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Q: OkAY I MITE SOUND TOTALY DUMB BUT ANY WAY I SEEN SOMEBODYS MYSPACE ON HERE AND IT WAS REALLY NEAT IT HAD LIKE A BACK GROUND AND MUSIC ND STUFF IT WAS REALLY CUTE SO I WENT ON THE WEB SITE TO JOIN BUT HOW DO YOU GET ALL THE GARPHICS ND STUFF AND WHAT IS IT FOR CAN SOMEONE PLEASE EXPLANE? I RATE 5S THANKS
Take a look at my myspace and tell me exactly what you want me to explain. My myspace is :www.myspace.com/xOalison so check it out nd IM me exactly what you want explained. my aim sn is gre3neyedxgirlx3

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xO'ali

Q: Ok,well i haven't my period yet [[and im 13..]] My mom got it when she was 13,my sister got it when she was 14. Does this run in the family that i'll get it either this year or when im 14? or would i be different? i really just want to get it over with instead of being afraid it'll happen when im in school or somewhere everyone can see it !!
There is no relation to when your mom gets her period and you do. My mom first got her's at over 15, I got mine at 12. So that just goes to show you that there is no relation. But there are "coinsidences" that the mother and daughter get their periods at the same age.

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xO' ali

Q: does limewire & bearshare give you viruses??
Use limewire, not only is it virus free.. it has almost every song known to man lol. Bearshare, I was told, give you viruses.

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xO' ali

Q: You see.. i got back on weight watchers this week because my school's starting soon (too soon) and i want to slim down so I'm not the biggest girl in my class anymore. What are some fast pace exercises i can do (websites) or what are some tips. The weight watchers is working, slowly, but i want to speed up the process.

Thanx
I personally reccomend "The Firm". If you dont know what it is, go to my column and look at a question a few below yours.

good luck! hope i helped! please rate!

xO'ali

Q: What are different ways to style sidesweeping bangs? Im getting them tomorrow - should I cut them to the bottom of my ear? Cheekbone? Longer?
you could straighten them because that looks cute! or if you did an updo, you could curl them in the front. or if they get annoying after a while, clip them back.

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xO'ali

Q: I am 14/f and i am 5'6'' and i weigh around 160 lb
(my scale isnt accurate...)
but people ALWAYS mistake me for around 140 pound
and i know i am fat...ohh harsh me.. i mea overweight. but i do try to lose weight.
i exercise regularly. every monday wednesday and friday (it was on health magz that its not good for you if you exercise everyday when you get older) anyways so i lost 10 pounds around already yes i know i was even fat loser then.

and i dont eat alot, although i snack sometime like eating desert like little bit of ice cream but not a lot.

so what is normal for my height and weight and my age? and how can i get my self to stay exercising?
because during those times i been quiting in and out and technically i only exercised for a month
or 2. so its pretty good losing 10 lb in those month because i dont want saggy skin...talk about ew. no offense... to people who do have those ...

anyways and i am thick in the leg. and arm... and i cant do lifting dumbels anymore because i kinda got hurt from that...

so how do i get my legs to be slender?

and keep on track and any tips on losing weight faster?

please i need help ! i havent had a boyfriend ever! i know people say its not about what's on the outside becaue then its not true love or stuff but i really want a boyfriend and i WANT to look good for him (well future bf ) and i want to feel better about my self...

so please help me
I have the exact same problem as you. What I do, Is I go on my stationary bike for about an hour every other day. Not all at once though, ill do maybe 10 minutes every hour for 6 hours. And drink a lot of water. Cut out all junk food. No more ice cream or desserts. When you see those foods, think to yoruself "have 5 minutes of good food or have a lifetime of being overweight." There are a lot of good foods that are healthy and taste good. There are so many excersizes you can do. but I reccommend the FIRM. If you dont know what it is, check out my column and look at the question a few down from yours. good luck! hope i helped! please rate! xO'ali

aw thanx! and if you need anymore help or other ways to lose weight.. my msn sn is :x7xdramaqu3nx7x@hotmail.com and my aim is:gre3neyedxgirlx3

Q: I am not big AT ALL, I am very little and I am NOT bragging. I am 13 years old and I'm female, guys don't really want to go out with me because I'm so thin. how do I got more meat on my bones faster than a few mounths or weeks?

P.S. I am 65 pounds.
65 pounds and 13, hmm.. sounds a little fishy to me. But im not here to get into detail. What you need to do, is eat more meals that are bigger. You should try having 4 meals a day with at least 4-5 of the food groups. That is the only healthy way. And keep on excersizing, just not as much. good luck! hope i helped! please rate! xO'ali

Q: (16/f)Does anyone know a work-out I can do to work my lower abs? I've been doing crunches/sit ups and all i've gotten is a 2-pack. Would leg lifts help? I don't want a work-out video-and i belong to a gym so i have access to medicine balls and what not, but i'd prefer just a movement i could do at home! thanks!
My mom got it at a place called Mark Steven's for $20 but it is sold at other places for a little bit more. Im talking about The Firm. Each Firm kit comes with the "fanny lifter" (you NEED this to do the excersizes) and 3 really great work outs focusing on your Abs, Sculpting your body, and there's one more that I cant remember. good luck! hope i helped! please rate! xO'ali

Q: Hey everyone, ok Im going to Six Flags New England ( the theme park not the water park) and wanted to know where i cna get those discount copuons, they usally slel thme at a fast food place!?

Thanks
Each ticket is $27 (normally $42-thats more than a coupon'll get ya) with AAA. There are also discount coupons at Dunkin Dounuts. good luck! hope i helped! please rate! xO'ali

Q: I liked this guy in the 5th grade... I was the first girl to like him in our school. (He was new then) I got over it even though I still liked him. He didnt even know me. In the 6th grade we were hanging out alot because we had a friend that both us hung out with. After two months of hanging out and talking, he asked me out. I said yes. We were going out for 2 months. During that time I got my first kiss. And I was just so happy. Well after two months I broke up with him because I got a note from a girl who was like stay away from my boyfriend. (No one knew about our relationship) And I was threatened and everything I was so heartbroken. I broke up with him and we moved on. Even though I still liked him. Then in the 7th grade he asked me out again. I said yes but he made me promise that I wouldnt tell anyone because he was going to surprise everyone on Friday and tell them, in a special way. Well I told my best friend and the next day during lunch she told like his whole table. A guy that sat with him said he is going to break up with you and I believed him. I couldnt have my heart broken I have a reputation as a tough girl. So I broke up with him again. My heart was broken but I still loved him. About 2 months later, I was sleeping over a friends house and someone was staying at his. We were on the phone from 8pm until 2:15am. My friend fell asleep and so did his so from 1:30am until 2:15 we spent talking and saying I love you and and all this sweet stuff. But he never asked me out again. We stayed like that for a long time. We still are close but no more sweet stuff. I miss him and I read his profile online and reminded me so much of how I feel and how much time we spent togehter it was almost like he was writing it for me. I am still in love and I was before I read it but now that I read it I fell. I fell so fast that after I finished the last word I hit the ground. I love him so much. What do you think I should do? Should I tell him or leave it bee?
PLEASE TELL ME!!! NEED HELP! ANY THING!
Short and Simple: You should ask HIM out this time and not listen to what everyone else says. If he asks why you dumped him, say because you were young and people were pulling you in all directions. good luck! hope i helped! please rate! xO'ali

Q: Ive had problems with my friends..whenever i tell one of them something it doesnt seem like they care too much..how can i tell them?
You need to talk to them and tell them exaclt yhow you feel. Things cant get any better without you telling them whats going on. What I would do, is the next time that happens say something like, "do you care about anything?" just say that kidding around, and its like dropping a hint. Or you could seem not to care when they say something. good luck! hope i helped! please rate! xO'ali

Q: ok, well i am 13, 5'4" and i weigh 123lbs.Is that ok, cause my sister is 16, the same height, and 110 lbs. am i over weight???
If you lost anymore weight, it could become a little unhealthy. You are the perfect weight for your height. Your sister on the other hand, she needs to eat more. This is all according to www.am-i-fat.com .I went to the left and click the "am I fat" link and typed in your weight and height. If you dont believe me, you are more than welcome to go check it out yourself =) good luck! hope i helped! please rate! xO'ali

Q: i'm trying not to make this long but I was BEST FRIENDS with this girl Jen until she moved to this really rich neighborhood and got a big head. She started rubbing things in my face, ditching me, and still expected me to be there for her... which i was. I don't know why I was but EVERYONE was. Then one day we all stopped because she got out of control (trying to keep it short). Everyone stopped giving her attention except one person who became her new best friend. I miss the old jen and now that she has a new best friend they are twice as evil. Jen invited me to her b day party and she's been IMing me and acting like her old self so i'm really tempted to go but i don't want to regret anything. we're going to different high schools next year anyways so i don't know if i should end the friendship now or what PLEASE HELP

sorry it was long.. trust me i couldve written 3 whole pages about the situation!
Woah.. been there lol. What you need to do is you need to talk to her and tell her thatshe was being a bitch when she moved to a nicer neighborhood. Tell her that it hurt you a lot when she ditched you and acted al snobby. You need to tell her exactly how you feel or else things wont get any better. I suggest you do this before her party so you guys can be friends during her party lol. You should also *if you feel this way* tell her that you miss hanging out with her and that you miss the old Jen. Hope I helped and please rate! xO'ali

Q: Hey guys.. My little cousin is turning 16 in January and we really want to help her throw a party, or throw one for her. For my 16th birthday my twin & i just had like a big cookout in out backyard because its in June and its nice. But for January we dont know what to do. Ideas or birthday party stories would be great.

Thanks everyone,
LoveMonkey728
You could rent a hall and decorate it all cute. Hire a DJ and have looks of lights an decorations. You could also buy her a really nice present such as a car. What you should do, is watch MTV's "Sweet 16" show and take little ideas from that! Good luck!

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xO'ali

Q: how do you style side-swept bangs? like would you straighten them, or what. i don't have them, but i want them. and would it look bad if you didn't style them?
you could straighten them because that looks cute! or if you did an updo, you could curl them in the front. or if they get annoying after a while, clip them back.

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xO'ali

Q: whats a site to get really cute love quotes and stuff to put in your aol profile 14/f
www.firehotquotes.com

Q: I was wondering...what stores sell good sunglasses for teens at good prices. If you could tell me the price ranges that would be really helpful too. Thanks!
I dont know how much they cost but here are some good stores:

-Target
-Sunglass hut (or sumthin like that)
-PacSun
-Weathervane
- there are some carts in malls that sell them.
-CVS
-american eagle
-claires
-afterthoughts
-jcpenny
-filenes


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xO'ali

Q: Is Limewire legal? My friends have been telling me it is, but I'm not so sure.
its not

Q: hey I was ust wondering if any of you know how to put graphics and things like that on www.buddy4u.com

I've been trying to put some icons in but I have no clue how..

thanks. I`ll rate.
step 1.) register at www.photobucket.com
step 2.) save a picture to your computer
step 3.) go to your photobucket acount nd go to browse.
step 4.) go to the file you saved it under and double click it.
step 5.)scroll down and get the tag of the picture nd copy nd paste into your buddy4u profile.

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xO'ali

Q: okay well im a dancer and i was wondering if any of you guys know asome good songs to do a lyrical solo to???
You Raise Me up - Josh Groban
Because you loved me - Celine Dion
Against All Odds - Phil Collins
White Houses - Vanessa Carlton

-please rate!

xO'ali

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