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hey my name is Alexa! everyone calls me Lexie. i live in Tennesse and love to cheer. i love to give advice to people cause i think i can really change some things. i know i mite be young but i can really help. you can ask me anything you ever want! if u want u can im me anytime you want. i am always on most of the time. well hope i help yall!!!


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Its Summer 2005 and I am a 13 year old girl entering 8th grade. I have hair that is a couple inches past my shoulder when its strait but its usaly wavy inless i straiten it which takes a max of 10 minutes. I have medium thicknes so that doesnt realy stop me from doing things with my hair. I usaly pull it half up and half down with a clip or pony tail, I almost never wear it down, or I will poll it all up becuase i have to for cheerleading ( I am a cheerleader if that helps any) I need somthing diffrent! School starts in 6 weeks and i want somthing diffrent that is nice. My hair looks best when i have half of it clipped up and half down if that helps any too? Could someone give me some pictures or ideas? That would be greatly apperiated!!!!
Maybe you guys could tell me what you like a girls hair most? Like what styles do you love? That would help also!




♥ --Lotza Love-- ♥

Signed,
Hating Hair

ok i am a cheerleader too and i always want my hair back but everyone likes it down so at school sometimes i wear it down but have a pony tail on my wrist just in case and if u look good wit short hair i would cut it a little to about a little bit about your sholders so when u have cheerleading you can still put it half way up!
i hope i helped,

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well i m the oldest, so i dont know too much about stuff like sex and such, i dontl ike to ask my mom, and i sometimes dont like to ask my friends. so i have a ? for anyne to answer....
what is a "head"?
i keep reading stuff and they mention that! i just want to know! and dont laugh! and no smartass answers!

ok yeah head is just like a blowjob but its a little diffrent. if you have seen a dick the very tip of it is called the head. and sucking on it and all that stuff is givin head.
hope i helped you,

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13/f
okwell my sister got caught sneaking out and ever sincemy parents wont let me do anythng even though i would never do that. so is there anyway that i can get them to relax, and see that im not like her?

please help!!!

what i would do is do things to make them trust you. and show that you wont be like her. i did that to my faimly and it worked.
hope i helped,

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I just got a really nasty prank phone call. I never give out my number to anyone that I don't know and I couldn't recognize the voice. They were asking me if I'd like to participate in a lesbian teen porn video so I played along and said yes. When they called, it was a restricted number. I was wondering if there was any way I could figure out the number without having to get the police involved. Just so I can figure out who it was that called. They called my cell phone by the way. So, is there a way I can trace the number?

yes you can find out. go to your cell phone place like verison or cingular or what ever your cell phone place is and tell them to list your calls and trace the one that was restricted

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what age/grade will your friends start to act more mature, and start being more than just someone to laugh with. you know, when will it be easier to find that one true friend, cause i'm pretty young, and i dont think anyone is that mature enough that they are the kind of friend that will give you a shoulder to lean on when your sad, or you can call anytime just 2 talk, you know that kind of stuff. does anyone know what age>

no one will ever no what age to be honest becuase everyone matures at there own pase. but when you find that friend dont let them go.
hope i helped,

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I'm like a hugeeee tomboy. Like I wear long shorts and football jerseys. Im 14 and going into highschool, never had a boyfriend. Will i ever get a boyfriend. I mean, i dont wear makeup, and im big bulky and muscular. I want a bf, but i think maybe they are intimidated by me. Changing the way i am is NOT an option, i like who i am. PLEASE HELP.

well i would never know the real answer because i am not a tomboy but if a guy really likes you for who you are they wont care what you wear or if you wear make up. Yes you will get a boyfriend you just have to find the one you like and go after him!
hope i helped,

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What is your opinion of hippies?

I think hippes are there own type of people. you shouldnt judge anyone becuase God made you that way. i have nothing agaisnt them at the moment so they are fine in my book.
hope i helped,

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I made the cheerleading squad this year and i love it.. but our coach said any girls that argued or talked about each other behind their baQs or caused drama were going to be kicked off the squad.. and there is a girl on the squad that is so mean to me.. she makes fun of me but says she is just pickin but it bothers me and she says rude stuff that makes me mad.. but i havent said anything to her about it because i'm afraid it will make her mad and start a fight but i'm rele tired of being treated like that... wut should i do?!?

ok i am a cheerleader too and basically our coach is like that too. i would tell your coach about it and just say i want her on the team just want her to be nice or you can tell the coach and have her kicked off the team. because i wouldnt want any of my cheerleaders saying stuff about me. it is just your way of looking at it! well i hope i helped

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Last night I slept over one of my best friend Maries house and we were just talking and stuff, but then we didnt even ask we just started to do sexual stuff and saying dirty stuff, kind of, like half laughing it off. Im a girl. And so we fingered eachother and rubbed eachothers boobs. It felt really good. But, I wanted a guy to be there with us more than anything. Im confused. What was last night? Am I a lesbian? Or bi? Or straight ?? Im confused. And is last night normal for 14 year old girls to do?

ok your probley bi then. becuase you like guys but you like doing stuff with girls at the same time. Last nite was just best friends having fun and probley being horny. and about the 14 year old thing umm well to some people it is normal and to others its not. but i think it is normal so yeah.
hope i helped

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ok i just got back from my 5 day cheer camp and we stunted almost 24/7 and i am really sore! i've taken advil to try to get it to go away but it doesn't seem to be working! i can barely walk and pick things up its so bad! what are some good ways that you guys use to help the soreness go away? thanx!

ok i am a cheerleader and i know how u feel! i would first take a really really hott bath(like as hott as you can take it) and if there is something really wrong with you....you might want to go to the doctor to see if you pulled anything. but just lay around and dont do anything to active that might make it worse.
hope that helped!

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You know how everyone will tell you " do it when the time is right " well how do you know when the time is right?

ok wow i cant beilive i am saying this but yeah. trust me you will know when the time is rite. just find the one person you love and u will love the rest of your life. you will have that certain feeling when the time is rite. one that cant be explained. hope i helped

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well i am 13 going on 14(in like 20 days) and i dont have cramps or anything, but i sometimes get a little white stuff, but not alot, and not that often. will i be expecting my first period soon?

yes, you will be. it is called discharge and it is not a bad thing. it just means that your period will be coming. i had that for about 5 months before i started my period though and it doesnt feel to good. you will still have it after you start your period too, to warn you when it is coming!
hope i helped,
Lexie

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theres this guy whos gonna ask me out on valentines day hes going to give me a rose and bear and a kiss. what shuld i do and what should i wear?

you should play it cool. Just do what you want to do. if you dont want to do any of the things he wants please dont do it. Wear something really cute but not like your a slut or something. wear a cute skirt and and nice top.

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