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Hey, I am Cj from Belize. Some may also call me Christopher. Others call me crazy.

You probably never heard of my country before but that is alright. Check for it on a map, it is right under mexico. And please don't direspect my country. Many of my ancestors have fought to make the country independent. ANd so did my grandparents and my father. And when I am old enough, I shall give back to my country its rightful due.

I will answer your questions according to what I think, not what you want to hear or what others are saying. I think for myself. And If you don't or can't think for yourself....
stop wasting your time in life.

And if you hate my advice, please explain why so that I can improve on it. Don't tell me that I am stupid and that you hate me, because I don't care what you think of me.
E-mail: power_cjwaight@yahoo.com
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Location: Belize
Occupation: student
Age: 16
AIM: my aim is to be # 1
Member Since: April 23, 2005
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does anyone know of any good ways to get better at sight reading? i'm really bad at playing runs [going up or down a scale]. i think it might be because i can't read music as fast as its supposed to be played. does anyone have any advice. thanks (link)
download rocket reader. (type in rocket reader at the google toolbar the get the required link)it will give you a free one week trial guaranteeed to improve your reading speed. Or you can try another product like eye q (you have to pay for that one.

YOu can get loads of software that help you read faster. Just check at the google search bar.


Can you tell if a guy is a virgin? (link)
technically, no guy is a virgin physically.
you see, a girl has a membrane (and blah blah blah) and when it breaks, she is no longer a virgin.
This type of loss of virginity in a guy is when he pulls back the foreskin.
Every guy has done this so no guy is a virgin in that sense of the word.
To know if he has had sex before is kinda impossible. The only way to know is by asking him. Another way is to bring up a sexual topic in conversation and start flirting with him. If he acts to smoothly. he probably is not a virgin.

I doubt that answers what you want to know though,


Cj


I've been sneezing and coughing alot this past week. And every morning when I wake up my nose is so stuffed up I can barely breathe. I don't feel like I have a cold or a flu or anything, but I want the sneezing/coughing/congestion to go away. Anymeds that will take care of these problems? (link)
Take some tylenol cold.
You could also buy some halls.
and rub your chest with some Vick's vapour rub.
THat should help.

CJ


Hey guys,
I was hoping someone could help me with this math problem. I should probably remember how to do this stuff, but I'm stupid so I don't know how. If someone can, please explain how to do it. I would really appreciate it! Thank you so much!

Math Problem: The ratio of good guys to bad guys was 16 to 3. If there were 48 bad guys, how many good guys were there?

Thanks again! (link)
I get 259 good guys.

write:

If 3 is to 48 bad guys.
then 16 is to X good guys.

so 3/ = 48/
16 X

cross multiply to get

3X = 768

Divide both side by 3 to get

x = 259

and there is your answer.


Hey peeps. I am thinking of becoming a goth. But I have some dilemmas.

1 my mom wont let me be what I wanna be. I know the consequences. I told me mom that I wanted to dye my hair black, and she freaked.
2 I cant get past the metaphores. To goths, gothic sayings may have a meaning but when I hear or see gothic sayings or quotes or whatever, all I see is stuff about blood, guts, and death.
3 Idont know any chain stores that has a lot of gotic clothing and silver jewelry with the gothic sighns.


Help. (link)
check out www.goth.net
and hot topic sells the stuff
but don't become for the sake of becoming
become for the reason.


okay if this is long im very sorry but i would like people to answer it anyways because i will rate high. okay so i have a really good friend.. and yes well i like him too.. but he dosnt like me, big shock there. and well around june my class has somewhat of a prom thing, and like he said he's not going to go because the girl he likes is a freshmen and she cant go because only 10th graders can go. and it like really aggravates me. because it seems like all he cares about is her and like he dosnt want to go unless she's there. and i dont know is it wrong to get aggravated? and what should i do..

thanks
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NO. it is not wrong
and his mind is set.
YOu can't change his mind,
Untill..............
they break up, you be the consolation source and try to make him like you.
but he still won't .
so make your friend act as the middleman and point out that you like him and tell him to give you a shot.
untill then
CHin up
and mantra YOU CAN'T BRING ME DOWN
or some other positive vibe that will make you feel good.
that sounded crappy but it makes sense if you read it several times.

Cj


Last year my Pre-Cal teacher told me that if I went on to take Calculus AP that I would flunk out by first report card. I knew that I wouldn't and the only reason I decided to take the class was because she said that about me even though I kept an A+ average in her class. Well, it's coming around to the end of the semester and I now have an A in Calculus AP. I was wondering; if this happened to you, would you tell your old teacher about your grade? (link)
I would.
Just don't be all obnoxious when you do it.


i've been having a really off week, and today was the worst ever for me [i'm a guy btw]. i guess you can say that everyone knows me, and i'm not too bad company. today was really bad for me, I felt depressed. a lot of my guy friends noticed right away something was wrong, because i'm usually the one to make the first weird comment or try to make a joke out of things - but i do know when to stop. anyways, teachers too noticed, and everyone said that it was noticeable that something was wrong with me, and that it made them feel bad too when i was around. is that normal, like does that usually happen to you guys or with your friends? its not like i'm thinking about giving up on life, but any suggestions to get my mind off of it and feel better- talking about it hasn't seemed to help... thanks - will rate good. (link)
Don't woory about it man.
I get the same thing about once every two months or something.
They say they are worried?
about what?!
that i look different?
since when do they care about me?
Are they afraid that i am goanna get psycho?
we always hear the story but this it ever actually happen?
Don't talk about it.
they will say alot of crap and they will start to treat you different like you have some weird disease or something.
to feel better,
1 ignore them
2 listen to some music
3 get some sleep after exams

that is it

If what is worrying you is what I think it is, just confirm my suspiscion. I cured myself but it took a while.

Cj


What is the difference between goth, punk and emo? Also, can you be christian and goth, or punk. (link)
mercy x me has got it wrong
twisted siter has got it right



I have a cut on a huge stretch mark on the top of my leg and when I touch it, it burns like CRAZY! What can I use to make it better and heal?? (link)
rub alcohol on it.
(if it burns, you know it is working)


is it a sin to kiss before marriage if your a christian? (link)
Jesus kissed.
Does that answer your question?
BUt sex before mariage is a sin.


can anyone tell me some websites where you can play games?
(link)
try yahoo.com


okay. i really need my braces off. like i got them in 6th grade. and im now a freshman! i dont wear my elastics, and if i wear them they'll come off. and to those that have already had elastics and braces, approx. how long will it take for my teeth to not have an over bite anymore? i really need my braces off!!!! (link)
You stand just like me I got mine in the 6th grade and now I am in me JUNIOR year!
I still have them in!
I have that same stupid overbite, without elastics.
YOu don't really need your braces off, I know they suck but you can live with them.
It may take me another six months or so,
so you may still have yours for a while yet.


I recently got a new computer and I downloaded limewire on it. I have been using Limewire for about 3 years now and i have never had any type of problems with it. But last night I was trying to download a CD for my boyfriend and I would type in a song and hit search and Limewire would just close. And I would click on the icon and open it again and it would close on it own. Why is Limewire doing this? Do I have a bug in my program? I have also uninstalled Limewire and then re-installed it but nothing fixes this. Thanks for any help. also what other programs are good for downloading music. (link)
I have no idea
Don;t get ares
I HEAR THAT THAT IS EVEN WORSE
I have limewire and have no problems.
Just ask some computer technician guy to check it for you.
(eg. IT teacher at school)


Ok.. my friends are all going to this nice highschool that has average grades. But I want to be a doctor so i need to go to a really good school. My friend introduced me to the school she was going to go to.Its really nice and is in the top 5 in the state. But theres two problems: I'll be away from my friends and its a 40 minute drive. Where should i go?TTTTHHHAAAANNNK YYYYOOOOOOUUUU~ (link)
40 mins long?
go that one!


what if your boyfriend asks you to have a threesome with him and your best friend what would you do and what advice would you give to others in this situation? (link)
sex is over-rated.


On occasion I have these wierd feelings and i feel like any noise or music around me is made by my thoughts {probably makes no sense but atleast i know what im talking about} and the way i hear things sorta sound different, kinda like how a home made movie sounds. Everything sounds unreal. It usualy happens when im tired. Is this normal? Can anyone help me? (link)
I totally dig.
happens all the time bra.
don't worry about it.
A doctor and parents will justcomplicated it.
Just thing how fun it is!


i was absent one day at school for a lab, and i'm going to bring in a doctor's note for documentation. i was just wondering if school officials actually call up the doctor to verify that i came in? my doctor actually just left town two days ago. i heard there is a confidentiality rule with a job, but i don't know if it goes through with higher education...i just don't want my professor to think that i'm bs-ing it. (link)
no
a doctor's signature is supposed to be sometning official.
Just don't forge it. you can get into some serious legal crap.


OK what do all of you guys look for in a girl...what is more important looks or personality...or do they need to have both...what attracts you most about a girl???


thanksss (link)
ok
this is what I look for in a girl.
She doesn't have to be pretty but she can't be ugly. Also, being pretty or beautiful is different from being sexy. I personally do not look for sexy girls. I only look at them. THier sexiness will atract too much competition w other boys.Also if they are sexy in public, that means they are promiscious or they will cheat on you. I don't want my gf to cheat on me.
She can't be fat. SHe doesn't have to have a body like sillohuette of the girl on a mudflap.
Also, I like to see girls with long hair. THis is basic instict(I think). long hair is feminine which is attractive.
Contrary to popular belief, guys like brown and black haired girls more than blondes.
Also, guys want girls shorter than themselves.
Acne is a real turn off too. NOt to mention body odor or bad breath.
Also, I don't like girls that wear makeup. nor high heels. If you wear makeup, it shouldlook natural. Skirts are pretty attractive too.
THat is about it for looks. as i said before, looks aren't everything, so long as you are not ugly, looks are basically unimportant.
what matters is personality.
Smart girls are attractive, no boy (except those other jerks) likes the dumb blonde. (dumb is the operative word here)
she also has to be friendly, smiling alot. THe angry girl thing will only land you in the arms of a guy looking for sex.
she also has to be mannerly.
However, she cannot be girly,
crying about breaking a nail and crap like that is all rass to me.
don't ever talk about girl power or crap like that either.
she also has to be athletic. (not really) but she isn't ome of those girls who don't get any exercise either.
so basically it is a mix between looks and personality, personality being more important.
so not fat, not ugly, smart, friendly, rarely ever angry. and NOT FLIRTY. that doesn't work.

that is only my view. other guys may differ. My friends and I have almost this exact same view. NOn of us look for girls sexually, we all do good in school, and we are very nice people.

Hope that helped. If you want any point clarified, just send one into my inbox.

Cj


Ok lets call her,Ashley.Well ok.Ashley and me are in the same class.She's really beautifull and I do really like her.I feel really attached to her,it's just like,like...,I just really like to see her.But I'm also a kind of associal...so I don't really know what to do.One of my friends I really trust everything(Let's say he's my best one),he says I should ask her e-mail adress.(MSN,Hotmail)So I thought about it,not bad.BUT there's also a party at the end of this week...So should I ask her to come with me?(I pay of course)Should I bring over some friends?Should she do?I don't know,I think we really like to see eachother.Almoost like to trust eachother.We allwats like to make funny things about teachers.She's also some kind of popular.When we had pauze she came sit next to me,we spoke eachother,and it was fun.After 5 minutes of nice,sweet speaking I was surrounded by a thousand girls so,I like to be alone with her.She's a very intresting girl.But I don't know she's a single.She's also a kind of HOT.So,the chance is great she got a boyfriend...I didn't saw her flirting or kissing with one yet...so I suspect she is single.

Ok till here,now,there's another problem.

A 'friend' of me who I dislike a bit.HES A DAM ASSHOLE!!Ok sorry.He is kinda jealous very very fast.So if he sees that I've got a hotter girlfriend than he does,he breaks up with his girlfriend and tries to steal mine.(It didn't happened yet but he did do that with other friends of him.)And he even always has some material at hand,he let's the girl strip(or something) over MSN,takes pictures,and sends those to her boyfriend in hope they break up.If so he strikes on the girl and the guy is lost.

I really could use great advice,I promise to rate 5's to good advice(to any positive)I also greatly appriciate tips the most to start a relationship with Ashley.

Sorry,this has been very long,hope I get good advice.

Thank you for reading. (link)
well dude,
here is the deal.
If you get her
just make sure the bully doesn't take her away.
when you get her, keep it low for a while, (2 weeks)
then you just ask her not to talk to the dude. ever, in any forms of communisctaion
she may want to know why so give some sort of proof of his assholeyness.(assholeyness hahaha)
If she really likes you she won't leave and if you like her , you won't let her leave.
And If I were you, I wouldn't want to be seeing some girl who strips for guys over the internet. (imagine that, having a hoar as a girlfriend!)




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