Okay i have this grandma and she wants us to go every where. My mom wants us to spend the night there to night but I hate spendining the night at her house.She snores and she gets on my nerves. And I dont want to go. What are some good tips on how i can make my mom give my grandma A excuse to get out of spending the night I hate it,and every time I go over there I get a head ache and she is sooooooooooooooo boring some tips on how i can get some excuses would be great i will rate high for good answers but people that tell me what I spell wrong i will give you a one.
Brittany
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Families? cUrLyHaiReDcUtiE16 answered Sunday June 26 2005, 5:41 pm: heyy .. the best thing to do is just to talk about it with your mom and tell her how you feel about the whole thing or make plans over the time your supposed to be going over there and just say that you promised the people who you go with 1st that you would go out with them and that you were planning these plans for a week or pretned your sick and that you do not feel well and that you need to stay in bed at YOUR house because you like YOUR comfy bed but i would just talk because i dont think its good to make up excuses and if she ever found out that you did make up excuses you would probably get into trouble
Vballcrazy9105 answered Sunday June 26 2005, 5:05 pm: Hey there, Tell your mom the truth then see how she feels about all of this. talk it out & make a plan on where you dont have to go over to your grandmas hose all the time maybe you can stay there for a couple of hours instead of the whole night. Just be nice & remeber she has feelings too. Hope I could help you.... if ya need nething else ask me !!! [ Vballcrazy9105's advice column | Ask Vballcrazy9105 A Question ]
mushoku answered Sunday June 26 2005, 3:44 pm: Have you talked with your mom about it? If not, do that - it's about the only thing you can do - she should be able to come up with excuses on her own if she decides you don't have to go.
If you do have to go, try engaging your grandma in conversation - ask her about interesting stories from her life. You may find out she's more interesting than you thought before.
ALEXandADRIANA answered Sunday June 26 2005, 3:43 pm: First, we must say that we understand how grandmas can be very hard to deal because they can be boring and even to the point of annoying. However, with each day they get closer and closer to passing away and if you love her despite all the things she does that bothers you...you should spend as much time with her as you can. Maybe you should tell your mom "Mom I understand you would like me to spend time with grandma, and I will but she makes it very difficult to sleep so can I at least come home and sleep in my own bed." That is the best thing you could say that we can think of. Explain to your mother that you love your grandma very much but you really do not like to stay the night over there. Good-luck! [ ALEXandADRIANA's advice column | Ask ALEXandADRIANA A Question ]
JustAskAlli answered Sunday June 26 2005, 3:19 pm: Aww. I hear what your sayin. Yea, grandmas house isnt as fun as it used to be.. Well. You should make plans the night your mother wants you to spend the night at her house, like with a friend or something! She cant argue with that. Or if you cannot make plans, tell your mom your true feelings about why you dont want to sleepover your grandmas house. Im sure she will understand. Take care.
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