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Q: ok well theres this guy that i like but he's on a different team than i am @ school. no one else likes him cuz well everybody else thinks hes a dork. uh, YEAH RIGHT!!!!! i want to invite him 2 youth group cuz i do want 2 c him in heaven but i'm just so darn scared to ask him! HELP!

hey thats great that you want to invite him to church. First I think you should talk to him and see what he thinks about religion, and then say you go to church and stuff..and be like"hey wanna come with me to church sometime"? idk why he would say no, unless he's not into the whole Jesus thing:-D But just pray before you talk to him and ask God to give you the right words and ask God to open his heart and let him hear what you have to say!Good luck:)

Q: i like this gurl and i think she likes me wut shuld i do

ask her if she likes you. if yea then ask her out if u know her well enough.

Q: Ok.Well theres this guy who really really likes me.Im not sure if i like him r not.Were like super good friends so i dont want to ruin that.I flirt wiht him a lot!But i dunno if i want to go out with him.What should i do????

Wait a while until you know for sure you want to go out with him. And if you dont want to ruin the good friendship thing, talk to him before you go out and be like if we ever break up lets still be friends...but yea just wait awhile until u know for sure u wanna go out with him.

Q: ok this gurl doesnt like me is it ok if i ask her y she doesnt like me

Sure you can ask her, but she might try to make it sound nice (if she doesnt wanna hurt ur feelings) and not tell you the whole truth..hope i helped!

Q: Hey im bisexual and me and my girl have been together for a year as of Aug 15th. Well she is REALLY good friends with my guy cousin Micheal. They went to middle school together and crap. Well she says shes in love with me..and i love her to death but theres one problem. My cousin likes her and she likes him. And it kinda hurts me because Im scared that one day im gonna loose her over him. I really love her. But i dont know what to do. I cry every night because it hurts to see him doing this to me. They flirt like crazy. And when she gets offline she writes him this long ass paragraph on how she loves him and shell miss him..bla bla but when she says bye to me all she says is i love you bye. Is it right? What do i do? PLEASE help me..
Ash

You really cant do anything except talk to her about how you feel. tell her you dont want to lose her and stuff..and hopefully when she knows your hurting she'll stop flirting with him more or something.

Q: im a virgin...but i want to know how to tell my boyfriend i wanna loose it with him..we have talked about it it alott...and hes a virgin too..he tells me he found the right person which is me and i told him the same but i dont know how to tell him i want to loose it with him..can someone tell me how i can do tell him that i want to loose my virginity with him??

-WaNting To LooSe iT-

all u say is "i wanna have sex with you" ..it works:-D

Q: i am in 8th grade and i never had a b/f and no one has ever asked me out!!! is that normal or am i like idk weird or sumtin

Your not weird..everyone gets asked out at different times..ur time will come just be patient!

Q: Do women find a guy with a hairy chest attractive? I'm 24, hairy, but not out of control hairy. I'm not overtly self-conscious, but I get the feeling that body hair is considered unattractive. ???
Don't hold back. I want real answers. Hopefully, from real women. Thanks.

sorry im 14 but personally i think thats gross but i mean every guy has hair on their chest so im just gonna have to deal with it..lol

Q: im really confused.im a catholic and bieleve in everything it teaches.iv been baptised and confermed too.but i also beilieve in abortion.i think women should have the right to choose if they want.is this a sin? does this mean im goin to hell? pleaz answer.

You are NOT going to hell. I'm Christian and the only way you go to hell is if you dont believe that Jesus died for your sins!! Cathloics that say you are going to hell, its just a bunch of crap so they can just change your mind about what you think about abortion..

Q: i just started my new school and im the only 8th grade new student!!! everyone has already went there and i really wanna be happy! Does anyone have any suggestions? Does anyone go to that school and is in 8th grade?

If you dont anyone, meet people in your classes. Strike up a conversation and stuff..good luck!

Q: okay, well i am very blessed that i am not overweight, BUT the only problem is that my legs are huge! this might sound cheesy, but i'm serious! it's as if my legs dont match my body! i want to lose the weight but i dont exactly have time to exercise. i wear a skirt to school because the pants are awkward. what can i do to lose the weight? Or make them look thinner?

u can wear black pants that makes it look skinner, and if u do want ur legs to look thin ur gonna need to make time forexercise! get a pilates video pilates r great

Q: my best friend and my best guy friend are going out now which i dont mind but they leave me out of everything we used to do everything toghter but now they are always by themselves or when they invite me i always feel like a 3rd wheel what can i do?

Maybe when you go out with them bring a friend so you dont feel like the 3rd wheel and all four of u can just hang out n stuff

Q: ok, i really like this guy. he is always at the pool and we always flirt. i started to really like him, alot. and i thought 4 sure he liked me. my friend always goes to the pool wit me. so 2day when i was doin a lap, my bro's friend came up to my BF and said, Chris wants to no if youll accompony him at the movies. chris is the boy i like. my friend said no. it turns out chris has been likin my friend 4 a while. i still like him but did my friend say no cuz she nos i like him? how can i steal him back?

You cant steal him back, you cant make him like you..sorry but actually now that he was rejected by your friend maybe he'll ask you out who knows..just be patient and see what happens

Q: how do you see who asks you the questions on your column?

You cant see who asked them...

Q: ok, recently i jus started being a columnist (yea, and i need advice!!)Anyway, i dunno wats wrong wit me. But i started this on.... Aug. 16th i think, and since then only OnE person dropped a question in my inbox. I know i give good advice cuz my average rating wuz a 4.57, but then how cum i'm not gettin any questions?? Is it that i'm not being patient enuff, or wat? Cuz i'm thinking about quiting being a columnist. Help me out please. thanx

I think only a few of us get lots and lots of questions. But just answer questions on the "view questions" page and you'll get noticed!

Q: ever heard the song bossman ft. rod lee? they have a song called welcom to bmore or somthing and i cant find it at all or the lyrics...anyone know?

I'm really sorry if this isint the song but I was looking for a song by beenie man called "dude" and one of the songs on the lyrics page was called bossman..so check this out!

http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/beenieman/bossman.html

i hope its the song!

Q: omg my freind was on the fone to the guy i lk then she kept tellin him to ask me out then he asked her out and she said yes then they broke up but he wants her to go out with him again and then she wants to go out with him again but she nows i lk him alot wut should i do should i be mad at her cause i am help!!!!! i will rate u

I didnt understand your question, learn how to type and then ask your question..just talk to her i guess

Q: Is it werid that i never want to be around my mom.. and i avoid everything about her? i mean everbody else likes to be with there moms and stuff? plz help
ill rate :)
thx.. vballdevil

ohh i know how u feel, all my friends hang out with their moms its like ru guys on crack..lol but dont worry ur normal some ppl stick to their moms but some ppl as they get older dont wanna be with them and hang out and stuff

Q: hi! ok well i just started highschool . and my best friend goes to dif. school then me . and were allowed to talk to much cuz her mom dont like me and its a long story . well she sneaks phonecalls to me . and ovr the summer we would talk bout dif. things and she was totally dif. ( good dif.) b4 she started this new school. and she called me 3 days ago and she was acting REALLY preppy , and her voice sounded fake . and she kept bragging bout her new friends and her boyfriend she has ( boyfriend , its only been 1 week since school started) . and like she'll talk to me for bout 5min. and she'll ok i hav to go , and she just hangs up and duznt evn say bye and she duznt evn giv me a chance to talk . and its pissing me off a lot!!! i dono wtf happned to her , shes totallly different and wen she called one time i missed the call cuz i left my phone in my car and i got it and i saw the # and called it bak and her NEW friend answers so i ask if jenna was there and her NEW friend sez " jenna! its ur lil friend" i was like WTF!! and its pissing me off and i dono what to do . do i sound jealous?? i dont wana sound like a bitch but she's turned INSTANT POPULAR PREP!!! help plz!!!!!!! :(

No you dont sound jealous. Usally this happens when friends go to different schools. They find new friends and dont hang out much. Just find new friends at your school and hang out and stuff..and talk to her when you can..

Q: Ok so like my parents are soo annoying and everything. Like I do love them and if they died or somethin i would probaly die too..but they bother me so much!Like they never let me go out adn they always wanna kno what I'm doin but I HATE IT..im only 13 but I have always been pretty responisible and they should be able to trust me...how do I get them off my back??plz help... thx!

why cant u tell ur parents where ur going? yea you hate it but your parents are just worried about you..they love you and dont worry we all get mad at our parents..cuz yup they are annoying lol