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Hello There!Erm where do I start?Well, my name is Vikki-Kimberly =)Im a good person. I dont bite =)I give people thousands of chances.I like to eat healthy... and... I have advice on practicly anything.I am in acting/signing/dancing groups.Yeah... Im just... easy to talk to. =)

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when i curl my hair it turns out awful
so can u guys give me a list of steps on curling my hair

*if possible can u list the steps to curl my hair like either one of these pics

http://i39.photobucket.com/albums/e151/hip9314/prom-hair2.jpg

http://i39.photobucket.com/albums/e151/hip9314/wavy-and-curly-hairstyles.jpg

thanks in advance

firstly I would expriiment on different way of curling your hair
- benders
- hair tongs
- curlers (the onw to wrap wet hair around

i would also expiriment with different thickness of hair tongs and the ones with the rings round it.

find what one works for you
i usuallly ise hair spray and hair gel and scruch it into my hair gently to secure it. =) i usually use hait tongs btw if that helps =_)

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Thats like my dream college.
I'm 15 btw, and a freshman in high school.

1. Has anyone been there? Is it worth it?
2. What is the best field to study there that will make a great career in England?
3. I know that they prefer taking people from England, and I was actually born there and stuff but my family moved to America when I was 6. Does that count for anything?
4. What type of grades and etc do I need to go there? I know its a really good college
5. Do I need to take any type of special tests to go there other than the ones we take in America?

Other tips are helpful! thanks!

heya well i actually live in england and yeh i knoww alot about it inbox me if you want?
to be honest... the best field to study there is.. you best field... there a very good university so all of it area are very good..
the type of grades you want are the toppest grades you can get... like the want the best... some subjects have lower or higher standars but every uni and colelge is liek that
urm well i know for colelges over here if there an international person ou need to get a like peice of paper that equivalents stuff... but im not sure about unis... might jus be the same principal though
and good luck! oxford is sososososo good =)
vikkikimberly

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I have cheerleading tryouts this weekend, and our tumbling tryouts are tomorrow. today i was running to my car and scraped my toe on the concrete and it cut open and started bleeding. a bunch of my skin was ripped off. its on like the tip of my toe, right where my cheer shoes push the hardest against! it hurts to walk, so how will i tumble! any suggestions how to make it feel better before tumbling or how to wrap it up?! THANKS!!

hi i know this doesnt really help for you question on tumbling as the preson above me.. or below me =S... the one tht answerd first said it perfectly =)

for tryout i would recommind jus telling the captain of coahc.. or someone on the squad... i dont know if you high school cheer or allstar cheer so sorry if im offending you hehe =)
i wud also try padding you cheer shoe out... like if it was me i would try and put some toilet paper - clean obviously... in the bit of the shoe where your toe is pushed against it =)
vikki

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hello
i need really help i am confussed!
my problem:
when ever i tried to speak like name or talk to any one suddenly i stuck with some words starting with letters A,E,M,N,I,O,U,...
i dont know why???
tis problem is hapen to me since 2-3 years
please help me out!!???

hhmm ok.. at least you reconised it=)
i would practise in front of a mirror in your rooma t night:) (alone obviously hehe) jsut pratise well speaking..

(me as a drama student this jus comes naturall to me) just pretend your mate are there and imagine a scence or summink at school or work wherever... and think and map out a convosation =)

good luck
Vikki

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I've been in pointe ballet since I was little, but I've recently gotten arthritis in my toes.

What other types of ballet are available that don't use pointe shoes, I want to keep dancing.

ohh osrry to here about that..
ballet isnt exactly my dance area
but i could suggest other dance styles... if your flexible n that which im assuming you are.. i would ggive cheerleading ago...
um you could also try tap?
ballroom/show dancing?
Um or you could try ice skating figure skating or ice dance if your really daring!
sorry i couldnt EXACTLY answer your question.. but ballet really isnt something i have much "expertise" in (hehe)
good luck
vikkikimberly

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Do the characters in Twelfth Night have english accents?

Yes they do its an english play.... seeing as you said "english accent" im guessing you american or sumthink like that.. Sorry but Im from england myself so yeh... =) hehe
the accents are shakepearean...old english... to be honest you just sound your letter right and sound posh.
=)
hope i helped.
vikkikimberly
XxX

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whats a good way to kiss him at school so that he will be thinking of me all day long?

Heyaa hunapart form the tongue thing on the of his teeth
um ive sxpiriented a bit and to be hoenst every guy like different things
so just play with kissing him a bit =)
um try gently leaning against him... once your session gets started ;) hehe then i would suggest may rub against him abit harder

play with his hair gentyly?

um come out of your kiss for a bit.. buh stay close to his face and youkno go back to kissing =)

to be honest you shouldnt reli be thinkin of all this whille doing it.... just go with the flow or what you think YOU need to do =)
but there your tips anyways =)

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so my boyfriend and i have never made out.

how do i change a kiss that ususally ends into a hug...into a steamy kissing session?

Drift oyour tongue cuttely under the foor of his mouth or back of his teeth
mail me if you want a few more sometime buh i found that one is the best

oh and DONT EAT HIM! lol
vikkikimberly xXx

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I am writing a descriptive essay on a place. I just don't know how to start it and end my essay. I know of hooks (attention getters) and so on but I don't know what to use. Please help! Thank You.

hey
aww i lvoe creative writting
um use a few metaphors (when you sa\y something is something is something else (cant think of any exapmles right now)
use some adjectives
try using simlies too - saying something is like somethigns else, for example the school day was as tiring like a long trek through the hot dry desert.
try building on the middle o yu essay first if you cant think of a begininng and end... think of your content before you do your begining and end.
so you know if you want to mislead the readers or tell them stright what will happen or leave a cliffhanger at the end... you get the idea

sorry for UK vocab( dunno where you are)... im an english chickky y'see...

good luck!! =)
vikkikimberly

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how do i make my butt bigger without it getting big from gaining weight?

i agree with mhrrya the one before me =)
um i would suggect excersize you yummy muscle just a tad too.. sometimes a smaller waist can reli help show off a butt... hehe
this is coming from a cheerleader hu excersize all the time jus so you knw im not just a random person hehe

um for the butt excersize i would suggest leg raises and V-sits if you knw what they are and this thing called "plank" - altho plank can be very hard hehe

Um good luck!
vikki xXx



hey you maild me back asking what a Vsit it... well.. if your mates with a cheerleader or gymnast im sure they could show you! =) hehe.
um its pretty confusing to explain so if i confuse you loko it up on youtube or google =)

a v sit is like a stradle jump or toe touch.. but with you back on the floor
SO your on the flor flat..
you come up as if to do a sit up.. but you leg come up into a "v" position in the air... and alot of people put their fist through the "v" (so through the start of you legs basicly)or alternitvly you could just reach for your toes intead
so after this happening in a second hehe you come back to you flat position =)
at first their a bit hard but im sure youll get the hang of it =)

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im looking for photography, art, symbolism pictures, or graphics, that really convay emotion. more specificly, something that has to do with beauty coming from the inside. and beauty being in the eye of the beholder. anyone know where i can find stuff like this online? like photobucket, or deviantart? links would be appreaciated, thanks =)

Hi =)
Erm Well im from the UK so you might not use this website much =S (No Offence if you do =) )
Erm its Yahoo Go On The Images Sectioon And type insomething
I think usually you get a loaaaadd Of "Flickr" images... fromm flicker.com i think thats the name =) but yeah theres a laod on yahoo anyways =)
www.yahoo.co.uk i think?

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i'm trying out for highschool cheerleading this year, and it's a pain in the ass,it's super hard to make.
soo, any tips?!

Hey Im not to sure about giving advice on the highschool cheerelader thing as im form the UK and where i am we dont have cheereladers in high school
but i would siggest doing a load of sit ups and press ups generally stretching your butt off! practise facials int he mirror.. and practise your tumbles =D

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i was goin out with thisid for 3 mounths and i thought we were realy in love
he would tell me to never leave him and howmuch he loved and cared for me
and than one night he sent me a text message saying that we should just be friends and brake up
i was shocked
did that mean that he never realy cared about me by brakeing up with me through a text message??

PErsonally I agree with sugaslap.
Ive had this done to me to. To behonest guys dont see the "big" thing about being dumped by text, and maybe that just how hw doesit so he cant get a restion adnfeel guilty.
I dunno
but talk to him
sorry though hope you feel better soon
vikki

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well it was jus our 1 month on saturday. and hes 17 and im 16. he sent me a pic of a little boy. and said it was his son. i asked if it was really his cousin or something and he said no. its really his son. when he was 13 years old. and hes barely telling me now. he never tells me anything. like he doesnt talk about his life. and my friends said i cant get mad over his past cause its his past. im not so much worried about that. im worried hell get back with the mom of the kid. and he says hes not gona leave me tho. and my friends are saying maye its his way of beigging to open up with me. well i acted really immature when i found that out. but i mean it was a shock to find that out. i thought he was a virgin. but my question is how can i get him to forgive me cause now hes mad at how i acted. so someone please help me. i dont want to lose him! thanks in advance

To be honest... send him the link of this page.. hell see you dont want to loose him and how scared you are and that you do care

no explination is needed when you send it everything you guys know and he needs to know is on this page...

hell understand

thats my advice anyways

Vikki

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so im 16 and ive been trying to use tampons for a while to make my life easier .. but nomatter how many times i try or how hard i try, the tampon just doesnt go in! it goes half way and then stops! i usually try the medium one but i also tried the smallest type and it still doesnt work! i really try to relax my muscles and i just think about other things when i put it in but just when i think i got it in, it just goes half way and thats it. i really dont think im inserting wrong..but when i try inserting it and it doesnt go in any farther it feels like a wall i am hitting and it does not let it through. either im doing something wrong or my vagina is retarted! can someone advise me what to do? has anyone else had this problem?

Hey Im just like you! im 15 and i only started using them a few months ago! Um what helpd me was using a morror and jus generally familar myself with down there hey i even took a picture too! (which i deleted straight away obviously) Helpd me get an idea fo where to put the tampon and where i was putting it etc etc.

Um have you tried different positions.. might just be easier in a different pose.

Keep trying! Youll get there! Good Luck
Vikki
xXx

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I'm going to try very hard to exsplain this clearly. I have always been sort of a loner and I've never had many friends. I have been out of High School for almost 5 years now. Even nowadays whenever I see pictures of someone I went to High School with I still think to myself "She's so much prettier than me, I'm not good enough to be friends with that person, or I'm not even worth her/his time to even talk too." I think to myself...I'm just a loner, I'm fat, I'm ugly, and I'm just not cool enough or my all time thinking He/She will be quick to judge me. At times I've tried to build my confidence to talk to someone however once I spot a second of awkwardness I think to myself "Omg, I choked they don't like me...or I feel like such an outsider" Ugh, It's got to be so bad I don't even want to socialize and I'm turning into a Hermit.


Please Help

Ah Ive benn throught this. totally not great.Um i would suggest going to a spa or whatever jus go and get a massage or something, it makes your feel refreshed.And really you should think about yourself in that way! If you keep on branding yourself as an outsider you really will be one.Um im really tired at the mo as its like midnight in the UK so im very tired. But siriously hun, try look on things differently, maybe take up a new hobby or join a social club? might give you a sence of purpose? (sorry if that sounded rude).Good Luck though and i hope you get sorted!vikki x

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i'd say i'm a pretty girl. i dress very put together each day and wear nice outfits from great stores. i get tons of compliments all the time..but i have no confidence at all. everyone at my school goes to parties every weekend & is just so outgoing and thats just not me. i've always been shy .. i'm nice to everyone and try to make small talk with a bunch of people .. but it really doesnt go further than that. i have a number of close friends but really only 3 best friends. . but none that are boys. i make small talk with them (boys) but really we are completly opposite. i drink sometimes but i dont go to parties every weekend. we just dont mix. were from completely different groups (pretty much all of them) & its just impossible to even start a friendship. im a junior and all im known as at school is "the quiet girl with the nice clothes whos cute & funny." .. thats it. nothing else. i just feel like a loser. i'm a quiet girl at school but when im with my friends i break out of my shell. no one knows that me though. i'm nice to everyone and give people compliments all the time but no one even gives me a chance. were just all in different groups and its way too late in the game to become "popular" and hang out with those poeple .. or even hang out with other people .. including loners and weirdos in my classes. everyone is just so shallow and only cares about partying and hooking up with peopleand thats not me. ive never had a boyfriend. boys say im cute but thats it. they dont even attempt to ask me to hang out. and if i asked to hang out it would be so weird because im just so quiet. i would not even know what to do or say if we hung out .. im so shy until you really get to know me. i just dont have confidence at all. and i dont know how to change. being quiet has always been me. i dont feel like i should change for other people, but i feel like i have to to actually have fun and not mope around every weekend miserably thinking what it could be like to have a bunch of friends to just hang out with and be crazy .. and even have a boyfriend. can someone advise me what to do?

Oh My i think me and you are lost siblings seperated at birth! i totally know how you feel!

well i guess youve heard of that phrase.. just be yourself.. id go with that. Cuz if you be anything different your gonna get caught out eentually.

But there nothing wrong with tryna fit in now is there :]

Um well just talk to peopple i guess, i guess in class you could always start with "[name of the person], can you help me in stuck on this question do you understand it?" even if you do understand it, can be a good icebreaker and get you chatting.

and the confidence thing? hmm well me being a cheerelader im pretty confident in myself, buh i guess you just have to put yourself out there. Once youve done something your totally sscared of like dancing in an assembly for exmple its boost your confidence and such an such.

And the boys and the hanging out thing, you sed you do small talk, well just carry on from that =) ask stuff about them n stuff and if there something you have in common be like "Oh same!" I guess you could use that in generall realy

By the ways sorry if my adivce was a bit naff.. im guessing youre from the USA, buh im from the UK so yknw... things r sumtimes a bit diffrent to where i am.

anyways good luck!
Vikki x

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i'm so sick of being invincible by my parents...
I get straight A's....right? and still yet i gain as much stress and shit from my parents as if i'm recieving straight F's. I asked my mom if my boyrfriend could come over tom. and she said yes and i'm sick so i decided to take a nap but before i headed towards my nap i made sure with my mom that it was okay... and she said of course!

then i get up a few hours later and she makes me fold the clothes it takes me an hour and then i asked her for some dinner and she said alright i'll give you some soup. So i sat at the computer and just checkd email and facebook and she started yelling at me at how i didn't study at all and such. i figured that it was going to take my mom like 6 mins to give me my soup but i didn't know she had to make it from scratch so THATS why i decided it won't kill to check my email.But honestly here me out.... I've finished a WHOLE 817 page SAT book within vacation.... and yet she still says that i don't study. and now she's saying how my boyfriend can't come over now and honestly truthfully my heart it does hurt physically and emotionally i don't know what to say or what to do... My parents just say i'm talking back when all i'm trying to do is state a point.

Ahh I Know the Feeling! not great!
Um okay why dont you get a study website... (Im from the UK so my answer mitght sound a bit alienish) they usually come up with new questrion that are updated all the time. Or why not a new study book

But all parents and kids (noo offence by "kids") go through that im-going-to-be-a-bitter-and-moany-person phase. My advice would be just let her "nab" at you, but dont give in, just ignore it. You now that you do study and you are getting straight As and thats all that counts.

As for your boyfriend, well hmm im not too sure on that one give it time, shell come though. hopefully.

Good Luck!
Vikki x

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Alright so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 7 and a half months and things have been a little rocky we usually fight about stupid small things but we get over them quick so its really nothing serious, but lately the past maybe week i guess he has been acting really different like he doesnt want to have anything to do with me and its making me really upset. I talked to him about it and he just said that he says that lately all we have been doing is arguing and he is scared im going to leave him, im not but if things dont get better i might have to consider it. i love him very much and i just know we can figure it out but im scared to bring it up to him becuase he gets mad whenever i talk to him about these things. But last night for new years we hung out with his friends and i stayed over night and all and things seemed fine but when i got home i figured he would text me and he texted me like 6 times and thats all and thats how its been for a couple days. so pretty much im just asking on what i should do becuase i dont know anymore, maybe if someone has been in this situation and they could help me out that would be lovely. :]
thanksssssssssssssssssssss so much! oh and im 17 if that helps any!!

Ive totally been in that situation before... me being me though i jus sat it out.. left it for a while to see if it was just a phase.

If you said hes scared that you leaving him he obviously doesnt want you to leave if hes scared.

why dont you to have a nice day out together?

SOrry Im not much help but that what id do.

Goo dLuck
Hope It Works out
Vikki x

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so, i, like many people my age, must get out of my hometown for college. i've lived here all of my life and it is a lovely place, really, but quite frankly i'm getting restless and a little claustrophobic in a city that is literally half my cousins and that anything exciting rarely happens in. not that big of a problem, if one at all. this has been a dream all my life. i live in the southwest and i'm dying to go to the East coast, particularly NYC or Boston. i know it will be difficult and expensive, but this is what i've always wanted to do.

well, lately, my family (again, half the city) has taken it upon themselves to outline everything wrong with my dreams. EVERYTHING. starting with the fact that i am much too soft and not "street smart" enough for NYC. i am also, it turns out, too sickly to go anywhere, going to be discriminated against (i'm hispanic)and just "trying to move far away from" my mom, sister, dad, grandparents, everyone involved in this major guilt trip. it hasn't helped that most of my friends with big city dreams like me have changed their plans to all going to the same in state school.

i have tried to talk to them, to explain m dream and and my reasonings, etc. etc. but they don't seem to hear me. how do i get through and fulfill this dream without leaving behind resentment in those who supported me before? help!

Um Hey i know exactly what your going through! Although im UK not USA... (as much as id love to be usa.. im not)
My Family r tryna bust my dreams too.
Um why dont you tell them that at the end of the day its you life, and your education! you should have the right to learn it where you want!
Oh something else that really helps "oh i havent decieded where im going yet... still looking at a few different colleges" Works a trick!

One day your family are going to have to let you go and spread your wings! Maybe their just nt ready i dont know?

But i guess they do really mean best for you and are trying to help - although it does seems like a pain in the butt!

As for fullfin your dream vs leaving home, tell them that your still their number 1 fan or sumethings like that, but you have dreamed about going to this college for a long time now...

Sorry i couldnt help much.

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