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hiya I'm shelly, I'm 20 and from England. I have the best boyfriend in the world and he means so much to me. I love to help people and I've just started using Advicenators again. I hope i can help you all with your problems feel free to email me x


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Well, which one would you choose?

Option 1 - University: All I have to do there is study art, math, physics and english. It's a 4 year program, and once i get the diploma i can get one hell of a job. The thing is that i don't know anyone there, I'm only 16 and i don't think i'm that good at art and design. But I love art and i've been in love with it since forever.

Option 2 - School: I get to do the IB program, which I've been waiting to do since forever. I get to do IB music, IB higher maths and IB higher french, and a bunch of standard subjects. I know everyone in my class, but i won't have my best friend there with me. I get to study my fave subjects, and since I'm planning on becoming a guitarist one day, IB music sounds like heaven to me. The only thing I'm afraid of is that I'll be lonely.

I'm already accepted at the uni and I'm only 16. But I'd LOVE to do higher music. (My plan is to transfer to the states and do music as my major after art).

I'm kinda stuck here. Please help?

Thanks loads.

Troubled Artist

i think you should go to Uni you will get a better job after all and im sure you'll make new friends in no time. thats just my opinion though you need to be sure that it is what you want to do.
Luv Shelly

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I care a lot about my friends but to some of them i kinda feel like im not that important to them and we always have fights and its really hard and i need to kno how to handle it cuz im tired of fighting and having to deal with it its really hard well plz give me some advice ill rate high
Thanx

Talk to them and tell them how you are feeling. I felt like that and me and my friends talked about it. If they dont listen then find some other friends to hang around with they'll soon realise that they do need you.

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i`m 16 & my boyfriend is in jail i love him more then anything in this world .. he says hes gonna change but i dont know if i should believe him what should i do

If you love him and trust him then i think you should stay with him becuase he is going to need you when he gets out more than anything. If you feel like you cant trust him then you have to tell him that

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ok i have this friend named sean and i like him more than a friend and i want to be with him all the time!
its not like a stupid crush like ive had befor when i like them because everyone else does...i like him because he respects me and everytime i talk to him i get butterflys in my stomach .
how can i get him to like me back ?

16/f

Just be yourself and love yourself. ask him if he wants to go to the movies or something.

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hello advicenators i am having my party on firday july 1st and its at water country and i just watched the weather and the high was 87 and te low was 70 which is good but the rain chance was 60% and i was wondering is that alot?? and it is most likely to rain??

It is quite likely that it will rain.

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heyy everyone yesterday i got a major sunburn and my upper back and shoulders which is bad because i have a pool party to attend on friday and im wearing this bikini and i dont want to be a peeling mess and it didnt start peeling yet but my mother said it will real soon and i was just wondering is there any lotion or creme i can get to decrease the peeling or stop the peeling?? and if there is then where can i get it???

thanks i rate HIGH

Hey well there are some lotions which are for aftersun. Good for sunburn also calomine lotion can help. Apply it everynight before you go to bed.

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my mom doesn't let me have a life. i only saw my boyfriend in the morning for like 4 minutes in school. now that its summer, i really want to do something with him. how could i make my mom.......easier? i dunno. help.

Just tell her that your getting older and she needs to let you have your own life!

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I'm having a party tonight and i dont know what games we should play. Does anyone have any suggetions. Please no dirty suggestions b/c my parents will be home!!!

apple dunking. put apples in a huge bowl and fill it with water and try and get them out only with your mouth tho your not allowed to use your hands. lol its so funny.

Twister

Spin the bottle

get a large stick and someone spins around the stick 20 times and has to run around obstacles. it is so funny watching people falling over, great laugh.

pillow fights

truth or dare

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Which name do you guys like best? The gerbal is tanish brown and is a male. Which names do you guys like ?

Cinniniman
Nibbles
Co-Co


i like the name co-co best. well cute name!!

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ok how can you get a guy when you are

1. taller than most of the guys that i like
(i am 5'6'')
2. plump
(i dont look like i weigh 165 pound but i do
weight like that)
3. you dont look same as other kids because
I AM ASIAN!

i got quiet few guy friends but they all think of me as friend because all the things i've listed

so how do i get a guy who is Nice... and sweet, i dont really care about the look unless they are like really ugly and smelly and stuff, but i care for wats on the inside, unless they are really social zero.

so pleeeeease help me lose weight and get a guy who is sooo sweet...

and help me not try to steal my friends' boyfriend
yes i tried but i cant get him out of my mind

and its not really my fault if i wanna call him because he gave me HIS number first...

so pleeeeeeease help~
i rate 5 if they are good
and 4 if they try to help and
1's if you are going to be makin fun of me

if you want a guy you have to be confident, dont change yoursef for a guy. the colour of your skin shouldn't matter if he loves you he will not mind. Just be confident and talk to the lads you like and dont be fake, dont try and be a person your not lads dont like girls who are fake. Be true to yourself and love the way you are most importantly!
If you really are not happy with the way yuo are and want to lose weight jsut eat healthy and exercise regually. Try www.toneteen.com it has some good ways of staying fit

luv shelly

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Ok i got a new dvd palyer and a gift card for a mvoie site.
Will oyu guys give me some ideas of osme movies i sohuld buy
i liek all kinds
THnaks

Here are some films that are really good
Signs
Blue Crush
Save the last dance
Honey
8 Mile
Sweet home alabama
Along came Polly
50 first dates

There just a few i like that you might like too

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I eat 3 meals a day and lately abou an hour after my meals I start to get really hungry.
I've tried eating bigger portions but it just made me feel bloated after, I've tryed halfing my portions and leaving half of it for when I do get hungry but it makes my hunger worse and I've tried ignoring it but it just doesn't seem to go away.

Is there anyway I can stop this?

Have a healthy snack like some fruit or a cereal bar in bewtween your meals.

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This week, I'm going to the movie with a bunch of my friends. It'll be 2 of my friends & their boyfriends & me & my guyfriend. We haven't known eachother that long & everyone says we're a relationship in the making. When all my friends are making out, people say that we'll just end up doing it too because we won't be able to help ourselves. Is that true? If so, what should I do? Go along with it?

xO* fAith

Well if you like the guy then yeah go for it. It might happen it might not. Just try not ot be too nervous. You'll be fine
luv shelly

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I'm in Middle School and every1 is wearing makeup and long earrings! my mom won't let me but sometimes i sneak out of the house with some eyeshadow on. and i can't wear hoops ( even small 1's!) on any day except tuesday when we have chapel. what should i do??

Tell your mum that everyone else is wearing earing and make-up. If she wears make-up and earing tell her that if she wears them then you should also be allowed!
luv shelly

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does it matter what kind of perfume?

no any perfume should work.

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i'm an american, and i want to know what "chavs" are... in like england and the uk and stuff. who are they and what do they do?

Chavs are teenagers who wear track suits they sit around on streets all day! weird.

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Um i always get cold sores like always ill have on for about a week and a half and then the next day or two ill have another one and i dont know what to do there bothering me I CANT STAND THEM!! is there anything i can buy to help pervent them or something they hurt i just need them to go away!!!

I'll rate 5's thanks!!

*K

i know it sounds weird but putting perfume on colesores helps them go, It stings for a second but it works well.
luv shelly

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Do you all think that youare to young to have sex if you are 14? How Old were you when you did it your first time? Me and my boyfriend were talkin about it and I was just curious on your opinions....

i think its way too young. Its illegal!

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i want to go on a diet. every is like "no you are so skinny!" which is true, but i want to stay skinny! im not trying to loose weight, im trying to maintain it! so please help me out on ways to do that!

go to www.toneteen.com it has some great ways of staying fit and healthy. exercises and things.
luv shelly

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i had this best friend named ryley when i was about 5 years old years old!! we lived next door to me and we did EVERYTHING together!but then when i was 8 he moved and i never saw him again and now i am really starting to miss him. My boyfriend goes to his church and a few weeks ago he said his best friend ryley from church asked if he knew me!he said yes and ryley told him we used to be best friends!now i really want to call him since i know now that he remembers me! but i dont know what i would say!i sure did change alot from when i was 8 til now im 14.i dont even know if he cares or wants to talk to me..what should i do?

If he asked about you he must care. Ask for his number and ask him if he wants to meet up sometime
luv shelly

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