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my boyfriends a dad...
well it was jus our 1 month on saturday. and hes 17 and im 16. he sent me a pic of a little boy. and said it was his son. i asked if it was really his cousin or something and he said no. its really his son. when he was 13 years old. and hes barely telling me now. he never tells me anything. like he doesnt talk about his life. and my friends said i cant get mad over his past cause its his past. im not so much worried about that. im worried hell get back with the mom of the kid. and he says hes not gona leave me tho. and my friends are saying maye its his way of beigging to open up with me. well i acted really immature when i found that out. but i mean it was a shock to find that out. i thought he was a virgin. but my question is how can i get him to forgive me cause now hes mad at how i acted. so someone please help me. i dont want to lose him! thanks in advance
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To be honest... send him the link of this page.. hell see you dont want to loose him and how scared you are and that you do care
no explination is needed when you send it everything you guys know and he needs to know is on this page...
hell understand
thats my advice anyways
Vikki
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If he is misleading you, or lying to you about the existence of a child, that isn't 'the past'. A child is the present and the future, and it's very fair to expect some honest answers about a situation as serious as this one.
Apologize to him for what you've done wrong, but insist that you can't go forward in this relationship until he honest with you about his history AS THAT HISTORY AFFECTS YOUR FUTURE TOGETHER.
Whatever mistake you made, that much of a serious discussion you deserve if he really wants to have a relationship with you. If he can't talk about it, then I'd suggest dumping him, because a guy who can't talk to you about his child is hardly even your friend, let alone your partner.
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