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So I like this guy, Brad. I met him through school. He had just come from the beach and he wanted to hang out with me. I went on a date with him Wednesday night, and it was fun. But he didn't really do anything. Like the holding hands or put his arm around me thing. I started to think maybe he didn't like me? After the movie, he went to the bathroom and admitted he really had to go, haha. I'm kind of confused whether he does like me or just wants to be my friend. But at the same time, I think he DOES like me, because when he looks at me and talks to me, he has this tone in his voice that kind of reveals he at least thinks i'm attractive. But then, he only looks at my face when he talks to me, which is a plus. He also told me (through text) a few nights before we went on our date, that he's looking for a long relationship. I am too. And by the way, he paid for me, so it WAS a date. Yeah, thanks in advance.

And what are some good ways to flirt by the way?
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He probably wants to see if you like him. [if he doesn't already know]
A good way to flirt is just smiling confidently and letting out cute laughs. [at appropriate times] Also when he's not looking smile at him for a second. Usually he'll notice turn and smile back at you. Hope this helps.


I have no idea what to wear. I have the shirt (black + white striped tank topbut i dont kno what to wear for the rest. Please help! put any thing down. (link)
Sweet, I'm going to warped too.
Well, I'd say since it's outside, in the middle of summer, and pretty dang crowded. I'd hod with a tanktop, nice tights shoes so you don't lose them [which would hurt I've had my feet smashed] wear no show socks, get shorts or capri's, don't get long pants, get a belt so they don't fall. something really cool. put on some bad ass jewelry to wrap it all up, and I'd suggest doing your hair in a way that sweat won't ruin it if you'll be joining the mosh pits.


how I can dress like the girls on seventeen and teen vogue and celebrities for cheap. just really cute stuff for not a lot of money.

:) (link)
A lot of stores have cute clothes for a lot less.
My favorite place is Charlotte Russe they have a lot of great tops for just a few bucks. As far as pants Kohls has nice pants sales around this time of year.


Recently I've noticed that I seem to be carrying excessive things in my handbag or missing some vital things, so I'm just wondering; what do you, girls, keep in your handbag that you take with you wherever? The things that you always have in your hand bag?

Thanks :) (link)
Cellphone
Make up [for touch ups]
A comb
Hair ties
Hand sanitizer
Lady products [if you know what I mean]
body spray
A pen
Gum and or mints
bobby pins
Hair band
Money
Lip balm/gloss/plumper
A compact mirror
moisturizer
that's about it


well im 19 yrs old and im pregnat im probably like 2 months my boyfriend doesnt want anything to do with me or the baby i talked to his mom and she said she would support me. i kno i could just abort and get ir over with it but im against abortion idk what to do. (link)
Everyone deserve a chance at life. Dont' abort a baby just because you don't know how to handle it. seriously.


ok i am 13 nd this guy i lyke is 14. me n him want to make out. ive kissed b4 i hve neva made out!! ik its dumb bt i want to make out wit him sum1 tell me how to!!! (link)
Wow, making out is east as 1 2 3. It's basically kissing, tongue is optional, it longer and usually open mouth. you touch a whole lot more and your eyes are closed. So in a nut shell. longer and more touching.
hope this helps :]


I Want To Strip The Dye Out Of My Hair And Ive Been Told That If You put White Spirit IN Your Hair It Strips The Colour From It ....I Want To Try It But Dont Want Anything Bad Ta Happen To My Hair .....Does Anyone Know What It Will Do ??.....Please Answer The Question (link)
Don't mess your hair up.
Seriously, I thought about that when my hair was colored. Get it done professionally it costs a few bucks [100-1500] it's worth it though. They will match your roots so it grows out the same color, you don't want to mess your hair up.


so there is this guy, that long story short, i wanted for like 5 months, and then he broke up with his girlfriend for me. well. we aren't official because he cares what other people think and doesnt want them to say bad things about us. so its been like 1 week and 1/2 maybe 2 weeks since they broke up and i told him that i would wait but not forever. and like, on friday, i hung out with him, my best friend and her boyfriend at her boyfriend's house. It was reallly fun. we were goofing around outside for a little playing basketball. and then we went inside, chilled and hung out and talked. well. we were all talking on the couch when my best friend and her bofriend "leave the room" to go get "water" [they wanted me and the guy to be alone ahaha, smooth, not.] so we were sitting there on the couch, just talking, and his ex girflriend texts him, "hi" he was like, "guess who just texted me?" and i was like, "who?" and he didn't look very happy and was like, "just guess." and i was like "[insert ex's name here]" and he was like, "yeah." then closed his phone and im like, "are you gonna answer her, and he was like, "no.. i could tell her i cant talk now.." and i was like, "nah, its okay." and then we went back to talking and he started playing with my fingers and then we held hands and linked fingers and such. and i knew he wanted to kiss me, i coudl tell by his body language. but im not going to just kiss him when we're not together. that's not me. and im also afraid hes gonna compare me to his ex, because they made out and stuff, but i only kissed a guy once. and that was just a quick peck, so im insecure about him not liking me anymore because of that. but then i had to go and stuff, and when i left, my best friend and her boyfriend told me he was a little dissapointed but happy and he told my best friends boyfriend that he was going to "ask me out rather soon" we text everyday and he calls me baby and babycakes and sweet heart and cutiepie and says he misses me so much..
i just dont know what to think or do, im kinda stuck.. ahaha. so any help or comments are appreciated :] thank you.

im a 16f, sophomore and he is a 15m, sophomore. (link)
Well, it's obvious he likes you.
He's just taking his time perhaps.
Building up anticipation and teasing you a bit.
Just flirt with him a bit and wait for him to ask you out because he is going to obviously.
Thanks, hope this helps.


Okay well I am 15/f and I have had sex before but he never busted inside of me. Well here recently my period was supposed to start on the tenth and it didn't. It started around the 15th. I still took a pregnancy test and it showed positive. I am still on my period so what is up? Am I pregnant. And if so, how do I tell my mom, because she has no idea that I have ever had sex, and my dad would flip out if he knew. Help Please.! (link)
Sometimes periods start a few days late whether you are sexually active or not. Chances are the test is wrong.
Go out and buy two or three different test and try them all. you never know if the test is just a dud.
Hope this helps.
Please rate sweetie.
Hope that everything works out.


how do i make my own lip plumper (link)
I don't know how to make lip plumper, but a good way to make your lips seem more plump is by taking a damp wash cloth and rubbing it on your lips for a minute or two.
that's all I got
Hope this helps :]


how do I know if my boyfriend wants to kiss me? (link)
Hmm.
It varies.
But mostly you really don't know it just kind of happens. It's not something you can force it just happens when the time is right. you don't even realize it until you are kissing him. But before you usually start smiling a lot and get butterflies. But yeah, it just happens when it happens.
Hope this helps. :]
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Like Taylor Swift says "I got tired of waiting, wondering if you were ever coming along...my faith in you was fading"

well anyway my question i guess is how many of you out there still have faith in love... and i guess what are some of your theories on finding it, keeping it, and losing it. feel free to rant and leave long philosophical answers... i wanna hear it (link)
I definitely have faith in love. For a while I didn't, I was like most people who liked someone who didn't even notice them. But then what has to be called fate happened.

After leaving a concert i walked past a really cute guy handing out fliers and right as I did another guy knocked the fliers from his hands. I helped him pick them up and he gave me his number. We got together a week later and are still together. I definitely believe that love lasts. You really can't find love in my opinion, it finds you.

Keeping love is a whole other story.
A lot of people have a difficult time keeping it.
Through jealousy, suspicion, fighting, and lying relationships all have their bumps and are hard to keep afloat. It's hard to keep it but it's worth it and possible.

Some people do fall out of love and I think it's really tragic, I have never fallen out of love seeing as I have only loved one person. I have dated other people but never LOVED them, just liked. So personally, i think you can only love one person.

Love is something held between two people and it's the most amazing feeling in the world. It's hard to find love but once you find it you never do truly let it go. It's the best feeling in the world to be in love, but the fear of losing the one you love is constantly on your mind.

That's what I have to say.
Thanks, please rate. :]


a couple weeks ago i was showing my boyfriend my back dimples. (you know those little dots on your lower back) and i lifted up his shirt a little to see if he had them. and he had hair on his lower back. i didnt really pull up his shirt to see how far his hair goes up or how much exaclty i was kind of grossed out. because idk how often it is that 17 year old bois have hairy backs. or if its attractive. how many of you girls have bfs with hairy back and how many of you guys have hairy backs? how common is it. and is it that bad? or should it be no big deal. please help this has been bugging me. thankyou in advance. (link)
Haha it's really common actually.
My boyfriend has a hairy back.
It's not gross, don't sweat it really.
Hope this helps sweetie. :]


i can't stop thinking about my x but he hrut me and other girl and now he got a wifey and i don't know how to get over it cause the girl he go out with is a girl that hate me and i hate her (link)
Haha, well you should specify your age sweet heart.
But on the other side, I wouldn't waste my time on a guy that's taken. Sorry sweet heart.


I know this is way stupid but how do you tell your bra size right? I know you have to measure under your bust but I don't know what happens after that :\ My mom says I'm a 34A but she's never measured me or anything. I've always worn the 34A since I figured my mom knew what she was doing but then I watched something on TV that was saying that women really need to have an accurate bra size and that what we think might be our bra size might not be after all.

Anyway...does anyone know how to calculate your bra size properly? (link)
get fitted for your accurate bra size, that's all I can really say.
Thanks!
hope this helps! :)


I don't mean to brag or anything but I think I'm wonderful when it comes to giving free advice.
People will follow my advice and get great results each and every time it seems. I give great free advice to my friends and family, but I have always wanted to start my own advice column ever since I was, like, ten years old. I decided to make a free advice column on Advicenators here but how do I get people to ask me questions? I'm totally awesome but I rarely get questions in my inbox. Is there a way I can promote myself or should I just keep answering questions and waiting for people to catch on to my good advice?

I had another idea too...should I link my Advicenator column on other sites I go to (Livejournal, Myspace, Facebook, etc.) to get people to come visit my advice column or is that too cheesy? (link)
Well, if you want people to come to you for questions.
Just answer a lot of questions. That way whenever someone reads the answer. They see your user name. And then they go to you for advice. :)
Hope this helps! :)


how do you know if you are in love with someone?

i cant stop thinking about him. and cannot ever stay mad at him even though he is a jerk alot of the time.

and i think that its only one way..im feel more for him than he does for me...ALOT more. (link)
You know when you are in love with some one when.
You smile every time you see them.
They give you butterflies.
When they're sad you're sad.
You never stop thinking of them.
You care about their feelings and actions.
And even though they are flawed you still think they are perfect. : )


What brand of permenant do-it-yourself hair color is the least damaging? (link)
Garnier Fructise works THE best, it also doesn't have that smell that burns your nose and eyes. and it leaves your hair feeling soft. It comes with a color locking conditioner. It's a bit more expensive then the cheap brands, but it's worth it.
Hope this helps.
:)


how can you get rid of your period a.s.a.p
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Sorry hun, you can't.
I know it sucks huh?
Give it a few days.
Sorry :(
Please rate :)


My feet smell sometimes. What should I do? (link)
There are a lot of ways to solve this problem.
You could try washing your feet with soap, drying them, and putting on a clean pair of socks right before putting your shoes on.
Spray perfume on your feet before going places.
Spend a few dollars on medicated foot powder.
Putting car air fresheners or fabric fresheners in your shoes (I know it sounds weird but it helps)
That's all I've got
Hope this helps
Please rate :)




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