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Clueless!


Question Posted Tuesday December 19 2006, 7:57 am

I was used by a boy for sex and whatnot
and then he became a total jerk and is mean
I still like him and I want us to be friends again like we used to,how should I talk to him?
I was gonna wait until he talked to me but i need to take part in this too and he isnt the type that if i started talking and spilling my heart out , that he would go along with it
Has anyone ever been in this position?
What did you do?
by the way , im 14/nc


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TheHeadHonchoPoncho57 answered Tuesday December 19 2006, 4:35 pm:
I am pretty sure that you are the same person that asked a question I answered earlier on my column (correct me if I'm wrong), are you not?

Now that I know the circumstances...he used you for sex?




Get away from this kid IMMEDIATELY.

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christina answered Tuesday December 19 2006, 3:07 pm:
Okay, this is what I don't get. Why the hell would you still wanna be friends with this kid? He used you for sex, [I'm guessing you're a virgin] & then pretty much shut you down after. If I was you, I'd tell him to fuck himself, and let go. He's not worth your time, and you shouldn't bother trying to be his friend again. I wouldn't dare stay friends with someone who screwed me, and then dropped me like a hot potato. It's not worth it. In the end, if you become friends with this kid again, he'll probably end up using you once more & then doing it all over. I wouldn't let him in [even if he wanted to], and I wouldn't worry about it. The best part you can take in forgetting this kid, & not making any sort of contact with him even if your life depended on it. Find somebody worth your time, and someone who cares about you, your feelings & your physical attributes. This one just doesn't give a rats ass.

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god-smusgrove answered Tuesday December 19 2006, 2:52 pm:
lady, he used you for sex. you said it yourself. i wouldnt talk the dick head if my life depended on it

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peebles7 answered Tuesday December 19 2006, 12:33 pm:
you're not gonna like this answer, but honestly i think you should stay away from him. why would you possibly want to be friends with this kid? you're fourteen and you had sex with him? ok, seriously you're wasting your time because i really doubt he wants to be friends with you. And if he does then it's just to get close to you and screw you again. find some new friends

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