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im 14..female and i weigh 124 lbs...i hav curves definatly...well im nto happy with my body..i want to be size 00 and small...all the guys like small gurls..i look like a cow in a bathing suit and am starting to get cellulate on thighs/butt...i feel fat in anything i wear now...my point is is that im thinkin about going annorexic...bc i have a really pretty face and a ugly body if i go annorexic i will be pretty...maybe not full blown annorexic..but like not alot of food...a little bites here and there...but not alot @ all...and not makeing myself throw up..just not eating....how soon do u think i will lose weight...plz dont say "dont do this blah blah" bc i just want to know how much weight do u think i will lose in 2wks? plz answer that ?!! (link)
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i asked my self the same thing and thought about it but i have a small apetite anyway, but i also just cut back on how much i ate. as for how much weight you'll lose..it depends on how much food you eat and how active you are. but just drink a lot of water because then you will eat less because your stomach will be fuller, and its less of a chance of you passing out or anything. just cut back on what you eat and be more actuve, you dont have to run or anything just...find ways to walk more and bend more. its works really. hope i helped.
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I was wondering if when you get your period you will actually start getting bigger breasts REALLY fast. I mean, some of my friends have had their period but they don't really have any breasts, yet others grew some really fast. And one of my other friends has really big breasts but she hasn't got her period. It's all so confusing. And it's terrible for me because I'm 5'7" , 13 years old, and I basically have no boobs. Also, when do you know when you're getting your period soon? I have already been getting discharge and like 3-5 months ago I started getting underarm hair. About how long do you think it will be before I get my period? THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR HELPING! I know it's a lot, but please try to answer! Thanks! !!I RATE!! (link)
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well girls develop at different rates. some of my friends have big ones and some dont. its just how puberty goes. and i'd guess that you're going to get it soon. and the first time, it should be that heavy or anything like that. hope i helped.
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lol, ok, i kno this is dorky and all but, how do u french kiss??? i mean i've always wonder, u kno, like what do u do....lol, i kno, i kno, this is a stupid question (link)
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its not a stupid question lol. i've thought the same thing in my head before i actually did. the only thing i can really tell you it that it just kinda comes to you. and its the truth it really does. my friend told me the same thing but i didnt believe him...but its true. hope i helped.
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Hey, I was just wondering if you could really get an STD from giving head. Because I just read it on here, and I've given head to one of my ex's, and I never knew that there was a possibility that I would get an STD, and now I'm really scared about it. Can you guys please help me out? (link)
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sorry to say but yes it is possible. if the guys wears a condum then its less likly that that will happen. sorry.
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well, over the years i've sturrgled through school, not with friends, not with grades, not with teachers, but i get so nervous over everything. It's so stupid! I get so nervous over everything....like i'll be nervous to go to class tomorrow cuz i'll think i'll get in trouble or i think the teacher is gonna hate me!! I hate it, i've always had this thing ever since 1st grade only my mom knows about it. It's rele dump and i feel like an as*! I jus started 7th grade and i feel so stupid! i feel like a mental house, what should i do, :( (link)
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im kinda like that too, i always want to know what we're going to do in class the next day and all that. im not really sure what to tell you but you shouldn't feel stupid about it at all. actually, im glad to know i'm not the only one like this. if you want to talk more then leave one in my inbox. hope i helped.
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I was wondering if there was any way that you can see who rated you and what they rated you. I appreciate the help! And if you just want to drop in and answer this to say hello that's great too! I rate.. specially for nice people =c)
Love, RacheL
((xoRachel)) (link)
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hey, the way i check is by going into my own column. and if you click on the number then you can see the question and all the answers and stuff like that. just check your own feed back. hope this helps. :-)
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What does it feel like to give head? I was just wondering, because my boyfriend asked me to give him head, but I want to know what it is like first. Please help me out! (link)
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im in the same situation as you...and i have no clue what-so-ever...sorry.
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Okay so i have these two best friends..and we`re all best friends. One of them changed completely just for her boyfriend and then when the other one pointed it out, the first one got pissed off and now they`re not friends anymore. Now, one of them deosnt care that theyre not friends anymore but the other one does, and she keeps telling me about how unhappy she is. Ugh, i have no idea what to do. I want them to be friends again, but i dont know wtf im supposed to do about it.
Sorry if this is long and confusing, but oh well. (link)
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try asking the one friend why they wont be friends with the other. maybe its more then they're saying or you dont know all of it. but tell them both that you want to be friends with both of them but you dont want to be put in the middle of their fight. hope i helped.
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A friend of mine asked me this question and i couldn't answer it. So maybe u guys can help. Ok here it goes...
there is this boy, i've liked him for over a year. and yesterday i saw him for the first time in a couple months. and i tried to drop him hints that i still like him but he won't catch any hints. what should i say to him to make him understand without actually saying it? (link)
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i'd say try asking him if he has a girlfriend and just flirt with him. ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. hope i helped.
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me and my friend has been friends for a long time. And she was always has a attitude and makes me look like the bad girl... I really dont want to loose a friend but i am getting really sick of her wat should i do? (link)
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try talking to her and tell her that you dont want to lose her as a friend but you want her to stop making you look like the bad girl all the time. and just make sure you tell her you dont want to lose her. hope i helped.
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about how much does contacts cost?! and how easy are they to use?! i rate high! (link)
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contacts are pretty easy to use, it takes a few trys to get them in without it taking 30 min lol. thats how long it took me my first try. but they're so much better than glasses. and most of the time i forget that they're there. hope i helped.
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i have this friend(lets call her mangan)and latly (especial last year) we have gotten into a lot of fights (not physical, but like over stupid thisngs) like 1 time when i didnt get her some shoe! but anyways we have been frineds since second grade and it is now eighth. she is makin new friedns and so am i, and i am afaidi will lose her, and that is the last thing i want to happen :( i just gotn know wut to do cuz i love her to death and always will please help me!
signed,
tryin to hold on!
(dont deleat cuz i really need adviuce!) (link)
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tell her how you feel and that you really dont want to lose her. im sure she'll understand. and maybe you guys can hang out with a group of friends if you're both making new friends. hope i helped.
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Ok..here I go...
I was going out with Aaron, and dumped him for his best friend, Josh. Now since his Josh hates me(we went out he dumped me), Aaron wants to go back out with me...and i said yes...but it's a long distance between us. Is it a good idea? Or no? Please help me! (link)
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if you really want to be with him then, yeah. and when its a long didtance relationship, it just means that the next time you see eachother is even more special. hope i helped.
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Ok my sister annoys me so much im gunna be 14 and she iz 18 but n e wayz i have been wid my bf for more then 10 months and she iz alwayz sayin i like her bfz brotha which iz so not tru and she iz like yea when u go to BP then Sam can play football and u cna be hiz cheerleader and i was liek uh.... no she was like well iz not like u r still gunna be with him when u go to high skool i mean it pisses me off juss cuz im younger duznt mean i cnat be in a relationship that has lasted longer then hers iz right now i mean come on i may turnin 14 but i kno my bf iz the 1 and she tries and tellz me that he iznt and o u wont be togetha in high skool and all thiz shyt and it really pisses me off so wat do u think?!?!?!
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my parents and some friends are the same way with me and my boyfriend. and i feel the same way you do. just tell you sister that you dont know if you will be together but right now you are and thats all that matters to you. and then prove her wrong once you get to highschool. if you ever need to talk my sn's in my column. feel free to talk if you want to. hope i helped.
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I am a 13 female and recently I just found out I am pregnant. I have no one for the baby except for my boyfriend who is the father. He is 16. My parents and me never keep in touch anymore so I live with my sister who is 18. She is never home and won't get mad if she found out I was pregnant. My boyfriend knows and is really happy. He is glad I am pregnant. But I'm not. I mean I am going to have the baby and keep it and i will love it but I am too young. But I do not know what I should do with my boyfriend. Can anyone give me advice? Please help.
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talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. and im sure your sister will help you out. but stay with school. sorry i couldnt help more...good luck and let me know how it goes.
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This isnt a question..just saying that Today is my 18th Birthday and I appreciate everyones ratings and answering all the questions that Ive asked...Im really glad that I joined this advice column...You all are the greatest. Thanks!! (link)
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Happy Birthday!!!
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WELL I have sex quite often without protection to my fiance and i think i may be pregnant.....or had a miscarrige!
i have been getting really bad cramps in the morning and diarrea as well....my period is not expected till the 7th of the month(sept) and i got it in august so it would have had to been this month it happened! i went to the bathroom yesterday and i started bleeding i thought it was my period so i acted like it was however i only BLED a little and then it stopped . its only the 23 so thats like 2 weeks early!
could i be pregnant or could the cramps be a misscarrige??
PLEASE HELP THANKS! (link)
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im not really sure if you're pregnate or not but go out and buy one of those tests and sometimes girls do bleed in between their periods. its called spotting. it doesnt been much, like in your case. hope i helped and good luck.
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I went to visit my aunt and met this guy and i guess he says he lieks me and when we were in the car he asked when i was going to be his gf and i said i didnt no well i havent seen him for awhile and i call him and talk to him on the phone and i really really like him what should i do becuz i really want to go with him (link)
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talk to him and tell him you like him and you already know that he wants to go out with you. just call him up and tell him how you feel.
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i just got contacts on saturday and i like them alot and everything but the thing is i can't really see that good with them on. i don't know if i put them on wrong or my eye doctor gave me the wrong prescription. is it normal not to be able to see for the first couple of days you get contacts? or did i do something wrong?
p.s.- i always put the right contact in the correct eye... i have it in an order so i know that they are going in the right eye. (link)
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maybe you have the contacts inside out...although then it wouldnt really stay in. you should go back and have it checked.
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ive had fast metabolism like since young and im really thin, people just stare at me. they go "are u aneroxeric or something?" and questions like this piss me off, because im not! and i love my body for whatever size i am. im slightly underweight only and im quite a big eater (lol) what should i tell people who ask me questions like these? i dun wanna sound angry or vulgur to them.. please help -Rei (link)
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when they ask you, just take a deep breath and tell them (as calmly as you can) that you just have a fast metabolism. hope i helped.
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