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hi ppl . ok well heres my problem . im not bragging or nethng but i think im pretty & hav a good personality but my one thing is , i hav NEVER had a boyfriend . and im 14 . its bothering me b/c all of my friends can get them , and i cant . i talk to guys all the time and im being myself , but it isnt working . nothing is working . i dono what to do nemore . any tips
it sounds like you have a lot of confidence,which is good, and maybe guys are a little intimadated by that.instead of waiting for a guy to approach you, you should ask someone out and hopefully they'll say yes.
i was dating this guy for about 3 months and things got pretty serious. we spent every day together and he would stay and my house and vice versa. his ex girlfriend called one night and he broke up with me to see if things would work with her and they didnt. he called about a month after we broke up and said that he made a huge mistake for breaking up with me cause i was the best thing that had ever happened to him. we got back together and things were great, actually better than ever or so i thought. one day when she called again he started getting weird again and told me that he once again needed time. i took all of my stuff from his house and said that i wasnt playing second best anymore. i gave him all i had and thought that this was it. that he was the one. and unfortunately im a mess over him. i know he treats me horrible in this situation but ive never been so inlove with someone before. and i dont know what to do. someone just help. please.
it seems like he's not ready for a commited relationship. he's still trying to play the field and if that doesn't work out he'll know you'll always be there. you should give him time and when he's ready to be commited then you should start seeing him again. good luck.
Ok i have this really good guy friend who used to go out with 1 of my friends but she dumped him and now she is being really mean to him! I found out she likes my boyfriend and she has been trying to steal my bestfriend. She even called me a bitch once. But she does this all behind my abck and when she is with me she is really really nice. The thing is she has a reputauin for using people.All my friends are friends with her and i think that if I dump her everyone would be mad at me. My guy friend(her ex) has been trying to convine me to dump her as a friend and is saying he would be there for me if she says anything mean and stuff. I really dont know what to do! Know 1 knows she likes my boyfriend and no one relizes she is stealing my bff !I dont want people to hate me but i dont really like her much ! What should i do ?
you need to let her go. she doesn't sound like a real friend. if your friends get mad you then explain to them what happen. And at least you know if your friends don't have your back then your guy friend will.
This boy (lets call him Dan) asked me if i wanted to go out 2 dinner with him, i said yes, but i dont fancy him or anything. i dont really know him either, so what do i do if i didnt enjoy the date and dont want to go out again ( i hate hurting peoples feeling) whats the nicest way of putting it??? thanx
You should say that you'd feel more comfortable if you guys could just be friends.
alot of ppl in the grade up from me hate me...because of stuff i did the year before n they all say they are gonna kick my ass no matter how sorry i say i am they dont care they think i should pay for my attitude...?? n i dont get it i said sorry n it was from like 2 years ago shouldnt they b over it by now what should i doo???? because school starts soon n they said they are gona kick my ass this yearr...?
this is gonna sound really corny and i know you heard this before but you should tell the principal at your school or a teacher to make sure they won't beat you up. And try to travel with a lot of friends because they most likely won't beat you up if you're surronded by a lot of people. But i think if they really wanted to beat you up they would've already done it by now. good luck
ok so last year i went out with this kid Ben right but he cheated on me now hes having a baby with the girl he cheated on me with. He called me about a month ago and told me he missed me and i told him my feelings i still had for him so i've been talking to him ever since and i kissed him a couple of times. and i dont know what to do cuz hes still with the pregnant girl and i know i shouldent even be talking to him but i need an outsider opinion.
P.S i ve also been seeing this other guy whose 22 im 16
wow that's alot to deal with. I personally don't think you should continue to see Ben. Because if he cheated on you the first time, then most likely he'll do it again. Plus he has a kid. I don't know about the 22 year old. I find it kind of odd that he's dating a 16 yr. old. How come he can't date his peers? I hope i helped you and hopefully i didn't sound judgemental.
I go out wit dis guy. And my mom doesnt agree and my dad does! I love him wit all my heart and i dont know what to do.. PLease help me
PEACE
you should have your mom meet your boyfriend so she can get to know him and eventually be ok with you going out with him
I am a 15 year old female, and i have been having a lot of sex in the past two years. Im not pregnant but i havent had my period in 2 months i have been throwing up in the morning. Im not sure i dont want to tell my mom but i don't know what to do PLEASE HELP!
if you want to find out if your pregnant or not before telling your mom then you should buy a home pregnancy test. if it comes out positive then you'll have to do the inevitable and tell it to your mom and if its negative then you should be more careful about having sex in the future and then see a doctor because something else is wrong with you ( medically i mean)
I usually give advice-but i have never been to highschool-so i need advice about this
I'm going to Highschool this year(as a freshmen). Does anyone have tips on what to do and what not to do or what to expect! I would really appreciate it! Thanx
Twizzler
I honestly don't think high school is that much different then middle school ( well at least it wasn't for me. everyone's different) at my highschool there was soo much more independence and it was more fun. Oh and try not to miss any days because attendance counts for a lot in high school
My husband and I are adopting a cat today from the Humane Society. The cat is 4 years old, and has not been declawed. I feel it would be inhumane to do declaw her, but I am worried about her scratching my furniture, and me as well. Does anyone have any alternitives to declawing, or how to prevent her from scratching the furniture.
And any other tips for a new cat owner would be appriciated.
you could try a scrathching post, or i heard you can file a cats nail down or something.
Hi I have a quesiton for all of you.
I'm 14 a gurl and for 8 years of my life (sence I was 5) I have been dancing. Jazz, Tap, Ballet all of it. I quit each one until I had Tap left. I will be honest I was one of the best dancers in each class I was in But I quit because I couldn't take my mothers constant complaining about the money and the time it took her to take me there and wait. I finaly gave in to her the begining of this year and I quit Tap also. after I quit everything reminded me of tap. I cried myself to sleep I missed it that much. I have made up my mind to go back when dance starts again but I having doubts that I won't be excepted by all the other dancers. and my mom is starting her complaining already and I haven't even found my tap shoes yet. I was wondering what all of you think?
P.S. I was in the highest class you could go (Advanced 2) so I was really good but I really am afraid that I can't take what all are going to say.
why would they really have anything to say? you had a legitimate reason for dropping tap.( financial reasons and the stress from your mom complaining) you obviously have a passion for tap and they will see that and accept you no matter what
What is tss? Just Wondering...
its toxic shock syndrome. it happens when you leave tampons in for too long
the only way i can get a cell phone is if i pay for it, and i was just wondering how many ppl felt that it would be worth it?
if you really want and/or need it then its worth it.
I mite try out for baskbetball or sum sport, so in a physical, do they have to do anythin w/ur private parts or down below? thanks
not too much. they just kinda massage your stomach and go down a lidle bit to your crotch area, but its nothing to be worried about. it feels really weird though when they do it.
I'm not to sure what this falls under but I wanted peoples thoughts. I love kids, honest to God they are the best thing that has happened in my life (I don't have any). This lady at my church is having a baby in Oct. and has a 10 month old who is smaller for his size, anyways he will be staying with us more then likely. I have a two story house along with basement stairs and breakable stuff. Our house is not by any means baby-proof. Does anyone have any good ideas that don't cost a ton of money because this is probably only going to happen once and I don't expect on having children for another 15 years...LOL THANKS!
Megan
you should block unused eletrical outlets so he won't stick he fingers in the socket. and get one of those gate thingys for the top of your stairs so he won't fall down. i think you should have the locks higher up on your doors or something so he won't open the doors or something. well thats all i know. good luck!
hey there im with a couple who i enjoy lots but i have a problem well i really like her but i like her husband more a lot more ive told him this and he says he likes me anad wants me but and my wife too but i dont know what to do its driving me nuts i e-mail him but im worry his wife will see it please help
do you really want to be the OTHER woman?? i think if he really wanted to be with you then he would've already divorced his wife and would've been with you by now. you should probaly try to just forget about him because that would be a lot of drama between you and his wife. And if you and her husband were to ever get together, what makes you think he won't sneak around with you??