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In a Fight
I just got in a huge fight with my sister. It started out as me being jealous of how she looked in her bathing suit. (really good! which I do not look) But then she started being really mean to me anyways. What should I do? And please don't tell me to tell ym sister I am soooo sorry and that I love her because she is not the mushy type at all. Thanks! -twistedsister17
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Sisters fight all the time, you wouldn't be sisters if you didn't. It sound like a simple fight and can be easily amended by forgetting it. After the next time compliment her on how she looks and all will be forgiven.
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Explain why you got angry. She'll feel flattered and not be mand at you anymore.
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0K. Y0U NEED T0 SiT D0WN AND HAVE A NiCE TALK WiTH HER. TELL HER THAT Y0U WERE JUST TRYiNG T0 C0MPLiMENT HER, BUT SHE T00K iT iN THE WR0NG WAY. JUST TELL HER Y0U WERE JEALOUS.. SHE WiLL UNDERSTAND. K? H0PE i HELPED!
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Hey. First off, I agree with the people who tell you to let the situation simmer. Sounds like you sister might be a natural hothead. Second, don't focus so much on how you look in a bathing suit, unless you just want guys liking you for how you look. I can't tell you how many people are shallow enough to date for looks alone, not for personality. Relationships started over something shallow like looks or popularity DO NOT LAST. Look at how many celebrity relationships have failed because of shallow things. Let your sister cool off, then, after she has had time to cool off, she may see the error of her own ways. Sibling rivalries are very common among both emotionally close and distant siblings. Don't let something so trival drive you apart. Remember, she will be your sister forever, there is no need to break up a family because of looks! Good luck with your sister.
Best Wishes, Jordan
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I would just let it simmer and just do a little aploigee and don't worry how she looks ok just focus on u and next time just trynot 2 look at her or somthin thats all i can think of hope i really helped Hope things work out!!!!
GOOD LUCK♥
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Well, since she's really not the "mushy" type, just leave her alone for now. I'm sure after awhile she'll come around. Sometimes sisters know eachother are sorry just by looking at one another. Maybe you could make it up to her by asking her to hangout with you someday. Kind of like a sister-sister day. Go to the mall, out to eat, movies, ice cream, etc. Either way, you guys won't be mad at eachother too long.
♥ Krissy
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leave her alone for a while and let the fight fade, don't be in her way but if she talks to you then don't ignore her! if she says something rude, don't respond. offer her ice cream on you or do her a favor (like do some of her chores or something) i'm sure it will all work out and be back to normal soon. good luck*
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