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Hi guys! :] I'm Lauren. I'm 15 years old. I've been through a lot in my life, so I can always relate to your problems. I love giving advice to people. :] So please ask away.Peace and love |♥♥

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If you have seen the exorcism of emily rose please help me undertsand this. Whenever she was in the field with the Virgin Mary, what did Mary ask her? Whenever Emily said "I choose to stay." Was the a good choice or a bad choice? Why did she choose to stay? Please explain.

♥ THAT M0ViE WAS SCARY !
ANWAYS. ViRGIN MARY T0LD HER THAT SHE C0ULD EiTHER Go UPTO HEAVEB ( BE AT PEACE. NO MORE DEMONS) OR STAY ( SHE W0ULD SUFFER & THE DEMONS WOULD NEVER LEAVE HER BUT SHE COULD SHOW THAT DEMONS ARE REAL && THAT THEY CAN POSESS ANYONE & THE STORY WOULD BE SHARED) HOPE i HELPED !
♥ LAUR3N

so there is this guy in my eighth period class and i just started liking him on friday -- it's sunday today -- like RIGHT after school and i had no idea why and i was wondering if you could tell me how i could ask him like who he likes without like... sounding really weird! i JUST started 7th grade so please try to put yourself in this situation. he really isn't that attractive (he's not even hot...) and at one point in my life, like the second day of school (tomorrow's the fifth day of school for me) i thought he was ugly! i really wanna like bring it up in a conversation with him, and by the way, two of my close friends sit like right next to me. he always talks to me and one of my other friends like a lot but he obviously thinks she's smarter. i don't want to imply on myself that he does/doesn't like me because i have no idea. i was thinking about like talking to my friend, being like, "OMG guess what! i saw 'him' in the hallways today it was so awesome!" and you know what? i think knowing him he would be like, "who?" because (i'll give you a five if you read it all) like on friday, i told my friend that, "(their name here) is dummber" (because that kid was being really stupid and like babbling on and on about something, and earlier in class, so was another kid so i was comparing them both) and APPARENTLY the kid i like heard me even though i said it like really quietly and he couldn't even see my mouth move to my friend! and he's like, "than who?" and i said, "did you hear what i said?" and he's like, "yeah" and i'm like (well i tell him who i was talking about) and he's like, "ok, let me tell you something. he lives on my street and this morning, him and (this other kid i didn't know very well, like i knew who he was) (his name here) were running around the neighborhood like drunks" and i laughed out loud because i kinda thought my crush wasn't the most popular guy ever but when he said drunks i was like... wow because he is kinda smart and i thought he was like a nerd, not caring about anything else and i'm glad he has that. anyway, let me explain my school... i was wrong before, he's not that smart. there are TWO accellerated classes on my team, ok? and me and my friend are on the same team and SO IS HE. there are two accelerated, one medium, and one like... really dumb class. i forget what it's called. i am in one of the accellerated classes, and i just realized that me and my friend don't have much of the same classes, and she is also in accellerated, so that means she is in the second accellerated class. i just called her and asked her if my crush was in any of her classes (she doesn't know that he is my crush, so when i asked her, she was like, "umm... why?") and she said no so that means he's either in the medium class which is like... kinda dumb but kinda not? OR he's in the low class... and i hope not

Hey girl !
Thank you so much. You are too sweet. Anways, It sounds Like he really wants to know who you like && you are deffinetely keeping him guessing! LOL. What I would do is when you are deep in conversation after he asks yo again who you like, be like " Then who do you like?" Because he obviously thinks you like someone else so it will be easier for him to tell you because he wont get all emberassed. If you don't want to tell him have one of your friends ask him but tell them not tell him you were wondering. Then if he happens to like you =) which would be awesome then flirt flirt flirt. I Hope I helped! L0VE YA. X0X0 MUCH LUHHV ♥

hey i was just wondering about something... well you know how girls think that boys are weird and what they do to try to impress girls are weird and not attractive at all? wel is there anything about girls that you guys hate? i just wanted to know because there's this guy that i really like and i was wondering if there's any like really annoying habits about girls that guys dont like about them.. ok please answer i rate high!!

♥ HEY !
HAVE Y0U EVER SEEN " HOW T0 LO0SE A GUY iN 10 DaYS?" ITS SOO0O FUNNY & iT SHOWS WHAT GUYS ABSOLUTELY HATE THiNGS GiRLS DO. ITS WiTH KATE HUDSON. ANWAYS. GUYS D0NT LIKE CLiNGY GiRLS LiKE WHERE YOU HAVE TO LiKE BE WiTH HiM EVERYWHERE Y0U GO. OR LiKE WHEN Y0U CALL EVERY MiNUTE FOR ABSOLUTELY N0 REASON AT ALL. THEY DONT LiKE BABY TALK EiTHER. OR WHEN Y0U MAKE UP LiTTLE NICKNAMES LiKE POOKiE OR SUGAHPUSS LOL OR Y0U SAY THEiR NAME && PO0 AT THE END. EXAMPLE- BRYCiE PO0 ! HA. THEY ALSO HATE WHEN YOU INTERUPT THEiR GUY NiGHTS. LiKE WHEN YOUR WANTiNG TO HANG OUT WiTH EVEN WHEN HES GONNA HANG OUT WiTH HiS H0MiES. THEY ALSO HATE WHEN Y0U SPREAD RUMORS, GOSSip OR TALK SHiT. THiS iS A HUGE ONE; HiGH MAINTENENCE !! I THiNK ABOUT EVERY GUY HATES iT, WHEN A GiRL IS HiGH MAINNTENCE. THEY LiKE NATUAL GiRLS THAT CAN PULL UP THEY'RE HAiR && G0 CAMPiNG. =( YEAH I KNOW. BUT WHATEVERR. JUST REMEMBER ALL GUYS ARE DiFRERENt ! SOME GUYS MAY TOLERATE THESE THiNGS. HOPE i HELPED Y00U! X0X0 MUCH LOVE ♥

i was wondering if you had any tips or advice on how to be more outgoing around guys. (i'm not shy...just not very outgoing when it comes to boys, so please take into consideration that it's not as easy for me as it is for some people!) thanks!

♥ HEY GiRLY.
SMiLE A LOT. SMiLiNG MAKES BOYS COMFORTABLE AR0UND YOU ! BE YOURSELF. START CONVERSATiONS OVER RANDOM THiNGS. IT WORKS & GUYS THiNK ITS CO0L ! IF YOU & A GUY START HAViNG A CONVO & SCHOOL, A PARTY W/E ASK HiM IF HE WANTS TO HANG OUT SOMETiME. YOU COULD DO THAT ON AiM TOO. JUST DONT FREEZE UP iN PERSON ! FlIRT WiTH THE GUYS & MAKE THEM MAD iN A CUTE WAY. LiKE TAKe THEiR HAT & RUN AWAY WiTH iT =) THEY MAY SEEM PiSSED BUT YOU CAN SEE THEiR SMiLiNG ! iF Y0U NEED ANYMORE PUHLEASE DR0P ONE iN MY iNBOX ! G0OD LUCK GiRL ! MUCH LUHVV ! LAUREN ♥

my friend is 13 and she had sex with a sixteen year old and she got pregnant because her cheap boyfriend couldn't spare the extra 3 dollars to buy the good condoms and it ripped, so now she's all excited about having a baby and i told its nothing to be excited about and i told her that when your that young and have a baby that its not very safe and you could die is it true?

and by the way i love my friend to death and i have know clue what to say to her about the whole thing and she's mad that everyone is calling her a slut which she is!

♥ 0MG.
Yeah that is NUTHiNG to be proud of. This will change her life forever. Yeah you could die if you have a baby at too young. Shes still devoloping & her body may not be ready to have a baby. This may not be the case though. Make sure she tells her parents. Tell her the consequences but dont be totally negative. You oly can really experience the joy of having a baby when you older & experienced. Hope I helped. & Good luck! LOVE YA. MUCH LUHV

Im really tiny and skinny. Im like 5'0 and 82 pounds, and im 14 years old. When im at skool then guys who actually are really hott pick me up and flip me upside down. it kinda bugs me how they just flip me thru the air cuz alot of times all my stuff goes flying ect. i told my friends that it bugs me and there just like "its just cuz they think ut hott, ur lucky u get all the attention from them". what should i do?
thanx!!
lil sexy kaylie!

♥ THAT HAPPNED TO ME TOO. IM 5'2 & 88 POUNDS & iM 14. I TOLD THEM NiCELY I WAS LIKE " YOU GUYS PUH-PLEASE D0NT DO THAT!" & BE SORTA CUTE ABOUT iT IN A SERiOUS WAY. LiKE i'D BE LiKE " DUUDE iF Y0U DONT PUT ME DOWN IMA KiCK YA RiGHT iN THE BALLS !" HAHA & THEY STOP! THEY DONT GET MAD EiTHER THEY LAUGH ABOUT IT & STOP! JUST STANND FiRM & BE CONFiDENT. YOU CAN DO iT ! LOVE YA ! X0X0

I have pretty much quite tanned skin , and recently , i have noticed little dots on my upper arms that are of a lighter shade comapred to the skin colour of my arms . they're so ugly ? ( eve nthough they aren't that obvious ) how can i get rid of them ??! Also , i have HUGE pores on my hands , especially on my fingers . how do i get rid of them ?

♥ I HAVE TH0SE T0O! ITS SO WEiRD, I KNOW.
I ASKED MY M0M & SHE SAYS THEY'RE SUNSPOTS. THEY GO AWAY AFTER AWHiLE. I DONT THiNK YOU CAN GET RiD OF THEM. MAYBE YOU COULD PUT ALOE [?] iDK. I MiGHT TRY THAT. G0OD LUCK ♥

ok, this is really weird. this morning i was sleeping and my cell phone rang. i answered it and it was some lady saying "allo" over and over again. i just hung up and she called back again saying the same "allo" and she said something like "sylvia?".. that's not the weird part, the weird part was the phone number. +911125450138 was the number. it was 12 digets! i dont understand how that could be a phone number when it starts with 911. i was thinking maybe it was another country. i found that 911 is an area code in china, germany and indonesia. does anyone know anything about this? i know you have to dial a code to make out of country calls.. so maybe 911 is the US code? if you have any information, please let me know. thanks

♥ THAT iS SO WEiRD.
I TAKE FRENCH CLASS AND ALLO WiTH THE LiTTLE ACCENT MARK MEANS HELLO? ON THE PH0NE iN FRENCH. IM REALLY SORRY I HAVE NO IDEA WHERE THAT PERSON WAS FROM OR ANYTHiNG =/ ALL i KNO IS THAT ALLO IS HELLO IN FRENCH. BUT I DEFFINETELY THiNK THE PERsON WAS CALLiNG FROM A DiFFRENT COUNTRY. G0OD LUCK. ♥

Has anyone ever used accuntane? did it work good? were there bad side effects? thanx

♥ I heard it worked. My Dad used to use it && he got an allergic reaction =( LOL. But my friend used it & it totally worked. Just remember that everyone has different skin types. Some things may work for you some may not. I suggest you try though. LOVE ALWAYS ♥ LAUR3N

does anyone know how to get a babysitting job.
need a babysitting job.
plz help me.

♥ IF Y0U KN0W SOME NEiGHBORS & ONE OF YOUR PARENTS FRiENDS, WiTH KiDS OR NOT; YOU SHOULD ASK THEM OR HAVE YOUR PARENTS ASK THEM TO SPREAD YOUR NAME TO THEiR FRiENDS WHO HAVE KiDS. HAVE THEM TO THEiR FRiENDS THAT YOU'D BE OPEN FOR A BABYSiTTiNG JOB. & YOUR FRiENDS HAVE Y0UR NUMBER SO THEY CAN ALWAYS CONTACT YOU !
Y0U ALSO COULD HANG UP FLYERS. PUT YOURSELF IN THE NEWSPAPER. 0R iF YOU SEE SOMEONE WiTH KiDS STRiKE UP A CONVO & THEN ASK THEM iF THEY'D BE iNTERESTED iN A BABYSiTTER =)
G0OD LUCK ! MUCH LUHVV ! ♥ LAUR_

Well this guy we are really close the other day we went to a movie with a bunch of friends and i swear every two seconds he looked at me , and also we are in almost every class together. I actually really like him like alot! also im 14 hes 15 also he grabbed my hand the other day i didnt let go what should I do?

♥ AW. I THiNK Y0U TOO LIKE EACHOTHER =)
YEAH & I THINK YOU SHOULD WAiT FOR HiM TO MAKE THE NEXT MOVE. I THINK HE MAY WANT TO GO OUT WiTH YOU. GO WiTH THE FLOW BUT FLiRT A LiTTLE BiT, BE NATuAL && 0F COURSE BE YOURSeLF ! LUHV, LAUREN ♥ //

this is a retarded question but i really REALLY want to stop my boobs from growing. i just read the answers to a person asking why their boob itches and found out that it was because your boobs are growing. i DON'T want my boobs to grow any bigger than they are. i'm 14 and i'm already a size b cup! and i just want it to STOP i DON'T want it to get any bigger. so what are some things that i can do to make it stop?

♥ =( there really nothing you can do. Its all apart of life && You have to accept yourself for who you are! Some people would die to have big boobs. Be confident & think of the positives about your body. When you grow up you could have a breast reduction. But I think your fine just the way you are. Besides B cup isnt that big at all. Be proud =) Love always, Lauren ♥

need help on deciding one of the things i really love a puppy or laptop please help me thanks ill rate high

♥ I SAY A PUPPY =) THEY'RE S00O MUCH CUTER. LESS EXPENSiVE BUT HARDER TO TAKE CARE OF. GOOD LUCK LOVE YA X0X0 ♥

how exactly do you scrunch your hair?

♥ You can easily just wash your hair,towel dry, put mousse & gel in it & let it air dry. That works but i also found that theres another way that makes your look even better. Do the normal way, like what i said but do it before you go to bed. Then make one braid or two braids while your hair is wet right after you put the gel/mousse in. Sleep on it. Then in the morning take out your braid(s) & your hair will look H0T =) TRUST ME. But if this doesnt work for you or you dont like it you can go back to the normal way. H0OPE I HELPED! ♥

whats the difference between foundation and concealer

♥ Hey!
I luhhv these kinds of questions =) ha.
Anways.. Foundation is what you use on mainly your whole face. It makes your skin color more even && hides blemishes. sometimes it makes your acne less noticable. Conealer is more for specific spots. Like, Pimples, under eye bags or expression lines. Concealer is a lot thicker & more noticable then foundation. You usually put on foundation first & then dot concealer on. Concealer is usally in little tubes or in tubes that look like lip gloss or sometimes in a lip stick form. Foundation can be in a larger tube or glass bottle.
Hope I helped! ♥

Does toothpaste really work for your zits? If so, please, details would be appreciated. Thanks.

♥ Uhm. Well it actually doesnt really get rid of them. It dries it up & reduces redness. I actually think it wouldnt be bad to use. Maybe not on like your face, just on one of those big gross red pimples that pop up. =) Hope I helped! &hearts' always.

Alright, I'm a girl who just started shaving her legs...and anyways how often do you change your blade? I have no idea! O've had it for about 1 monthes..which seems REALLY long...please tell me I need riiiiiiiight away

♥ // Uhmm.. I would change it on the 6th or 7th shave. Or when the blade starts to get dull. MUHC LUHV =)

my (powder, i guess) makeup just fell and broke in a million pieces. is there any way to fix it?

♥ // ahh. that happens to me too all the time. sweep it up & put it back into the the container thingy. Then take a brush & just dab it in! I actually think its better having it in tiny pieces. ♥

how do i add someone as my favorite columist

♥ G0 TO THEiR ADViCE COLUMn & ADD THEM WHERE iT SAYS ADD AS FAVORiTE ADViCE COLUMNiST.
L0VE YA BYEE =) X0X0 LUHVV ALWAYS

hey this is a quistion for all those guys out there-
do you prefer girls with or without makeup? thanks:-)

♥ Lol sorry im not a guy but all my guy friends say like the girls without makeup.
♥ xoxo much luhv, Lauren

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