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So i'm 16 and i've been with this guy for six months and we've done the 3rd base thing. Like he fingers me and i've given him a hand job. So like i of course always make him finish but he's never made me orgasm. Like i've been closish....i think....but i always feel like i'm gonna pee, i've been able to orgasm on my own and it doesnt feel like that and i dont know why he cant make me, even though he does he same thing i do, clit stimulation. The other day he was really working hard and it always feels really good, its not that it doesn't but idk i can't finish. Maybe i'm afraid to infront of him? but i dont think so cause i really want to, i even direct him sometimes. Well anyway yeah he was working real hard and i knew he was getting tired so i faked it.....but i feel so bad about it...i know a lot of girls do it but i feel so dishonest i've never lied to him. He told me once he'd never want me to fake it and that he'd get mad at me if i did cause he wants to please me....so i'm kinda scared to tell him that i did...he thinks he's made me finish twice but he's never been able to, i dont even remember faking it in the past......i dont know what i should do or why i cant orgasm (link)
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firstly i wouldnt tell him that youv been faking it this whole time because that would crush him!just dont fake it again.he needs to find that special spot.practise makes perfect.im not really sure why he hasnt made you orgasim.it could be because hes not moving his fingers fast enough or something but these things you cant just fix.to be honest if you llove the guy then just keep faking it till he gets it right.try lubrication or use his spit it feels alot better but apart from that theres not much you can do.if you dont fake it hes going to feel like he cant please you and its going to hurt his ego majorly
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im 15 years old and in the 9th grade ive been best friend with this girl named rebecca, we've been best friends since 6th grade and we were pretty much inseperable! we hung out every chance we could, she's slowly starting to change though and now its like she doesnt even want to hangout with me anymore. everytime i ask her to hang out with me shes always like ''i cant im grounded'' or ''my moms being gay and wont let me do anything'' and then like 20 minutes later on myspace she'll post her status as hanging out with so and so! when she just told me she was grounded. why would she lie to me? i mean i understand shes going to have other friends but that doesnt mean she has to get rid of all of her old ones.i'd rather her tell me the truth then lie to me, if she doesnt want to hangout with me i'd rather her just tell me instead of her just making some lame excuse! i mean why would she tell me shes grounded and then post that on myspace when not only is she my friend on there but i was online too! im her only true friend and she treats me like dirt, she doesnt even talk to me at school she just walks past me and looks at me. she took me off her top and everytime i try taking to her shes really short with me expecially when shes with her other friends. i even bought her something for christmas i messaged her on myspace saying that i got her a gift and that if she wanted me to i would bring it by after my mom gets off. all she replied back with is i have a friend over and then she signed off! i still havent been able to give her gift, because she still has no time for me. i want to confront her about it but i have no idea what to say i dont want her to hate me because she is my best friend i just dont know what to do. i actually care about our friendship and is willing to do anything i can to fix it so any advice will help! (link)
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hmmm it sounds to me like your friend is holding a grudge against you.maybe she herd something or someone made soemthing up to try break up your friendhsip.it happens!i mean what id do is 2 things.
you can first start with not talking to her until she talks to you.like give her space and room to miss you.dont pay attention to her and see if shell ask if theres soemthing wrong.if she does then you can let her know whats been on your mind and how you feel.just be calm about it and dont let the situation turn into an arguement.
the other approach is that you can go upto her when shes allone and not with her other friends and ask her if youv done anything to hurt her or dome anything wrong because you feel that your drifting apart.let her know that you miss spending time with her and fear that shes angry with you.tell her that you dont think youv done anythign wrong but if you have to let you know.
stay calm and try not to let it blow up in your face.
i hope this helped
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I'm normally the first to suggest going to a doctor for things like this. But this time, I'm not so sure.
I have a lump in my neck. I remember first noticing it in my early teens. I'm 31 now. All this time, I've been aware of it, but it hasn't changed so I didn't worry. Now, I'm paranoid. My husband has cancer - hodgkin's lymphoma. I've been tense, and so trying to rub knots out of my neck. So, I've felt it more often than usual and while thinking about cancer. I think it seems bigger, but I think it is probably just the paranoia, the worries about cancer in general. (I kinda feel like veda in My Girl, assuming every little thing is the worst)
I would normally tell someone to ask their doctor about it, but if it has been there 18 years with no change, what are the odds that it is anything? I've been to my doctor a few times recently (a couple times to update meds, and then I managed to get meningitis around thanksgiving). I feel like I've been in far too much recently.
I'm also a little afraid to bring it up. I'm afraid a biopsy will be done. If it turns out to be nothing, I will have been cut open for nothing. If it turns out to be something, well, I just don't think I can handle that. My husband having cancer, then me getting meningitis, it is already too much.
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ok i am pretty sure or i think(im not a doctor) you have a cyst on your thyroid.its common in woman to get this.it can be inherited or due to low iodine etc.i had the samething you had and my mother was thew one to first notice it when i was about 9years old.we ignored it till i became 17.the cyst grew bigger and it started to push on my windpipe affecting my breathing.seriously go to the doctor and make sure they follow up with it.i went to my doctor she emailed the hospital but i never got a reply from them.a year later i emailed them again and finally they decided to see me.because i left the lump for too long unfortunately i had cancer in it but it wasnt aggresive.The lump you have is called a goiter i think thats how you spell it but you really do need to take it out and if your daughter has one,she needs to get it taken out too.dont worry the operation isnt high risk and its very common.
Im not a doctor so i could be wrong but go to your doc!if you have any questions just mail me iv been through it all so i know what itll be like.all the best :)
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Help! I am 2 weeks late on my period.
I am never regular (and usually late) but this time especially, I am freaking out. I have not had sex since October, but I have done other things (in a safe manner) since my last period involving male body fluids. I am not on birth control.
In October, I had 2 periods and it was really weird. In November, I was on my period from around the 19th to the 24th. December has been super stressful for me because I have had college midterms and I found out my boyfriend of 2 years has cheated on me and I broke up with him.
Do you think I could be pregnant? Or what the chances are of becoming pregnant without having sex? I can't think of any reasons I could be pregnant. No fluids ever went inside of me.
Do you think it could have to do with doubling up on my period in October? Or the stress?
Exactly 1 year ago I had the same problem and skipped my December period all together.
I don't know what to think anymore and I'm very scared. (link)
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i dont think your pregnant.a late period can be caused by stress and change of diet for example having too much lemon or citric acid can lead to a later period.have you been craving?have your nipples changed colour?have your breasts become bigger?are you feeling any different?do you feel a lump on your stomach?i dont think your pregnant but if your unsure nows the time to have a pregnancy test!
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somehow... i could've sworn my breasts fitted in 32b perfectly, but somehow.. my breasts got smaller. i don't know how, is it the change of diet? i started noticing the change ever since i had a fever for a week and i couldn'treally do anything. i noticed my breasts got smaller. what happened exactly? and what can i do to make them bigger? please and thank you! (link)
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i think you lost weight with the sickness.have you weighed yourself?some people loose weight from their tummy or butt or legss etc when theyr sick and not eating but you must of lost weight from your breasts.theres not much you can do just eat healthy and the size should go back to normal
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Hi so I want to get a brazillian wax and I read that you need to get them every 4-6 weeks but I want a personal opinion on if it was worth the money. Like how long was it actually until the hair started to grow back even like stubble. im just so sick of shaving and always worrying about if I need to be that day so all I wanna know is if theyre worth it and how long it takes for even the slightest stubble to appear. Thankss!! (link)
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i got a brazillian wax done and in my opinion its worth the money.with me my hair doesnt grow that fast so i think it takes me 3weeks for my stublles to start coming out.my friend grows faster than me so her stubbles start to grow maybe within 2weeks.its alooot better than waxing because its not itchy and doesnt grow back thicker.usually people get a wax after their period but for me i get it every second period because the hairs havent grown that much.just depends.you feel soo clean after you get it done.seriously its soo much better than shaving!
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Okay, so a while back my boyfriend fingered me and after he was done & a little later on, i noticed a some blood on my underwear and it stung when i peed. So i figured he popped my cherry then. & he fingered me a couple times after that, and there was no blood. & just yesterday, he fingered me really hard and he noticed blood all on his hand. & it was bleeding a little today but now it has stopped. I kno it wasnt my period though because i just had it a few days ago, and the blood already stopped.So, im confused.. can your hymen break partially and then break fully? or what?
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the first time he finged you he only damaged the hymen he did fulyl break it which was the reason why you only bled alittle bit.when he fingered you harder the next time he broke your hymen causing you to bleed moree.everyones different some people dont bleed at all when their hymen breaks because due to activities like horse riding cycling etc your hymen gets damaged and breaks little by little through time but some people dont do activities that can risk hymen breakage so when they are poked or have sex they bleed more than others because their hymen was still intact.
did this help?
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I just had a baby, and over my pregnancy my thighs got huge! Now that I've had the baby, I've lost very little thigh weight. What are some ways that I can slim down my thighs? And how long/many do you have to do, etc?
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lunges and squats are really good.id do 20 or more squates and lunges everyday as well as going for runs.the best thing about lunges and squats is that they work your whole body especially your thighs
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I absolutely hate shaving. I was thinking about laser hair removal but know that wont happen for a while because I do not have enough money. What are some things that I can do that WORK to remove hair that aren't shaving? Please only recommend them if you have tried them. I haven't tried the new nair, veet, or any of those. So if you've tried them tell me your experience.
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i also reaaally hate shaving.shaving gives me stubbles and makes my legs come up with red spots.i tried veet and its ok but the hair grows back fast just like saving not to mention you have to wait till your hair grows before you can use it.i now wax which is the best.i mean sure it hurts a tiny bit at the time but its really good.when your hair grows back its thinner and not as much as before.i really recommend waxing.dont do it yourself,go to the beauty saloon because their wax is heaps better
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I'm a girl going to prom.
I am not requesting for pictures.
All i want to say is i found some cute dresses at macy's that are shortish like homecoming dresses.
But It's my first prom, and I just moved to America, so i don't have any references.. Is it more promy to wear long dresses?
is it acceptable to wear shortish homecoming like dresses to prom ?
is a princess cut dress acceptable ?
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long and short dresses are both acceptable but i wouldnt wear a princess dress because thats too much.personally id go for the long flowy silky dresses,something that would show off your back,flatters your figure etc.
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Hi so i know what a bikini wax is but i was wondering what exactly a brazilian wax is.
I know is tales a lot more hair off but is it like everything? Someone told me they wax your ass too so i'm a little confused haha.
also i was wondering from personal experience from girls which do you prefer and guys... which do you prefer lol alright thanks! (link)
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bikini wax is where they wax the side of your upper thigh next to you vajayjay.brazillian wax is where they wax everything aqround your vagina.you have an option of taking it all off or the lady may ask if youd like to keep some hair or soemthing.usually i take it all off.its soo good!you feel soo good after you get it done.the lady will ask you if you want your bumwhole done aswell and you say yes or no.it depends on your taste.i definitly prefer brazillian.a bikini wax is usually done when you wanna go swimming and your wearing your bikini or togs.with brazillian they do your bikini line aswell so you may aswell get that!seriously it does hurt,mostly the first and second time but you feel soo good after!people usually get it done after they have their period as a monthly thing depending on how fast your hair grows....also guys love brazillians!my boy friend does,my friends boyfriend loves it when my friend gets a brazillian.
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I know its early but i like to be prepared. Im going to my senior prom this june and i want to find the PERFECT dress and look ABSOLUTELY AMAZING haha. I am 5'5, have wavy brown hair that goes halway down my back, brown eyes, and pale skin. Im like a ghost. My boobs are B and i have a non existant butt.
So i need help, what should i do with my hair, for my makeup, what kind and color of dress would look good on me? links are wonderful. THANKS IN ADVANCE! (link)
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hmmm im not sure what colour would suit you but i think red because that goes well with pale skin and even royal blue.
it depends on you taste etc but a long dress would go really nice since you have a non existant butt which would really suit a long dress...here are some dresses that i think would look nice for prom
if i were you id get the dress made that way itll be for sure that youll look unique and stunning.theres nothing more worse than finding the perfect dress and having someone else wearing it aswell.
http://lh4.ggpht.com/_S5YC8wDcNnY/Sa0CnoGkt7I/AAAAAAAAA5A/p-H_ZqArOmk/pic.jpg
http://www.eidress.com/images/PromGirl-414936309_2.jpg
http://cassandrastone.com/Spring-dresses-2009/images/2009/Spring/CassandraStone/Prom-Dress-Red-White-9097.jpg
http://www.bellaboutique.com/store/images/T/TBC2009_19C55-b_tn.jpg
http://promgirlonline.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/772.jpg
http://media.onsugar.com/files/ons1/281/2817629/07_2009/8c/blue-prom-dresses-5.jpg
Now for the makeup it depends on your features.me personally i like the natural look with the smokey eyes.sometimes when people put on different colour eyeshadow it makes them look like a tranny.i wouldnt go over board with the make up.maybe have smokey eyes with red lipstick and blush..check out youtube they have heaps of tips on makeup.
For the haoir it depends.what do you think makes you look prettier having your hair up or having it down?with me my hair looks better when i have it up so i did an updo but some people they look better with nice long curls in their hair.you just gotta get infront of a mirror and start trying out some hair styles.
PS make sure you book weeks at a saloon and let them know what you want to have done with your hair because they fill up fast around prom season
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16/F
I'm a very observative person, and I'm not a total recluse, I have a ton of amazing friends. I'm actually really popular at my high school. I'm a cheerleader, student body VP, drama club president...
But... I have a really bad habit of watching people and growing attatched to them even though I've never spoken to them, or spoken to them maybe once. I just like observing people, I don't act stalkerish or anything. And say they move or graduate... and I miss them terribly.
I feel like I know them even though I don't, then I don't know how to handle losing them because I can't just say "Hey! Call me! Keep in touch," because they barely or don't even know me... What do I do? I don't know how to handle this... I know it's unhealthy...
I still miss people who I haven't seen in years that I never even talked to... (link)
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im like that.im an ovbserver too.i think the reason why you miss them even though youv never spoken to them is because you have an attraction to them.you feel a connection.it happens and the more you see them the more you feel for them.
sometimes you may think that you have a connection wtih them but once you talk to them theyr not what you thought they were.the best thing you can do is forget about those people from the past that you liked and to move forward.next time you observe someone and feel soemthing for them you should just go up to them and talk to them.you say your popular so you must have plenty of self esteem.just talk to them get to know them and become their friend.the most you can loose is that person rejecting you and even then you just get back on that horse and find someone else you like.
:)hope it helped xo
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ok so im 16 and i dated wen i was 15 but couldnt "have a boyfriend" so my parents say....now they dnt trust me at all and ive been trying so hard to get it back and ive been on my best behavior....wat should i do so they can c im responsible? (link)
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only time will make parents trust you.pretty much after theyv forgot about the whole boyfriend thing then theyll start to trust you again.just keep up the good work and as time goes by and your abit older theyl trust you
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I've been dating my girlfriend for almost a year and I couldn't wish fore a more perfect girl. But recently she has admitted to staring at other guys, even while she was with me. This thought drives me insane I don't know what to think. Please any advice would be helpful (link)
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oh no.when im like really inlove with someone i dont look at 0other guys or even think of another person but when im starting to loose interest in him and he stops paying attention to me or isnt happy with me then i start to check out other guys.thats the main clue to show that im starting to not want to be with my bf.this needs to be fixed before she starts to like someone.
ok maybe you should pay more attention to her.send her random cute txts throughout the day.take her out to dinner.surprise her with little gifts like a teddy bear or jewllery etc.dont let the love die out.if that doesnt work then its obviously not you thats making her check out other guys so dont beat yourself up about it
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So this is probably going to be really long sorry! So in 8th grade I moved schools and I became really close friends with this guy(Let's call him S) So S and I got really close and he pretty much told me everything. I started to like him and for a while it seemed like he liked me too because he broke up with his girlfriend and called me and asked me what I thought about that and showed me what he wrote to her and stuff and if you know him you'd know he has trust issues and stuff. So then after a while one of his immediate family members died and he was crushed. It was like he didn't want to live anymore but he leaned on me for support and I tried to help him through it. Afterwards we got really close and I felt like he was in love with me now. Like it was serious. Unfortunately the death affected him so much and he hated everyone in our school knowing so he moved to a public school and he changed a lot while he was there. He started blanking my calls and prank calling me. He wouldn't answer some of messages but when he was in a good mood we'd talk for four or five hours online or on the phone. I just noticed he didn't lean on me as much and he got really PROUD. Like his attitude was like that saying "My attitude is fuck it cause mafuckers love it." We tried to meet up once but he ended up standing me up and he didn't even tell me why he wasn't there and didn't apologize. He only said he was sorry when we talked about it after a while. Half a year after he moved I moved to another country and so we could only talk on weekends and through comments and stuff cuz of the time difference. At first he was saying stuff like "wow I really miss you. I can't imagine my life without you" but then the comments got shorted and less frequent and I noticed he'd read my messages but wouldn't reply. Every time I confronted him about the weakening of our relationship he'd make it seem like I was over reacting. So this summer I went back and when it was just me and him he acted like I was someone he was meeting for the first time. We didn't joke around and every time we hung out he tried to invite his friends over so we weren't alone. He just acted like I wasn't apart of his life anymore. I've tried to get over him but I'm in 11th grade now and I still can't get over him. every time I think about him I just cry and I listen to "our song" every night before I go to sleep. I actually CAN'T fall asleep if I don't listen to it. I tried deleting him and I've managed to stop talking to him but I still read all his status' and miss him so much. I feel so incomplete and I'm now suffering from depression that I'm trying to deal with. What should I do. I can't talk to him because I KNOW what he'd do cuz I tried (wrote a LONG letter to him about EVERYTHING and he never replyed) and he'll just ignore it. What should I do. How do I get him back? I'm not afraid to say I am DESPERATELY missing him and COMPLETELY TOTALLY NO GOING BACK In love with him and dedicated to him. He's not an asshole, he's just never going to get over that death in his family and he's just trying to forget about it and he's hanging around with all these arrogant stupid people in public school and he tells me he doesn't even like them and that they annoy him. He's going to a REALLY GHETTO public school where people get fucked up and shit and he's really good at Karate and shit. HELP I feel like I can't function without just being friends with him... I don't even want to be his gf I just want my bestfriend back. :( (link)
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sounds to me youv done everything you can.I mean i know you really like this guy but hes trying to survive.when someone dies sometimes you never get over it.it changes you forever (speaking from experience) and it can either break you or it can make you a better person.
youv both grew up.youv both changed.you need to remember hes not that 8th grader anymore,hes not the one that needed you.hes now the guy trying to survive getting through a day in public school without getting into a fight etc.he might not be talking to you because you remind him of the past which hes trying to forget.right now the best you can do is leaving him because obviously thats what he wants.he hasnt forgot you and when hes ready hell come back.i know your hurting and you want him back but you cant make him come to you.hes changed hes different and hes not treating you the way you should be treated.give him his space,back off and if he wants you,if he misses you,if he needs you,hell come back.
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what are some cute, flirty or sexy things that i could send my girlfriend just randomly in the day to make her smile? i usually do it but im just running out of things to say
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umm you could txt her stuff like
"im so into you"
"Cant stop thinking about how beautiful you are"
"you make me smile"
"your the reason i wake up every morning"
"i feel empty without you by my side will you make me full?"
"I need your help!ever since you left my heart hasnt been beating the same"(maybe alittle cheesy)
"dont ever leave me"
"whats your sexy ass upto?"
"your beautiful"
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i'm 18/f. i've been dating my boyfriend for about a year. what are some new, really hott kissing tips or positions? we like to try new things.
our current favorite is me backwards in his lap and we grind while making out. things like that, i guess. or while standing up. thanks. :) (link)
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pulling the hair while kissing is hot.like grab him by the hair and kiss him really hard or massaging the back of his head with your hands while kissing him.
he can hold you up agaiinst the wall with your legs wrapped around his waist while kissing.
the spiderman kiss.he can be lying down and you do the whole upside down kiss
have you sitting on the kitchen bench with him standing and kissing you
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so say your on birth control and then you needed to take a medicine pill that would cancel the birth control but you still took your birth control everyday. you have sex he cums in you more than once is it like cummin in me like regular sex with nothing for protection? (link)
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yeah it is as if you are not using protection because for example some antibiotics cancel out the contraceptive pill.you need to use a condom or its as iff your trying to have a baby!
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hey so you answered my question earlier on the lump in my vagina .... im the 14/f. And you said it could go away after my period. (could you explain that one more) because i am hoping that that is what it is! aand i have 2 more days left in my period so i was wondering if it would go away after like you said.... also it has been 2 weeks and the lump has gone down a tiny bit in size and a little hole has opened so it is not completely blocking anymore (link)
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heeeyy thanks for your question!
Alright from the sounds of things i think you may have a boil because its a lump and youve said its opened up abit.Im not a doctor keep that in mind so what im saying could be wrong.the reason its going down in size is because your close to your period.I think its got to do with hormones.before your period your hormone levels go up irritating the lump causing it to infalte in size.after you have your period your hormone levels go down so the lump gets smaller.
By the way a boil is like a pimple except bigger.It is difinitly not cancer or anything too serious because the lump has now opened up which means its getting better.
To get rid of the lump i suggest you go to the doctor and get it checked out because boils may not go away on there on.to get rid of a boil you need antibiotics.I suggest you wait after your period and if its still there then go to the doctor because it means you need the antibiotics to get rid of it.
If your feeling embarrassed about showing the boil to your doctor,DONT BE!i had a problem like this so i know how you feel.doctors see things like this all the time,maybe even worse!
i hope i helped,if you have anymore questions just let me know,dont be shy.
hope it gets better!!:)
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