mirror i dont look really fat but im not super skinny. The problem is my stomich is wide and my hips are big. Iv been trying to do at least 100 crunches every night. I dont know is that would help. Im very athletic and muscular. i just want some exercised tips, routine anything to make my lose weight and not look so wide.
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STOP DOING 100 CRUNCHES A NIGHT you could be doing 1000 crunches and you wouldn't see a difference. It's all about your form and the muscles you are working. if you have an exercise ball lay your upper/middle back on it, keep your neck straight and do slow crunches forward and to the left and right. Also try crunches on the ground where you raise your but rather than your shoulderblades. it's hard to describe crunches written, so search for pictures on the internet, or if you can buy a book that has good exercises. good luck
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Hi,
My name is Carosita and I'm 22 years old and heterosexual.
I had an experience with a lesbian friend one night where we both drank too much and we ended up dancing sensually to the song as long as you love me by the Backstreet Boys and that my other friend taped it.
Also, we went me and her to drink coffee and since we were really drunk, she ended up holding my hand all the way.
Ever since that night, I had dreams of kissing her and sleeping with her but I know that I'm not her type and I'm heterosexual cause i still like boys but haven't found the right one.
My question is that whether that experience that night with my friend could have a repercussion on me on whether I could be a lesbian or not
carolina (link)
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things aren't really that black and white. You can't just be straight, get drunk and kiss a woman and then become gay. It's definitely possible that you are bi but have always thought that you only liked men, probably because that's what you've been exposed to your whole life. I think that at this point, you shouldn't stress so much about figuring out whether you are lesbian or straight, instead just consider yourseld open. For a little while, just consider everyone you see and if you don't deny feelings and fight yourself, you will soon realize who you are attracted to and who you are not. If you meet someone you like, whether it's a man or a woman, try it out and decide from there. Just keep your mind open and try to be in a relationship that will make you happy, once you're happy you'll have a better idea about your sexual orientation.
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I was used by a boy for sex and whatnot
and then he became a total jerk and is mean
I still like him and I want us to be friends again like we used to,how should I talk to him?
I was gonna wait until he talked to me but i need to take part in this too and he isnt the type that if i started talking and spilling my heart out , that he would go along with it
Has anyone ever been in this position?
What did you do?
by the way , im 14/nc (link)
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you're not gonna like this answer, but honestly i think you should stay away from him. why would you possibly want to be friends with this kid? you're fourteen and you had sex with him? ok, seriously you're wasting your time because i really doubt he wants to be friends with you. And if he does then it's just to get close to you and screw you again. find some new friends
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I'm 22/F.. I've always been thin, and a slow-eater. I have never been mindful of my weight or body image. I eat what I want, trying to have good nutrition, of course, but never skip on anything I might crave, like chocolate or ice cream.. I'm 5'6 and weigh about 117 (the last time I checked). This is considered normal for my body type, but i could afford to gain a few pounds. I know a lot of women want the opposite, but not me. Is there anyone who knows how I can gain a couple extra pounds/build more muscle while staying healthy? I do yoga fairly regularly and try to maintain a good diet, though it's sometimes difficult since I'm a student. Thanks! (link)
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the best thing to do is bulk up, because if you gain more muscle, you'll also gain more weight. Start going to the gym and focus different parts of your body, arms one day, abs the next. good luck
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CAn someone pleeeeeeeeeeeease tell me some dangers to getting your nose peicred and some good things bout it (link)
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i was thinking about it for a while, just a stud, because i think it looks really cool, but then i talked to someone who convinced me not to because
1. it hurts a lot- you're piercing cartalidge, so it's very painful, i know someone who passed out
2. some people find it uncomfortable- especially when you have a cold or runny nose!
3. if you are currently playing a sport, u might not be able to play with it in and for the first few weeks you can't take it out
but it's up to you
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What's the average no. of hrs of sleep I should get?
I'm a light sleeper and I get woken up easily by noises. What can I do to ensure uninterrupted sleep?
Any good advice will be much appreciated. (link)
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some people say 9, but i personally think that's overkill. it all depends on how much stress you have in your life. only 2 hours are needed to restore us physically, so the rest depends on your brain. 6-7 is fine, but aim for 7-8. Also, since you're a light sleeper, try a sound machine, it's just a small machine that you set to sound like the ocean, or wind, or crickets, or whatever you want which can make it easier to sleep and block out other noises. also check for watches, clocks, cell phone noises...etc that could make noise in the middle of the night and wake you up. goodluck!
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Well to make a long story as short as possible, I've been under stress lately. My mom doesn't talk to me, my sister moved out a while ago, and she just told me that she and her boyfriend are moving far away soon becasue he's joining the Army.
I love my boyfriend more than anything, we have a great relationship and I know he loves me. But Something has been wrong lately. Whenever I have to leave his house I get really depressed, and all these terrible thoughts come to my head, I can't stop them, like that he doesn't love me anymore, or that he's not attracted to me. I can't stop these thoughts, and I wish they would go away. I know they're ridiculous and I can't take it anymore. It's happened so amny times before, I'll be doing something, and somethign he'll say or so will automatically make me think that he doesn't love me anymore, or that he's annoyed with me. I'm so scraed to disagree with him or raise my voice or tell him not to do something because I'm terrified that he'll get mad, and it kills me to think that I could upset him. (I'm like that around most people, I hate thinking that I could have upset someone because I can't stand the idea that someone could be mad at me.) My boyfriend has this habit of pinching my butt and honking my boobs, and I really wish he wouldn't. I dunno how to tell him to stop though, I'd rather just be around him without all the pervy physical stuff.
I dunno whats wrong with me. Please give me advice, information, reassurance, anything!
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it seems like you feel like your boyfriend is the only person you have to turn to and you are really worried about losing him, therefore paranoid that everything he does means he doesn't like you. if you keep ignoring these thoughts, overtiem you will change and explode with feelings and such, so i REALLY suggest talking to him. tell him exactly how you feel and show him how important he is to you. the only reason he pinches you and stuff is because he thinks your hot and thinks you like it, so just tell him you don't, but make it up to him. be honest, and it'll work out
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i have sooo many blackheads on my nose.. can anyone give me some really good products to get rid of them? and where do you buy them? thanks so much!:) (link)
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i have blackheads too and what i use is Biore warming blackhead cream cleanser, it's really cool and when you squeeze it out, it actually gets warm! it's really sweet. also, get some strips for your nose, any brand has those, and get ones that specifically say that they get rid of blackheads. all of these can be bought at a drugstore like cvs, walgreens, brooks, walmart, target, grocery stores
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ok so one of my best friends (14/m) is bi. he keeps falling for straight guys and will call me crying. i have no idea what to tell him. if theres anyone expierence in this subject from any side please help! i want him to be able to talk to me about this stuff, but i dont know what to say becasue im strait.
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that must be really tough for him, and while it helps to be all nice and comforting, help him find a guy! find places in your town where gay kids and bi kids hang out, see if there are any gay pride parades/functions anything! he needs to fall for someone he can really have! you're straight, which means that you guys have something in common, you both like guys, so just like he confides his guy problems in you, do the same and make him feel like he is helping. Just don't be shy around the subject and say what you'd say to any of your other friends
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