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I need help on whether or not i should keep my friend
I don't know whether or not my friend really cares about me. My friend complains about me to others and she is selfish and mean and she tells people my secrets. She is funny, smart, and fun to be with. She calls me a horrible friend. She tells me to tell her if she does anything wrong so I did. Then she went to my friend and complained about me. I don't know if I should keep her. She calls me a freak and says to me I like it when people call me that. I don't. She tells people I'm not a real vegetarian, and I look like a boy when my hair is back. She Can be great. When she comes over she plays with my cats more than me.
So what should I do?
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uhh she's obviously not a good friend and one worth keeping if she's talking shit about you. if i were you i'd let her go, you don't deserve crap like that! friends are suppoced to turn the frown upside down, not the opposite.
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well i kinda have the opposite my friend is addicted to meand its really annoying how she bosses all of my other friends around telling them that im her only best friend so i think you should sit down with her and just tell her the truth becouse what more can you really do? right
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this is completely unacceptable for someone who you call your 'friend'. you deserve way better, especially since you seem loyal for stickin to someone like that.
ditch her, shes not worth your time because people like that only end up hurtin you in the end. i know its hard, but its for your own good.
you can be nice about it too. just say 'hey, i dont like the way you treat me and how you talk about me to other people. i dont deserve it so id like to take a break from you.'
put it in your own words and make it comfortable for yourself to say it.
good luck, sorry :(
x sweeethoney
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I know what you mean. I have a friend that is horrible like that. Like if i'm joking and she knows i'm joking she tells people what I said even though she knows I was joking. She constantly replaces me with friends she barely knows. but anyway you should tell her how you feel. tell her you have a problem with how she treats you. and tell her if she dosen't change she could lose you as a friend.
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