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OK so the kid i like (who has a g/f) asked me the other day online if i still liked him..and i tried changin the subject but hes like "No don't shange the convo.." so i told him: idk because you have a gf... then he said ooo ok..now hes talking to me a lot more..should i have told him that i still liked him? should i tell him the next time i talk to him? help me! i rate 5s! (link)
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Well i think you should just keep talking to him. Dont be the reason for anything between him and his girlfriend. But if you feel comfortable enough with him to tell him and know that he wont make you the reason for him breaking up with her or something then just tell him. Your better off telling him now when you have the chance, then holding it in and maybe in the end you might end up blowing your chances. Good luck
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ok as weird as this sounds i like my step bro. i keep on telling him i like him but he never likes me back. i am only a year younger then him and he is not really blood related to me so i dont think i that big of a deal. does any1 no how i can get him to like me. plzzzzzzzzzz help thanx (link)
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uh. If he doesnt like you now, and your his STEP SISTER odds are hes not gunna like you. Im sorry but related to you or not, it just doesnt work that way. Thats Not right and be careful cause your gunna end up freakin him out.
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what do you do if you broke up with ur bf because of family problems and u still really like him a lot and you want to go back out with him but hes afriad you'll break up with him again? ill rate high! (link)
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Well Thats something your gunna need to think about. If you truely like him and you know the first time was a mistake and because of family problems, you have to make sure those things wont be in the way. When and if your for sure then tell him and if hes still hesitating n everything, take things slow and dont rush him, if you like him you'll be there to give him enough time to think it over, and let him know you like him enough to wait. He will realize it and if hes smart he will get back together with you. good luck and best wishes
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why dose it seem like my bf dont really like talking to me? he seems like hes mad.? (link)
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Well if you usually talk to him ALLL the time like crazy, and stuff he might just be losing interest. I get like that with my boyfriend. I see him ALL the time and talk to him EVERY SINGLE DAY that i get in a mad mood and start being kinda rude. But its just cause were together to much and i want time to myself. Now if you dont talk alll the time n stuff, then maybe hes just confused n either way you should talk to him and ask him whats going on. Hes your boyfriend and suposed to be able to tell you things. If he says nothing then dont settle for that, you know somethings up if he seems mad when hes just talking to you. hope i helped
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i broke up w/ my bf yesterday but i want to get back together w/ him! it hurts so bad! i broke up w/ him cause i liked this other guy nd he still likes me nd i still like him but hes 2 yrs older than me. idk if hell ask me out or not. wut should i do? if i get back together w/ him i might regret it nd i dont want to go throu this agian but i want to go out w/ him while i still can. this is so confusing. i hate it! i love them both! (link)
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Ok calm down, and think about it. All you have to do is NOT settle for something. Dont go back n settle with your old boyfriend, you may miss him and it may "hurt so bad" but you broke up with him once already and it was just yesterday? givee it time.. dont run back to him already. And You broke up with him because you have feelings for another guy. If you like both dont be with one and like the other too. Thats messed up. Give things time see who you really wanna be with and if you cant pick then i say find someone completely new.
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me: i never look good lol
him: yeah you do
me: you havent seen me in like.. 10 months how would you know
him: b/c i just do
is he into me? (link)
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Too soon to tell. He's being nice and all but he may not be "into" you. and if he hasnt seen you in 10 months then that would mean you havent seen him either?.. so maybe hes changed and hes just messing. Theres A bunch of possible reasons. Thats why you just gotta keep talkin n see what else he says. But dont over estimate it cause you may be wayy in over your head dear.
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i otld this kid that i liked him and he has a gf. Now hes saying hes gonna break up with her and then he started asking me all these nasty questions like "if we went out could we have sex" and "do you shave" and "would u let me finger you" and then i told him that no i wouldnt have sex with him and when i told him that and then hes like "dude this isnt even him bye" and then they got off but i kno it was him and now im afraid he'll tell everyone PLEASE HELP ME ASAP!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Well if it wasnt him then someones just being stupid and messing with you. But thats good for you to say no. And why would you be worried about that person telling people? You said the right thing and if ANYONE makes fun or gives you a hard time for it then they obviously dont make good choices. If your that embarrassed and wanna "seem cool" then i guess you could say you told him no because he has a girlfriend and he kept saying he break it off with her to be with you, and you didnt wanna be in the middle of it.? lol hopefully you wont have to even tell anyone that but if its something your that worried about.
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hey. ok. i think i might be bi. but i only feel this way for ONE girl. so it could be obsession or something. and we only talk during softball. and she is graduating this year coming up. i no this is gonna sound bad, but i got on my brothers s/n just to talk to her tonight..i pretended to be a guy and i found out she was gay. and i also asked her a bunch of personal questions (if you no what i mean) and found out a BUNCH of stuff about her. and everytime she answered back i got butterflies in my tummy and this HUGE smile came across my face and i got VERY nervous every time. i dont no i have never felt this way for anyone. could this be a crush, love, or just obsession? (link)
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hmm sounds like a crush?. lol. well to be honest you got on your brothers screen name, asked her a bunch of questions, you went through all that trouble to find out everything, and you smile when she answered, and you get the butterflies... you cant tell me that you dont like her lol. Good luck dear, any other question about it feel free to ask.
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I really STILL like this guy I went out with in the past. He's now going out with another girl but I still REALLY like him (its been about 9 months) and I can't get over him. Everytime I think of him I cry. What should I do? (link)
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You Should uh get over him? goodness He only asked you if you liked him because he just wants to keep you there, if him n this other girl dont work out. Honestly. You gotta move on no matter how much you like him. Dont wait for someone when its already been 9 months and hes got a new chick now. You have to realize he isnt coming back unless hes got no one else. Sorry dear. I've been there. You'll be over him just try n remember hes moved on, and you need to too.
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i like this guy on the internet but he'll be a senior next year and hes hot he says that i am to but im afraid to say anything else ill be a freshman and he lives like 5 states away and its on msn not no chatline
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Honestly that really wont work out. Hes A senior, 5 states away and your a freshman. Girl, go find yourself a boy who lives in your town. You'll be better off. trust me.
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Well I'm currently seeing someone and things are good and all but I miss one of my ex's. I loved her and I think about her every waking moment of my life and sometimes it tears me apart. I dated her about 5 times first for 1 month then 2 weeks then a week then a few days then another few days then sadly only a day. Yes its quite pathetic. My cousin and best friend told me to forget about her because a relationship w/ her is (in his opinion) "unhealthy". This is due to the fact that Ive cut myself over her and thought of suicide. Should I move on? Should I talk to her? What the hell should I do? I am utterly confused - Mike (link)
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Well your really taking things serious. No one is ever worth even THINKING about killing yourself, honestly. And 5 times the FIRST month? thats alot so i dont think she could be "in love" with you, or ever was. Sorry but you gotta move on as hard as it may be. good luck Mike. Hope it all works out for you. Stick with the girl you got by the way.
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ok here the thing.this one girl that i like is on the war path with me.she doesn't talk to me & makes stuff up about me.but i really like her. so wat do i do? do i say the heck with her or wat?
HELP A POOR BROTHER OUT!!
-thanks (link)
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dont even bother with her. How could you honestly like someone who doesnt even have any respect for you. She makes stuff up about you? Thats wrong. Find someone else, im sure you can do better than that.
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Well my brother is 18 just turned recently and he has this friend he is also 18 or 17 not sure yet.Well he is so nice and really understanding. I can talk to him just about anything.He is like one of my brothers bestfriend and he is so cool. I like him very much i'm about to turn 15 I don't know if i should stay quiet about it and keep it as a crush or let him know.Or how can i get tips if he likes me or not. plz help thanks. (link)
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HyperactiveMiss is right. keep it as a crush. he most likely thinks of you as "my best friends sister" and nothing more. You are turning 15 and he is about 3,4 years older. that wouldnt be right unless he was desperate enough to date you. Sorry dear, but if i were you i would keep it a simple crush.
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there is this guy and ive known him for 2yrs and we've always been close as freinds like i can help him with problems and vice versa but we always flirt and i think he likes me hes been droping signals and i think i like him to. schools out and i dont see him as much but when we talk or hang out we flirt im goin to a party next week i think he'll be there--could u tell em somthings i could do to really send the message (link)
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tell him how you feel? i mean yeah its hard, but you know what any smart guy will know that it takes alot of guts to tell them you like them. i mean they do it? they know. so if you just tell him how you feel and why, he should understand. But make sure you add that if he happens to not feel the same then you dont want things to change, cause ruining your friendship over having a crush isn't what you want to happen. hope i helped. good luck
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Me and this girl have been friends for like ever (well since like elementary school) anyways, we botth have made more friends, and we share alot of the same friends. anyways my real problem is that i feel that she would rater hang out with them than me. she invites them over like all the time. she hasnt invited me over since like the summer. i know this probablymakes me sound jelouse and selfish, but i just wish she would spend more time with me. what should i do. i dont want to tell her that i feel left out, cuz i iwll feel stupid. i reallyneed help please (link)
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aw im sorry. well you cant like not tell her, then she wont ever know. my best friend does the same thing. but through everything we are still best friends. At school were with completely diffrent people. But yet our friendship never changes. If you REFUSE to tell her then just still be there for her, when you think your getting on her nerves just play it cool n stuff, sooner or later she will come around and you guys will hang out like before. Sometimes friends just need a break from their friends. its ok.
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My mom broke up with my dad 9 years ago, and has been living with my stepdad since. I was on her computer, and found that she has been flirting with a guy from Texas (thousands of miles away), and they are planning on meeting in Seattle this weekend.
She hasn't told anyone about it, like me, my stepdad, ect. She said she was going to Seattle for a "craft get-together".
Should I be really upset, storm out, and demand to live with my dad? Or be happy for her that she is happy...and having an affair. I guess I'm still in shock.
I'm a 16 year old girl, and I'm not sure how to react. It was probably wrong to look on her computer, but I just had a hunch.
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honestly hun you need to talk to your mom about it. that isnt cool for her to be meeting up with someone. shes lying. i would get really upset. shes not even gunna tell you where shes gunna REALLY be. heaven for bid but what if something by chance happend to her? think about it.
best of luck.
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ok..lets get to it my bestfriend wants me to smoke weed with her and i dont want to but she said she wont be my friend if i dont do it....what should i do (link)
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ok she isnt your best friend. best friends NEVER will pressure you to do something unless its for your own good, they listen, understand, help you out, share clothes, long talks, etc... they would NEVER say that they wouldnt be your friend.
your hanging out with the wrong crowd hunny. find some new friends. you'll be better off.
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There's this girl at my school who's two-faced (she got a bf a little while ago), and I pretend I like her, but I really don't. What should I do?
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hm people are right. you yourself seeem to be alittle two faced. why pretend? honestly dont make her think your her friend and then really not be, thats kinda messed up. and what does it matter if she got a boyfriend alittle awhile ago? if you think shes acting funny cause shes around him, what girl doesnt do that?
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There's two guys i like very much...one is really sweet and has his heart in the right place and means very well, but he's over protective and though we are going out he barely talks to me and flirts with other girls. The other guy is about 4 years older then me, he's 17 and im only 13, but we like each other very much and he doesn't care about age. He's everything a girl could dream of. what should i do with my boy friend? i don't want to brake up he's just too nice and i don't want to brake up with him. How do i brake up with him?
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ok do you or dont you im confused? honestly you cant like someone else and then have a boyfriend how wrong is that! if you "dont want to break up with him" then you should talk to him about whats bothering you. let him know that you care about him, but make sure you let him know you are tired of it. and the other guy. well if you "like" him too then i suggest you break up with your boyfriend. its not fair to either of them when you play your little games. 17 though is WAY older then you. it may be 4 years but it doesnt even sound right.
best of luck-
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I like this guy Brian, and he likes me back. He doesn't want to ask me out though because he thinks asking people out is dumb because then they never really do anything. I can see where he is coming from but I mean com'on! Well my friend was talking to him and she was agreeing with him on everything about hot you never go out and you stop talking, and I mean i guess it's kinda true. But I really want him to ask me out! So it's kind of like she is working against me. Then after she said I should be thankful for her even sending me the conversation, which was totally useless because all it did was make me upset. What should I say to her to make her realize how I'm feeling? By the way I'm in 7th grade. (link)
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Well your only in 7th grade. theres tons of guys out there TRUST ME! But maybe your friend likes him, because my best friend USED to do it and it always made the guy like her and not me anymore. All you gotta do is, dont rely on your friend/s to help you with boy stuff! it never works! Seriously.. your friend will start saying "well i was being nice cause i didnt want to hurt his feelings or make him mad." yah right when shes really flirting. Just do everything yourself. If he doesnt want a girlfriend then forget it. Dont pressure him into doing something hes not wanting to do right now. If you respect him like that then hes gunna be like .."hey shes really understanding.." so yeah. hope i helped! -aMaNdA
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