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Hey Alli,
Ok I have this one friend and she is totally changing herself for the worst. Since the beginning of the year, she's liked this one kid...and then she started dressing really preppy and hanging around with the "popular crowd" just to impress this kid and totally blowing off her true friends. Like once in one of the classes we had together, I called her name like a million times and she totally ignored me. And then her "popular friend" called her once and she answered like *snap* THAT. And there have been way to many other incidences(i dunno if i spelled that right)
to name. I've tried talking to her about it but she just doesnt seem to get where I'm coming from. I've even tried ignoring her but that brought up a whole new riot! So what can I do so she doesn't go too far with this "popularity" thing?
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Hey Hun,
I totally see where your coming from. I have had MANY friends who have done this wayy before. Mostley everyone changes when they meet new people, especially in Middle School. Fighting doesn't solve the problem, maybe your friend just wants to make new friends. I honestly dont think its your friends fault, maybe its the new people shes hanging out with are changing her. Just explain to her that you dont care if she has other friends, just at least include you in the picture. If that doesnt help, that means shes not a true friend like you thought she was. And maybe you should consider being around your true friends, and even making new ones. Take Care.
♥ Alli*
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