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about my guy friend. whoes my ex
Hi, I sorry if this long.
See Me and Travis I am 20 he is 18, we grow up together. we are very close and were kinda were a reliship. most of the time, we never went same school. I just turn 20 this summer and I graduated HS< he hase one more year, many years we talk about our future and want to be together some day, but problem is that I don't know i trust him becouse, he hase gf now and its same girl he cheated on with me and her long time algo, and he said she the one, one this that he made me alot of things over the summer and years. and made me id brackets. I know hard understand, this is whole ponit is that I want stay as friend with him, but I can't keep my feelings way becouse we don't want lose eacher as a freinds, i do have doubts about him so i keep it away, but its hard seeing all stuff he made and give me i put in my trunk, but thing is i still want talk to him but it hard if he mention girl he dating,
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ahh. interesting. well, you should probably talk to him about it. talk about trust issues, issues in general. lay it down. "do you want to be friends or not. do you like me, or not? are you trying to make me jealous with this girl?" stuff like that. hope i helped ♥
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Let me first start off by saying when you mentioned he cheated on his g/f with you-thats a red flag right there--he is unfaithful and if he did it to her he will do it to you and whoever else he is with. You dont want to be in a relationship wondering if he would do the same to you. Beings good friends is real good and if your bestfriends now that should not change if he continues to date other people-even though i understand it is hard to hear aboutother girls b/c you do have feeling for him. Think if you were to be together and everything is good and then he does cheat--then you and him will probobly not be besst friends anymore. All the things he has made you over the years is special but like you said you have doubts about him--thats not good either--when you want to be with someone you go into full of trust honesty and doubt free. I think the best thing you can do is keep your distance and just remain frineds. As for saying his g/f is the one--obviously he is lying to himself and her if he can cheat-a true man would not cheat he would leave the girl he is with not cheat. I hope i could help if you need anything else please let me know. Keep me informed and good luck hun
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You and Travis are still good friends? Ok, I had a predicament like this before. My friend had gotten this new girlfriend, but I liked him. Well, I ended up telling him about my feelings so whenever I was around him, he wouldn't talk to me about the girl or when she would come into class with him, after she left he would say that he was sorry about me having to see what I saw. This is what you should do. Explain to him that you still have feelings for him, but want to be his friend still. He should be able to respect you and not mention anything about the girl around you. This is what I did and I ended up getting over him and now we are friends, so I think you should just try that. I hope I helped!
Kori
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