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I really like this guy but I don't know which direction to t
I really like this guy. (i'm a young teen and female) 3 of my friends have told me that he liked me but I don't think they know for sure. I kind of want someone to ask him out for me but every time I've ever had anyone say no I have to stay away from him because I'm shy and rumors get started. Should I have someone ask him out for me and take the risk and if so then how should I or my friend tell him?
thanks!
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Well, there are 2 major options you can go about to solve this problem:
1. Be blunt about it.
2. Be shy about it.
I highly suggest being blunt about it, and either asking him if he's into you too, or simply asking him out yourself. Guys like when girls show confidence, and there's no better way to show you're confident than walking up to a guy and asking him out!
Or, you can go the other route and be shy about it, possibly doing nothing to show him you're interested in him. Sometimes, people who use this method drop subtle hints such as smiling [which is common in girls and doesn't always show you're into a guy] or having a friend ask if he's into you [this only shows that you're too shy to do it yourself]. This option is really kind of stupid, and is used all too much...
As I always say:
Life is WAY too short to not take chances and risks once in a while. Why sit around wondering what could've been, what would've been and what should've been, when you can answer all of those questions and then some by being honest and telling a boy how you really feel about him?
-Laura (17-f)
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you definitely need to do it yourself. youll never know how it really goes down unless you witness it for yourself. whether you do it or your friend does it youll get the same reaction either way. please dont get your friends involved and 'man up'. if you want somethin GO GET IT !
x sweeethoney
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be mature about it and ask him yourself.
my bf was shy when we met and after months of liking him, I asked HIM out. and we have now been together for over 5 years. Getting married in December!
hope this helps! =]
steph 21
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