hello! ive lived a lot of life in the small amount of years ive been around. I mean it when I say ive been through it all, so feel free to shoot me a question or even just to spill your guts. my ears are wide open :)
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Location: south florida
Occupation: mama
Age: 17
Member Since: February 2, 2009
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everytime my cat goes to the bathroom and takes a poop she runs out really fast and hides..Why is this? (link)
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this might sound funny but sometimes cats get a little embarrassed when they poop. my cat tries to cover it up with anythin on the floor, includin my artwork ! its nothin to worry about.
x sweeethoney
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I don't know why,but my love life is a disaster.I don't know why I don't have a boyfriend.I am good-looking and smart,also a nice and friendly person,but no guy seems interested in me.No matter how hard I try no one likes me.So,the question is-what am I doing wrong?Is it me or something else?
I'm a 15 year old girl btw and I don't know what to do,I'm quite depressed about this whole thing. (link)
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you may be tryin too hard, and stressin yourself about it will not make it any easier. im the same age as you and i was always always lookin for somethin i could seem to never find. and then i told myself that i cant keep lookin and worryin because that will only make myself feel lonelier. 3 months after i found the man of my dreams :)
you just need to be yourself, dont try so hard to make guys like you. dont worry about the guys, let love find you. youre young ! enjoy your friends and doin things for yourself before you get older when you should be worryin about findin a guy. if it doesnt happen, it doesnt happen. everythin happens for a reason. someone will find you, just dont waste your time tryin to find him.
hang out with the girls, do some fun sports or activities, keep a journal, make a to-do list, volunteer places. just keep yourself busy.
good luck hun
x sweeethoney
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In these past 3 days my left boob sometimes hurts and I noticed that it is bigger than the right one (which is normal). I don't think it is due to my period as I got it 19 days ago. My neck and part of my back on the left side also hurt. Could be a muscle strain, a breast cancer or just my left boob is growing?
When I touch both boobs hurt a bit, but only the left one sometimes hurts without touching it.
P.S. I am 20 years old. (link)
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i had the exact same problem. it was my left breast too. it would almost burn it hurt so bad, along with my back and side. it ended up that i just pulled a muscle and it went away in about a week. if it goes any longer you should be more concerned. or your breast might be growin again.
try movin your arm up and down and flexin it. if thats when it hurts its most definitely a muscle strain.
i hope for the best hun !
x sweeethoney
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I just had surgery and they gave me vicodin for the pain.
But I'm applying for a job and they require a drug test. Im pretty sure its just a mouth swab but I was wondering would it show up?
Because if it does I feel it will just complicate things and might compromise my shot at the job. (link)
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painkillers and other pills dont last long in your blood stream. most of them come out in 3-5 days. just explain to your future boss/manager that youve had surgery and the doctor prescribed them to you, but you wont take them before work or anythin.
if it is just a mouth swab then youll be fine.
i had to take a drug test for probation and i was just prescribed a kind of painkiller because i had vicious migranes and it didnt even show up in the pee test.
im sure youll be fine if you explain everythin.
good luck on gettin the job ! :)
x sweeethoney
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Is it true that your hair falls out faster when you get older if you've dyed your hair? Are there any other side effects to having dyed hair? (link)
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im not so sure about the hair fallin out when youre older. when youre older youll have a whole new head of hair, they only live for about 6 years.
now the side effects:
-it can get really dry
-it can break and become brittle
-once you start dyin it its kind of hard to stop because roots grow in, and you wanna try new colors. so when you dye it more it gets more damaged.
just look at different hair dyes and look whats best for you hair. natural instincts says its more healthy for your hair. i think garnier is pretty good too.
goin lighter is more damagin then goin darker. but if you go from blonde to dark it fades very easily, especially in sun or in the pool.
have fun :)
x sweeethoney
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19/f
I am moving house and I need ideas for decorating my new bedroom!
I am open to suggestions. I have nooo idea about what colours etc to do, the only thing I know is that I'm having a double bed, big wardrobe, timber floors and I am getting a big photo frame to hang on my wall with black and white photos of my family, friends and boyfriend.
Does anyone have any amazing ideas? (link)
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if you like warm colors, i suggest a few of these colors for the walls:
-dark red
-burnt orange
-dark beige
itd look good with timber floors and itll make your room super cozy. you can sponge the walls too by paintin it one color then usin the sponge with a different color. i did it to my bedroom back in the day and it was reallly pretty. you can also have gold accents, which look super good with these colors.
if you like cool colors, heres some more for the walls:
-purple
-blue
-green
-turquoise
it can make it look under the sea themed or star themed. itll make your room feel breezy and open. silver goes great with these colors.
personally i like canapies a lot. or just a kind of drape for a headboard. it gives the room a dreamy look. same with artwork, and can really give the room an abstract touch to it.
good luck hun ! :)
x sweeethoney
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I really like this guy. (i'm a young teen and female) 3 of my friends have told me that he liked me but I don't think they know for sure. I kind of want someone to ask him out for me but every time I've ever had anyone say no I have to stay away from him because I'm shy and rumors get started. Should I have someone ask him out for me and take the risk and if so then how should I or my friend tell him?
thanks! (link)
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you definitely need to do it yourself. youll never know how it really goes down unless you witness it for yourself. whether you do it or your friend does it youll get the same reaction either way. please dont get your friends involved and 'man up'. if you want somethin GO GET IT !
x sweeethoney
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iv beign with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and we've just started doing handjobs and finguring and having sex. he said to me that im the only girl he's beign with that dont shave their vagina, so i got really paranoid and shaved it, now it stings and itch's and has red spots on it. but my mate told me to use shaving foam because i used soap last time. what do i do? coz i dont like the way it looks but my boyfriend does. (link)
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shave downward with moisturizin soap. you can also style it, like have a stripe of hair goin down the middle, or just trimmed. bikini zone is really good for that too, it gets rid of the itchiness and bumps in 24 hours.
DONT SHAVE UPWARD. takin the razor and goin from the lips up can really irritate it and make it flaky.
but if YOU dont wanna shave it then dont ! its your body and your choice.
x sweeethoney
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Okay, so, my friend really likes this boy. He's really sweet to her and she just felt really happy because she got over her ex and found this new guy. Well, she finds out that he has a girlfriend..
"He has a girlfriend, but he tells me I changed his feelings. If I did that then why is he still with here?! I like him a lot, but I think I should stop talking to him because it doesn't seem like he's gonna break up with her anytime soon, so it seems like the best thing, but idk HELP!"
Any takers?
--Gabs. (link)
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she should definitely get over him. i know its easy to get attatched to someone after a break up, but obviously hes no good and not available. the best thing she can do is to cut the ties now before she gets hurt AGAIN. help her out and keep her company while shes goin through this too, everyone needs a great friend through tough times.
good luck to her !
x sweeethoney
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15/f
so one a two days ago me and my mom and dad were downstairs looking at her new truck (there divorced) and we live in apartments and we were in the open garage and this hot guy my age walked past us and was looking at me the whole timeee he walked past us and my dad like gave him a death stare because he was "checking me out" and i had never seen him before and then yesterday me and my friend went swimming at the pool and he showed up by him self but he was looking at me like the whole fricken time! like all day. and then his hot friend came. and they were like trying to impress me, you could tell. but he continued to look at me!
but he never talked to me.
sooo should i introduce myself or what?!
ughhh and why do you think he was staring at me the whole time?!?!
im so clueless!
helppppppppp/
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cuz he thinks your cute silly ! definitely introduce yourself.
just say that youve seen him around and you thought youd say hello. and if he reacts weirdly just say your goodbyes and forget about it. but he obviously seems interested.
good luck :)
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i love it when boys compliment my boobs, i enjoy boys playing with my boobs and i always get my tits out for the boys. does this make me slutty ? (link)
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yeah its kinda slutty. plus youll get a reallll bad reputation.
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13/m
is there a kind of a set of stages type thing of what a girl will do when their angry at you because i was going out with this girl for about a week but then she got angry and dumped me because she said i was ignoring her and not paying enough attention and not making her feel special like i should and that is somewhat true but i was always afraid if she would get too creeped out by me telling her that she was beautiful and stuff like that so i hardly ever did now its been about a week and shes still angry at me
but for the first few days she was angry and telling me what i should of done to/for her that would make her feel special and stuff now shes starting to ignore me because i saw her at the movies as i was walking past it to go into the shops and i waved at her and her friend who was with her who is my friend also and she turned around and saw me then just looked away and that completely ruined my day so is there like stuff that she will keep doing for a certain amount of time until she forgives me and ive told her im sorry but she told her friend to tell me that she said im a dick head so im like getting unhappy cause she means alot but i cant keep going on with her being like this
sorry its so long
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shes just high-maintenance, FOR NO REASON.
- you guys are young
- you dated a week
- its highly unlikely she doesnt know what she wants in a 'relationship'
- she sounds like a bitch
please move on from her. shes not worth your time if she cant accept an apology and you guys cant compromise on going out. FORGET HER, youll find a better girl. you seem like you care a lot and youre loyal so find a girl whos the same way !
you have a lot of time to find a girl thats good for you too, dont rush it now !
x sweeethoney
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do you think people who call themselves bi are more than likely to just be trying to ease into the "coming out of the closet" bit? like, they are actually gay/lesbian but are not ready to tell the world so just say bisexual?
i know some people are actually bi but just wondering what your opinions/experiences are. (link)
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im bisexual and happily goin out with a great guy. some people realize that they fully turn gay, but some people are really just bisexual. i dont get what the difference would be to come out that youre bisexual or gay...its still comin out of the closet either way.
im attracted to both men and women mentally and physically. i couldnt tell you why, how it happened, or whats goin to come of it.
dont judge people actually thinkin their gay. listen to what they have to say and believe it.
x sweeethoney
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Hi, 21f here.
Getting right to it, there's this kitten. She's really skinny (yes, it's a she), slightly dirty, and couldn't possibly be more than 8 months old. She's a long-hair with tabby coloring, and she's REALLY CUTE. She keeps finding me, but I fed her a couple times, and I know that's why.
But that's the problem, she keeps finding me. I've come across a few cats who had been missing from their owners for a day or two, and returned them safe and sound. This is the only time I've had a stray come up to me 3 times. She has no collar.
I adore cats, and it hurts me to see an animal so mistreated, or so lost. So my question is, I suppose, what do I do?
*I live in an apartment complex. I don't want to just get her to go away, it looks like she needs some taking care of.
*Along those lines, I have a COMPLETELY INDOOR cat. Can't get her out the door if I try. She's also never been sick. I'm worried if I were to take this cat in and call the Humane Society, that it would make my cat sick, and then I'd have hundreds in vet bills.
I dunno, what do you guys think i should do? I see this kitten almost every day when I come home from wherever, like it's just waiting for me. To save it? Feed it? It tried to walk through my door today, but I stopped it. Blah.
Opinions? (link)
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if you have a balcony thatd be a great place to keep it with food and a blanket to sleep on. you can try cleanin it there, but stay away from claws because you dont know what it has. if you dont have anywhere to keep it, ask a friend to keep it while you call the humane society.
if it turns out the cats healthy then you should keep it :) i love cats too and it sucks when you see a lil one out on its own. good for you for helpin it !
good luck !
x sweeethoney
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It's this boy at my scool that likes me, and I want to go with him, but he flirts with a lot of girls. (link)
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honestly hun, if a boy says he 'likes you' but is obviously a player or a flirt, then he might be tellin all the other girls that as well. boys that are like that arent good for relationships. i know thats kinda harsh and im sorry to say it, but you can find someone way better that isnt a player and will flirt with you and only you.
but if youre still gonna go for him... just flirt with him back. steal attention from the other girls by keepin him interested in conversation. show him how youre better than all the other girls with talents, conversation, and just bein nice and sweet. AND BE YOURSELF, thats a huge part.
good luck !
x sweeethoney
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My 16th birthday is coming up and my friends and family keep asking what I want. I have no idea what I want, plus I really don't like letting people buy me stuff. Any ideas for gifts I could ask for? Theres a ring that I want but it's too expensive. Here's the website. http://www.valou3cap.com/ (link)
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ask family for the ring. they can all pitch in a lil bit so you can get it. they wont have a problem gettin you one thing i dont think.
and as for friends and others, you can ask them to buy books or toys, and you can donate them to a library, orphanage, or other charities in your area. that way you dont have to worry about askin people for things for YOU and you help others out :)
happy early birthday !
x sweeethoney
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hmm..
i don't really know how to start this but i'll try. I met this kid online and he seems really cool and nice. he's one grade older then me but i don't care. i try to talk to him on aim a lot but he doesn't really anser me. i don't know if it's cuse he doesn't like me or just cuse he's busy. when i comment him on myspace he ansers... but i don't know. i wanna be good friends with him but i'm not sure how he feels... what should i do??? (link)
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i used to have friends that i met online. honestly, just dont give out personal information, like what school you go to, what road you live on, parents names, that kind of stuff. please just be smart about it.
sorry if im bein to blunt, but he might get annoyed that you always try to talk to him on aim. hes a grade older and he might not think youre at his maturity level. OR he is just busy. dont IM him until he does first.
take it slow, dont tackle him with comments and IMs because that can make people very annoyed very easily.
good luck and be safe
x sweeethoney
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i really want a cartilage piercing but im really scared of a couple things ...
1. does it hurt when they put the needle through??
and does it hurt ALOT after wards
2. does it get caught in your hair or clothes?
3. how long does it take to heal and how long b4 i can change it ..some ppl say it take 1 year to fully heal is that true?
thankss in advance :)
julia (link)
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it all depends how your body handles piercins.
1. i personally didnt think it hurt that bad. its like pinchin your cartilage really hard for just a second. and yes, it can easily hurt afterwards.
2. mine never gets caught in clothin or hair now, just because ive had it for 2 years and im used to it now. just be careful when you put a shirt on or take it off, and brushin your hair.
3. wait about 6-7 weeks to change it, dependin how red and painful it is. try to keep it away from harm, like catchin it on a hair brush, touchin it, and sleepin on it. keep it clean ! wash it once or twice a day. if you get a hoop, touch the part away from your ear and just move it up and down so the skin doesnt grow around it. if you get a stud, twist it with the earrin back. and no, it doesnt take a year. but it can get infected easily so be careful okay ?
good luck hun :)
x sweeethoney
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Do you usually use Maxi Pads or Tampons? And do you know any kinds that work good? (link)
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i use tampons, mostly because i wear shorts or thongs so that makes pads hard to wear.
my favorite kind of tampon is tampax pearl. you can barely feel it in you and i rarely rarely leak.
if you play sports you might want to use playtex sport, but not when youre super heavy because it can leak.
make sure you get the right absorbancy. if this is youre first times usin tampons then i highly doubt you get the super ones, because they might hurt you when they are inside.
change them every 4-5 hours, but depend it on how heavy your flow is.
good luck :)
x sweeethoney
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I don't know whether or not my friend really cares about me. My friend complains about me to others and she is selfish and mean and she tells people my secrets. She is funny, smart, and fun to be with. She calls me a horrible friend. She tells me to tell her if she does anything wrong so I did. Then she went to my friend and complained about me. I don't know if I should keep her. She calls me a freak and says to me I like it when people call me that. I don't. She tells people I'm not a real vegetarian, and I look like a boy when my hair is back. She Can be great. When she comes over she plays with my cats more than me.
So what should I do? (link)
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this is completely unacceptable for someone who you call your 'friend'. you deserve way better, especially since you seem loyal for stickin to someone like that.
ditch her, shes not worth your time because people like that only end up hurtin you in the end. i know its hard, but its for your own good.
you can be nice about it too. just say 'hey, i dont like the way you treat me and how you talk about me to other people. i dont deserve it so id like to take a break from you.'
put it in your own words and make it comfortable for yourself to say it.
good luck, sorry :(
x sweeethoney
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