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I'm full of random information, and I've found it to be veryyy helpful giving advice =] Plus I have ALOT of life experience so I feel that I could really help with anything. I won't lecture or judge you, because I am really trying to help you and answer your question. I know everybody says this but I really have been through it all, from family, relationship, and health prolems - I've been there. I'm only 17 but I feel like everything I've been through has matured me beyond my years. Chances are I can relate to your problems and tell you what really works. Feel free to ask me anything and i'll get back to you as quickly as possible x3

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I don't know if anyone on here is gonna know anything about writing music but I was wondering if anyone has any tips on writing music with guitar. I can write lyrics but not music. I've tried writing some music but it usualy ends up very badly. So any tips?

i play and write music also, so i completely understand writers block don't worry.
writing music is writing poetry, you need flow and alot of rhythm. each word has a beat to it, each sylabol is a sound and a tone. when you write poetry it's not all flat, it evens out, i know this is hard to explain but im just trying to tell you that the sylabols in words need to match up in each line.
find a beat you like and repeat it over and over until words and ideas fill your mind. sooner or later you'll have an idea and you will start matching sylabols and rhyming, it will be grand i promise you*
do something art-related before or even during, expressing yourself will bring emotional phrases and feelings that you have not experienced and it will be your muse.
i know that this advice may be hard to explain, so if you need any more help just IM me at Stolen Kiss 4273

good luck.

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okey dokey, i'm gonna be a freshman...14/female and my brother is gonna be a senior, so he wasnt much help. ok if you're a guy, what do you like to see on girls, and if your a girl, can you help me out with some good stores to shop at and what clothes would look good for this school year so i dont look like a fool in front of the upperclassmen? thanks in advance.

American Eagle is not only less expensive, but very trendy and mature. the upperclassman will appreciate your laid back yet trendy style for sure.
Ambercrombie and Fitch is the new look, although the prices are high the fashionble clothes will score you some points.
Whatever you do, remember that limited too, rave, dot, and other discount stores are not stylish... at all. please avoid them at all costs*
good luck hunnie
xoxo

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what are some things i could do to flatten the lower party of my belly up?


many people will give you numerous ab exercises, but the truth is you can have a 6 pack but if your body fat percentage is high, you won't be able to see it. so start eating healthier and run everyday* sooner or later your whole body will be leaner along with your belly!
good luck* xoxo

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ok, im a guy and sick of doing the same thing over and over again (jacking off), i mean i have a girlfriend and everything just rly god damn horny, any tips on how to do it better? like lotions.. ive herd of sticking it in a vaccum... any other suggestions?'

don't stick it in a vaccume!!! lol, it'll hurt and you'll be sorry.
there are KY warming lotions that are suppose to feel very nice


http://www.masturbation-techniques.net/maletech.html

that site will help you very much

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I just got in a huge fight with my sister. It started out as me being jealous of how she looked in her bathing suit. (really good! which I do not look) But then she started being really mean to me anyways. What should I do? And please don't tell me to tell ym sister I am soooo sorry and that I love her because she is not the mushy type at all. Thanks! -twistedsister17

leave her alone for a while and let the fight fade, don't be in her way but if she talks to you then don't ignore her! if she says something rude, don't respond. offer her ice cream on you or do her a favor (like do some of her chores or something) i'm sure it will all work out and be back to normal soon. good luck*

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Ok, me and my boyfriend Cory have been going out for 9 months. Well, there is this girl named Stephanie who has been hitting and flirting with my boyfriend ever since we started going out. I have always hated this girl, so it makes the situation worse. She'd do it in my face, wherever.. she doesnt care. Once, i saw her, her friend, and Cory at this baseball field playing baseball with some younger kids and i got pretty mad about it. I forgave him and we went on with our relationship. He always compares me with her, like ill do something, and hell say, "Stephanie wouldnt do that!" then i get pissy, and he goes im sorry baby, im sorry blah blah blah... well, yesterday he was here, and i havent seen him for about a week, so i was talkin 2 him and he jus wanted to watch tv. Then left 20 minutes after he got here because I was being annoying. Well, now, i just learned that him, Stephanie, another girl, and another boy are at this other boys house. It really pisses me off because he is controlling, and I wasnt allowed to go to my friends house (a boys house), because he doesnt like the boy. So i said fine, i wont go. I really think hes cheating because he lets her flirt in my face and hes been acting really strange around me. So, do you think hes cheating? SHould i give him another chance? Should i call him? idk what to do because i dont want to overreact and i dont want to throw away a 9 month relationship! I would want to sit and talk with him but im scared he will hurt me physically and i dont want to lose him, im 14 and hes 15... what should i do??

dump him! any man that will let a girl flirt in front of your face, and ditch you for a whore isn't worht your time. he obviously doesnt care as much as you or he wouldn't hurt you like that. your too good for him, go find yourself a real man*
good luck hunnie, xoxo

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i just got my nose pierced and i dont like it. how do i turn this around and make it look like it was my moms fault?

you can say you weren't sure but your mom convinced you

you were just kidding but then she actually took you!

you lost a bet with your mom

you were tryin to get back at her but she actually let you ???

you didnt want to but you thought she already paid and you didnt want to make her think you were a wimp, peer pressure!!! hahaha.

she makes you insecure so you wanted a change?? psh i dno this is very hard.


i hope i helped, lol sry i couldnt give you more

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does anybody know where i can get cool aim away messages? i really like those ones that like the colors of the font like fade away or get brighter. or with pictures. thanks! ill rate.


www.gonebuddy.com

www.badassbuddy.com



hope i helped
xoxo

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I've been masturbating and I've been using a water bottle and my finger.. does anyone have any other items I could use to masturbate? Will rate 5's =]

it's not an item, but it works...
while running water in your bath tub (luke warm, not too hot! nothings worse then scorching ur insides) since the bath faucet is so strong, angle it so the water runs through your v and have fun w/ differant water pressures.
lol, have fun


p.s. don't use any foods such as bannanas or carrots because they can cause infections! and what's worse then telling the doctor you got an infrection from a carrott??? so be careful.

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wat exactly about being out in the rain, or sudden changes in temperture, or coldness that makes you get sick? how does it weaken ur immune system.

all have to do with body heat. when you are wet or cold your body temperature is cooler as well. as your body heat drops, your body goes into chaos trying to warm you up (like shivvering or goosebumps). since your body is in such fright it the defense goes down in order to concentrate on warming up the body. in the meaningtime, you are touching and breathing in many germs in which are allowed in your body. this causes you to be ill, and have the cold, flu, etc.
hope i helped

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okay this may sounds dumb, but is it okay to have sex if your in the water.. like a hot tub? i wasnt sure if it was alright because of the water going into your vagina ... sorry if this sounds stupid but i really want to know! thank you. will rate!

yes it is completely fine! and usually very pleasing. water gets in your vagina all the time: swimming, bath, etc. it just drains on out don't worry. so go have fun*
xoxo

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Hey !! Im 15 and have had a crush on this one guy for over 4 years now (on and off) Ive had boyfriends during this time period but for some reason I keep going back to liking him. We've never been extremely close but we are friends. He's extremely cute, and has a good personality. We see each other out of school sometimes, but for some reason he will never talk to me online, wby is that? He was at my friends Swt 16 and we danced and I actually thought he'd ask me out but soon I found out he wouldn't date me because im quote "beautiful and too perfect" and he wouldnt want to just use me for sex because im more then that and im one of his friends. Im flattered but in the pit of my stomach I cant stop thinking about him, should I go on liking him or just move on and maybe one day he'll realize what he has lost? Please help me, thanks so much ! xO

move on and live your life, you can't just hault your love life for a chance because think about if you lose that gamble and he moves on... don't waste time, go live life! and remember, live your life, have fun, and another's regrets shopuld not bother you. good luck*

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my bf always says hes gonna call me back but never does nd we were on the phone like 5 hrs ago nd he said he was gonna call me back but didnt so should i just call him or will i seem desperit? i havent talked to him in a while cause he was on vaca nd when we got to talk before, it was only for like 10 mins cause he had to go cleanhis room or wutever. i dont wanna seem desperit. but ive been missing him. . . please answer fast ill rate! the faster, the higher

it's not desperate at all! you're his girlfriend you have to right to call him back and yell at him! lol, good luck

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today i had pop rocks and soda and now i'm being told that it's bad for you and i'm scared something is gonna happen to me!! what, if anything, is going to happen to me?!

no worries, it's just a myth! you'll be just fine.

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I'm eighteen years old and a high school graduate. I frequently help babysit my younger cousins (ages 2-12) for free or at a low price, and I am fairly used to the quirks, likes and dislikes, of behavior of my relatives.

A family friend has asked me to babysit their 7 (I think 7) year old son for about eight hours this Thursday (I write this on Sunday). I like the kid and he seems to hero-worship me, so I'm fairly certain I'm going to accept. However, he has a reputation for wild behavior, so I am going in guarded.

My problem is, while I've played with him and helped to babysit him before, I've never been the primary babysitter. While my mother will be home that day, I really want to be as self-sufficient as possible.

So, I was looking for some pointers for babysitting non-family. I'm thinking that I'll start him out on cartoons, since he'll be arriving at my house about seven, and break up the rest of the day with semi-healthy snacks every 2-3 hours, and blocks of toys, drawing, and video games. Movies if I get REALLY desperate.

If you could give me tips, crisis management techniques, and ideas for free or low-cost crafts and games, I would greatly appreciate it. Movie rental suggestions are also welcome, although my budget is very small, and my selection is limited to a single small store.


:: here are some tips ::

IF HE GETS HURT then take it lightly, if you freak out he will too. i often play "abulance" with the child by picking them up and kinda spining them around as i make the siron sounds and such. if he's ticklish then toss him down on the couch and tickle hiom until he laughs, laugh with him. this will make him feel as if he i actually having fun and he will soon forget about the injury. if you know it is a bit more severe make sure to give him proper care and lay him down in front of the Tv as you cator to him, he'll start to feel better.
FOR SNACKS ask him if he wants to help with the snacks, usually making a child feel helpful makes them behave better and feel better. make fun snacks! like ants on a log, (celery, peanut butter, raisins), or smoothies! things that excite them rather then boring regualr snacks.
SOME GREAT MOVIES FOR KIDS would be The Incredibles, Grease, Shrek/Shrek 2, Toy Story (always works for me), and any other disney movie.
SOME CHEAP CRAFTS would be coloring books, chalk (outside), play dough, watercolors, madlibs, or even a water sparkler can kill some major time.
IF HE GETS WILD then do not yell! yelling makes a child confused and angry leading to more wild actions. thus, a simple fake call to their parents or santa clause usually works just fine. (calling a guy friend to pretend to be santa and lettin the child talk to them is a great way to really make them listen!) also, saying something like "o well since your not listening i guess you aren't getting that super deliecious dessert i was making for you...." and they usually jump to be good again, but then again u must supply the dessert or treat if they behave.

good luck!

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ok I have this problem and I'm finally admiting it I cut myself whenever I'm hurting inside I know it's bad but I only started doing it once I met this guy John. He's my boyfriend. I know I need to dump him or get over him but forget it I gone thought so much shit to stay with him I not gonna dump him unless he actually hits me. But I want to know how I can try to stop without professional help my mom doesn't know I do it and I refuse to get proffesional help?

Nikki


ok this is a hard issue that i have also dealt with. i respect your decision to stay with john so i won't critisize you for that, but i think it's time to ask yourself if the relationship is healthy for you.
also, cutting is an issue within yourself and you cannot blame it on any drama or bf's. remember that.
so to help your cutting....
- wear a rubberband at all times. wen you feel sad or stressed snap yourself as hard as possible. hey, it's better then cutting yourself.
- discard all of your razors and cutting kits (if you own one) that you had. it will ease you from alot of temptation.
- before you cut, stand back from the blade for a bit and take 30 deep breaths. calm yourself down, this will help you back away with confidence.
- start writing poetry! this is what helps me the most. when i feel pain i write and write and write and it is like therapy to me.


good luck hunnie

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i have a few questions about getting your belly button pierced.
1. About how much does it cost?
2. How long do you have to leave it in before you can take it out?
3. How long can you leave it out before it closes?

thanks and ill rate you!

- it costs about $40 to $50
- you have to keep it in for about 7 months
- don't leave it out for more then 5 days!

xoxo

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You know those spongey things that you use in the shower? I forget what they're called..neways! How long should you use the same one?

i would say about 3 to 4 monthes depending on the quality.
they are called loofas lol, im pretty sure.

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ok...about how old do girls normally stop growing....im 13 and im 5 feet 1 inch and my boobs are really small!

no need to worry, you won't stop growing until you are at least sixteen. they may seem to completely stay the same, but just wait. i was flat with my period for a very long time (i think even years!) then out of nowhere i sprouted some boobs, lol so there is hope.
good luck
xoxo

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ok so my boyfriends bithday is coming up and he told me that one thing he wants for his birthday is a lapdance from me...ok no big deal right? well i havent done it before...so can any one help me give me some tips?

if you do not want to then tell im, he should understand.

although if you wish to go through with it then use your imagination. first, start to imagine yourself as somebody beautiful and exotic, somebody sexy and confortable with their sexuality. this will put you in the right state of mind. stand in front of the mirror with sexy underwear on until you feel confortable and sexy, then start to play into character.
[[ a lap dance tip ]] trigger his main veign, lol. caress his inner theighs lol and that'll get him going.
make sure to put on music, it will help soften the mood and make you confortable.

haha i am sorry i do not have much experience with this, but i tried and i hope i helped. good luck.
xoxo

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