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my name is Alysha, i`m from Connecticut and i`m 15 years of age. i`m a cheerleader, dancer, and a softball player. i`m 5`2 and pretty skinny i suppose. i love hollister, abercrombie, & AE. not because it's in style, but because i like the clothing. friends are pretty much my life. i listen to pretty much rock/indie/punk but also a little R&B/rap. i don't like 50 cent & eminem's music.. just because i don't i guess. instead of rambling on & on about myself... i`ll just end this here. ask any questions you would like, i`ll get to them as fast as i can ♥

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I am as flat as my back. I have no boobs. I wear a padded bra, but I have no boobs! Is there a kind of bra that will make me look bigger? I'm short and not as develpoed... I develop slower then others. Will they get bigger? THANK YOU SO MUCH!

if you wait over time they will grow. if you are around 13, it's normal. they aren't going to just pop out.. if you really feel the need to show something, pushup bras & as you said padded work. don't worry, they will eventually grow.

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Hi, I sorry if this long.
See Me and Travis I am 20 he is 18, we grow up together. we are very close and were kinda were a reliship. most of the time, we never went same school. I just turn 20 this summer and I graduated HS< he hase one more year, many years we talk about our future and want to be together some day, but problem is that I don't know i trust him becouse, he hase gf now and its same girl he cheated on with me and her long time algo, and he said she the one, one this that he made me alot of things over the summer and years. and made me id brackets. I know hard understand, this is whole ponit is that I want stay as friend with him, but I can't keep my feelings way becouse we don't want lose eacher as a freinds, i do have doubts about him so i keep it away, but its hard seeing all stuff he made and give me i put in my trunk, but thing is i still want talk to him but it hard if he mention girl he dating,

ahh. interesting. well, you should probably talk to him about it. talk about trust issues, issues in general. lay it down. "do you want to be friends or not. do you like me, or not? are you trying to make me jealous with this girl?" stuff like that. hope i helped ♥

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My best friend just got kicked off our school's cheer squad cause she failed math. This came as a complete surprise b/c the coach approved her when she showed the coach her report card. The principle informed my coach failing a class wasn't allowed if you play a sport so my coach told my friend to turn in her uniform she was off the squad. My coach said she ran into the bathroom and cried and refused to come out. ( She was also supposed to come home with me and spend the night after the game )

I feel horrible right now; me and her were such good friends on the squad and we dont have any classes together. I called her after the games I cheered at today but brother said she wasn't home. I personally don't know what to say to her; I'm bad at this sorta stuff. We have to wear our uniforms on game days and I'm afraid that will make her feel really bad to see us in uniform. What should I do? Please Please guys, I really need help.

Okay. take this from a fellow cheerleader. tell her to get some help. stay after school, study for tests because you really want her back on the squad. getting her kicked off is sort of a good thing, because she needs to see she has a failing grade and she needs to raise it. tell her to come to games and watch. cheerleading season doesn't last forever! hope i helped ♥

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well...im 13 (female) and i had this biyfriend last year...and we were really close...but we broke up...and we were friends for a while....but then he told me that he hated me...and now im really sad..and a while ago he called me to tell me about a movie..but then he said he had to go...and now im always thinkin about him....and i miss him as a friend....what should i do

You should probably tell him that you can't stop thinking about him. See if he feels the same way too.. ask him if he hates you, or he changed his mind. You can't expect him to do anything unless he knows that you do care and want to be friends. I really hope I helped ♥

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