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why do people cut themselves because i have a friend that does and its obvious. my friend always blames it on "the cat" but cat scratches don't make crazy grid patterns.

ppl cut themselves wen theyre under a lot of stress or hav a lot of problems. :-/

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This may sound pretty gross, but I'm 12 and I masterbate. I just use my fingers and I don't finger myself, but I haven't gotten my period yet. Does this mean I did something that'll make it so I don't ever get my period, or will I get it and does masterbating mess my "lower parts" up if I just use my fingers?

Sorry if this is really gross I just really need to know, and Mods please don't delete this I'm very concerned...

dont wry if u didnt get ur period tht normal. most ppl get it wen they're older lyk round 14. nd no it doznt mess up ur lower parts.

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Hi , okay when i wake up and i brush my teeth , after i get a HORRIBLE stomach ache ! it really sucks because it ruins my day ! is it normal? am i doing something wrong when i brush my teeth? PLEESE HELP ! I RATE 5 !

tell ur parents about it. it could b nothin or it could b sumthing.try talkin 2 da doctor about it. the longer u wait the more it will hurt. good luc

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okay . .
there is thys guy i reallly like and we have been talking since last year online and stuff and he a couple weeks ago he asked me if i liked him and i said i did. then he was like maybe we could hangout sumtime then . .but we havnt yet. i think he likes sumone else now even tho he still i.ms me online . .what is he doing to me?

talk 2 him online nd ask him if he has a gf ot wutevr. try makin da first move nd askin him if he wants 2 c a movie nd grab a bite 2 eat. good luc

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Hey i'm not allowed to get a tattoo, so i really want to get a henna. where can i get a really good henna kit, thats not expensive?
thanks.

u can go 2 an indian grocery store or surf da web nd c of u find n e cheap ones. good luc

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My hair has gotten really dry over the summer, because of the sun. the sea and because i straighten it all the time. Do you know any products or treatments which might help.

use garnier fructis it makes ur hair stronger and smoother nd it smells relli great 2. u can also use infusium its relli good and has a lot of vitamins 4 ur hair. good luc

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hi umm okay i like this guy and he likes me. well the other day he asked me out and i said yes but 2 days after, were already broken up ! he said he needs to get to know me better and i totally agree no hard feelings there but what i dont get is why cant we get to know each other by going out? or does he not want to go out and thats why he said that, but like after that hes like i still like u but i jus wanna get to know u better maybe wen school starts. and the day after i seen him at the movies and i waved and smiled--so did he and i knew i liked him alot. do you think we eventually will go back out ? or do you think he jus doesnt like me even though he said he did ..

i thnk he relli doz want 2 get 2 kno u better. u guyz should talk on da fone, comp, etc. wen he gets 2 kno u better mb he'll want 2 go out again. guyz r strange but ask him y he asked u out nd den broke up w. u. good luc :)

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hey. i need some help. everyday after school me & my crush will go to each others lockers 2gether and then he walks me to the door where i leave. we always give each other a hug. i cant tell if he wants to kiss me or not? and if i should and stuff...i dunno im confused

ask him if he likes u more than a friend. if he says no tell him u still want 2 b friends. but tell him how u feel he probably feels the same way good luc:)

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how can i get more babysitting jobs so were i can get some money

put up flyers around ur neighborhood and @ community stores

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I think I wanna start babysitting. How do I get people to want me to babysit? what should I charge? I dont have a red cross liscence thing for babysitting either. I donr know what to do. Please help

babysit 4 ur neighbors. put flyers around ur neighborhood. u should charge as much as the ppl can afford

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What the youngest baby do you think that you would put a 14 year old in charge of? And do you really think that at 14 they are responsible?

the youngest baby a 14 should babysit is 7 months they r old nd responsible enough.

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my lil bro had a bbsitter cuz i waz out... and when i came home she was screemin and yellin @ him. She grabbed his arm and he said to our dog.. "Daizee help help! Help Daiz!!!" the dog didnt do ne thing... but ne way.... shud i tell my parents?

yes. tell ur parents. they babysitter can relli hurt ur bro nd u will feel guilty.

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for a 7 year-old kid who's nice and who would listen to me (easy babysitting) how much shopuld i charge?

it depends of da hrs. if ur babysitting 4 lyk 3 or more hrs u should charge lyk $5 an hr or mb more. it depends on how much ppl can afford

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i was thinking of babysitting for people..(most likely people i dont know) with a friend of mine..this way the job is easier. Is this a good idea? Do you think i`ll be successful? How should i get perfect strangers to trust me to babysit their kids...any tips? thank you :)

its a good idea 2 babysit w. a friend it makes the job easier. 2 get ppl 2 trust u be nice nd friendly 2 da kids nd make em like u. do stuff they lyk 2 do.

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is it a good way to make money

yes but kids can get wild sumtimes

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My boyfriend has this friend who used to go out with my best friend, but they're totally over with and do not talk. The problem is I've begun to like my boyfriend's friend/best friend's ex. When my boyfriend and I split up one time, his friend and I had a little fling but it didn't last long. My boyfriend has no idea of this crush I have on his friend. What am I supposed to do? I love my boyfriend but this little infatuation I have, I want gone! How do I forget about this boy before it ruins what I have with my boyfriend?

tell ur bf about it nd get it out of ur mind

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My mom and I haven't been getting along very well lately. It's like she never lets me go anywhere anymore. I'm almost never allowed to hang out with my friends and I'm 13.. I'm at the time in my life when I need to be with my friends. I've tried talking to her but it doesn't seem to work. She told me that I'm a problem to her. I almost cried. I just replied "It's nice to know that your own kid is a problem," and I walked into my room. I just don't know what to do anymore. I lost my best friend because my mom didn't ever let me go to her house because the parents weren't home. I know she's just trying to protect me, but it's like she doesn't trust me. And she won't let me walk around outside when I'm with my friends. She says she doesn't know why I need to if we're just walking around and not going anywhere. I love her and all but I feel as if she doesn't understand me anymore. What do I do? I appreciate any help! Thank you!

all parents r protective jus do wut she says 4 a while 2 gain her trust. mayb den she'll giv u more freedom

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my mom totally does not trust me and i said sorry a billion times i cant stand it. ik i havta earn her trust bak but every time i try it doesnt work..she doesnt lemme do anything!! i am 14 and she says im too young to be haven bfs i have one and she doesnt even let me hardly so its ruining our relationship all becuz i did this thing with him that she found out so she thinks he pressurs me. he does not..it was my decision. then she tells me how i am out of control and "going down the wrong road" i cant take it!! my life is scrrwed up enough and i am suffering thru depresiion she just makes it all harder. i cant take it its my life i want to do what i want and she holds me back on anything. wheneevr i talk i seem to get in trouble so i keep my mouth shut and my whole family cant stand it. all they do is yell at me, i think im gonna run away.

dont run away tell ur family how u feel and how depressed u r and ur thinkin bout running away. good luc

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hi im a 15 year old girl and my mom hits me a lot. i was wondering what you think i should do to get her to stop?

tell an adult u trust. this is child abuse and has 2 stop. she needs help. JUST TELL AN ADULT thats all u can do. good luc


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When I was 12 years old, I was raped, and became pregnant. I never told my daughter how she was conceived. She is 13 years old, and I just found out that she's pregnant. Her boyfriend's father kicked him out of his house as a result. Abortion is out of the question. We have to decide whether my daughter and her boyfriend will raise the baby themselves or allow me to adopt the child. So I have three questions.

1. How do I tell my daughter the truth about how she was conceived?

2. Should I allow her boyfriend to move in with us, and if so, is it okay to make them sleep in seperate rooms? (His only other option is to move out of the country with his mother.)

3. Do you think it would be better for my daughter to raise her child or should I adopt the baby? (I was unable to have any other children.)

Sorry so long, but any advice would be appreciated.

tell ur daughter how she was conceived let her bf move in w. u so they baby will hav a daddy. i think u should help ur daughter raise the child.

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