Question Posted Wednesday November 16 2005, 3:12 pm
OK what do all of you guys look for in a girl...what is more important looks or personality...or do they need to have both...what attracts you most about a girl???
thanksss
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Cj answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 5:35 pm: ok
this is what I look for in a girl.
She doesn't have to be pretty but she can't be ugly. Also, being pretty or beautiful is different from being sexy. I personally do not look for sexy girls. I only look at them. THier sexiness will atract too much competition w other boys.Also if they are sexy in public, that means they are promiscious or they will cheat on you. I don't want my gf to cheat on me.
She can't be fat. SHe doesn't have to have a body like sillohuette of the girl on a mudflap.
Also, I like to see girls with long hair. THis is basic instict(I think). long hair is feminine which is attractive.
Contrary to popular belief, guys like brown and black haired girls more than blondes.
Also, guys want girls shorter than themselves.
Acne is a real turn off too. NOt to mention body odor or bad breath.
Also, I don't like girls that wear makeup. nor high heels. If you wear makeup, it shouldlook natural. Skirts are pretty attractive too.
THat is about it for looks. as i said before, looks aren't everything, so long as you are not ugly, looks are basically unimportant.
what matters is personality.
Smart girls are attractive, no boy (except those other jerks) likes the dumb blonde. (dumb is the operative word here)
she also has to be friendly, smiling alot. THe angry girl thing will only land you in the arms of a guy looking for sex.
she also has to be mannerly.
However, she cannot be girly,
crying about breaking a nail and crap like that is all rass to me.
don't ever talk about girl power or crap like that either.
she also has to be athletic. (not really) but she isn't ome of those girls who don't get any exercise either.
so basically it is a mix between looks and personality, personality being more important.
so not fat, not ugly, smart, friendly, rarely ever angry. and NOT FLIRTY. that doesn't work.
that is only my view. other guys may differ. My friends and I have almost this exact same view. NOn of us look for girls sexually, we all do good in school, and we are very nice people.
Hope that helped. If you want any point clarified, just send one into my inbox.
xRoOxiSxBlOnDex answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 3:51 pm: Well, I'm a girl, lol, but after asking all the guys around this class, they said it's personality, but looks DO help. It's a bonus, but it SHOULDN'T make or break the relationship. So, I guess it's more of a balance of both. (=
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