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Hi Everyone. I'm Alli. ♥

So after a 3 year break. I'm back and ready to answer any of your questions you may have. I hope to help anyone & everyone as best as I can. Have a good day!

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ok so i cut, so obviously im depressed. i cant decide if i should go to a psychologist and have them give me anti-depressants, or if i should just go to our family doctor and get some from him. what do you think? i dont want my parents in the same room as me if i went to the doctor, so how would i do that? id feel bad if i said i dont want my parents to come in, but is that what im supposed to do? is the doctor going to ask me questions? and would i have to show him my cuts? their really teeny and a little red, so they really arent that noticable, but would he still give me anti-depressants? im not wanting anti-depressants just for my cutting, i am depressed so i have other problems other than cutting. thank youuuu

It really doesn't matter where you go. They will mostley give you the same treatments at either your family doctor Or getting a psychologist. But on my opinion, i would recommend a physcologist, basically because he can talk to you better, you DONT have to bring your parents/family in if you dont want to, and they really really help. Anti-Depressants would probably do best for you in your situation. But take care.

♥ Alli*

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a few days ago, my friend slept over at my house. she's worried about me because she thinks im starving myself!! i dont eat breakfast ; ususally have a pop tart or a bagel for lunch ; and mostly crackers for dinner. i dont think im starving myself.. but she does and my other friends are seeing it too. what do u think? im scared.. i dont want to be starved. please help .. ill rate high for good answers!!

Well, your not really starving yourself if your at least eating something. But you definitely dont eat alot. Maybe you should try fruit & vegetables once in a while, because if you dont eat breakfast, have a bagel for lunch, and eat crackers for dinner, you probably wont get your proper nutrients. Take Care.

♥ Alli*

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I want to put a GuestBook, or a comment box on my webpage, not where you have to click this link to get there, and blah blah blah, but where it is on the website and you type what you think and your done .. and its posted to the website ..
anyone know how to do this, or a place where it is simple to learn, or where to get a html code for it .. ??

Go to chatterbox.com or tag-board.com

If you want to also, there is a free webhost that already provides a comment box & a guestbook, its called bravenet.com.

♥ Alli*

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Im 13 and im going to planned parenthood to get birth control..will they let me have it even though im only 13?? And im sexually active-I just want to be safe!

They should let you, even if your 13. It doesn't Matter. Take Care.

♥ Alli*

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i know this may sound really gross but i dont know if something is wrong. When i masturbate, i usually use a electric toothbrush or one of those things you use to massage your back and stuff. It feels so good and i love doing it but after im done, i start bleeding from down there, like i have my period when i KNOW i dont. is this normal, does it happen to anyone else?

Thats definitely not normal. Those objects aren't really meant for masturbating. If you bleed down there after you use them, then dont use them. Just use your hands Or fingers like everyone else, or buy a real masturbating tool, a dildo. You'll be better off with that.

♥ Alli*

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i want to stop watching porn what should i do?

Get into the habit of turning it off on your t.v? Mostely everyone watches porn, i dont see anything wrong with it. Or block certain channels on your t.v & computer so u cant watch it.

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im not over weight but i have extra fat i really want to get rid of i mean im 13 year old girl who weights about 105 lbs and is 5 feet 1 iche but i really want to get rid of my extra fat around my stomach and "love handels"

Well, 105 pounds is very skinny. But i wouldnt know if you have extra fat. So, what you could do is Cut back on the soda, Run, Try swimming since its summer, drink more water, and do sit-ups daily. You will lose all the extra fat you have.

♥ Alli*

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i was wondering how old a puppy had to be before u gave them rawhides. My dog is an extreme chewer and we gave her those until the vet told us she was to young when she was about 10 weeks old because her stomach couldnt haddle them yet. She is about 4 monthes and i was wondering if i could give her them again?

4 Months is still a pretty young age to give your puppy rawhides to. Maybe wait until your puppy is about close to 9-11 months, that would be much better.

♥ Alli*

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Alright, so like last night, like 4 girls where all on me, I had two on my dick and 2 more in my face, it was soooo amazing, why is this??!??!

Also, I didn't use a condom and i'm afraid of the outcome, I'm not sure why, could you guys tell me?



-Levi-

Umm.. Can u say whores ? It doesn't matter if you didnt use a condom, you said they were all over ur dick, you didnt say your dick was in one of them. Dont flatter yourself, you were just used.

♥ Alli*

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my gf is always demanding me to do things if i don't she tells people about the things we do
and my family belives her evevn if its not true
and it makes me out to be the bad person
16/f

Dont take your girlfriends orders! thats completely wrong. And dont hang around someone if they make you out to be the bad person, dump her and find a true kind lady =).

♥ Alli*

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My cousin julie is coming over in a few weeks and we are planing on having, well lets say fun. I have allready had fun, but i want my friends to do it. Alex is def. coming to try it, and i really want krissy to come, but i also want ina to come try it. Ina usually tells her cousin everything, and krissy dosnt want he cousin knowing about this. so krissy said if ina gos, she wont. SO i dont know if i should let just krissy go, or just ina go...Krissy said its fine if i let ina go and not her, but im going to feel bad... please help me choose which one i should choose. XOXO thanks!
-Rachel

What kind of fun? :x and what do you mean? Im sorry, but i cannot understand anything in this question. Or do you mean which friend of yours you should invite over? umm, i would say just bring all of them so one doesnt feel mad or jealous.

♥ Alli*

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i need help!!! i am 14 and i am having a baby and my mom is really strict...should i tell her about it? hide it from her? what do i do!!! help me! i rate high!!!

You have to tell your mom. Even if your too scared to and you dont, she will find out sooner or later anyway in the way you act, eat and look. Telling her before is the best solution. All parents are angry/upset about teen pregnancys, but they get through it, and help out with the baby in the end. Take Care.

♥ Alli*

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Alright, I had butt sex with my girlfriend last night and im afraid it could make a baby.

Is it possible?

-Levi-

No, Anal Sex can not create a baby.

Oh and by the way, if you have a girlfriend.. why were 4 girls on you from the other question levi?

♥ Alli*

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Does anyone kno any really good makeout tips?? 15/f

Theres really no tips. Making out just sorta comes naturally. But tounge is always good =)

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Has anyone used a self tanner that they would recommend? If so, which ones and how much are they?

Any Neutrogena product self tanner i heard really works! They have them at almost any drugstore, & walmart. About 5$.

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Hey Alli,

Ok I have this one friend and she is totally changing herself for the worst. Since the beginning of the year, she's liked this one kid...and then she started dressing really preppy and hanging around with the "popular crowd" just to impress this kid and totally blowing off her true friends. Like once in one of the classes we had together, I called her name like a million times and she totally ignored me. And then her "popular friend" called her once and she answered like *snap* THAT. And there have been way to many other incidences(i dunno if i spelled that right)
to name. I've tried talking to her about it but she just doesnt seem to get where I'm coming from. I've even tried ignoring her but that brought up a whole new riot! So what can I do so she doesn't go too far with this "popularity" thing?

Hey Hun,

I totally see where your coming from. I have had MANY friends who have done this wayy before. Mostley everyone changes when they meet new people, especially in Middle School. Fighting doesn't solve the problem, maybe your friend just wants to make new friends. I honestly dont think its your friends fault, maybe its the new people shes hanging out with are changing her. Just explain to her that you dont care if she has other friends, just at least include you in the picture. If that doesnt help, that means shes not a true friend like you thought she was. And maybe you should consider being around your true friends, and even making new ones. Take Care.

♥ Alli*

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hey im 13 years and this guy ask me out and i lyk him but i lyk this otha guy but the guy i lyk even more lives really far away in wisconsin idk what to do can u give me some advice?

Well, If the guy you really likes lives all the way in Winsconsin ( Or not near you ) you should go for the guy that asked you out! Basically because, if the other guy that you like lives so far away, there wouldn't be a chance that you guys could even go out, or hang out at least. So whoever asked you out you should give a chance to.

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I am going out with someone that is a year younger than me and no one has really said anything to me about it yet but i have a feeling they will...i cannot stand when people continuously say crap to me about it...is it really wrong that hes a year younger?

Definitely Not! Dont mind what people say, if they say something mean to offend you, that means they have something wrong with themselves.

♥ Alli*

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Well I'm not really getting invited to too many parties. A girl named Katee had a huge party and I wasnt invited...I feel like a loser and left out....any ways on how to have more friends or something like that?

Well, remember just always be yourself. It will backfire on you if you change yourself, or act differently. Its never true when you dont have "any" friends. Dont try to fit in with the "popular crowd". All you could do would be to not be an outkast, and be regonized. Take Care.

♥ Alli*

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Okay i have this grandma and she wants us to go every where. My mom wants us to spend the night there to night but I hate spendining the night at her house.She snores and she gets on my nerves. And I dont want to go. What are some good tips on how i can make my mom give my grandma A excuse to get out of spending the night I hate it,and every time I go over there I get a head ache and she is sooooooooooooooo boring some tips on how i can get some excuses would be great i will rate high for good answers but people that tell me what I spell wrong i will give you a one.

Brittany

Aww. I hear what your sayin. Yea, grandmas house isnt as fun as it used to be.. Well. You should make plans the night your mother wants you to spend the night at her house, like with a friend or something! She cant argue with that. Or if you cannot make plans, tell your mom your true feelings about why you dont want to sleepover your grandmas house. Im sure she will understand. Take care.

♥ Alli*

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