about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

well im not exactly gonna do this but just in case..

im 15/f
and i usually have alot of discharge..like everyday of my LIFE. it sucks! and i already have gotten my period so ya. just the FYI on me haha.

well im just wondering if a boy fingers me..there its gonna be all wet then..like his fingers *embarassing* because of the discharge right? so do you think i should never get fingered or what? well thanks hunnie!

You won't always be getting discharge but it usually happens when you are close to your period or after your period. Anyways, I don't think it would matter to some guys. If you want to get fingered don't let it bother you because it will go away.

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How would I properly say this sentence -

If I were you.
If I was you.

If I were you. ♥

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i keep asking you this and i dont know if your not answering or if like its not leting me ask? but where can i get an xanga code for a drop down music player?

I don't know, sorry.

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okay so im 16 and iv had discharge ever since i got my period as a freshman. and i know its always sopose to be clear, but sometimes mine is more of a cream color, and sometimes brown. is that bad? and if you have a infection wat is the "smell?" thank you!

That's normal. When it's brownish it means you're about to get your period. If you don't then that's fine too but there isn't anything wrong.

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I have a bf and we've been going out for 3 months, but i've kept this hidden from my parents the entire time, i'm 13 mind u, and my mom wont let me have a bf she says its already enough that i've had my first kiss and she found me downstairs cuddling with a guy, with my head on his lap sleeping, i really dont see why i cant have a bf i think she's over reacting bc i know kids my age do way more than kiss or cuddle is she over reacting???? i'll rate high for any suggestions, or anyway to see my boyfriend w/o getting caught thanks

I think that she is just worried about you doing anything with a guy since you're still very young. All parents are worried about their kids getting a disease or anything so I can understand why you're mom won't let you have a boyfriend. My dad is the same way though. It's not that he won't let me have a boyfriend, he just doesn't like the idea of me having one. He always thinks that I'm too young and that something might happen to me & that I don't understand anything about being in a realationship. Anyways, you should just talk to your mom. Just explain to her that you just want a boyfriend and that you aren't going to do anything stupid. It's very normal for all teenagers to have a boyfriend or girlfriend & it's not like you will do anything stupid. You know your limits. If she still says no, then I don't know what else to tell you. Just hang out with him all the time, talk on the phone, go places or you could just tell your parents he's a friend. As you get older I think she will learn to trust you more & she will know that you wouldn't do anything stupid.

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have you ever smelled the perfume from victoria secrets called "very sexy" for her? well i just got it and i was wondering if you liked it! i want the boys to think i smell good :) heheh i just wanna smell good! well thank you sweetie

by the way your beautiul ♥

I love that perfume! It smells really good. Most guys are attracted to that smell but since it's strong don't sspray too much. :) Thanks, you're so nice!

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Teza



your gorgeous ♥

Thank you. You're sweet. ♥

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hey babe this is villy 1st of all i love you! ok well anyways i got this layout but when i put it in its allmesed up the side stuff are in the middle its all messed up do you know what im doing wrong ? LOVE YA! ♥

Show me which layout you have & I need to see what kind of code it is. I mean does it say but it custom header or what?? You probablly copied it in the wrong thing so that's why.

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TEZA
gosh i love that name
♥

I'm flattered. :DDDD

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What is a hand job. How do you give one ?

I'm sorry, but questions like these I usually reject. Just go to google.com & type in what is a hand job & how to give one & you will get a lot of responces.

only search advicenators.com

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MERRY CHRISTMAS TEZA






your beautiful :)
haha

You're sweet. ♥ Merry Christmas to you too sweet thing! :D

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MERRRY CHRISTMAS



hope ya had a good one!!

Thanks!! I did have a good one, hopefully you did too. :)

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what are some fun things to do AT YOUR HOUSE..with a friend..since neither of us can drive..and i want her to have fun..i dont wanna be boring! lol

♥

If it's one of my good friends, we just do anything really. If we're bored, we'll just call people, watch a movie, music, talk about boys, if you have games.. play them. They can be fun if you make it. Playing a sport outside, having another friend over makes it more fun. Calling someone & having their parent's carpool. :D

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what do you think is the longest someone should be grounded for for sneaking out and swearing and there parents. my friend wanted me to ask because she did that and she doesnt think its fair how long she's grounded for. thanks.

There really isn't a fair amout of time. If her parents think that a year is fair, then let it be it. Of course us, teenagers, don't think that anything is fair. Being grounded for anything is pathetic to us & we just get mad over it. She should of thought about this before she actually did such a thing. If it happened to me of course I'd be mad & I'd give myself a day of being grounded but of course it never works that way. I feel bad that she is grounded for a long time, but she should of thought about it.

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ok when i have my period i wear pads..its just my preference..ive tried tampons..but mine are really heavy and yeah! i know you really like tampons ..because ive read previous advice but im not gonna start wearing them again! well guess what?! i have my period for break..fun fun hah not ..

but like im going to be seeing a lot of people and i wanna wear my new clothes i got for x-mas and they are all shorteR like t-shirts..or shorter long-sleeved..sweatshirts..and like when i wear them my underwear lines kinda show thru my jeans...its kind embarassing..makes me wanna stay in the whole break..but i dont wanna make it ruin my whole break :( is there anything to reduce the pantyline?! i usually wear thongs..i just wear regular ones when i have my period..

well thanks..

and hope you had a good christmas
♥

So many people have a fear of tampons lol but they aren't bad at all. Anyways, you can wear a pad with a thong too. Now, it's probablly not going to be AS comftrable but it works. I did it once because I was out of tampons.

I know you don't want to hear about tampons, but just go to this website.

http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/tampon.html

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okay..

first off MERRY CHRISTMAS :)

lOl..
soo yeah im really trying to grow my hair out!!!! my stupid hair dresser cut it soo much..i specifically told her i would like to try and grow it out like all the layers to one length..and what happens?
i SERIOUSLY have more layers and its soo much shorter! ugh i hate it..

so im tryin to keep it healthy even though i have to straighten my hair everyday..since curling or crunching it doesnt work..but i put this stuff called CHI on before..but i already see split endS? ugh BUMMER!
so anyways..is it healthier to like wash your hair and then go to bed..or like keep your hair straight and not wash it. which do you think will help it grow fasteR? i know it will take time :( but anything will HELP!!!
thanks hun

I think I answered a question similar to this one. If you wash your hair at night, the next day, or a week later it won't help it grow any faster. It's all about keeping it healthy & it will grow on it's own. I use this spray called Ion & you put it in before using any hot irons. It helpes it from damaging.

http://www.salonweb.com/37/grow.htm There is a shampoo for your hair to grow "faster" I don't belive in any of that stuff because you can't force hair to grow, it grows by its self. If you want to try that shampoo, go ahead.

Merry Christmas to you too.

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MERRY













CHRISTMAS




























MY DARLING






















TEZA
















haha yeah
much love to ya

Why, thank you. I appriciate it. Love ya too, mystery person.

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well im 15/f

im on birth control..not for the sex reasons tho..for my periods

soo it was going all good..until i had my period for a week..then skipped a week then the next week i got it again..OH i was soo pissed!!
i just got done with it ..and it lasted like 9 days? but it wasnt suppose to come..

now tonight i just got it again..or i think its my full period..i just went to the bathroom and its bloody..but the doctor said you can have like some bleeding here and there from the pill..

this is really weird?
i knew i was suppose to get it like sometime on my regular schedule..but i my other one that just lasted like 9 days ended like 2 days ago..

wow this really sucks?
what do you think i should do..

There really isn't much you can do. It seems pretty normal to be it's just what the pill is doing. You can't stop it no matter how much it pissed you off. The doctor didn't say anything bad about it but talk to him about the pill. I mean that's what's causing you to have it for a while. If you're worried about it lasting for 9 days, then that's also normal. People may tend to get it longer then that.

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ok well im about 5'7 and i have not currently weighed myself but i think i weigh about 120-125? and like to me i dont think i look fat..unless i sit down and when i have jeans on..i have like a big bulge that goes over..i mean its not huge but its enough to bother me!! but then other people tell me im too skinny? because im so tall!! i usually do anywhere from 30-100 situps each night..im not sure if thats helping. but im not sure what to do..because i mean i look fine when im standing and stuff..people even think i look too skinny..but it just bugs me when i sit down. i try to eat healthier but lately it seems like im ALWAYS hungry..and i cant hold myself back. i always eat and eat..and eat..ugH! what do you think i should do? do you think im too skinny..but what do i do about my stomache bulge?!

thanks babes

Actually, everyone has that. You're not the only one. Everyone has some what of baby fat on them & it's harder to loose. Don't worry about it though & it shouldn't bother you because it's nothing to be stressing over. You're the perfect weight so don't even try loosing any. You can still do crunches & sit ups & that's really good that you can do that many.

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♥

just seein if that worked..lol

well mERRy christmas gorgeous :)

Lol well it works. Merry Christmas to you too darling.

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