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so stand on the edge with me,

hold back your fear and see

nothing is real til it's gone.

& hold on before it's too late,

well run til we leave this behind.

don't fall just be who you are,

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i'm britney. i'm seventeen, and just got out of a long term relationship. :( i'm here to give advice whether you use it or not. anything else, just leave in my inbox.

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im 13 and i havent kissed anyone yet.now that im going out with my b/f im a bit worried encase i do it wrong.if my b/f knew i was worrying about kissing him he would just say theres nothing to worry about.i really dont want to do it wrong.if you can give me any advice please give it. xxaoifexxx

Relax. :] You can't kiss wrong. When it happens you'll be like "Oh, this wasn't so bad." Just do it whenever you feel ready.

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how do you grind? not like when you're dancing, just like laying down.

Lay on top of him usually or her. It doesn't matter, and just thrust your body up and down. Usually when kissing or something.

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what are some cute nicknames i could call my boyfriend?

Boo Boo. :]
Baby.
Babe.
Toots. HAH.

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This weekend I am going to the movies with my boyfriend, but technically this is our first date. Any ideas of what I should wear?? I want it to be cute but hot at the same time, without being trashy.

Thanks

Depending on the weather either jeans or capri's. Movie theaters are always freezing so don't wear a skirt, or shorts. Wear a cute shirt, either with a jacket over top or a hoodie or just a regular shirt. I don't personally know your style but just wear what you usally wear. It's just the movies. :)

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I was really just wondering if your rating is a 5. And someone rates you a 4. Then would that mean you would never get to 5, or is there a possiblity you could get to a 5 again?? Or would your ratings just be a higher 4??

I don't think so, but who cares. :] You can get a super high 4 which is still awesome. I don't even see why people rate 4's they should be luckey we give advice.

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Is that possible, because it doesn't like like a razor burn-- it has a head!

You can get pimpols pretty much anywhere. It could be razor burn though, but I'm not sure. I had some on my leg that had a whiteish looking thing. So I don't know.

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I am a 15 year old girl. I have had the same boyfriend for 2 years. He is beginning to want to take are relationship farther and by that I mean he wants to have sex. I would like to try it but I am so scared of getting naked. I am a really skinny girl so I am not afraid about that, but I have small breasts and I am afraid he will not love me anymore if he sees me naked. I know this sounds stupid but it is true.

You're probably a beauitful girl.

If he's been with you for two years obvisiouly he doesn't care about those kind of things. If you are to uncomforitable then don't do it. Do what you want, and how you feel. Breat size does not matter though, and being skinny isn' a bad thing. It's not stupid that you're scared, we all get scared sometimes. I feel the same way when me and my boyfriend have sex I just feel very heavy.

If you're not ready, don't do it. Just look at yourself and say "Wow. we've been together two years, he loves me for who I am." Hope everything works out. :)

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how exactly do you give a really good blow job? any special techniques?

There isn't really a special technique because all guys like it different. Use lots of tounge though. Most guys like that. Whatever you do don't grind your teeth or bite it. Haha.

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well, its like this i have been best friends with my friend all my life.im going out with my boyfriend now and she doesnt like him.she wont tell me why she doesnt like him either.she made me choose between them and i picked her because your best friend will always be there and your boyfriend might not.anyways,i broke up with my boyfriend and he was defastated and then i started crying because i couldnt believe i was actually breaking his heart.i told my best friend i picked her and the only thing she said to me was good.i kept bumping into him and i knew staight away he was still hurting inside.but about two weeks later i saw him in the shop and i went over to him to ask him was he ok he couldnt even look at me.i said to him that i made a big mistake and i was really sorry.that night he rang me asking me did i want to get back together so we did.
i told my best friend when i went back to school and she got really bitchy with me and said whatever go ruin your life.i left it and just started talking about something else.now if i even mention his name she starts shouting at me saying he is such a freak why on earth would i go out with him.he isnt a freak god no.
ok my question is long but what should i do my best friend is being really mean to my boyfriend and i.if you have any advice for me please give it.13/f
xxaoifexxx

Your best friend could be jealous. She could want to be the only one in your life. She might think since you have a boyfriend now, that you'll leave her. You need to sit here down and be like "What did he ever do to you to make you hate him? - Believe me you're my best friend I wouldn't leave you for a guy so don't worry." Say something like that and see what she does. It could be POSSIBLE that she likes him. I don't know.

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I have an awesome boyfriend and we're totally good together blah blah blah but his family is goin through a rough time with money and he keeps mentioning it and it makes me feel akward cuz he's always like ya we're poor right now and we haven't bought groceries in like 3 weeks and stuff like that and I feel akward when he says it...is there anything I can do ? Without making him mad or anything.

Aw. I feel bad for him.

I don't really know what you could say to him, but maybe invite him over for a lot of dinners so he can eat? Be like, "Baby. I'm so sorry, I know it'll be okay." Cause there isn't really much you can do. I mean it's not like you can give them $1000, but if you could I'm sure you would. Just try and comfort him and be nice about it.

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how do i get my boyfriend to tuch me or even kiss me

He doesn't touch you or kiss you? That's rude.

Talk to him - Be like "Baby, kiss me." or you could just go in for it yourself. Maybe he'll realize it's okay to do that stuff. He could be just waiting for you. I don't know. Make the first move, and see if he starts from there.

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ok the last time i was talking to my boyfriend was monday night before i went to bed he said he would ring me the next day but he never did.his phone is turned off.its 5days now should i be worried what should i do?13/f
xxaoifexxx

Well I have like a obsessive disorder with my boyfriend, and I NEED to talk to him everyday. I wouldn't be worried, maybe he's with his family or something? Try calling his house phone if you know it, or leave some messages on his cell. I don't really understand why he waited five days, that's kinda mean. I mean even a quick phone call saying, "I'm with family for a while, I'll call you later." That'd be perfectly fine. But don't stress about it. Just try calling the house, and if not just wait it out I guess. Odds are nothing is wrong.

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Ok its not like i've ever done this but i was just wondering what if you hd sex before you got your period.....could you still get pregnant?

Yeah. You can get pregnant at anytime, even when you're on your period.

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14/f. I have a hairy stomache. I thought this was normal untill my one friend said something to me. Theres like blonde hairs on my stomache, its not that noticable, but it is somewhat. Is this okay? If not what is wrong with me?

It's completly normal. All girls have body hair. Shave it if you don't want it there, although blonde isn't really that noticable.

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i know this sounds really odd, but i have hair on my nipples. I feel real uncomfortable around people, becasue of it. i dont think its very natural, and i think somethings wrong..is there anything wrong? does it happen to anyoen else?...i really want to know!

I have it too. I shave mine. It's not alot, but like a few hairs on each one. Don't be embarassed or anything, it's nothing to be ashamed of.

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i'm a 17 year old straight male. lately i've been kind of attracted to my step-brother. he's 20 and also straight.

why am i doing this? i basically have the urge to have oral sex with him, but i know that i would never be in a relationship with a guy. i guess i just want a one-night-stand kind of thing, because i know that i am attracted to women. it's just the thought of going down on him that excites me. what's going on?

(please don't say that i'm developing a homosexual lifestyle. i like women and i know it. and i'm not bisexual)

You could be just going through a stage. A late stage.

It's not really explainable why it's happening it's just maybe you could want to experiment but then again don't. If you like woman try and get with one to get your mind off your step brother.

Like the girl below me said, don't tell any guys. - Most people probably wouldn't talk to you anymore, people are rude.

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i want more guy friends. like, it's not even about getting or a boyfriend or flirting or anything. i'm just SOOO tired of all the stupid, immature, catty drama that comes along with girl friends. i have a couple guy friends, but not alot - only one really good one. how do i make more? i really want more really good guy friends. any advice? thanks so much!

I completly agree.

When you see a guy friend start a convo with them. Try and join on the convos that they're already having. They're very easy to get along with and not complicated to understand. Just find a guy friend that you have already and be like "Hey, let's hang out with your friends today."

I don't know - Give it a try!

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what's the best shampoo and conditioner in your opinion?

Pantene smells really good, but it makes your hair look very greasy. I suggest Dove I also really like Tresemme.

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Hey =] I went of the American Eagle website and saw tons of cute bathing suits! do they sell them in the store to or only online? thanks in advance!

They sell them on both.

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where can i touch a girl to turn her on??

boobs when they're touched very soft and slow. fingering is also a turn on. :]

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